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     ean Pierre Elonga Mboyo

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    NEXPECTED

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    Copyright © Jean Pierre Elonga Mboyo (2015)

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    '"nowledg!ents

    My thans go to 8in"ent 'sa!bo! and +i"holas 9yugi for  proof:reading and other useful suggestions

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    Contents

    The author;s personal state!ent< hy write a boo on !y

    e=perien"es>1

    Prologue

    Chapter 1< 3ro! the &?C to the @A *ia @ganda

    Chapter 2< 3ro! the @A ba" to the &?CB0

    Chapter B< &ealing with the une=pe"ted in the &?C

    Chapter < /ea*ing the &?C ba" to the @A10$

    Epilogue11

    Preparing for &?C12B

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    The author’s personal statement:

    Why write a book on my

    experiences?

    D'lthough !igration flows fro! poor to ri"h "ountries

    gain the !ost attention% return flows of !igrants to

    their "ountries of origin are substantial; (&ean ang1

    200 p#15)hile the stories and the!es dis"ussed here will tou"h

    on the 4uestion Dwhy return ho!e>;% this boo is !ore

    about what happens on"e the de"ision to return ho!e

    has been !ade% e*erything Ddee!ed; ne"essary has

     been asse!bled and the sho" ordeal that awaited !e

    a few days after - set foot on !y ho!eland (the

    &e!o"rati" ?epubli" of Congo F &?C) .ut inretra"ing the Gourney% it dis"usses a *ariety of other 

    topi"s ranging fro! polyga!y% lea*ing Dho!e;%

    studies% priesthood% !ulti"ulturalis!% war% po*erty%

    i!!igration% "ulture sho"% fa!ily% tea"hing%

    edu"ation% resignation% taing riss% hope% despair%

    help% "ri!e% law to Gusti"e syste!

    1 Dean Yang (2006). Why do Migrants return to poor countries?

    Evidence fro !hi"ippine igrants# responses to e$change rates shoc%s&

    in The Review of Economics and Statistics, ''& & 1*+,*.

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    ere% - a! not "on"erned about basi" general fa"ts

    about either the @nited Aingdo! as "o!pared to the

    &?C There are so!e generally a""epted realities

    about the different weather patterns% geographi"al and"ultural differen"es about these "ountries% for 

    e=a!ple% that !ay not need another boo -nstead% the

    urge to share !y story and thoughts springs fro! the

    "onte=tual uni4ueness of the e=perien"es that - hope

    will shed so!e light into the state of !ind of 

    indi*iduals% "ertain se"tions of so"iety and *arious

    stru"tures in AinshasaH&?C% @ganda and the @nited

    Aingdo! E="ept for the 1I fi"tion part whi"h -

    would let the reader deter!ine% the rest (I) is a real

    story that is set in a parti"ular ti!e and spa"e and told%

    ad!ittedly% fro! the author;s perspe"ti*e reser*ing the

    right to all those who !ight feel !isrepresented to

    gi*e their a""ounts as the e=perien"es re"ounted herewould ha*e affe"ted the! .ut% to respond to the great

    tradition of storytelling% we owe it to all readers and

    future generations to pro*ide a tra"e of reality in !y

    ti!e and how reper"ussions to so!e of life;s diffi"ult

    de"isions and "hoi"es were handled

    'ny wor that is !eant to hopefully "ontribute to

    the de*elop!ent of hu!anity !ust ai! to eradi"ate

    suffering rather than add to what is already out there

    This is why - intend to use pseudo na!es su"h as

    Ca!ille 3abien .ayu (C3.)% .ill% .o% &an% 3elly%

    3iston% onorable Patala (P)% Maboo Milai (MM)%

    Paul% ?ingo% a!uel% tan% Ta% Tina or general ter!s

    su"h as wife% "hildren% lawyers% to refer to people thatthe !ain "hara"ters here would ha*e hired or sought

    ad*i"e fro! @nless they "hoose not to% - !ention real

    na!es when paying tribute to friends su"h as 8in"ent

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    'sa!bo!% Charles and 'ngela 9ula% Jeanette de

    u,a% Maria il*a ?osa% 'ntoinette% +i"holas and

    Charity 9yugi% 3ran"is% enry% 'nguo and Chia .ass

    - will also use real na!es to refer to geographi"al pla"es and institutions Pseudo na!ing does not apply

    to !ain "hara"ters su"h as !eH- (Jean Pierre Elonga

    Mboyo)% 9s"ar Aapongo Aabata (9AA)% Jean Claude

    Aabata (JCA)% 9s"ar Aabata .alodGi (9A.)% .ibi

    Aabata% Mado Aabata% ThrKse Aabata% Teddy% Aoo%

    an,aL

    hat you and the ne=t generation will do ne=t as a

    result of learning about these "hara"ters and what they

    did is a !atter of personal "hoi"e owe*er% the

    detailed des"riptions% situations% twists and turns%

    refle"tions and responses to dile!!as e!bedded in

    this parti"ular story "ould be the taling point of 

    diasporan "o!!unities% business !en and wo!en%lawyers and ser*e as a "ase study for students at law

    uni*ersities and to anyone new to the Congolese way

    of doing business and handling of the une=pe"ted

    e*ents that - witnessed The intention to share !y

    e=perien"es !ay be "onstrued as !y atte!pt to

    *indi"ate !y a"tions but - bet there will be !o!ents

    when as a reader you !ight thin D- "ould ha*e done

    things differently here; -t is that sort of engage!ent

    that this publi"ation hopes to a"hie*e and in the

     pro"ess !ae us streetwise% so to spea

    B

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    Prologue

    D'lthough !igration flows fro! poor to ri"h "ountries

    gain the !ost attention% return flows of !igrants to

    their "ountries of origin are substantial; (&ean ang

    200 p#15)

     Elonga and Theo (South African) discuss the

    quoteTheo< if% that;s the "ase then it;s great news

    Elonga< why>

    Theo< our 'fri"an leaders repeatedly "all on the

    diapora to return

    Elonga< but why>

    Theo< to "ontribute to the de*elop!ent as it noto""urred to you that 'fri"a is the future not Europe>

    -;! sure on"e they are in their !otherlands% they

    wouldn;t want to lea*e again

     Elonga< Eh, except that some do actually leave,

    find out why!

     Elonga and Mark (British) discuss the quote Mark < is that true>

    Elonga< it see!s to be% a""ording to &ean

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     Mark < that;s brilliant then%

    Elonga< - wonder what happens to the! on"e they

    return ho!e

     Mark < -t wouldn;t bother !e !ateN !any of us

    would be grateful to swap a boat ride a"ross the

    Mediterranean and a dar "onfined spa"e at the ba" 

    of a lorry into here for a hero;s wel"o!e aboard

    .oeing ##Lwhate*er /oo% they are out and that;s

    what !atters

     Elonga< Eh, except that some do actually comeback, find out why!

    3ast:forward &ean;s assertion to the su!!er of 

    201 and there - was set to return to the &e!o"rati"

    ?epubli" of Congo (&?C) F rounding off a three year 

    stay in @ganda and a subse4uent 15 e*entful years inthe @nited Aingdo! - was going ba" to where it all

     began

    My DR oots" 3orget the Heart of Darkness of 

    Joseph Conrad (1$) where the title of the no*el

     portrays a generation that is *ery !u"h "on"ernedabout the dual distin"tion between the !ore *ersus the

    less "i*ilised or hu!an -n a world now threatened by

    e="essi*e greenhouse e!issions and global war!ing%

    this real life story begins rather fro! an oasis of *ast

    forest reser*es whi"h are ho!e to so!e rare spe"ies

    su"h as .onobos% ri*ers with huge *arieties of a4uati"

    "reatures% and people straddling between the urge to preser*e their "ultural heritage and a burning desire

    for !odernisation and better li*ing "onditions e are

    in no other pla"e than the territory of &Golu% within the

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    distri"t of Tshuapa in the +orth estern pro*in"e of 

    E4uateur in the &e!o"rati" ?epubli" of Congo (&?C)

    where - was born and raised

    &Golu stands at about 1000 ! away fro! the&?C;s "apital Ainshasa and there are no dire"t roads

    lining the! .oats% transporting people and their 

    goods fro! Ainshasa to the nearest ports (.efori%

    .oende% Mo!pono% or /isala)% tae at least a !onth to

    get there -f you didn;t want that% the only way in and

    out was by plane to Mbandaa% .asanusu or .oendewhi"h respe"ti*ely stand at about 00% 50 and 20

    ! away fro! &Golu &Golu itself has an airstrip that

    would only tae so!e "hattered s!all planes

    #amily< My !other is a trained !idwife and one

    of the wi*es to !y polyga!ous dad who after 

    spending se*eral years as a pri!ary s"hool head

    !o*ed on to an ad!inistrati*e role still in edu"ation but outside a s"hool setting - a! one of the $ "hildren

    fro! !y !u! and !ore than a do,en fro! !y dad

    .oth% and so!eti!es three of !y (step) !others

    li*ed under the sa!e roof This !ay ha*e had

    so!ething to do with affordability proble!s as -

    wouldn;t i!agine the lies of President Ja"ob Ou!a of outh 'fri"a eeping his four wi*es under the sa!e

    roof My !others had their rows but "ould ha*e so!e

    inti!ate "on*ersations and laughs that "an only be

    liened to the fa!ous phrase in '!eri"an politi"s< Da

    tea! of ri*als;

    Polyga!y is not pre*alent here but it does happen

    -t has been said that the wealthy and powerful !en

    that gi*e up polyga!ous pra"ti"es% do so in e="hange

    for *otes fro! the poorer !en 9thers re"on a

    wo!an a"tually "hooses to enter into a polyga!ous

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    arrange!ent if she thins the !an has enough dosh to

    loo after her ere% the idea of ha*ing !ore than one

    wife (polyga!y) !ay ha*e so!ething to do with !ale

    an=iety !anage!enthen growing up% we used to repeat a refrain of a

    song lost in !y !e!ory ang in /ongando% whi"h is

    !y !other tongue% it used to go lie this< Dboli omoko

    nsole’onjemba, bali basaso nsole’alikambo’ !eaning

    Dyou !arry one wife and you s!ell ba"helorhood but

    !arry three and you s!ell trouble; 9n a personalle*el% of the !ore per!anent of !y !others% !y

     biologi"al !u! re!ains "uddly and soft spoen My

    step !other was !ore of a dis"iplinarian .oth

    4ualities were needed in our household Though !y

    !u! and dad wored% we didn;t depend on their 

    salaries for food 9ur far!s; produ"e% fishing and

    hunting e=ploits pro*ided us with our daily bread ewould sit around the fire% listening to traditional

    stories while waiting for our e*ening !eal

    There were good pri!ary and se"ondary s"hools to

    go to but beyond that the nearest uni*ersity was about

    B00 ! away Things are slightly different now with

    the "reation in &Golu in 200B% of a higher edu"ationinstitute for rural de*elop!ent (-&? &Golu in short)

     by a lo"al intelle"tual turned politian 'lbert /oasola

    /otana - "o!pleted !y pri!ary and se"ondary s"hool

    studies within &Golu before !o*ing outside the area in

    .aringa for a two year "ourse in English and

    pirituality as part of the progra!!e set up by the

    Mill ill Missionaries for their "andidates to the!issionary priesthood

    Mill ill Missionaries are a Catholi" organisation

    !ade up of priests% brothers and lay !e!bers set up in

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    1$ by Cardinal erbert 8aughan who also built

    est!inster Cathedral in "entral /ondon They wor 

    all o*er the world in"luding the &?C in the &io"ese of 

    .asanusu whi"h has &Golu as one of its deaneriesith dwindling nu!bers of re"ruits in the west% Mill

    ill so"iety turned to young 'fri"ans to eep its wor 

    ali*e and this is how !y teenage interest with their 

    !issionary way of life shaped what - would do ne=t -

    spent two years fro! 1 to 1 in the "entre

    (CE3'H.aringa) that they set up within the &io"ese

    (.asanusu) before !o*ing on to the ne=t stage

    outside the &?C

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    Chapter 1:

    From the DRC to the UK via

    Uganda

    $iesthood< My !issionary drea! too !e to

    JinGaH@ganda where - spent a full three years ('ugust

    1 till May 1) without a holiday ho!e in

     between - was still in !y early twenties then and theCongo war (that is still "lai!ing its *i"ti!s up to now)

    had Gust broen out soon after !y departure The war 

     began as a Goint @gandan and ?wandan ba"ed

    rebellion led by /aurent Aabila to oust an ailing

    di"tator (Mobutu) who;d been in power for B2 years

    9n"e in power (in 2001)% the self:de"lared president /aurent Aabila fell out with his ba"ers who

    in turn sponsored other ar!ed groups to allegedly rid

    Eastern Congo of renegade 1 ?wandan geno"ide

    fighters To the Congolese% this se"ond in*asion and

    "ontinued support to different ar!ed groups were Gust

    a prete=t for ?wanda and @ganda to sli"e off or 

     balanise Congo and lay their hands on its !inerals-n that !le that drew up to 10 'fri"an "ountries

    ('ngola% Chad% /ibya% +a!ibia% oudan and

    Oi!babwe for the &?C go*ern!ent side and ?wanda%

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    @ganda and .urundi for the rebel sides) !y fa!ily

    !e!bers% in &Golu% had to so!eti!es tae to the forest

    for days and wees to flee fro! the different

    ad*an"ing andHor retreating (rebel or go*ern!ent)troops pending that length of ti!e away fro! !y

    fa!ily was understandably agonising

    /u"ily for !e% the intelle"tual sti!ulation deri*ed

    fro! studying philosophy was as therapeuti" as the

    war!th of li*ing in a wel"o!ing en*iron!ent that

    @ganda was in those days - a! grateful to the lies of 'ssou!pta and se*eral fa!ilies in Mbio% AoonGeru

    and others a"ross @ganda - a! parti"ularly indebted

    to the hospitality of the 9ulas who turned their ho!e

    into !yHour ho!e away fro! ho!e Charles and

    'ngela 9ula who we si!ply "alled daddy and

    !u!!y li*ed with their "hildren at about B !iles

    away fro! the se!inary house in JinGaH@ganda Chia.ass and 'nguo Justin both fro! Ca!eroon were two

    and a year respe"ti*ely ahead of us and both *isited

    the 9ulas as their fa!ily friends in"e - was "lose to

    !y Ca!eroonian friends in our year% we got

    introdu"ed to the! and this is how a Congolese

    !anaged to snea into this "ir"le of pure hu!anity%

    friendship and lo*e

    -n those days% !ost people in @gandan towns used

     bi"y"les to get around There were people who would

     pro*ide a bi"y"le ride for !oney and it was "alled

    D.odaboda; !eaning Dboarder to boarder; (a pra"ti"e

    that originated fro! taing people fro! the Aenyan

     border to the @gandan border) e were gi*en one bi"y"le ea"h to get us around espe"ially during

    weeends when we had to *isit the "o!!unity as part

    of our !issionary wor hen that wor was o*er we

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    would turn up at the 9ulas% usually unannoun"ed%

    and e=pe"t to be fed and watered 's well as the !ain

    house% they had built a boys; 4uarter whi"h be"a!e

    our dor!itory at Christ!as% Easter and other holidayse would e*en organise e="ursions to his ho!e

    *illage whi"h !eant organising transport to and

    through for 10Q of us o!e would argue that hu!an

    relations are defined by personal interests but - fail to

    see what the 9ulas would ha*e gained fro! us

    There are drea!s whi"h are only hopes within arealisti" world that we li*e in .ut there are drea!s

    that are uni!aginable be"ause one;s surrounding does

    not lend itself to the realisation of su"h drea!s and yet

    they still happen to you /i*ing and growing up in

    &Golu it was beyond !y drea!s% as it were% to study

    with a !i= of 'fri"ans fro! different "ountries in the

    sa!e institution .ut that;s Gust what happened There- was% in @ganda% intera"ting with the people that

    would later be"o!e !y best friends fro! Ca!eroun%

    Aenya% @ganda% Oa!bia% and Tan,ania et"

    - !ay not ha*e enGoyed "onsulting !y English:

    3ren"h di"tionary !ore than 100 ti!es a day to eep

    up with le"tures and so"ial life% but in hindsight% this!onotonous pra"ti"e in the "onte=t of learning a

    language has its benefits that - now all too well

    .esides !astering /ongando and /ingala whi"h are

     both !y !other tongues and 3ren"h whi"h is the

    &?C;s s"hool and offi"ial language% - now had to

    learn B additional languages -t was so tough that e*en

    an old friend - re"onne"t with through so"ial networ had to re!ind !e about asing our D'fri"an

    Philosophy; le"turer a daft 4uestion su"h as Dwhat

    does a deity !ean>; - was paranoid that - e*en fell out

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    with !y Aenyan friend who happened to s!ile while -

    was speaing and - thought D!y English !ust be so

     poor to !ae this guy laugh at !e; -n spite of those

    !o!ents and !any !ore% with hard wor - ha*e had!ore doors open than shut to !e with !y broen

    /uganda% not so perfe"t wahili and now fluent

    English

    %ondon< 9ne window of opportunity that opened up

    to !e was "o!ing to England in 'ugust 1 to studyTheology in the "onte=t of fulfilling !y !issionary

    drea! The "ultural sho" though when landing at

    eathrow airport had the uni!aginable effe"t of 

    shutting this opportunity down and boarding the ne=t

     plane ba" to Ainshasa% where full:on isses were the

    e="lusi*e business of the bedroo! .ut - was where -

    was and /ondon was going to be !y new ho!e 'sti!e !o*ed on% England offered !e !ore than a

    repulsi*e hany:pany that one !ight en"ounter at the

     beginning of the autu!n season at one of the world;s

     busiest airports (eathrow) The sense of duty% the

    generosity of friends% and the understandable logi" in

    the syste! that lay down the rules of the ga!e for all%that "an be asso"iated with life in the @A% were

    en*iable and attra"ti*e

    The @gandan e=perien"e had been beyond !y

    drea!s but li*ing in +orth est /ondon was surreal

    ere - was studying not only with fellow 'fri"ans but

    with "andidates fro! *arious "ontinents - had

    graduated fro! using bi"y"les in @ganda to ha*ing 1or 2 students; "ars They "ared so !u"h for you that

    they would e*en show you how to use a hoo*er The

    winged Mill ill Missionaries head4uarter at a ti!e

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    was a listed building and it was so huge that it% at

    ti!es% felt lonely /onely but safe% shielding you fro!

    the hustle and bustle and "o!ple= transport syste! out

    there that !ade !e not *enture out on !y own for atleast 2 !onths Two years down the line and !y shot

    at !issionary life didn;t wor out - de"ided for 

    legiti!ate reasons that - was going to do so!ething

    else instead - "o!pleted the Theology "y"le

    ne*ertheless and wondered what to do thereafter

    - opted for a "areer in edu"ation after being presented with so!e ideas su"h as !arriage andHor 

    applying for asylu! status This was 2002 and the war 

    that has dire"tly and indire"tly "lai!ed the li*es of 

    !ore than !illion people was still raging in &?C

    Just on death toll alone and !illion is a "onser*ati*e

    figure% the &?C "ould be said to ha*e endured at least

    #0 de*astating Ebola outbreas si!ilar to the201H15 est 'fri"an one in the last 1$ years

    - "ould go on a rant about the !oral s"ar it has left

    on the leadership at all le*els (national and

    international) but besides the li*es that ha*e already

     been lost a"ross the "ountry% we "an !ention the !any

    wo!en and underage girls that "ontinue to fall *i"ti!sof se=ual atta"s in Eastern Congo The rape of an 1$

    !onth old girl and fa!ily !e!bers being for"ed to

    sleep with their relati*es before they are gang raped by

    ar!ed !en are dreadful stories and do"tors su"h as

    &enis Muwege who re"ently was awarded the

    European parlia!ent top hu!an rights pri,e for 

    treating raped wo!en "annot be thaned enough Theinternal as well as e=ternal hu!an displa"e!ent

    resulting fro! su"h instability "annot be

    underesti!ated -t was a no brainer then that !y friend

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    would ad*ise !e to lodge in an asylu! appli"ation

    with the ho!e offi"e

    Te!pting though it was% it wouldn;t only ha*e

     been an insult to genuine people who% in fear of  perse"ution in their "ountries of origin see refuge in

    their host "ountries% but - also had trouble lying

    despite possible "oa"hing sessions 'nd - a! not

    taling about little white lies Possible years of 

    un"ertainty were not things - felt "o!fortable with -

    wanted to wor hard e*en though tea"hing was theonly *iable "ard on the table This is not to suggest

    that all asylu! seeers lie and that they don;t wor 

    hard

    #om piesthood to teaching< The fa"t that - ended

    up in edu"ation !ight ha*e so!ething to do with the

    fa!ily genes -t is a fa!ily lo*e affair sin"e !y father 

    and other fa!ily !e!bers% in &?C% are tea"hers .ut

    in !y new English "onte=t% it was the !ost pra"ti"al

    thing to do - was a foreign student paying fees at an

    international rate and - needed a less "ostly strategy

    that would get !e into the world of e!ploy!ent in the

    shortest ti!e possible Though a few sponsorshipappli"ations were refused on the grounds that - didn;t

    !eet the residen"y "riteria% the R$%$5 one year fee

    worth of tea"her training at heffield alla!

    @ni*ersity (@) and the liely prospe"t of obtaining

    a wor per!it and gradually getting into a situation

    where - didn;t need one were !ore attra"ti*e than a

    !ore "ostly (e"ono!i"s or other purely a"ade!i")!aster;s degree progra!!e

    ?aising the R$%$5 still wasn;t easy /et;s peddle

     ba" a little before starting with @ - had spent two

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    years studying fullti!e with Mill ill Missionaries

    'nd whene*er - wasn;t studying% - was *isiting an

    -8H'-& "entre around Ca!den Town and youth

    "entre in t 'lbans as part of the !issionary wor that had brought !e to /ondon -n the third year% -

    de"ided to part "o!pany with Mill ill and dit"hed

    the idea of priesthood all together ith that "a!e the

    "onse4uen"e of finding !y own a""o!!odation and

    taing "are of !yself - had to "o!plete the Theology

    degree as well as find so!e wor that would enable

    !e to sa*e enough !oney for !y tea"her training

     progra!!e at @ in the following year upport

    wor was what did it for !e There was the "onstraint

    of not e="eeding 20 hours of wor a wee as per !y

    student *isa rules but in support wor% there are flat

    rate sleepo*ers at the "lient;s house whi"h ept your 

    hours low but in"reased your in"o!e so!ehow - hada 4uiet and war! pla"e where - "ould get !y

    assign!ents done on"e the "lient was in bed

    The "hange of "areer fro! priesthood to edu"ation

    re4uired !aing a geographi"al !o*e fro! /ondon to

    outh orshire to reside in &on"aster and study with

    @ My Ca!eroonian friend 8in"ent 'sa!bo! had

     been li*ing there and the reputable hospitality of 

     +orthen England were enough to "on*in"e !e to

     bra*e the hostile +orthen winters that are asso"iated

    with this part of the "ountry - still re!e!ber !y

    friend Maria il*a ?o,a dri*ing !e fro! /ondon up

    to &on"aster on 22nd 'ugust 2002

    ow this parti"ular stage in !y life unfolded% andthe for!idable so"ial and finan"ial help of friends lie

    Jeanette de ou,a% Maria il*a ?osa% 8in"ent

    'sa!bo! and 'ntoinette% deser*e spe"ial !ention -

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    re!e!ber spending two wees at !y friend;s

    (8in"ent 'sa!bo! and his wife Mispa) house before

    finding so!e below standard a""o!!odation for 

    !yself - had enough !oney for !y fees o% !yo*erdraft of R1500 and an additional R1500 that !y

    friends Jeanette de ou,a and Maria il*a ?osa had

    gi*en !e was the budget - had for rent% transport% bills

    and food for the entire year The hardship of ha*ing to

    wae up with the "oat - wore to go to wor the

     pre*ious day to eep war!% !ay not be so!ething -

    wish on !yself% !y "hildren or anybody for that

    !atter but the sills and instin"t of sur*i*al is

    so!ething - wanted to hang onto fore*er

    &uring this ti!e and in the years that followed -

    had to get used to the +orthern a""ent% the loneliness%

    the friendship% and e*erything that a foreign born

    trainee:tea"her had to deal with - also had to learn theropes of tea"hing and build !y tea"hing "areer in one

    of the !ost depri*ed se"ondary s"hools in outh

    orshire - re!e!ber !y friends would wait for a

    funny story of what would ha*e gone on in !y

    "lassroo! - also brought ho!e great !e!ories of the

    !ost fantasti" students doing what they do best<

    learning esitation and early "areer years; doubt ga*e

    way to "onfiden"e and - soon began to feel

    "o!fortable as a tea"her

    -t is offi"ial that it wasn;t lo*e at first sight

     between !e and tea"hing -t was a !atter of 

    "on*enien"e% "ir"u!stan"es and not a passion that -

    ha*e "arried with !e sin"e being a "hild -t wasn;t in!y blood% so!eone !ight say -t was !arriage for the

    wrong reasons a*e we not heard that before in our 

     politi"al tal about Dbogus !arriages;% D.ritish:ness;%