THE GREEN EYED MONSTERBY: ASIM MUHAMMAD

JEALOUSY

Fig 1 “green eye ( the picture depicts a green eye)”

WEBSTER DEFINITION : HAVING MORBID FEAR OF RIVALRY IN

LOVE OR PREFERENCE GIVEN TO ANOTHER; PAINFULLY SUSPICIOUS

OF THE FAITHFULNESS OF HUSBAND, WIFE, OR LOVER.

What is Jealousy

Fig 2 “dictionary”

The emotional part.

Jealousy is a secondary emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection.

Fig 3 “green woman (the picture depicts a woman jealous”

What the experts think?

Psychologists have proposed several models of the processes underlying jealousy and have identified factors that result in jealousy.

Fig 4 “doc ( the picture depicts a doctor talking to a troubled woman”

Sociologists

Sociologists have demonstrated that cultural beliefs and values play an important role in determining what triggers jealousy and what constitutes socially acceptable expressions of jealousy.

Fig 5 “doctor 2 ”

It Starts young

Jealousy, has been observed in infants as young as five months.

Fig 6 “mad kid (the picture depicts jealousy at a younger age ”

Blame the France

The word Jealousy stems from the

French word jalousie

.

Fig 7 “Frenchman”

Ask a scientists

Scientists still do not have a universally agreed upon definition of jealousy

Fig 8 “geek(the picture depicts a smart man stomped”

Romantic jealousy

Romantic jealousy is the most common of all it is defined as feelings, and actions which follow threats to self-esteem and threats to the existence or quality of the relationship.

Fig 9 “date night ( the picture depicts a man jealous”

I'm not envy

Our culture uses the word jealousy as a synonym for envy, but its not an envious person can be motivated to improve, a jealousy person can’t.

Fig 10 “green monster”

Double edge sword

Psychologists and human behavior experts, acknowledges that people can experience envy and jealousy at the same time

Fig 1 “green man ( the picture depicts a man literally painted green with jealousy”

Religion and the green

Jealousy in religion examines how the scriptures and teachings of various religions deal with the topic of jealousy.

Fig 12 “pray”

Not a small monster

According to scientist jealousy is not just one emotion its; A WHOLE BUNDLE OF EMOTIONS!

Fig 13 “big green monster”

Don’t be afraid

Jealousy is about fear--fear of the unknown and of change, fear of losing power or control in a relationship, fear of of loss, and fear of abandonment.

Fig 14 “green turtle (the picture depicts a turtle retreating in its shell”

Your past may be to blame

Your core belief growing up can and almost always contribute to how prone to jealousy you are.

Fig 15 “father time (the picture depicts time moving on ”

Love change

Most people become jealousy when some thing new or better come up into the equations. For example: a baby or bet etc….

Fig 16 “thinkers”

The swings

The lost of power or somebody gaining power out of nowhere is one of the main causes of jealousy

Fig 17 go and stop”

Gotta catch it

There are JEALOUSY TRIGGERS, that you can catch before the green bug effects you.

Fig 18 “power on”

It pays to be the boss

Many people don’t address there jealousy issue because they don’t see it as a issue, but controlling jealousy gives you control over your life.

Fig 19 “the boss room”

Fighting the demon

Jealousy if left untreated can turn into a big problem

Fig 17 “big dog little dog”

Be proud to be you

The main cause behind feeling jealous is your doubting your abilities or skills; or lack of self confidence

Fig 21 “pump up”

Distract yourself

If you can’t seem to shake the monster than than just don’t look at it, . Just like with cravings for snacks, if you distract yourself the negative feelings wont disappear but you'll fill better.

Fig 22“stop looking”

The Remedy

If you struggling with jealousy, the only cure is, not with the person or thing, but it is with in

Fig 24 “good futune”

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