how to seduce a woman

Let me teach you how to seduce the women of your

dreams

Congenital heart defectSeveral operationsInsecurity because of young looks, acne and scarsDepressive teenagerLost my virginity with 18Four-year relationship

Transformation: I took over responsibility for my lifeI graduated from universityMoved out of my parents house I broke up with my girlfriendI took a bootcampI moved to a foreign countryI experienced adventures

Today:I organize my life the way I want it and I do what I want. I live my life according to my ideas…

selfish?

No, just heatly self-love

Accept the current situationTake over responsibility for your lifeAsk yourself what you really wantTake actionHonesty and authenticity

Don‘t lie to yourself

Facade at the beginning= facade later on

Acceptanze as a foundation for your personal development

Stop blaming other people

Don‘t go the comfortable path

It is YOUR life, therefore YOU are responsible for it

Personal responsibility as a way to success

I want to fuck hundres of women!I want to prove it to everyone who rejected me!I want that because this or that coach told me to!STOPWhat do YOU really want?

It is more comfortable and easier to not do anything

The only way to change your life is by doing something

„Do or do not. There is no try“ Yoda

Be honest to women

Be honest to yourself

Honesty leads to respect and appreciation

Honesty allows honesty

1500€ for a bootcamp vs. 1500€ for 30 Prostitutes

What provides you with more sex in the short term?

Well, what is it all about?

Destroying your fears

Personal development

Live the life of your dreams

To feel as a man

What do you link to freedom?

Self-determination, personal responsibility and limitless possibilities…

In the past it was unattainable, today it is not possible to imagine life without it

What exactly has freedom to do with seduction?

Where does „one“ get to know his dream partner?

- Friends and acquaintances (30%)- at a night out/parties (30%)- At work (9%)

- Through the internet (1,5%)

Does something catches your eye? There is something missing…

Café, bus, tram? 1%

Shopping centres, street, train station, parks, stores, bus stops……don‘t even exist in the statistics

What does that tell us?

On the one hand…We are dazzling personalities

We have more courage than 99,9% of people

We utilize our freedom

on the other hand…Many people don‘t utilize their freedom!

Many don‘t consider their freedom as possible

Freedom isn‘t even in their reality

like a prisoner who shrinks in front of an open prison door, just because the jailer (the society) tells him, he is not allowed to go through that door. And so the prisoner remains in his (thought-) prison for the rest of his entire life. Everything he has to do to live a life of freedom is to go through that goddamn door. It seems so easy…

Many people who are in a relationship are unhappy!

Many singels have no clue how they could meet somebody

Many people have partners that son‘t match their imagination of a dream partner

WHY???

How high is the chance that the good friend, of the friend of your best friend is the girl of your dreams?

How high is the chance that the drunk idiot who has the courage to approach a girl in the club is her dream partner?

How high is the chance that the new coworker in your department, with whom you start a relationship after a while, is really your dream partner?

Your Friends, your family, your boss serve your partner

For sure not your dream partner but…

…you take what you can get

happy?

Adopt your freedom

Act autonomous

Take over responsibility for your life

Utilize the limitless opportunities

And above all…

…. Learn to appreciate this freedom!!!

…there is no try (Yoda)try:

indecisiveness insecurity inner doubt

It doesn‘t matter if you do it or not, you tried it at least…

Do: no comfortable alternativesno backdoorResponsibility for your life

Do you want it? Then do itDon‘t you want it? Then don‘t do itIt‘s that simple…

„he has changed so much…“„Cobbler, stick to your trade…“

Example: Fear of starting a businessWhat is the worst consequence???An apartment and enough to eat!?!

You have no success with women? Then change it!

You have never faced your fears? Then change it!

You have never approached a woman before? Then change it!

Afterwards:

Overcome your fear in a certain area of life Impact on every aspect of life

reframing: change = positive

Life is change and change means life…

evolutionary biology approach:

Rejection of a woman Disgrace in the whole village

Approaching the wrong woman Lambasted from the alpha male with a club

social conditioning:„don‘t speak with strangers!“„don‘t do that, you are not allowed to do this“„That isn‘t appropriate“Do I set against the social norm by doing this?

Yes, and a good thing, too!

Who are „the rest“ / „the people“? Zombies…

…who don‘t realize what is happening around them

…who don‘t give a fuck about you

It is your life and not „other peoples“ life

Who gives you the right to lay your decision-making ability in the hands of some idiots?

No other human being is able to carry this burden

…if I approach a woman:

That you have more courage than 99,99% of men? Yes!

That you are self-confident and that you take your life in your own hands? Yes!

That you are an honest and authentical human being? Yes!

And…I don‘t even want to say it out loud , that you are, God forbid, heterosexual???? Yes!

“You want to approach THIS beauty in THIS outfit?”

“Just look at her, she for sure has a boyfriend”

“You are not handsome enough to have a chance with such a beauty”

“I don’t know what to say!”

“I am not good enough to get a woman like her!”

“What if she rejects me?”

“What if I become a laughing-stock?”

“All the people are looking at me already!”

“This will be a train wreck…for sure!”

“I can’t do it…”

They can‘t be ignored

They can‘t be deleted

They get less noisy

You can reduce their intencity

Develop an awareness for them

Yoga, meditation, autogenous Training

Learn to accept them

Act anyway

Core self-confidence

Situational self-confidence

Self-acceptance:Do you accept yourself or do you lie to yourself?Self-worth:Which value do you see in yourself? Has a female

model more value?Self-perception: Do you have a positive or negative self-perception?

Would I approach a woman on the street? YES!Would I fight against a professional Thai-boxer in a

cage? NO!

Why?

Reference experiencesExperiences

Therefore the knowledge: „Nothing bad can happen“

You can only build it by going out and doing it…

In case you are german your heart must beat heavy now. The following1.000.000.000 slides will show some facts about the mankind and the womankind.

That these „facts“ are only my opinion, will be ignored, for me they are facts ;-)

How can I make guys feel less intimidated by me?

I have a problem where many man feel intimidated by me immediately, before I say or do anything. The first reason is that I'm 6'2". Also, I'm a D-cup (not to brag, but I think it's a factor). Men are intimidated by my physical appearance, and I'm not very open and friendly right away. That's something I could work on. I just think that guys assume I won't be interested in them, or they feel inadequate and start to feel nervous. I'm totally harmless, actually I'm beyond harmless, I'm very open to people. It just doesn't show right away.I don't want to miss out on great guys because they're frightened away. Any thoughts on how I can make them feel more comfortable with me?

98% are delighted by it…

…even in the political correct emancipated Germany ;-)

2% can‘t deal with it. You don‘t really want these women.

Women fantasize about being approached in the everyday life

Women consider it as a compliment

Women respect you for doing it

Unfortunately, most women never experience it…

The women in germany are deperateHow often I‘d been asked: „You can‘t be German!?“They ask in forums if everything is all right with them,

what they do wrongHomework: tipe „Why don‘t I get approached“ into

google and be amazed

“oh my god, that never happened to me before. You made my day, no my whole week. I am so sorry but I have a boyfriend but this is totally awesome. You should do that more often; all men should do that more often. I really thank you for doing this!”

They get out of bed being tired

They get up early, to do their make-up and to prepare their outfit

„Why do I do that anyway? Nobody even recognizes it…“

On to a boring job

Exausted they go home

Boredom infront of the TV

The soaps in the evening are about passion and romance

And in their life? Where are these things?

…and there you are.

You approach her, give her a compliment

You are tossing her out of her daily routine

Suddenly her female energy awakes and she shines

Give her the chance to shine!

“No man on this planet, no male porn director is able to imagine the filthy things that women’s brains produce.”

Men love sex and women love sex.

Women sense the feelings during sex more intensely

„good girl image“

Seems innocent = innocent?

Madonna/whore complex

Seems prudish= madonnaseems promiscuitive = whore

Fragmentation in „good girl“ and „bad girl“ is bullshit

Truth:

good girl =

bad girl =

SAME GIRL

Socially acepted imageIn bed every woman wants to celebrate her femininityEVERY woman has both sides inside her„clean sheet“ is WAY more important for women than

it is for men

What goes around, comes around:

Do you condemn women for their sexuality?

You shoot yourself in the foot!

Delete the word „slut“ from your vocabulary

I respect her even more if it comes to sex quickly…why?

The woman frees herself from social conditioning

The woman acts self-determined

The prettier the woman is the lonelier she is, because no man has the courage to approach her.(Charlie Harper, Two and a Half Men)

This sentence tells the truth

These women are the loneliest, react in the most positive way on a direct approach and often they are even the most insecure.

Too good to be true?

Above all, why is that?

Are these women really lonely?

Do you have the courage to approach a model? Do you think the man next to you has the courage?Nobody has the courage, at least no „normal“ guy

Out of desperation they take the asocial idiot as a boyfriend


How are they able to get to know a good man when nobody has the courage to talk to them?

They are often incredibly lonely!


Man don‘t have the courage to go near her

Women see competitors in them and avoid them

they are happy if somebody behaves „normally“ aound them

Do these women really react the most positive way?

They want to be approached like every other girl

Besides „asocial wolf-whistelers“ nobody has the courage…

Do these women really react the most positive way?

They are accustomed to „cool behavior“ and insecurity

Approach them in an honest and direct way!

They react positive and are delighted

How is it possible that such women are the most insecure?

insecure or overcompensated beahvior of men

dismissive or jealous behavior of women

The main part of their interactions are NOT honest and authentic


they provoke all kinds of reactions on other people, (jealousy, fear) just not those that they intend (authenticity, honesty)

Insecurity


They just get honored for their looks

Why do you think there are so many jokes about blondes?

They define their „value“ over their looks

Every pimple, every gram that is too much, leads to insecurity

Women Want To Be With Men Less Physically Attractive Than They Are

Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men (And Probably Even Prefer Them)

Why do the most beautiful women prefer men that are uglier than them?

They are not in need of:

They get enough attention

They don‘t have to „upvalue“ themselves

They search their partner after their imaginations (personality)

She ugly after a movie: „God I can never have a guy again who hasn‘t such a body“.

Me in my thoughts: „Don‘t give up un that dream, don‘t give up on it…“

Who do you think made no statement? the beautiful women

Women want to be desired:

„The people should gaze after HER……and not after HIM!“

Courtney Cox saied “she only wants to date ugly guys, saying that it would be really uncomfortable for her to date someone that looked better than she does.”

I look at it as a obligation , to make women compliments

Everything else wouldn‘t be appreciative

Tanning salons, nail salons, beauty salons, mals, perfumeries, cosmetic surgeries

Women invest hundreds of € per month in their looks

They tweeze their eyebrows, vanish their nails, shave their whole body, wear make-up, straighten their hair, get holes in their ears, wear uncomfortable tight jeans, break their nuckles with high heels, they freeze their ass off in winter wearing a skirt…

And for what???Therefor, that nobody makes her a compliment?Therefor, that nobody tells her how beautiful she is?

How demotivating and frustrating…

I wonder why women in Germany walk around scruffy?

They NEVER get acknowledgement!

Why apply a lot of effort?

So please reward her for her effort

How can I continue after my wonderful tribute to my male and my female compatriots?

I know how!

It‘s do or die now…for all you hardcore PUAs: Time for „Inner Game“, „Lifestyle Designe“ and……food for thought

Don‘t worry, I am not talking about „approaching women, but rather „hardcore pick-up“.

In a few seconds I will tell you why…

A week ago I approach a HB 7.5678 as a set and I instantly managed to get a number close and a kiss close at the instant date. The moment I wanted to escalate there was last minute resistance, which I faced with a freeze out. Then the set took a running jump and there was no lay for me. Probably I didn’t do enough DHVs and I fucked up the rapport phase…

Cool? No Nerd

It brings about more damage than you think

You go out to „sarge“, to approach a „set“ and to get a „lay“.

Like a soldier, who wants to conquer the „fortress woman“ by all means

„Set“ is no kitchen set but a human being

Lack of respect for women

She is receptive to an interaction and a conversation, but she doesn‘t want to be gamed

She wants to enjoy sex with you but she doesn‘t want to get „laied“.

Women are seen as an object

Every interaction with a woman is an interaction with a human being

Go out to make women smile and to show up as a man …

22. November, 5:30 pm:

“What the hell is your problem? Just let us alone, you assholes! With what kind of fucked up trick do you want to get me into your bed, huh you awesome pick up artist???”

I was shocked

I assured her that I was just honest

She continued to insult me

She wanted to run away

I asked her to share her experiences with me

She sat down on a bench with me and told me her story…

…how she has been lied to, how she was exploited and manipulated and thrown away

She was young and naive

It was love on the first sight

He pretendet to love her and promised a relationship

After the sex he never called her again

He braged about how he „talked the cutie around“

How would you feel? Would you still have trust? Would you still be open to an encounter with a stranger?

No, of course not

I was sympathetic to her

Nevertheless, no phone number, no facebook

Her trust in men was destroyed…

…and I could understand it

Why do I tell you this story?

Don‘t be a manipulative PUA

Be respectful

Be honest

Be authentic

For every logic and fact based person this passage will require a lot of tolerance…

…what do I talk about, you read the english version of my presentation, so you are supposedly no German. Therefore you are maybe emotionally open, outgoing and spiritual ;-)

Vibration, what does he mean with vibration?

Every human being vibrates on a certain frequency

Characteristics, attitudes, frames of mind affect your vibration

There can only be an attraction between things that are on the same vibration level/ energy level

Now this whole thing is explained with practical example…

Pete Doherty – Kate MossBoth of them are mentally fragile and take coke like

crazyDepressive couples want to „support“ each other

Associal gangster types with a BWM 3 and a stupid bitch

“Dear god, this woman was so unbelievably boring, she spends her life with drinking and partying and she probably has never read a book in her whole life. She must be totally impressed by my lifestyle.”

No, she wasn‘t, but….but

…Who on earth wants such women? The answer: men who are the exact same way.

Women who are intelligent, honest and lead an interesting life are interested in me.

Women who don‘t really interest you are also not interested in you!

Give them th chance to find the suitable awful bore, drug addict and dumbass that they attract into their life by themselves.

Have you really made the first move or has she maybe initiated it?

Is it really coincidence, that exactly she attracted your attention and that you choose exactly her?

In over 50% of the cases a woman is the initiator of an interaction

Most men have to less awareness to recognize this fact

They don‘t accept the offers

Crossed legs, playing with the hair, biting on their lips

Some singals are conscious, some unconscious

Yoga, meditation, simple observation help you to develop an awareness

Exercise: go in a club an observe the people

Women send signals and men???

Eye contact is YOUR signal!!!

Your most powerfull resource is eye-contact

„I got lost in his eyes“

Many men have problems to look women straight into the eyes

Fimtip: „Alfie“ with Jude Law

Seductive smile + direct eye contact= wet and red cheeks

Exercise: - Become aware of the following: Are you able to

maintain eye contact with women?

- train it with a good female friend…you transmit sexual interest but you are just a friend!? funny reactions

- Walk through the city and look women deeeep in their eyes

…of a German:

Where are you from?What do you do? What are you studying? What semester are you in?Are you here often?How old are you?What are your hobbies?What is your phone number?

Person = job description?

No german interview style

You know facts but you know nothing about the person

She met such idiots before in her life

How should a flirt look like? just the opposite way!

Build an emotional connection

Passions and interests

Find similarities

Get to know each other as human beings

Arouse good feelings inside her

Direct…but not at all cost

I wrote: „come on, let‘s just have really good sex“

I should have written: „let‘s talk a little bit at my place, before I kick you out later“

social intelligence!!!

Approach a woman „high energy“ like you would do it in a club

Heart attack

Approach a woman directly in tram next to other people

„uhhh okaaaay“ Translation: „damn, if I say yes everyone is looking at

me and lables me as a slut“

Perfectionism shows weakness, vulnerability shows strength!

Why?Because perfectionism doesn‘t exist per definiton

Unfortunatelly men and women lead each other to belive it

perfectionism: You are not honestYou won‘t be able to maintain this ideal imagePerfectionism is intimidating You never get to know EACH OTHER

Vulnerability:You don‘t hide anythingYou can get involved with the womanHonesty shows strengthShe wants to get to know YOUAs soon as you show vulnerability you allow her to do

the same

You overcome your fears

You expand your comfort zone

You become fearless

Don‘t mistake stupidity with courae in all your euphoria

courage: It takes a lot of courage to approach a womanIt takes a lot of courage to apply for your dream jobIt takes a lot of courage to move to another city

stupidity:It borders on silly to approach a woman right next to

her boyfriendIt borders on silly to just quit your job without

thinking about your futureIt borders on silly to abord the contact with good

friends, just becasue they have another worldview now

The boundary between courage and stupidity is a thin rope on which you have to learn to poise. Be careful that you don’t fall down.

Social conditioning even by choosing women

Towhat extent does your „dream woman“ really correclate with YOUR imaginations

External influence Ideal image

Your image or the image of the society?

Society and media propagate what is beautiful

Own experiences: scaled-down models with harsh facial features ? Thank‘s no, not my type

YOU alone should decide what kind of woman YOU find attractive

Phone numbers and dates get more and more easy

beautiful, intelligente, self-confident, caring, humorous and interesting women?

They are hard to find

„amazing women“, dream women are rare

There are more than enough depressive, boring, indifferent and insecure women

The illusion: perfect figure, make-up, stylish clothes, simulated self-confidence and an artificial smile.

In case you meet such a dream woman, concentrate on her and…

attract her in your life!!!

Or do you really think that a amazingly beautiful, educated, adventurous, loves to travel and extroverted woman is attracted to you if your only hobby is to watch football, get drunk and watch TV?

Courage to approach is the first step

An interesting life is the main part

There are so many dragsDrags are attracting drags

Horror vision: “All things considered everything is pretty good. Principally I can’t complain.”

Yoga, sport, personal development, travel, meditate, read, friendsv.s.watching tv and playing computer games

“Where the hell are some OTHER men?” Be that man!!!

I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.

Michael Jordan

You as a baby when you learned to walk: „I fell down, crap, I should give up“

you would still crawl

parents: „Behave yourself!“teacher: „don‘t make any mistakes now!“

We are punished for mistakes and get bad marks

You only learn by making mistakes

You only get better by making mistakes

The most successful people failed over and over again

At the beginning you will make a lot of mistakes

It is impossible to get better in your interactions with women without making mistakes!!!

run risks make mistakes have success

one short wink in the present

It was just in the past

Future in a few seconds

Countless alternatives

Countless possibilities

This moment, as short and as unimpressive it might be determines the rest of your whole life.

…You live in the moment. There is only this moment. This woman in this moment could be your dream woman. How would you decide in this moment?