“Your Sunday SMS are words which serve as a rule to inspire business people, treasures relationship of love and friendship and to have a strong family connection.”

Salma KhanPresident Women For Women,

Bangladesh Former Ambassador of Bangladesh to Indonesia

Paul Hamel — Debora Novita Z.W

SMS MOTIVATION For The Business Person

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Sunday messages from Mr. Paul surely become the reminder for us who are a workaholic and a person on the move. The themes of family care have reminded us that no matter how far and how busy we are in work we still need to have a place to go home, to take care of our family who has already been willing/sincerely to take us to our success. If there is a person who do not miss to go home there must be a problem with his/her family whether he/she realizes it or not. Even to ‘be closed to your family’ is the real happiness as said in one of Mr. Paul’s messages. Soon after reading the message from Paul, I often make a surprise event for my family although it’s just merely going to a book store and having a dinner together. And if this message realy touches me, I send it forward to our 30 managers at TEMPRINA and ADIPRIMA who joint MODIN (Motivator, Dynamizator, and Innovator) community.

Ir. Misbahul HudaPresident Director

Adiprima Suraprinta and Temprina Media Gra� ka

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Sunday massages dari Mr. Paul sungguh menjadi reminder bagi kami yang biasa kerja workaholic dan moving. Tema-tema tentang peduli family, meng-ingatkan pada kita bahwa sejauh dan sesibuk apapun kita bekerja harus tetap berlabuh, berteduh dan pulang ke rumah, memperhatikan pada keluarga yang telah rela/ihlas mengantarkannya menjadi orang sukses. Jika sesorang malas pulang ke rumah, pastilah ada masalah dalam familynya, entah disadari atau tidak. Bahkan ‘closed with ur family’ adalah the real happiness, demikian salah satu person Mr. Paul. Segera setelah membaca SMS Paul saya sering membuat acara mendadak untuk family, meski mungkin hanya ke took buku dan dinner bersama. Bahkan jika SMS itu berkesan saya sebarkan ke 30 managers kami di Temprina dan Adiprima yang tergabung dalam komunitas Modin (motivator, dinamisator dan innovator).

�r. Misbahul Huda

Direktur UtamaAdiprima Suraprinta and Temprina Media Gra� ka

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It’s a matter of touching a highly important need in this materialistic World, where no care is deployed if it isn’t paid off. By your dominical short message, a little effort you deploy, you wake up in your friends’ hearts their human sense. It’s a reminder that, whatever success we achieve, we need a human touch that gives meaning to our life.You’re unique in this task that deserves praise and appreciation. I do deeply believe that our Universe’s fate depends on who much the mankind makes it green, friendly and peaceful. May The Almighty Bless you and Gives you force to keep in your great endeavor until your noble vocation be spread all over the planet.

Victor Zmeter.Ambassador of Lebanon

Jakarta, Indonesia

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Sometimes the bell of my phone rings early Sunday morning it is a sign that I have a message. I smile…Paul is up I think. “we forget people to easy “ he said when he asked for my HP number. So I remember him at least once a week and many other days when his words make me think or re� ect about the easy forgotten wisdom s of the world which he reminds us of every Sunday. Thank you Paul for allowing us to take a brake and see what a wonderful world we have around us and sometimes choose to forget.

Melba Pria

(Ambassador Embassy of Mexico, Indonesia)

I have to say that your weekly SMS’s have helped me through some dif� cult times and I always look forward getting them each week. Thanks again for sending them and all the best with the book.

Phil Quay Victoria, BC Canada

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It is said that the eyes are the windows to our soul. And what we say with conviction re� ects the honesty of our hearts.

Paul came into my world through a common friend Robert, two years ago. Not really that long if you consider eternity itself. But long enough for me to know his kind heart and soul, expressed through his loving sms messages sent every Sunday, come rain or shine.

I am honored to be counted as his friend and grateful to be in the same universe as he.

Jin Keat Quek (Chartered Quantity Surveyor, Consultant & Life Coach, Malaysia)

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Dear Paul, I receive your sms every Sunday morning. I feel good whenever read your test about life, love, family etc that you sent to me. It reminds me what I should do for lovely family. Thanks for your kind sending valuable sms. May you and your family have the most happiness in your country.

Captain Wannapol GlormgeaoThai Embassy

Naval Attache

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We want to thank all of our friends, family and acquaintances and of course all of our children Richie, Matthew, Andres, Callista and Michael who over the years have inspired us in so many ways that it gave us the drive to write this book. Without their support it may not have happened. For that we are deeply and grateful to all of you.

We also wish to thank our friends who provided us with testimonials on how the SMS have touched their hearts in some special way. We sincerely hope with this book we are able to touch you in some way so you may experience the peace, harmony and balance in your life, family, and business.

Acknowledgments

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It is our every desire that each and everyone who reads and uses this book is able to touch someone in a different and yet motivational way to be all they can be. Should you have any Short Message System (SMS) or nice photo scenery and would like for us to publish it in a future book. Please e-mail it to hamelpublishers@yahoo.com and should we use your message or photo, we will be happy to send you a copy of your e-book via e-mail of the next addition for FREE, so please don’t forget to give your complete name, position and title, address and phone number and where the photo was taken, as we will print your name as the author of your message.

We also want to thank everyone involved in the production, design and layout for making this book become a reality.

May you always spend time with your most valuable asset in your life, your family.

Paul Hamel and Debora Ziashari

We r all special people, with grt potential & capable of big ac-complishments. N since u r born with gifts of potential n desire, u need to discover n cultivate them. Discover ur desires n follow ur dreams.

Kt adlh mnusia yg spsial dg potensi yg bsr n mpu mlakukn pncpaian yg bsr. N o/krn it anda dilhrkan dg bakat potensi n hsrat, anda prlu mnemukn n mggaliny. Temukan hsrat anda n ikutilah impian-impian anda.

It is not what u say or hope, wish or intend, but only what u do that counts. Take charge of ur life today, n enjoy ur future.

Bkanlah ap yg anda ktkan atw hrpkn, Inginkn atw hndaki, ttp hya ap yg anda lakuknlah yg brti. Pimpinlh hdp anda hr in n nkmati ms dpn anda.

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Do not think of todays failures, but of the success that may cm tmrw. We all hv dif� cult tasks, but u will succeed if u dont gv up.

Jgn memikirkn kega2lan-kega2lan hr in, ttpi pkirkan kbrhsilan yg akn trjd esok hr. Kt smua memiliki tgs2 yg sukar, ttpi anda akn brhsil jk anda tdk myerah.

Life ends when u stop Dreaming; Hope ends when u stop Believing; Luv ends when u stop Caring; So Dream, Believe n Care, Life is re-ally Bt� .

Hdp akn brhnti jk saat anda brhnti Brmimpi, Hrpan akn hilang saat anda brhnti Mprcyai. Ksh hilang saat anda brhnti Mprhatikn; o/krn itu Brmimpi-lah, Prcylah n Pduli, Hdp bnr2 Indah.

Rmbr there is more to life than in-creasing its speed. D faster u go, d less u can see. Slow down n enjoy d view along the way.

Ingatlh ad hal2 yg lbh u/hdp drpd mningktkn kcpatanny. Smakin cpt anda prg, smakin sdkit anda dpt mlht. Prlambatlh n nikmatilh pmndangan spnjang jln anda.

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We win half d battle when we make up our minds to take d world as we � nd it, including d thorns. Rose pedals teach us beauty. Ber-ries teach us sweetness. Thorns teach valuable lessons, too: care, respect n caution.

Kt me2nangkn stngah pe2rangan saat kt memutuskn u/mnrima dunia sbgmn kt mnmuknny, trmsuk onak durinya bunga Mawar mngajarkn kt ttg keindahan, buah Berry mngajarkn pd kt kemanisan. Onak duri mnga-jarkn pljran brhrg spt prhatian, hrmat n kpedulian.

Rmbr a man nvr stands as tall as when he kneels to help a person in need. The greatest r always will-ing to help those who hv the least. Become one of the greatest n help someone this week who needs help.

Ingatlh se2org tdk prnh brdiri stinggi saat ia brsujud u/mnolong org yg mbtuhkn. Yg trbsr slalu mau mnolong mrk yg kekurangan. Jdilah org yg trbsr n mnolong sesama yg mbtuhkn prtlgan dlm mnggu ini.

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Sometimes life may seem like a tunnel, endless n dark, but dont con-centrate on d darkness. Concentrate on d light at d end, n u will succeed in all u do.

Kdngkala hdp klihatan spt trowon-gan, tak brujung pngkal n glp, ttpi jgn brknsntrasi pd kgelapan. Brknsen-trasilah pd chya di akhir trowongan n anda akn brhsl dlm sgl hal yg anda lakukan.

Expect d people u love to be bet-ter. It helps them to become better. But dont get upset when they fail. It helps them keep trying. Applaud when they succeed. Applaud harder when they try.

Hrpkn org yg anda kasihi u/mnjd lbh baik. Hal ini mbantu mrk u/mnjd lbh baik. Ttp ijng kcwa jk mrk ga2l. Hal ini mbantu mrk u/trs mcoba. Brtepuk tgnlah jk mrk brhsil. Hrgai lg ktka mrk mcoba lg. Btepuk tgan lbh krs.

Live so when ur children think of fair-ness n integrity, they think of u. Set a good example. Enjoy a lifetime of rewards.

Hdplah sdmikian saat anak2 anda brpikir ttg kju2ran n intgritas, mrk mgingat anda. Brilah cntoh yg baik. Nkmatilah pghrgaan seumur hdp.

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God grant us d courage to change the things I can, d patience to ac-cept d things I cant, n d wisdom to know d difference.

Tuhan beri kmi kberanian u/mgubah hal2 yg dpt sy ubah, ksbaran u/mn-rima hal2 yg tdk dpt sy ubah n kbijak-sanaan u/mgtahui prbedaan diantara keduany.

We cant change yesterday, we can only make d most of today n look with hope towards tmrw.

Kt tdk dpt mngubah hr kmrn, kt hya dpt brbuat yg tbaik hr in n meman-dang dg pnh hrpan pd hr esok.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, dream for tmrw. Use les-sons from ur past in ur present to enrich ur future. Enjoy ur life.

Bljrlah dr hr kmrn, hdp u/hr in, brmim-pi u/hr esok. Gunakn pljran ms lalu pd saat in u/mperkaya hr esok. Nikmatilh hdp anda.

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There r three things that clog ur soul: negativity, judgment, n imbalance. So be positive, patient, n care for others.

Ad 3 hal yg mghmbat jiwa anda: knegatifan, kputusan, n ketdk seim-bangan. Mk jdlah psitif, sbr n pduli dg org lain.

Life supports every thought u choose to think n to believe. U hv unlimited choices abt what u think. Choose balance, harmony, n peace n enjoy ur life.

Khdpan mdukung stiap pmikiran yg anda pilih u/dpikirkn n dprcy. Anda memiliki plhan yg tdk trbtas mgenai ap yg anda pikirkan. Pilihlah kseim-bangan, kselarasan n prdmaian n nikmatilh hdp anda.

Little keys can open big locks. Simple words can express grt thoughts. Hope my simple tx wudnt fail to make u smile d whole day thru

Kunci yg kcl dpt mbuka pintu yg bsr. Kata2 yg sdrhana dpt mgungkapkan pkiran yg luar biasa. Hrpan n ucapan trm ksh yg sdrhana tdk akn ga2l mbuat anda trsyum spnjang hr.

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In a pieces of hopes. In every breath that it takes is a part of colors of life Tears, Smile, Stress is a bonus jackpot of our life. Lets enjoy our bonus.

Dlm slembar hrpan. Dlm stiap helaan nafas adlh bag dr wrna khdupan. Tangisan, Snyuman, Stress adlh bonus jakpot hdp kt. Marilah mnikma-ti bonus kt.

We dont always want to face d truth cos sometimes it is painful. Sometimes it shows us that we need to change. If we’re behaving badly, we make excuses for our wrong behavior. But excuses will never make us free. Let God get involved with our day, when we feel our temper � are, ask Him to reveal d truth of that situation. The truth will always set us free to enjoy the rest of our day…

Kt tdk slalu ingin mghadapi knyataan krn kdgkala in mnyakitkn. Kdgkala hal in mnunjukkn kpd kt bhw kt prlu brubah. Jk kt brkelakuan bruk, kt mta maaf ats kslahan kt. Nmn memaa� n tdk akn prnh mbuat kt mrsa bebas. Biarknlah Tuhan ikut campur tngan dlm hr2 kt, ktka kt mrsakan emosi kt mnyala-nyala, mntalah u/myingkapkn kbnran dr keadaan tsb. Kbnaran akn slalu mbebaskn kt u/mnikmati sisa hdp kt.

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A Good message for a Good per-son from a Good girl for a Good Reason at a Good time on a Good day in a Good mood to say.. have a Good day.. :-)

Sbuah psn yg Baik u/seorg yg Baik d/seorg gdis yg Baik u/sbuah alsan yg Baik pd saat yg Baik pd hr yg Baik dlm suasana hati yg Baik u/mgatakn Nikmatilh hr yg Baik in.

Rmbr, Bfr u speak to listen. Bfr u write to think. Bfr u spend to earn. Bfr u invest to investigate. Bfr u criti-cize to wait. Bfr u pray to forgive. Bfr u quit to try. Bfr u retire to save. Bfr u die to give.

Ingatlah, Sblm brbicara, dgarknlah. Sblm mnulis, bpikirlah. Sblm mblan-jakan, carilah. Sblm brinvestasi, slidikilah. Sblm mgkritik, tggulah. Sblm bdoa, maa� nlah. Sblm brhnti, cobalah. Sblm pnsiun, smpnlah. Sblm mninggal, brilah.

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Be in control. When u blame some-one else, u gv away ur power. If u want to � nd a solution for a problem in ur life, take personal accountabil-ity. When u blame, u play the victim role, which does nothing but make u feel powerless. Accept what hap-pened n take control of ur life.

Kuasailah diri anda. Ktka anda myalah-

kn org lain, anda myerahkn kekuatan

anda. Jk anda ingin mnmukan pyele-

saian mslh dlm hdpmu, ambil tggung

jwb pribadi. Ktka anda myalahkn org

lain, anda memainkn peran krban yg

tdk brarti apapun kcuali hya mbuat

anda mrs tdk memiliki kekuatan.

Trmalah ap yg trjd n kuasailah hdp

anda.

I hv nvr been much of a swimmer. I may not be d best at � ghting d cur-rent, but I can � oat. It is wonderful just to trust d water to keep us n go with the � ow. We can trust god to keep us a� oat through d rapids n lead us to still waters.

Sy tdk prnh sm skali mnjd seorg perenang: Sy tdk mjdi yg tbaik dlm prklahian arus, ttpi sy dpt mngapung, sgat baik u/mprcayai air u/mjaga kt n brjln brsm dg aliran. Kt dpt mprcayai Tuhan u/mnjaga kt ttp trapung mle-wati aliran drs n memimpin kt kearah air yg tnang.

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D secret of success. Successful people know they r just like everyone else. They hv unlimited potential, just like we all do. But successful people dont sit around wishing n hoping for things to happen. They know their strength is in clear goals n taking action.

Rhsia kbrhsilan. Org yg bhasil mge-tahui bhw mrk sm spt org lain. Mrk memiliki potensi yg tdk trbatas, spt kt smua lakukan. Ttp org yg brhsil tdk brmalas2an n mghrpkan sesuatu trjd. Mrk mgetahui kekuatannya dlm tjuan yg jls n mgmbil tindakn.