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Is Attachment Theory a Moral Development Theory? Ross A. Thompson University of California, Davis Keynote presentation to the 9 th International Attachment Conference, Vancouver, July 19, 2019.

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Is Attachment Theorya Moral Development Theory?

Ross A. ThompsonUniversity of California, Davis

Keynote presentation to the 9th International Attachment

Conference, Vancouver, July 19, 2019.

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Is attachment theory

a moral development theory?

no

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Morally-relevant correlates of secure

attachment

Self-regulation

• Securely-attached children show greater competence at self-

regulation, including executive function tasks, compared to

insecurely-attached children

(Bernier, Beauchamp, Carlson, & Lalonde, 2015; von der Lippe, Eilertsen,

Hartmann, & Killen, 2010 )

• Securely-attached children are also stronger in emotion regulation,

including anger management

(Zimmer-Gembeck, Webb, Pepping, Swan, Merlo, Skinner, Avdagic, & Dunbar, 2017

review )

• There is some evidence that mothers in secure attachments exhibit

greater coregulatory support for their children

(Calkins & Leerkes, 2011)

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Morally-relevant correlates of secure

attachmentSocial problem-solving, conflict avoidance with peers

• Securely-attached children show greater social competence with

peers (Groh et al., 2014 meta-analysis)

• Securely-attached children (assessed at 24 and 36 months) show:

-- lower negative attribution bias at 54 months

-- lower negative attribution bias at first grade

-- a greater number of socially competent solutions to social

problems at 54 months

(all with controls for early maternal sensitivity)

-- fewer aggressive solutions to social problems at first grade

(Raikes & Thompson, 2008)

• Securely-attached children show lower levels of peer conflict in first

grade, and steeper declines in peer conflict from preschool to first

grade (Raikes et al. 2013)

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1.5

1.7

1.9

2.1

2.3

2.5

Preschool Kindergarten First grade

Peer Conflict

2 SD above mean ofattachment security

At mean of attachmentsecurity

2 SD below mean ofattachment security

Security of attachment at 24 months and peer conflict trajectories

in early childhood

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Morally-relevant correlates of secure

attachment

Emotion understanding and empathy

• Securely attached children show deeper emotion understanding,

especially of negative emotions

(Laible & Thompson, 1998; Steele et al., 1999; Raikes & Thompson, 2006,, review by Cooke

et al., 2016)

• Securely attached children show greater empathy in response to

distress cries (Kim

& Kochanska, 2017; Murphy & Laible, 2013)

• Mothers in secure relationships talk about emotion in a descriptively

richer, more elaborative manner with their children

(Laible, 2004; Laible & Thompson, 2000; Ontai & Thompson, 2002; see Reese, 2002)

• Mothers in secure relationships are more likely to accurately perceive

and interpret their children's emotions (Waters et al., 2010)

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Morally-relevant correlates of secure

attachmentConscience development and the "moral self"

• Secure attachment is associated with greater compliance and

cooperation with mothers

(Kochanska et al., 2005; Kochanska, Aksan, & Carlson, 2005; Laible & Thompson, 2000)

• In conflict, mothers in secure relationships use gentler discipline,

more emotion-focused language, and greater conciliation

(Laible, 2004; Laible, Panfile, & Makariev, 2008; Laible & Thompson, 2000)

• Secure attachment predicts emergence of the "moral self" at age 7

through the child's positive, receptive cooperation with parent

(Goffin, Boldt, & Kochanska, 2018)

• Security of attachment moderates the association between the

early parenting and children's later morally-related outcomes

(Kochanska, Aksan, et al., 2004; Kochanska, Barry, et al., 2009; see also Kochanska,

Woodard, et al. 2010; Kochanska & Kim, 2012)

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Maternal

responsiveness and

gentle discipline

CONSCIENCE

(moral affect, moral

cognition, moral self)

Securely-attached children (assessed at 14 months):

14-45 months 56 months

No association for insecurely-attached children

(Kochanska et al., 2004)

Maternal

power

assertion

Insecurely-attached children (assessed at 15 months)

Child

resentful

opposition to

mother

Child antisocial

and disruptive

behavior

25-38 months 52 months 67 months

No association for securely-attached children

(Kochanska et al., 2009)

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Morally-relevant correlates of secure

attachment

Prosocial behavior

• Studies with adolescents & adults portray a strong association

between attachment and prosocial behavior; evidence for young

children is mixed and inconsistent

(Gross, Stern, Brett, & Cassidy, 2017; Shaver, Mikulincer, Gross, Stern, &

Cassidy, 2016)

• The association of attachment and prosocial behavior may thus be

developmentally emergent and contingent on the target, cost, and

complexity of the prosocial response.

• Nevertheless, attachment theory can helpfully inform studies of

the origins of early differences in prosocial motivation by focusing

on aspects of secure relationships, such as sensitive responding

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Beyond secure attachment . . .

Parenting and early moral development

• Sensitive parenting is associated with children's conscience

development, prosocial behavior, empathy, distress upon

wrongdoing, and emotion regulation

• Mothers of children in secure attachment relationships use

responsive, low-confrontational, conciliatory discipline practices

• Mothers of children in secure relationships discuss emotions in a

descriptively richer, more elaborative fashion and in a manner

that is sensitive and more validating

• Mothers of children in secure relationships coach emotion

regulation skills

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Interim conclusions

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An attachment perspectiveto early moral development

• relational orientation

• moral values develop constructively rather than just internalized from external authorities

• contextualized by biologically adaptive influences

• founded on children's developing psychological understanding of people and relationships

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developing an early premoral awareness . . .

• understanding of another's intentions and goals

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developing an early premoral awareness . . .

• understanding of another's intentions and goals

shared intentionality: intersubjective participation in activity involving shared mental states (pointing, collaborative problem-solving, cooperative social play)

helping responses to helpers and hinderers

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Fairness judgments of helpers and hinderersin the preschool years:

(3 ½-year-olds; Baumard, Mascaro, & Chevallie, 2012)

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© Disney

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• You didn't like that he was bouncing your guy off the game, and that made you really mad.

• It's hard when you feel so angry. You're going “AAAH, she's bouncing my guy off there!” Right?

• How did the other kids feel when you turned off the game? Did they want to play more?

• You know, after you stopped the game, the other guys said, “Joey wasn’t really doing so bad.” You thought you were losing, but you weren't.

• I wonder what you could do differently if something like this happens again.

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Elaborative discourse

ValidationAutonomy

support

Constructive emotion

regulation coaching

Security of attachment is significantly associated with the composite of these

measures of conversation quality

p < .05

p < .01

Waters, S., Virmani, E., Thompson, R. A., Meyer, S., Raikes, A., & Jochem, R. (2010). Emotion regulation and attachment:

Unpacking two constructs and their association. Journal of Psychopathology and Behavioral Assessment, 32, 37-47.

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from premoral to moral . . .

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Talking about the consequencesof actions

Talking about people’s emotions

Compromising or bargaining

Moral evaluative statements (“good girl!”)

Justification and reasoning /Low use of threats, teasing or insistence

Conscience

Development

age 3

Talking about rules

2 ½ years: Mother-child conversation elements

during conflict episodes in the lab

Laible, D. J., & Thompson, R. A. (2002). Mother-child conflict in the toddler years:

Lessons in emotion, morality, and relationships. Child Development, 73(4), 1187-1203.

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autobiographical memory

" moral self " in early childhood

moral identity in adolescence and adulthood

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A developmental perspective

• early sensitivity to the feelings, goals, and needs of others provides the basis for a premoral sensibility underlying eaarlysocial evaluations and motivating prosocial behavior and socially constructive actions

• these "moral primitives" develop in the context of parent-child interaction, in which adult sensitivity, emotion-focused conversation, and mutual reciprocity are central influences to developing representations (IWMs) of self and other

• conversational discourse contributes to connecting the child's intuitive premoral sensibility to broader moral values

• over time, these processes also influence moral self-awareness and the growth of character

Thompson, R. A. (2012). Wither the preconventional child? Toward a life-span moral development theory. Child Development Perspectives, 6, 423-429.

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Is attachment theory a moral development theory?

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Thanks!

Ross A. Thompson

Department of Psychology

University of California, Davis

[email protected]

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developing an early premoral awareness . . .

• understanding of another's intentions and goals

• emotion understanding

• self-regulation

• developing executive functions may be important to children's ability to respond helpfully to another person, especially in a context of competing interests

• temperamental effortful control may also be important

• But the growth of self-regulation is slow and has an extended developmental course

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P rosocial measures . . .

• Helping (neutral experimenter)

• Helping (sad experimenter)

• S haring

• E mpathy

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Are there reliable individual differences in prosocial responding by toddlers?

0

2

4

6

8

10

12

Helping-neutral

Helping-sad

Sharing

Empathy

Prosocial

Aggregate

Score

Low (N=25) Medium (N=43) Frequent Helpers (N=19)

Prosocial Groups

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How is prosocial behavior associated with children's sympathetic concern and personal distress?

for Personal Distress: F (2,80) = 4.78, p < .05 for Sympathic Concern: F (2,75) = 8.08, p < .001

0

5

10

15

20

25

Personal Distress Sympathetic Concern

Low Prosocial

Medium Prosocial

High Prosocial

Aggregate

Score

(Frequent Helpers)

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How are individual differences in prosocial behavior associated with mother-child interaction?

Variables Class 1 vs. Class 2 Class 2 vs. Class 3 Class 1 vs. Class 3

OR (95% CI) OR (95% CI) OR (95% CI)

Child Sex 0.58 (0.20-1.68) 1.77 (0.50-6.22) 1.03 (0.27-3.93)

Child Age 1.02 (0.99-1.05) 0.99 (0.95-1.02) 1.01 (0.97-1.05)

Maternal Sensitivity 1.39 (0.85-2.27) 2.49 (1.17-5.31)* 3.45 (1.63-7.33)***

Maternal Mental State Language 0.95 (0.86-1.03) 1.17 (1.02-1.33)* 1.10 (0.96-1.27)

Sensitivity x Language 0.99 (0.92-1.05) 0.91 (0.81-1.01) 0.89 (0.80-1.00)*

*p < .05, ***p < .001

Class 1 = Not Prosocial, Class 2 = Moderately Prosocial, Class 3 = Frequent Helpers; OR = odds ratio

Newton, E. K., Thompson, R. A., & Goodman, M. (in press). Individual differences in toddlers’ prosociality:Experiences in early relationships explain variability in prosocial behavior. Child Development, in press.

Logistic Class Regression Analysis

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Probabilityof being aFrequentHelper(vs. NotProsocial)

1

0.9

0.8

0.7

0.6

0.5

0.4

0.3

0.2

0.1

0

!Low sensitivity High sensitivity

------------ High mental state language________ Low mental state language

Interaction between maternal sensitivity and maternal mental state language in predicting children's prosocial class membership (LCRA)

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developing an early premoral awareness . . .

• understanding of another's intentions and goals

• emotion understanding

• E motions are an important entreé into the psychological experience of another person (e.g., desires, evaluations, expectations, beliefs)

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developing an early premoral awareness . . .

• understanding of another's intentions and goals

• emotion understanding

• E motions are an important entreé into the psychological experience of another person

• There is evidence for early resonant or empathic responding to the sight or sound of another's emotions

• But others' negative emotions are conceptually and motivationally complex events for young children

• Adult guidance is necessary to help children understand others' emotional expressions and enlist this understanding into constructive social responding