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Message to the People...

I MESSENGERCheryl Smith, Publisher

Established 2011

IMESSENGER is a tribute to Le Messager, founded by Cameroonian journalist Pius Njawe and The Messenger, an independent magazine, founded by labor activist A . Philip Randolph and economist Chandler Owen.IMESSENGER is committed to informing, inspiring, enlightening and provoking thought in a forum that is international. Submissions for publication consideration may be submitted to www.myimessenger.com.

Bishop Michael McKee, North Texas United Methodist Church, Mrs. Michael McKee, Mr. Carrie Holmes, Rev. Dr. Zan Holmes, Representative Helen Giddings, Pastor Dianna Masters, and Rev. Dr. Henry L. Masters

January 3,2014

Spiritually SPEAKING4

Trouble communicating?

Lack of communication usually lands in the top five reasons for divorces or relationships ending, along with finances and irreconcilable differences.

During a recent interview, Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt talked about what makes their marriage successful.

Admitting that it wasn’t always easy and they had their share of “unsafe conversations,” the two will share their experiences at a workshop for couples at St. Philip’s School & Community Center, 1600 Pennsylvania Ave in Sunny South Dallas on Friday and Saturday, January 10-11, 2014

Seating is limited to 150 couples for “Safe Conversations: Moving from conflict to connection.” This free workshop is presented in English and Spanish, with dinner and lunch provided. For those couples

with children, no need to worry because childcare is also provided at no cost to parents. Seems like many excuses for not attending have been taken care of. Here’s an opportunity to gain invaluable

insight into helping strengthen your relationship and when you consider the dismal marital statistics, especially in our communities, along with the

high rate of domestic violence reports, we need all the help we can get.We’re living during a time where people would rather fight and kill than have meaningful discussions. Couples spend

more time planning the wedding or working out deals for the divorce, than learning how to effectively communicate. Sadly our young are following in our footsteps. Many are lacking in basic communication skills, thus more and more

“bullying” cases are dominating headlines and newscasts.Something has to be done and now! It’s not enough to say “keep your hands to yourself,” “no cussing,” or “pay attention.” That’s what makes this workshop so important!With over 40 years of experience as a therapist, educator, clinical trainer, author and lecturer Dr. Hendrix and his wife,

Helen LaKelly Hunt, co-created Imago Relationship Therapy, a therapy for couples now practiced by over 2000 certified therapists in 30 countries.

The two have co-authored 10 books on intimate relationships and parenting, including their most recent book Making Marriage Simple. Referred to by Oprah Winfrey as the “Marriage Whisperer,” Dr. Hendrix has been featured on Ms. Winfrey’s show 18 times-- one where she won her first Emmy for “most socially redemptive” daytime talk show.

For the past four years, Dr. Hendrix has been working to ignite a global movement to educate people about the value of healthy, intimate relationships.

Dr. Hunt, who has been married to Dr. Hendrix for over 30 years, has also been active within the women’s movement, helping to catalyze and grow the area of women’s philanthropy. Five years ago, she co-founded Women Moving Millions, a global movement of donors with the goal of raising the bar on women’s giving. Dr. Hunt is an honored inductee in the National Women’s Hall of Fame in Seneca, NY. She is the author of, Faith and Feminism: A Holy Alliance, published by Atria books, and the recent article, “Healthy Marriage: Healthy Women and Girls,” inviting the women’s movement to take up equality in marriage as an agenda. She says her greatest passion is deepening her relationships with her husband and their six children.

One technique that I found to be especially rewarding is one the couple says they practice daily.“We decided that each night before we go to bed, we tell each other three things we appreciate about one another,” said

Dr. Hendrix, adding that they both feel that the exercise is very rewarding.I’ve tried it at home with my family and it does give you a good feeling so I am sure it has a positive impact on those who

I show appreciation for.Attendees at the workshop will find out other skillful ways to communicate and how what they do will influence their

children.You can find out more about the workshop by calling 469-269-0640.WHO: Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt WHAT: Safe Conversations- A Workshop for CouplesWHEN: Friday, January 10, 6-9pm Saturday, January 11, 8:30am - 4:30pmWHERE: St. Philips School and Community Center 1600 Pennsylvania AvenuePRESENTED BY: Family Wellness Dallas! with Dallas Foundation as the fiscal sponsor. For more information: 469-269-0640

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First Vice President Beverly Evans Smith will be the keynote speaker at the Founders Day Luncheon for the Dallas Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., Saturday, January 18, 2014 at noon at the Sheraton Dallas Hotel, 400 North Olive Street, Dallas, TX 75201. Fifty and 25 year members will be honored during the program.

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Mandela! A Better Man

By Vincent L. HallAs Obama would say in his

speech; “Mandela makes me want to be a better man!

By Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson

All of us must continue to support the Affordable Care Act and the opportunity that it provides for nearly six million Texans to purchase affordable health care coverage for the first time.

The six month enrollment period ends in March and many of our friends, neighbors, and relatives who are eligible have not signed up. We must spread the word in our churches, our neighborhood association meetings, our social events, and even in our grocery stores that people can get coverage by utilizing the federally-run exchange in Texas.

Twenty-six percent of all Texas residents lack health care coverage. This is the largest percentage in the country. The Affordable Care Act is a solution that allows our fellow Texans to get the coverage they need.

Coverage of the uninsured is also in the best interest of those who already have coverage for themselves and their families. The cost of care rises for taxpayers when the uninsured and underinsured rely on emergency rooms for treatments that could have been

avoided by preventive care with a primary-care physician.

Enrollment figures have risen in states in which local officials have worked with the federal government. For instance, Kentucky has

witnessed increasing numbers of first-time enrollees.

Governor Rick Perry, one of the harshest critics of the Affordable Care Act, refused to establish a state exchange, so the federal government established one for Texas residents.

This refusal, coupled with the lost opportunity to expand Medicaid, cost Texas taxpayers tens of millions of dollars in additional funds that could be used to cover even more of the uninsured and underinsured.

Health and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius was in Dallas on December 20th to promote the Affordable Care Act. She urged Governor Perry to accept the expanded Medicaid funding and to support

the Affordable Care Act. I am hopeful that Governor

Perry will follow his fellow Republican governors in Florida, Arizona, Mississippi, New Mexico, and Ohio who once opposed the Affordable Care Act, but are now seeking ways in which their states can participate in various programs that the legislation offers. They realize that the law benefits their constituents.

The Affordable Care Act makes sense. It gives relief to families and businesses in Texas.

It allows families to shop for plans that fit their individual needs.

It even provides subsidies for those who can demonstrate that they have a financial need. It protects consumers from inflated deductibles and unreasonable co-pays. It allows students to remain on their family’s plans until they reach the age of 26.

It takes the management of health care out of the hands of insurance companies, and places it in the hands of health care providers.

While there have been some minor setbacks in the rollout of the website, the law is still effective and necessary in our country. Let’s all urge our friends, family, and neighbors to visit the website, www.healthcare.gov, which is now running effectively. For those without internet access you can contact healthcare navigators at various non-profits who have been contracted by the federal government to assist those searching assistance.

We should build on and support President Obama’s quest for health care coverage for all.

Tell Everyone About the Affordable Care

Hon. Eddie Bernice Johnson

Twenty-six percent of all Texas residents lack health care coverage. This is the largest percentage in the country. The Affordable Care Act is a solution that allows our fellow Texans to get the coverage they need.

Here’s wishing you and yours a happy new year

from the I Messenger family!

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By James A. Washington

I recently heard a phrase a minister friend of mine used to say all the time. He even wrote it in a book so I wouldn’t forget it. We usually get into this kind of a conversation because I’m confused about something and seek his biblical awareness to bring clarity out of my spiritual ignorance. He constantly tells me to remember that a “setback is more often than not, a setup for a comeback.”

Like I said he’s a minister so his reference is God, who he says presents you with what you think are setbacks, so He can set you up for a spiritual comeback. It sounds simple enough but at its core, this is pretty powerful stuff to digest. It means for those of us, who profess a faith based upon the life and death and eternal life of Jesus Christ, that even in the most dire of circumstances, God is ever present.

It’s a useful key to our salvation, if we’ll only use it. Let me explain as best I can. When we are surprised, or tricked, or easily enticed back into our ‘own ways of handling this physical world’ and we fail miserably in our own eyes, it can be tough to acknowledge our failure as so called followers of Christ. The result can make us shy away from what Christ has promised us.

Do you remember what would happen to you if you got caught doing something as a child you had no business doing? You knew what would happen if Mama, Big Mama or Madear

found out about it. If the truth be told, we also knew how much it would hurt them, because deep down inside we knew they knew we knew better. They had imprinted us with a moral compass that gave us character and pointed us in the right direction when everyone else was going the wrong way.

Punishment aside, the “I’m sorry” that was due them was also sincere and understood, as such, for ourselves. We knew that we knew we were wrong even at a young age. We knew better and it hurt to admit that to those who loved us and to ourselves.

For the Christian who makes the sincere effort and still falls short, the reality of what I just described can be overwhelming and therefore seem impossible to do. You’ve still got to admit to God and yourself that you screwed up. What you did was wrong. Say “I’m sorry” and realize as you did with Big Mama, that she still loved you no matter how disappointed she was in you. She loved you not only enough to forgive you, but also because she knew you

knew you were wrong because she taught you better.

God too, also knows that He has made a difference in your character. We are taught through Christ that His imprint on our souls is indelible and His forgiveness is eternal. But hold on a second. That does not exempt you from standing up and doing the ‘I’m sorry thing.’ It’s a spiritual must.

The bible says, “They refused to listen and fail to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff necked and in their rebellion appoint a leader in order to return to slavery. But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to answer and abounding in love. Therefore you did not desert them…even when they committed awful blasphemies.” Nehemiah 9:17.

Just like those who loved you, God never deserts you. Just like them, He never gives up on you. When we understand this, then we know through it all, there’s only one place to take your sins, even the ones we committed yesterday or this morning, yes, even the ones we want to hide from.

It’s right and He expects us to without saying a thing because He knows we know better. Coming to Him with this only validates who He is and who we are to Him. It’s an eternal love thing.

May God bless and keep you always.

Single Mom ChroniclesBy Tonya English

Dear SMC:Send your letters to [email protected]

Tonya English is an entrepreneur, writer, motivational speaker and the founder of Single Mom Chronicles.

She resides in the Dallas metroplex and is the single mom of two teenage girls.

Send your letters to letters@singlemomchronicles.

Tonya English is an entrepreneur, writer, motivational speaker and the founder of Single Mom Chronicles. She resides in the Dallas metroplex and is the single mom of two teenage girls.

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Husband still hits the clubs,

without meDear Alma,

I recently got married to a man I dated for six years. We have a wonderful relationship—open and trusting—and I couldn’t ask for anything more. However, he likes to go quite often (about once a week) to the club. I’m never invited. He acts as if it would be a sin if I were to go with him. Sometimes he doesn’t get home until after midnight. I will trust him until he gives me a reason not to.If I were to go out in the same way with my girlfriends, he would get irate, wondering what I’m doing, who we’re with, etc. When he tells me he’s going out, I never get mad (I definitely don’t want him going to a club mad at me!). I just don’t know if I should start “putting my foot down,” so to speak.How can I get him to see things from my perspective? For all I know, he could be in another woman’s bed! All I have to go on is trust. What do you think?— Left at home, Wash. D.C.

Hey Now Lefty,

I think the same thing you think. You just want me to say it. You aren’t doing yourself or your husband any favors by not telling the truth about how you feel. If an issue doesn’t sit well with you, you

should be straightforward. Honesty helps to build a genuine and trustworthy commitment. If simply loving somebody could make a person do or be better, we’d all be doing the right thing, ‘cause we all got somebody who loves us.You asked if you should put your foot down? Hello-o-o, you’re still standing on your tippy toes right now, so you’re not in a position to put your foot down. You lead him to believe that his clubbing is fine with you. To make matter worse, you even send him off with a kiss on the cheek and a smile. Because, like you said, you don’t want to send him to the club mad.Don’t be angry with him for doing what he’s doing when you’ve told him it’s alright to do it. Don’t get me wrong; I understand what you’re saying, and I agree with you. I wouldn’t want my husband at the club either. But this should have been discussed and clarified early on.First things first: Start telling the truth. I’d suggest you take the time to tell him how you really feel. There’s no need to be hostile. Part of this is your fault, so you need to come clean with patience in one hand and understanding in the other. An old Chaka Khan song comes to mind—Once you get started, snap, snap, Ooooh, it’s hard to stoppppp, yea, you just can’t stop now!!! (Sorry, I lost my train of thought.) Maybe he can go to the club every other week, or maybe you can go with him. The two of you need to decide what’s best. I don’t think he’ll stop right away, but I’m sure there’s a place in the middle that will satisfy both of you.

AlmaAlma Gill’s newsroom experience spans over 25 years, including various roles at USA Today, Newsday and the Washington Post. Email questions to: [email protected]. Follow her on Facebook at “Ask Alma” and twitter @almaaskalma.

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By Vincent L. Hall

Whereas, this may not sound like your traditional resolution for the New Year, I have never held myself out as a

“Negro of traditional thought or logic.” With bad economic news all around us and especially for the poor, I want you to resolve yourself to put $5 on it. Put more on it if you can.

Here’s an example. So like, I’m standing at the

checkout of a QT station (because they have excellent service and free air for your tires) and this guy walks in. He’s a hulking looking brother, in a uniform and he asks for $5 in gas. After passing the clerk four rustled ones, he handed her an assortment of change. “Make it $5.32” he whispers.

As God or the good spirits would have it, I saw this brother when he rolled up to the pump. It was obvious he was scraping for cash. He needed to get to work, but going to work costs money too. “Bruh man” was obviously flustered, and after being unemployed for 13 of the last 24 months I get it.

But don’t cry for me, because the chorus of the chronically unemployed

and underemployed is a growing one. Save your tears for those who live in generational poverty. Especially the children; excuse me "Our children."

Rather than cackling all that caca about creating a false sense of security and slothfulness, the Republicans in Congress should pass the extension of benefits for long term unemployment. When you think about the 1.4 million nationally that will lose benefits, think locally as well.

A recent study says 7968 people in Dallas County will lose their benefits. But extrapolate that number with affected households which have children, spouses and dependents. There could be 30,000 of your neighbors at even greater risk.

Meanwhile, the GOP and Tea Party wings of Satan’s Army deny them help, knowing full well that every dollar expended would go right back into America’s anemic economy.

These victims, your neighbors or possibly you, will be forced to hit the local social service agencies and churches. They will be joining lines that are already too long in a city of “misplaced priorities.” Hell yeah I said it… misplaced priorities. At a time when poverty is in full bloom, we find money for a blossoming Arts District. Nothing against art, but the Dallas I know can support both. Mayor Mike Rawlings would agree.

The Urban League of Greater Dallas and like organizations are emaciating for lack of funds because

the United Way coffers have been devastated by a lack of giving. The big donors have decreased and obviously with unemployment being high, there are fewer workers who can or do contribute.

Let me get back to my story, because I want you to know what I mean when I say put $5 on it.

Just as the brother leaves the cashier, I asked her to add an extra $10 of petro on me. Now those of you who are genetically or sociologically akin to Scrooge will scoff at what I did, let me explain.

There is no greater feeling in the world than being recognized or appreciated for making an earnest effort. That‘s what this brother was doing and I wanted him to know that I feel his pain and appreciate his endurance.

I learned this method of low budget, surprise philanthropy from my friend John Wiley Price 30 years ago. See a need, cover what you can, don’t expect or wait for praise. What will surprise you is how richly you will be blessed. No matter what happens, I never have much, but I can put $5 on it.

Bruh man smiled as the pump passed the $5.32 mark. Be it therefore resolved!!

HALL: Put $5 On It!



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As we enter our first full week of 2014, it's my pleasure to wish you a Happy New Year and to join you in embracing the excitement that each new January brings - a chance to start fresh, believe in our dreams again and make concerted efforts to do better and be better. I'm on the journey with you - fits and starts, mountains and valleys, triumphs and challenges and all - and here we are, able to enjoy this gift of a new day.

May you be encouraged to use it wisely, and to adopt the Defining Decisions recommended below as guideposts to help you stand in your relevance.

2014 Defining Decisions* Accept today that you are enough - good enough, lovable enough, smart enough - to have dreams; to embrace them (however unattainable or simple they may seem), and to pursue them in consistent and strategic ways that transform them into your reality.

* Choose Wisely the inner circle to share your goals, your fears and your victories with, for they'll form the core that carries you through doubting days and encourages you to conquer the hills that stand between you and that new reality you desire. Help them dream big and win big, too.

* Give Up your Superwoman (or Superman) cape and surrender perfection. Give your best and release the rest. Trust that your sincere effort, and being your authentic self, will produce the grace and the results you need, just when you need them most.

* Move Forward with the assurance that wherever you are is your assigned circumstance for this season, regardless of how you got there. You may grow weary, but keep going. Be grateful that you're trusted by the Creator to do the right things in this mighty or humble place. Your positive actions and attitude are creating a ripple effect in your home, school, workplace, community, and possibly, the world.

* Keep Reading my books and others! Reading will enhance your life by lifting your spirits, taking you on journeys (in your soul and imagination) and helping you view life from another perspective. I hope you'll continue to enjoy my books and also consider giving at least three authors who are new to you a try this year. I'm confident you'll discover some hidden gems!

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2013 was the year of African American biopics. From kidnapped free man Solomon Northrup’s story in 12 YEARS A SLAVE, to Eugene Allen’s life on which Lee Daniel’s THE BUTLER is loosely based. To close out the year, we can add another amazing film to that list — MANDELA: LONG WALK TO FREEDOM. Directed by Justin Chadwick and adapted to the big screen by William Nicholson from Mandela’s autobiography of the same title, MANDELA: LONG WALK TO FREEDOM chronicles South African President Nelson Mandela’s early life, coming of age and adulthood. English actor Idris Elba brilliantly portrays the role of Nelson Mandela and English actress Naomie Harris, also gives an outstanding performance as Winnie Mandela. The coincidences of the leading roles both going to natives of England who both happen to be blessed with head-turning looks, is well, just that…a coincidence. Their acting chops are in a word undeniable, and their on-screen chemistry and transformations into these real life icons are dead-on. One of the things I most appreciated about this film was the glimpse into who Nelson Mandela, the man, the lawyer, the son, the husband, and the father was, long before he took up the anti-apartheid fight. I am certain audiences everywhere were a little surprised to learn how much of a ladies’ man the civil rights’ activist was before he settled down with his first wife, Evelyn Mase Mandela (played by Terry Pheto). The story unfolds with Nelson Mandela as a young boy at what appears to be a traditional boys-to-men-coming-of-age ceremony. It quickly advances to his early adult years where we see Mandela in action as a young lawyer and a bit of a ladies man until he meets Evelyn. Mandela and Evelyn had two sons and two daughters together. During his first marriage he joined the ANC and began taking on an active leadership role in the organization.

As his schedule became busier with protest efforts, his 14-year marriage suffered due to his growing absence at home. The two divorced in 1958 — the same year he met and eventually married his second wife, Winnie Madikizela, who was 16 years his junior. Nelson and Winnie had two daughters. Nelson’s union with Winnie marked a pivotal point in his life. Dissatisfied with the lack of results they were getting with a non-violent movement, the ANC transformed to a more militant group and began bombing buildings to get their oppressors attention and send a message. These actions, however, prompted Nelson Mandela to go on the run from authorities. Of course, he was eventually captured, tried, convicted and sentenced to life in prison on Robben Island in South Africa. Winnie, initially committed to Nelson, took over his leadership role in the fight and his adult daughters launched a “Free Mandela” campaign, a cry for justice that was heard ‘round the world. As the years passed, Winnie became far more militant than Nelson ever was and it began to drive them apart. Another interesting thing the film captured was how Mandela’s natural leadership abilities spilled over into his prison stay, even influencing the prison staff to provide the inmates with long pants instead of the standard prison-issued shorts. One jailer in particular actually grew to respect Mandela and gave him special privileges during his incarceration. As South Africa’s anti-apartheid movement grew bloodier and more fatal, State President F.W. de Klerk, made a move that would forever change history in the segregated nation. After an initial, conditional release of Mandela to help President de Klerk and his administration figure out a non-violent solution to ending the apartheid system of segregation, he ordered the permanent release of Nelson Mandela from prison. Once freed and reunited with his family, he and Winnie put on a front for the public but clearly they were no longer in love. The film closes after Mandela successfully runs for President and became the first black president of South Africa, a position he held from 1994 to 1999. In real life, the 95-year-old world leader who battled health issues in his latter years, passed away on December 5, 2013, a mere 20 days

before the film’s worldwide theatrical release on Christmas Day. It almost seems as if he lived just long enough to see the film’s production through to completion. Rated PG-13 with a running time of two hours and 19 minutes, MANDELA: LONG WALK TO FREEDOM, distributed by The Weinstein Company is an outstanding film and an incredible

history lesson for the entire family. Rest in peace Madiba.

Idris Elba and Naomie Harris are phenomenal as Nelson and Winnie Mandela!

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It’s a new year - Make it a good one!

If you can be kind,

gentle and loving

during the holiday

season, imagine

what the world

would be like if

every day were

treated as a holiday!

City celebrates Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Birthday

Events planned for January 17 and 18

What: The City has planned several events on January 17 and 18 in honor of the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Planned events for the 32nd Annual Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. birthday celebration include: a Candle-Lighting ceremony, March/Parade, Awards Banquet, and Silent Auction. The theme of this year’s celebration is “Freedom, Equality, & Opportunity, Forever!” All activities are free and open to the general public, however; there is fee to attend the awards banquet and dance. When/ Friday, January 17 at 7:30 p.m. — Awards Banquet and Silent Auction Where: Hyatt Regency Hotel - 300 Reunion Boulevard, Dallas, TX 75207Keynote Speaker: Dr. Vashti Murphy McKenzie, the first female bishop of the African Methodist Episcopal Church.Cost of tickets: $75 Individual, $750 Community Table (10 seats per table) For information about events and banquet tickets, call: (214) 670-8418 or visit the website at www.mlkcelebrationdallas.org. When/ Friday, January 17 at 7:30 p.m. — Candle- Lighting Ceremony Where: MLK Recreation Center2901 Pennsylvania Avenue, Dallas, TX 75215This event is sponsored by Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Incorporated. For more information, please contact Craig Anderson at (469) 360-5688.

When/ Saturday, January 18 at 10:00 a.m. — Martin Luther King, Jr. March & Parade Where: The parade will assemble at City Hall Plaza to Ervay Street south, to MLK Jr. Blvd., past the MLK Complex to 2922 MLK Jr. Blvd. Participants include bands, floats, community/civic groups, and churches.

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January 3

Join Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. - Kappa Zeta Chapter on First Fridays December 6th - March 7th, as we roll, bounce, and

skate for a cause! During our 2nd Annual Skate for Babies campaign we will raise money for stronger, healthier babies in support of the lifesaving work of the March of Dimes. So come out to Redbird Skateland at: 1206 N Duncanville Road

Duncanville, TX 75116. $8 includes admission and skate rental; mention Kappa Zeta chapter and $4 will be donated to the March of Dimes March for Babies.

January 9

Booksigning with author Janice Littlejohn

"Swirling: How to Date, Mate, and Relate Mixing Race,

Culture, and Creed" , at The Dock Bookshop in Fort Worth at

7p.m.

January 10

Dallas Black Dance Theatre LuncheonHilton Anatole

2201 N Stemmons Freeway Dallas, TX 75207Time: 12pm www.dbdt.com

Safe Conversation - Couples WorkshopSt. Philips School and Community Center

Call 469-269-0640 for info

January 11

Roundtable Writer's Breakfast" HISTORICAL SIGNIFICANCE OF BLOODY

Sunday”featuring The Honorable Cynthia McKinney

@ 10 AM Room T-203 Dallas Convention Center Theater Complex

January 13

Phase I OpeningMartin Luther King Jr. Family Clinic Balch Springs

10a.m.Martin Luther King Jr. Family Clinic

3515 Shepherd Ln. Balch Springs, Tx. 75180

January 15

Mayors Reception "Marcus Knight"Jazz reception

Terrance Hunt Scholarship Fund and Tom Joyner Foundation

Time: 7pm-12am

January 16

****Annual Ron Fry Attitude Adjustment Weekend****

Buttons 15207 Addison Rd Addison, TX 75001Time: 7pm - 11pm

January 17

Dr. Martin Luther King CelebrationFriday, January 17 at 7:30 p.m. — Awards Banquet and Silent Auction Where: Hyatt Regency Hotel - 300 Reunion Boulevard,

Dallas, TX 75207Keynote Speaker: Dr. Vashti Murphy McKenzie, the first female bishop of the African Methodist Episcopal Church.

Cost of tickets: $75 Individual, $750 Community Table (10 seats per table)

For information about events and banquet tickets, call: (214) 670-8418 or visit the website at

www.mlkcelebrationdallas.org. When/ Friday, January 17 at 7:30 p.m. — Candle- Lighting

Ceremony Where: MLK Recreation Center

2901 Pennsylvania Avenue, Dallas, TX 75215This event is sponsored by Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity,

Incorporated. For more information, please contact Craig Anderson at (469) 360-5688.

When/ Saturday, January 18 at 10:00 a.m. — Martin Luther King, Jr. March & Parade

Where: The parade will assemble at City Hall Plaza to Ervay Street south, to MLK Jr. Blvd., past the MLK

Complex to 2922 MLK Jr. Blvd.

Ron Fry and Devon White Annual Birthday PartyWestin Park Central Hotel

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Dallas Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Founders Day

LuncheonWhen: Saturday, January 18, 2014 at

NoonWhere: Sheraton Dallas Hotel, 400

North Olive Street, Dallas, TX 75201

FAMU DFW Alumni BrunchLocation: Caribbean Grill

Time: 10am - 1pmSpeakers: Dr. Thomas Haynes VP FAMU,

Oscar Joyner President Reach Media, Stacy Hunt sister of Terrance Hunt

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Dallas Mavericks vs. Portland Trailblazers

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The Boox Club is a discussion group that meets once a

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development. The Boox Club encourages open conversation for individuals to express their opinions, likes, dislikes, and topics from the book of the month.

6:00pm - 7:30pmBook: The Wealth ChoiceAuthor: Dennis Kimbro

Location: Mercy Wine Bar Address: 5100 Belt Line Rd #544, Dallas, TX 75254

Questions? Contact Jasmine Dunbar ([email protected])

February 1

Omicron Mu Omega Chapter AKA Sorority, Inc.

Founders' Day Celebration

February 7

College Fair and ExpoOne Community Church

2400 Texas 121 Plano, TX 75025Time: 10am - 2pm

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Black Heritage NightDallas Mavericks vs. Utah Jazz

American Airlines CenterTime: 7pm

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Join Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. - Kappa Zeta Chapter on First Fridays as we roll, bounce, and skate for a cause! During our 2nd Annual Skate for Babies campaign we

will raise money for stronger, healthier babies in support of the lifesaving work of the March of Dimes. Four evenings full of

skating and family fun: So come out to Redbird Skateland at:

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Kappa Zeta chapter and $4 will be donated to the March of Dimes March for Babies.

The Dallas Division of the American Heart Association will host the 2014 Go Red for Women Luncheon at the Hilton Anatole. This year’s luncheon will feature Vice President

Dick Cheney as the keynote speaker. Mr. Cheney has had a long battle with cardiovascular disease having suffered his

first of five heart attacks in 1978, and ultimately undergoing a heart transplant in March of 2012.

February 8

New Rising Star Missionary Baptist Church of Fort Worth, 9th annual Raymond B. Spencer Scholarship

BanquetThe guest speaker will be the Reverend Samuel

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assassinated in Memphis, Tennessee.

February 15

February 22

FAMU Alumni MeetingBlue Mesa

14866 Montfort Dr, Dallas, TX

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Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Area Founders Day LuncheonWhen: Saturday, February 22, 2014 at 11:30 AM

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Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. - Kappa Zeta Chapter First Fridays as we roll, bounce, and skate for a cause! During our 2nd Annual Skate for Babies campaign we will raise money for stronger, healthier babies in support of the lifesaving work of the March of Dimes. Four evenings full of skating and family fun: So come out to Redbird Skateland at: 1206 N Duncanville Road Duncanville, TX 75116. $8 includes admission and skate rental; mention Kappa Zeta chapter and $4 will be donated to the March of Dimes March for Babies.

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The 2014 African American Educators Hall of Fame Program will be held Saturday, April 12, 12:00 Noon., Hilton Garden Inn, 800 N. Main Street, Duncanville, Texas. An induction ceremony will be conducted to honor educators and others who have made significant contributions to the African American Education experience in Dallas County. Dinner will be served. Tickets are $50 each

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Studies by theUniversity of Texas atDallas Institute of UrbanPolicy, United Way andTexas A&M are takingplace now to assess thequality of life in the SouthDallas community beforebillion dollar projectsinvolving the new DARTLight Rail and the Trinity

Toll Road are brought tothe area. Some construc-tion has begun with thedemolition of homes tofollow later this year.At a meeting held by the

three institutions, a focusgroup of sorts dished ideasand findings on the surveysthat have told the story of theresidents of South Dallas.“We are measuring con-

ditions that may vary fromstreet to street,” said Dr.

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oversee the The FieldResearch Team whichunderwent 80 hours of

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grade evaluation on President Barack Obama’s first 100

days in office, marked on April 30. Here’s how several

people from the local front graded the new president.

Congresswoman EddieBernice Johnson

Grade:A“I am deeply impressed with the progress that

President Barack Obama has made during the first 100days of his administration. Already we are seeingevidence of the administration’s plan to dig our countryout of recession and develop long-term, sustainable pros-perity. President Obama has made two trips abroad,proving to us and to the world that he intends to

repair our frayed alliances and restore ourinternational leadership.

Finally, the Obama adminis-tration’s code of ethicshas broughtmuch-neededtransparency andaccountability to theWhite House.

President Obamais delivering on thechange that hepromised.”

Senator Kay

Bailey HutchisonGrade: C

“In just 100 days, we’ve seen an alarming accel-

eration of policies that will take America down the

wrong track. The administration has proposed

trillions of dollars in new spending, which will

result in higher taxes on Americans, while sharply

raising our indebtedness to foreign creditors.On the national security front, I am

very concerned aboutthe President’s intention toclose Guantanamo without aworkable plan to relocatedetainees. It is mysincere hope that,movingforward,

theadminis-

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responsible approach to ournation’s challenges thatAmericansdeserve.”(The office of John Cornyn of

Texas was contacted but did

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Leppert. But what doesvoting “no” and voting“yes” mean?It is important to

remember that thepropositions are toamend the Dallas CityCharter which, amongother things, gives thecity the power to acquireproperty for any publicpurpose. The propositionsare worded to prohibit thecity from acting on thesebefore stated powers.Therefore, if a citizen wouldlike the city to maintainthose powers, they are tovote NO and vice versa.

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Shaun Robinson updated her LBD with a "ick of the wrist. Did you see Shaun on the set of Access Hollywood sporting that gorgeous black dress with gold cu#s? Guess what? Her cu#s are actually removable! Her secret: Invisibelt KCu#s. These elastic, sparkly cu#s instantly transform any simple sweater or dress. Just slip them on your wrist for an entirely new, chic look. Choose from 5 fashionable, fun KCu# styles.

Shaun recently discovered Invisibelt KCu#s and not only wore them on the set to spruce up her out!t, but sent us a video from her dressing room encouraging her fans to try her new holiday accessory choice!

Known for her impeccable fashion sense, Shaun is only reiterating what thousands of other fashionistas have been saying...”why spend thousands of dollars on a new out!t when you can stock up on wardrobe staples and turn a blah to bling with a ""ick of your wrist”. In a season of parties where busy days quickly turn to party grand entrances, it is hard to stay organized and !nd the time (and money) to make each out!t special. KCu#s can be stashed

in your handbag or luggage for quick access and amazing results, for a fraction of the price.

With New Year’s around the corner and Valentine’s day soon to follow, we

are all under pressure to wear something fresh and exciting... yet save a penny or two.

KCu#s by Invisibelt are the answer to your Christmas wish, and with her ingenious line of practical

and stylish accessories, creator Kathy Kramer has provided the perfect gift for your girlfriends or yourself for any special occasion.

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The Lap Log-"Making Life a Little Easier"

Bamboosa, a well-known U.S. manufacturer of unique eco-friendly products, has acquired the exclusive rights to manufacture and distribute a new product designed to make the everyday use of iPads® and similar devices a more comfortable experience. The Lap Log© tablet holder is already in production at Bamboosa’s Andrews, S.C facility and will be distributed worldwide.

The Lap Log is one of the most universal tablet holders on the market. The cylindrical shape of the stand di#erentiates it from similar products in that it allows the user to adjust the angle of the iPad, tablet or eReader for better viewing without changing their body position. The wooden insert accommodates most tablet and eReader devices and works equally as well in either portrait or landscape mode. Furthermore, the “bean bag” design is made from all natural buckwheat hulls and provides for a stable platform on almost any surface. Most importantly- it’s made in America!

“Almost 200 million tablets and eReader devices have been sold worldwide,” said Mindy Saintsing, VP of Marketing at Bamboosa. “Now consumers are looking for a more comfortable way to use them without holding them or propping them on their laps or knees. We think this product delivers on that promise better than any other we have seen. Plus, it’s eco-friendly and made in America!”

The Lap Log is made of sustainable materials, including certi!ed organic 100% cotton twill and naturally grown buckwheat hulls. A removable wooden insert that holds the tablet is crafted locally and is hand-sanded and stained with a natural, non-toxic !nish.

Washable – If you happen to get a little dirt on your Lap Log when you're at the park, simply remove the wooden insert, dump the natural buckwheat !lling into a container, and put your Lap Log into the wash. Flexible – The durable bean bag design lets you view any tablet or eReader at almost limitless viewing angles, and the buckwheat hulls allow your Lap Log to conform to any surface. Versatile – Use your Lap Log in bed, on the couch, sitting at your desk or on the kitchen counter. No straps, Velcro, or clips, and it easily adjusts to eliminate glare. Remove the wooden insert, and your Lap Log can be used as a comfy travel pillow! Travel Ready – The Lap Log weighs a little more than a pound, so you’ll be able to take yours anywhere. It's light enough to throw in your carry-on, and has the added bonus of doubling as a neck pillow! Going outdoors? Toss it in your backpack and have a convenient and stable stand for your device at the beach or on the trail.www.thelaplog.com

Customized Bespoke Clothing for the Well-Dressed ManGIFT IDEAS!

Don't Let Your Charger Get Lost in the Crowd

CableKeeps™ useful features add both personality and utility to the everyday Apple Charger.They are designed so that the cable that attaches to your Apple device stays with it, nicely wrapped around the base and secured so that it will remain free from tangles when shoved into a bag, pocket or purse. This same design feature allows you to keep the cable short and neat while the charger is plugged into the wall fueling your iPad, iPod or iPhone. Secondly, CableKeeps™ come in beautiful bold Apple-

inspired colors, orange, sky blue, true red, lime, royal blue and purple. The clean lines and noticeable colors mean you won’t lose them among all the dull black chargers belonging to co-workers, fellow passengers and classmates. CableKeeps™ are molded in Santoprene thermoplastic rubber which makes them durable, recyclable and non-toxic. More good thinking.Mothers will love these—no more wondering who owns

which cable charger—no fussing to !nd the right one just as you have to tear out the door in the morning. Your family can each have their own colour, and what a great stocking stu#er they will make. CableKeeps™ will keep everyone happy. The cost of the US model, “Goldie”, $16.

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Luxury Handbag Brand, Deondra Jereé debuts

With each handbag embodying its own unique, modern, and sophisticated design, NY-based handbag line Deondra Jereé launches its collection in time for the Winter 2013 season.Emerging handbag brand, Deondra Jereé distinguishes itself from the current fashion world with its innovative design, high quality materials,

and reasonable pricing. By infusing the combination of edginess and sophistication into each handbag, NY-based handbag line Deondra Jereé wishes to produce unique, everyday styles that are not currently available in the mass market. Each luxury handbag showcases its own modern and bold design. The winter 2013 collection is available online at deondrajeree.com.“I wanted to design handbags today$s sophisticated women would wear, including myself

because I'm con!dent in my style and like to wear original pieces,” said Deondra. “Our pieces are alluring, fashion forward, bold, and high-end. I wanted to give women who desire the !ner things in life a handbag that is sophisticated, yet edgy.”With each handbag made from the !nest genuine lizard skins and Italian-glazed leather, the Deondra Jereé winter collection ultimately takes today$s f e m a l e consumer from day-to-night. With the f a s h i o n -f o r w a r d woman in mind, the Deondra Jereé winter 2013 c o l l e c t i o n prices range from $290.00 to $1,190.00 and feature six high-quality designs.

Deondra Jereé is a luxury handbag brand that was founded in 2013 by designer and creative director, Deondra Morris.

Deondra Jereé wishes to deliver the !nest quality, original, and on-trend handbags at an a#ordable price point. www.Deondrajeree.com.

Knot Standard (www.knotstandard.com) is an online bespoke clothing company that makes customized clothing including suits, shirts, blazers and slacks for men. The New York City-based !rm combines the latest in cutting edge technology with the skills and talents of a master tailor to deliver customers the perfect !t every time – guaranteed.

“We take pride in every single item of clothing we construct,” said Knot Standard CEO Matt Mueller. “We invest 100% in getting the absolute perfect !t for each individual customer and we take very seriously our customer satisfaction.”

Launched in 2010, Knot Standard is the brainchild of John Ballay and Matt Mueller, two Americans then living in Dubai. They later partnered with Tarig El Sheikh, an experienced !nance executive and have now expanded operations globally.

Knot Standard’s value proposition is straight forward: Allowing gents from all over the globe access to a world of talented tailors, Knot Standard o#ers handmade bespoke suits at price points that customers would usually pay for an o# the rack, run of the mill suit.Upping the stakes, Knot Standard uses innovative 3D imaging via webcam to get the most perfect measurements for clients and laser cutting technology at the workshop to ensure each suit is cut to !t the individual customer.

“The perfect !t, individual style, and impeccable tailoring.” explains Ballay. “The key to being well dressed is always !t and that’s what gives Knot Standard a competitive edge. We don’t use patterns. Each bespoke suit is cut directly from a bolt of cloth to the measurements of the individual customer. We like to joke that our suits come in just one size – yours.”

From Wall Street to the West Coast, Knot Standard makes suits for every important occasion. Bespoke advisors are on hand 24 hours, seven days a week to help guide customers through the measurement process. They can also advise on suit types, fabric choice, slim vs traditional !t and an array of fashionable options including contrast color buttonholes, peak vs shawl collar lapels or spread vs straight collars.

Knot Standard uses the best of Italian and English fabrics, o#ers a 100% satisfaction guarantee and round the clock customer service.

www.knotstandard.com



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