lectura week 2-the science of happiness
DESCRIPTION
La ciencia de la felicidadTRANSCRIPT
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 1/12
HelpCenterWeek2:TheScienceofHappiness
TheScienceofHappinessAngelaWinter.OriginallypublishedinTheSun,May2009.angelawinter.com/thescienceofhappiness/
ThisintervieworiginallyappearedintheMay2009issueofTheSun,andacondensedversionwasfeaturedinUtneReaders25thanniversaryissueinfall2009.AnexcerptisreprintedinthetextbookAmericaNow:ShortReadingsfromRecentPeriodicals(Bedford/St.Martins),editedbyRobertAtwan.
TheScienceOfHappinessBarbaraFredricksonOnCultivatingPositiveEmotions
Mostscientistswhostudyemotionsfocusonnegativestates:depression,anxiety,fear.PsychologistBarbaraFredricksonhasspentmorethantwentyyearsinvestigatingtherelativelyunchartedterrainofpositiveemotions,whichshesayscanmakeushealthierandhappierifwetaketimetocultivatethem.
Fredricksonsfindingsarethesubjectofhernewbook,Positivity(Crown).Thoughitstitlemightmakeitsoundlikeaselfhelpbestseller,thebookdoesntbelonginthepoppsychologysection,andFredricksonisnoPollyannatellingustoputonasmilebeforeleavingthehouseeachmorning.Negativeemotions,shesays,arenecessaryforustoflourish,andpositiveemotionsarebynaturesubtleandfleetingthesecretisnottodenytheirtransiencebuttofindwaystoincreasetheirquantity.Ratherthantryingtoeliminatenegativity,sherecommendswebalancenegativefeelingswithpositiveones.Belowacertainratioofpositivetonegative,Fredricksonsays,peoplegetpulledintodownwardspirals,theirbehaviorbecomesrigidandpredictable,andtheybegintofeelburdenedandlifeless.
Fredrickson,whosfortyfour,wasbornandraisedintheMidwestandcomesfrom,inherwords,alonglineofstoicswhodidntdiscussorrevealtheiremotions.Whenshewasgrowingup,emotionalexpressionpositiveandnegativewasdiscouraged.Shesays,TheimplicitmessagefromfamilymemberswasYoushouldhaveknownhowIwasfeelingbythelookonmyface.Yetthelooksontheirfaceshardlyeverchanged!Thesuppressionofemotionsathomemotivatedherescapeintothelifeofthemind,andshefocusedonheracademicstudies.
AfterreceivingherbachelorsdegreefromCarletonCollegeinMinnesota,FredricksonmovedtotheSanFranciscoBayArea,whereshereceivedherPhDfromStanfordUniversityanddidherpostdoctoralworkattheUniversityofCaliforniaatBerkeley.Shebeganstudyingpositiveemotionsbecausetherewassolittleresearchonthem,shesays.AgoodfriendingraduateschooloncejokedthatFredricksonstudiedemotionsbecauseshedidnthaveany.Fredricksonacknowledgesthejokeskerneloftruth:shesspentmuchofheradulthoodbecomingfluentintheemotionsthatwereleftunspokeninherchildhood.Sheexemplifiestheadagethatweteachbestwhatwemostneedtolearn.
FredricksonhasbeenonthefacultyofDukeUniversityandtheUniversityofMichiganandiscurrentlytheKenanDistinguishedProfessorofPsychologyattheUniversityofNorthCarolinaatChapelHill.ShealsoservesasdirectorandprincipalinvestigatoroftheuniversitysPositiveEmotionsandPsychophysiologyLab.FredricksonsresearchhasbeenfeaturedintheNewYorkTimesMagazineandonCNNandPBS.Hertheoryofhowpositiveemotionshavefunctionedinhumanevolutionwas
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 2/12
recognizedwiththe2000AmericanPsychologicalAssociationsTempletonPrizeinPositivePsychology.Sincethen,shehastraveledextensivelyasaninternationalexpertonpositiveemotions,andin2008shereceivedtheSocietyforExperimentalSocialPsychologysCareerTrajectoryAward.
FredricksonandIarrangedtomeetforthisinterviewatarestaurantwebothenjoyinCarrboro,NorthCarolina.Theownersgraciouslyallowedustocomeinbeforetheyopenedforthedaysowecouldhaveaquietspottotalk.FredricksonarriveddressedsmartlyinblackwithaParisianscarfaroundherneck,andwesettledintoaboothtodiscussthebenefitsofincreasingpositiveemotionsinourlives.Thenameoftherestaurant,appropriatelyenough,isGlassHalFull.
Winter:Howdoyoudefinepositiveemotions?
Fredrickson:Ifwelookatawholerangeofpositiveemotionsfromamusement,toawe,tointerest,togratitude,toinspirationwhattheyallhaveincommonisthattheyarereactionstoyourcurrentcircumstances.Theyarentapermanentstatetheyrefeelingsthatcomeandgo.Thatstrueofallemotions,butpositiveemotionstendtobemorefleeting.
TheyarealsowhatIwouldcallwantablestates.Theynotonlyfeelgood,butwewanttofeelthem.Somepeoplemightsayitfeelsgoodtobeangry,andangercansometimesbeusefulorproductive,butpeopledontwanttofeelangry.Positiveemotionshaveakindofalluringglitterdustonthem.Youwanttorearrangeyourdaytogetmoreofthosesparklingmoments.
Evenso,peopledodifferinhowmuchtheyactivelyseekoutpositiveemotions.Oneofmyaimsinwritingmybookwastoincreasereadersappreciationandrespectforpositiveemotionssotheycouldperhapsreapthebenefitsofpositiveemotionsmorefully.
Winter:Youmakeadistinctionbetweenpleasuresandpositiveemotions.Howaretheydifferent?
Fredrickson:WhenIbeganmywork,manyscientistslumpedpleasureandpositiveemotionstogetherandconcludedthatbothsignalustogoforwardasopposedtopullback.Iagreethatpositiveemotionshavethatgoforwardquality,butIvearguedforseparatingthetwopsychologicalstates.Positiveemotionsaretriggeredbyourinterpretationsofourcurrentcircumstances,whereaspleasureiswhatwegetwhenwegivethebodywhatitneedsrightnow.Ifyourethirsty,watertastesreallygoodifyourecold,itfeelsgoodtowrapyourcoataroundyou.Pleasurestelluswhatthebodyneeds.Positiveemotionstellusnotjustwhatthebodyneedsbutwhatweneedmentallyandemotionallyandwhatourfutureselvesmightneed.Theyhelpusbroadenourmindsandouroutlookandbuildourresourcesdowntheroad.Icallitthebroadenandbuildeffect.
Winter:Whatabouthappiness?Isitapositiveemotion?
Fredrickson:ScientistsmostoftenmeasurehappinessbyaskinghowstronglyapersonagreeswithstatementslikeImsatisfiedwithmylifeorIfIcouldlivemylifeover,Iwouldntchangeathing.Thesekindsofquestionsaremuchbroaderinscopethanquestionsthatareusedtomeasurepositiveemotions,suchasAreyoufeelingamused,silly,orlighthearted?Positiveemotionsaremuchmorenarrowbandfeelings,notoveralljudgmentsaboutyourlife.Sometimesweusehappytorefertoaspecificemotion,but,scientificallyspeaking,itsnotOKtouseasingleword,likehappy,inmultipleways.Iviewhappinessastheoveralloutcomeofmanypositivemoments.
Mygoalasascientisthasalwaysbeentopullaparttheprocessofhowonestateleadstoanother
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 3/12
andultimatelyguidesustoausefuloutcome.Overthelastdecaderesearchershavefoundsomestunningcorrelationsbetweenexpressingmorepositiveemotionsandlivinglonger.Myroleistoask,Howdoesthathappen?Howdoyougofromexperiencingthesepleasantmomentarystatestolivinglongerperhapseventenyearslonger?
Otherresearchershavefoundthatthenumberofpositiveemotionsapersonfeelspredictshisorhersatisfactionwithlife.Whatwevedoneisuncoverhowpositiveemotionsactuallycauseustobehappierbyhelpingusbuildourresourcesformanagingdaytodaylife.Whenwehavebetterresources,weemergefromadversesituationsfeelingmoresatisfiedwiththeoutcome.
MycolleaguesandIhaveapaperforthcominginthejournalEmotioncalledHappinessUnpacked.Weretryingtotakethiswordhappiness,whichisalittlebitofagarbagecantermpeopleputtoomanythingsinitandlookunderthehoodatthedynamicsoftheprocess.Andwhatwevefoundisthatweshouldbefocusingonhowwefeelfromdaytoday,notonhowwecanbecomehappywithlifeingeneral.Ifyoufocusondaytodayfeelings,youendupbuildingyourresourcesandbecomingyourbestversionofyourself.Downtheroad,youllbehappierwithlife.Ratherthanstaringdownhappinessasourgoalandaskingourselves,HowdoIgetthere?weshouldbethinkingabouthowtocreatepositiveemotionsinthemoment.
Winter:Arentthereculturaldifferencesinwhichemotionswedefineaspositive?
Fredrickson:Yes,whathavebeenstudiedthemostaredifferencesbetweenEastAsianandWesternpopulations.ThetypicalfindingisthatWesterners(AmericansandCanadians,mostly)feelpositiveemotionswhentheydosomethingthatsetsthemaparttheyfeelprideintheiraccomplishments.EastAsiansmoreoftenfeelpositiveemotionsinsituationsthatconnectthemtoanotherperson.Thosearejustgeneraltrends,however.Withineachculturetheresalotofvariance.
Iwouldargue,too,thathowmuchpeopleappreciatepositiveemotionsdiffersfromculturetoculture.Latincultures,forexample,celebratepositiveemotionsmoreandhavemorepassionsbuiltintotheculture.IntheU.S.Ithinkthatourfocusonproductivity,outcome,andachievementhelpsblindustopositiveemotions.
Butpositiveemotionsseemtofunctionthesamewayinallcultures.Forexample,wevecreatedastudyexamininghowpositiveemotionshelppeoplefeelatonewithanotherperson.Wehavepeoplethinkabouttheirbestfriendsandthenlookataseriesofimagesshowingtwocircles.Firstthecirclesoverlapalittlebit,thenalittlebitmore,andalittlebitmore.Weasktheresearchparticipantstoselectthepairofcirclesthatdepicthowtheyfeelabouttheirbestfriend.
Thenwecausetheparticipantstoexperiencesomepositiveemotionsandhavethemfilloutasimilarsurvey,whichincludesmoreitemssothattheycantrememberwhichcirclestheychosethefirsttime.Whenweaskhowtheyfeelabouttheirbestfriendsnow,peoplepickcirclesthatoverlapmore,indicatingmoreofthisfeelingofoneness.WevebeenabletoreplicatethoseresultsinIndiaandJapan,aswell.
Winter:Isthatatypicalexampleofthetypeofresearchthatyoudo?
Fredrickson:Wedolotsofdifferentstudies.Iliketofollowtheideasratherthansticktooneparticularmethod.Intheearlydaysmoreofourresearchwasphysiological:wewerelookingatbloodpressure,heartrate,andsoon.Inanotherseriesofstudieswetrainedpeopleinlovingkindnessmeditation,whichfocusesoncreatingmorefeelingsofwarmthandkindnesstowardothers.Youre
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 4/12
firstaskedtothinkofsomeoneinyourlifeforwhomyouhavewarmandtenderfeelings,whetheritsachildoraspouseorevenapet,andthentotrytobringforththosefeelingsasmuchasyoucanandholdtheminyourheart.Asyouredoingthat,youletthechildorpetorpersonyouwerethinkingaboutkindofslipaway,butyouholdontothefeeling.Thenyoutakethatwarm,tenderfeelingandapplyittoyourselfortootherswhomyoumightnotnormallyfeelthatwayabout.Andyoucontinuetoapplythatfeelingtoeverlargercirclesofpeople.
WehadastudycomeoutintheJournalofPersonalityandSocialPsychologyinNovember2008calledOpenHeartsBuildLives.Welookedattheeffectsoflovingkindnessmeditationonpeoplesresources.Wegavetheresearchparticipantsasurveytotakestockoftheirpersonalitytraits,health,andsocialtiesatthestartofthestudy,thenrandomlyassignedthemeithertolearnlovingkindnessmeditationornot.Allofthemtrackedtheiremotionsdailyfortwomonths,andthen,afewweeksafterthemeditationworkshopshadended,wemeasuredthosesametraitsagain.Wefoundthattheparticipantswholearnedtomeditateweredoingmuchbetterthanwhentheydstarted.Moreimportant,theonesdoingthebestwerethesameoneswhoreportedincreasesinpositiveemotionsduringtheworkshop.Ifpeoplelearnedthemeditationbutdidntfeelmorepositiveemotionsfromit,theydidntexperienceanybenefitsdowntheroad.Sowewereabletoattributethebenefitsnottolearninglovingkindnessmeditationbuttothedailyincreaseinpositiveemotionsthatmostparticipantsgotfromit.Overtimepositiveemotionsliterallychangewhoweare.
Winter:Whatarethespecificbenefitsofpositiveemotions?
Fredrickson:Whenpeopleincreasetheirdailydietsofpositiveemotions,theyfindmoremeaningandpurposeinlife.Theyalsofindthattheyreceivemoresocialsupportorperhapstheyjustnoticeitmore,becausetheyremoreattunedtothegiveandtakebetweenpeople.Theyreportfewerachesandpains,headaches,andotherphysicalsymptoms.Theyshowmindfulawarenessofthepresentmomentandincreasedpositiverelationswithothers.Theyfeelmoreeffectiveatwhattheydo.Theyrebetterabletosavorthegoodthingsinlifeandcanseemorepossiblesolutionstoproblems.Andtheysleepbetter.
Winter:AgraduatestudentofyoursfromtheUniversityofMichiganspearheadedastudyofracebiasandpositiveemotions.
Fredrickson:Yes,thatfindingishuge.KareemJohnsonwasthestudent.HesnowonthefacultyatTempleUniversity.Hewasinterestedinhowweperceiveotherpeoplesfaces.Itswellknownthatweperceiveobjectsbylookingattheirfeatures.Ifweseeacoffeemug,forexample,wemightnoticethatitsblueandnarrowatthetop.Butweperceivefacesasawhole.Wedontthink,Iveseentheseeyesbefore,or,Iveseenthatnosebefore.Infact,wehavethisholisticperceptionofanythingwithwhichwereexpertlyfamiliar.Expertbirdwatchersperceivebirdsasawhole,forexample,whereasnovicebirdwatchersnoticeindividualfeatures.Inawaywereallexpertsathumanfaces.
Johnsonthoughtthatsincepositiveemotionsmakepeoplethinkbroadlyorholistically,peopleshouldbebetteratrecognizingfaceswhentheyreinapositiveemotionalstate.Soheshowedresearchparticipantsasetoffacesontwooccasionstoseehowmanytheycouldremember.Whenhisresultscamebackinconclusive,wewereallfrustrated.Aneffectwasthere,butitwasntlargeorreliable.Sowebrokethedatadownindifferentways.Weseparatedmenandwomen,and,noticingthathedusedbothAsianfacesandwhitefacesinthestudy,webrokeitdownbyrace.Andthatswhenwefoundsomethingunexpected:positiveemotionshadnoeffectwhatsoeverontheabilityofwhite
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 5/12
participantstorecognizewhitefaces,buttherewasaneffectontheirabilitytorecognizeAsianfaces.Wefoundthatpositiveemotionsincreasedtheabilitytorecognizecrossracefacesonlythatis,theAsianfacesforwhiteparticipants.Inlaterstudieswereplicatedthefindingwithwhitesabilitytorecognizeblackfaces.
Andthepositiveemotionalstatedidntjustmakeitalittlebiteasierforparticipantstorecognizecrossracefaces.Itmadeitnodifferentthanrecognizingfacesoftheparticipantsownrace.Itwasasifracewasgonefrompeoplesmindsatleast,intermsoffacerecognition.Scientistshadearlierdeterminedthatwhenpeoplelookatcrossracefaces,theylookatindividualfeatures:anose,aneyebrow...
Winter:Theyreobjectifying.
Fredrickson:Exactly.Theyusethesameprocesstheyusetorecognizeobjects,whichsuggeststheressomedehumanizationgoingon.Theimplicationsofthatareheartwrenching.Butwhatwerefindingisthat,undertheinfluenceofpositiveemotions,peopleusethesameholisticprocessforcrossracefacesthattheyuseforfacesoftheirownrace.Itsasifpeople,whentheyrefeelinggood,arebetterabletoseethefullhumanityofpeopleofadifferentrace.
Johnsondidanotherstudyinwhichwetookawhitefaceandablackfaceandusedmorphingsoftwaretocreatefacesthatwereablendofthetwo.Wecreatedmorphsthatwere10percentwhite,20percentwhite,andalltheothergradationsalongtheway.Wethenpresentedthefacesoneatatimetoparticipantswhoknewtheywerelookingatmorphedpicturesandasked,Doesthephotohavemoreoftheblackfaceormoreofthewhitefaceinit?Undernormalcircumstances,peopleweregoodatbeingabletosaywhetherthemorphedpicturehadmoreofthewhitefaceormoreoftheblackfaceinit.Butwhentheywereexperiencingpositiveemotions,peoplebecameworseatthattask.Theyfailedatdrawingdistinctionsbetweentheracesandidentifyingwhichfeatureswereother.
WhatIespeciallylikeaboutthefacerecognitionworkisthatitsrelatedtobroadenedthinkingifyouhavemoreinclusiveviews,youreabletorecognizemoreindividualsandalsotobuildingresources,becausethefirststepinbuildingarelationshipisrecognizingaperson.Ifyourenotsurewhetheryoutalkedtothispersonlastweek,youregoingtoholdbackonsayinghellotohimorher.Theresnogoingforwardinarelationshipuntilyoucancorrectlyidentifywhomyouretalkingto.[Laughs.]Ithinkthisfindingisespeciallyimportantinaglobalenvironmentifwewishtrulytoconnectaspeople.
Winter:CouldyoutellmeaboutyourcollaborationwithbusinessconsultantMarcialLosada?
Fredrickson:Hecontactedmein2003,justafewweeksafterIdhadmysecondson,andsaidhehadamathematicalmodelthathethoughtarticulatedmybroadenandbuildtheory.HewaslookingatgroupbehavioramongbusinessteamsinawaythatwascompatiblewithhowIhadbeentalkingaboutindividualsbroadeningtheircapacity,buildingtheirresourcesovertime,andshowingresilience.Itwasaveryunlikelycollaboration,however.ThoughhedgottenhisPhDinpsychologydecadesearlier,hedjustretiredfromalongcareerinindustryandwasdoingbusinessconsulting.Mathematicalmodelingwashishobby.Hedidnthavearesearchlabatthetimejustalaptopathisdiningroomtableandloadsofdatafrompastobservationsofbusinessteams.
Thefirstdaywemet,Losadaranmathematicalmodelsformeonhislaptop,showingwhatwasgoing
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 6/12
oninthesebusinessteamshowonepersonspositiveornegativebehaviorinfluencedanothersandhowdynamicsdevelopedovertime.Losadatoldmehecouldcalculatetheexactpositivityratiothatwouldpredictagroupssuccess.IofferedtotesthisratioagainstdatathatIhadcollectedtoseewhetheritheldupinothercontexts,aswell.Wedecidedthat,ifthedatacooperated,wewouldwriteapapertogether.
Winter:WhatsortofstudieshadLosadaconducted?
Fredrickson:Hehadbeenstudyingsixtybusinessteamsastheydidannualstrategicplanning.Thesewerentfakemeetingsarrangedforresearchtheywererealplanningsessions.Losadahadateamofassistantsbehindonewaymirrorslisteninandrecordeverystatementthatwasmadeandidentifyitaspositive,negative,orneutral.Theresearchassistantsalsorecordedwhetherpeoplewerefocusedinwardonthegrouporwerethinkingaboutthelargercontextsurroundingtheorganization,andwhetherpeoplewereadvocatingtheirownpointofvieworwereaskingquestionsandtryingtopickupnewinformation.
Later,drawinguponindependentbusinessmetrics,hewasabletorankthesixtybusinessteamsperformances.Thereallysuccessful,highperformingteamshadaboutasixtooneratioofpositivetonegativestatements,whereasthelowperformingteamshadratiosoflessthanonetoone,meaningthatmorethanhalfofwhatwassaidwasnegative.Peopleonthehighperformingteamshadanevenbalancebetweenaskingquestionsandadvocatingfortheirownpointsofview,andalsoanequalmeasureoffocusingoutwardandfocusingwithinthegroup.Thelowperformingteamshadaskedalmostnoquestionsandalmostneverfocusedoutsidethegroup.Theyexhibitedaselfabsorbedadvocacy:nobodywaslisteningtoeachothertheywerealljustwaitingtotalk.
Losadatookthisbehavioraldataandwrotealgebraicequationsthatreflectedhoweachstreamthequestioning,thepositivity,andtheoutwardinwardfocusrelatedtotheothers.HelearnedthathisequationsmatchedasetofexistingequationscalledtheLorenzSystem,whichisfamousinnonlineardynamicsbecauseitledtothediscoveryofchaostheory,sometimescalledthebutterflyeffecttheideathattheflapofabutterflyswingsinonelocationcansetinmotionaseriesofeventsthatcausesahurricaneontheothersideoftheglobe.
WhenLosadausedtheseequationstoplotthedynamicsofthehighperformingandlowperformingbusinessteams,youcouldseehow,inthehighperformingteams,onepersonsquestionledtoanotherpersonspositivity.Youcouldseethatthetwogroups,highandlowperforming,werenotjustdifferentindegreetheyweredifferentinkind.Underneaththedynamicsforthehighperformingteamswaswhatphysicistscallacomplexchaoticattractor,whichproducesunpredictableornoveloutcomes.Sohighperformingteamsproducednovelcreativeresults.Underneaththestructureoflowperformingteamswasafixedpointattractorthatcausedtheteamstospiraldowntoadeadend.Therewerealsomediumperformingteams,whichshowedsomecreativity,andattimesitlookedasifacomplexchaoticattractorwastryingtoemerge,butthenamomentofintensenegativitywouldoccur,andtheydneverbounceback.Whatsinterestingisthatthenegativityalwaysarosewithintherealmofselfabsorbedadvocacyandnotaskinganyquestions.Thatswherethefixedpointattractorlies.
Winter:WhatwastheratiothatLosadagaveyou?
Fredrickson:UsingtheLorenzequations,wewereabletoalgebraicallypredictthataratioofthreepositiveeventstoonenegativeeventshouldbethetippingpointwherethingsbecomechaoticina
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 7/12
goodsenseandamediumperformingteambecomesahighperformingone.(Losadawouldbristleatmyuseofthreetoone.Hewouldsay2.901to1istheratio,becausewhenyougetintothemathematics,precisioniscritical.)
Itestedthatratioagainstmyowndatainonestudyafteranother.EachtimeIfoundsupportfortheideathatthethreetooneratioisatippingpoint.Iporedthroughthescientificliteratureandfoundotherscientistswhowereexamininghowpositiveandnegativeemotionsbalancedeachotherout,andIfoundstillmoreevidenceconsistentwithLosadasmath.Assoonaswesawhowconsistenttheevidencewas,westartedwritingthatpaper,whichappearedinAmericanPsychologistin2005.
Ifeelfortunatetohaveplayedaroleinthatdiscovery.Itwasntjustaddingtothescientificliteratureonemotionsitwasaboutlifeandhowtoliveit.Istartedtofeelthatthisisimportantinformationforpeopletoknowaboutthemselves.Ifwereawareofthetippingpointratio,itcouldmakeabigdifferenceinhowwechoosetoliveourlives.Thatswhatcompelledmetowritethebook.
Ivelookedatmyownlifedifferentlysincethen,too.Wediscoveredtheratiojustaftermysecondsonwasborn,andthediscoverydefinitelychangedthewayIthoughtaboutparenting.Whenyourkidsareyoung,yourreactionshelpshapehowtheyperceivetheirexperienceswhethertheyregoingtofeelgoodorbadaboutwhatjusthappened.
Yourethesculptoroftheiremotionallives.Wetendtotelltoddlers,No,no,no,allthetime.Myworkmademethinkthereneedstobemoreplayfulnessinmyparenting,moreemphasisonsteppingbackandfollowingthechildsinterest.OnsomelevelIthinkparentsknowthis,butthethreetooneratioprovidesayardstickagainstwhichIcanassesshowadaywent.ItmotivatesmetomakesurethenegativityIsendmysonswayisnecessaryandinproperproportionwiththepositivityIofferthem.Iwanttomakesurethatmyboyshavetheabilitytoexpresswhatevertheyrefeelingandtofollowtheirinterests.IthinkthatwasmissingwhenIwasgrowingup,anditledmetogoupstairsintomyheadandcarvealifeoutofstayingupthere.
Winter:Isthreetoonetheidealratio?
Fredrickson:No,threetooneisthetippingpoint.Thehealthiestthingwouldbetoaimabovethatfourtoone,fivetoone,orevensixtoone.Actually,theresresearchthatsuggestsmarriedcoupleswhoshareaboutafivetooneratioofpositivetonegativeemotionswithoneanotherareinsolidmarriages.Inmarriagesthatarenotdoingwellorareonaslipperyslopetowarddivorce,theratioismorelikeonetooneorless.Andtheresnotalotofinbetween.Couplesseemeithertofindasteadystateataboutfivetoone,orelseslidedownintonegativity.
Ingeneraltheepidemiologicaldatashowthatonly20percentofAmericansareflourishing.Therestareeitherlanguishingorjustgettingby.Maybetheyrememberatimeintheirliveswhenthingswerecomingtogethereasilytherewasntalotofselfconcern,selfscrutiny,orselfloathingbecausetheywerefocusedoutwardandcontributingtotheworld.Butnowtheyrejustdoingtheminimumnecessarytogetby.Thisjustgettingbymodeisnotdepressionormentalillness.Itsmerelypeoplelivinglivesofquietdespair.Upwardsof60percentoftheadultpopulationfeelliketheyregoingthroughthemotions.Itmakesmewanttosharethenewsaboutthisworkandgetpeoplebacktothosetimeswhentheywereflourishing.
Winter:Whenyousayflourishing,whatdoyoumean?
Fredrickson:Flourishingencompassesbothfeelingsatisfiedwithyourlifeandalsofunctioningwellin
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 8/12
it.Thewaypsychologistsmeasurethatsecondpartistoassesswhetherpeoplefeelasiftheyarelearning,growing,andmakingcontributionstosociety.
Winter:Howhasyourstudyofpositiveemotionsbeenreceivedintheacademiccommunity?Whatcriticismsandsupporthaveyoureceived?
Fredrickson:Positivepsychologywasfoundedaboutadecadeago,butIvebeendoingworkonpositiveemotionsforalmosttwodecades,soformanyyearsIworkedinrelativeisolationanddidntdrawcriticalattention.SinceMartySeligman,formerpresidentoftheAmericanPsychologicalAssociation,foundedpositivepsychology,thefieldhasgrownlikewildfire,withlotsofinterestbothwithinandoutsideacademia,butitsalsogarneredafairamountofcriticism.Someofthecriticism,Ithink,isbasedonamisunderstandingofpositivepsychology:thatweresayingyoushouldfeelpositiveallthetime,andtheressomethingwrongwithyouifyoudontorthatweresayingthenegativesideoflifeisntworthstudying.
Traditionalpsychologystartedoutmimickingmedicine.Becausemedicinewasallaboutdiagnosing,treating,andcuringdiseases,psychologyfocusedondiagnosing,treating,andcuringmentalillnesses.Andpsychologydevelopeditsscientificrigorthroughitseffortstounderstandpathology.WhatSeligmandidwastakethatscientificrigoranddirectittowardunderstandinghumanpotential.Hechallengedthefieldtolookatwhatmakeslifeworthlivingwhatahealthypersonlookslike,ratherthanasufferingone.
Butthisdoesntmeanweshouldntgoonunderstandingandtreatingmentalillness.Imcollaboratingonaprojectinwhichwearetryingtoteachpeoplewithschizophrenialovingkindnessmeditationtohelpwiththesymptomsoftheirdiseasethatyoudonthearsomuchabout:thezappedmotivationandflattenedemotionallife.
Ialsothinksomecritiquesofpositivepsychologyarisefromthebeliefthatifyoureahardnosedintellectual,youcantthinkbeinghappyisgood.TheresafamouspaperinpsychologycalledHappybutMindless?whichsuggeststhatpeoplewhoarehappyaresomehowbubbleheadedsofties,notcriticaloftheworldandthereforenotintellectuals.Ithinkthatsadistortedstereotypethathighlycriticalpeoplecultivatetojustifytheirownnegativity.[Laughs.]Beingpositiveornegativeisntaboutbeingsmartordumbitsaboutthinkingbroadlyornarrowly.Whetherthinkingbroadlyisusefulornotdependsonthesituationyourein.Itsjustadifferentstyleofthinking.Insomecircumstancesitcanhelpyoubemorecreative.
Somepeoplenevergetpastasuperficialimpressionofpositivepsychology,butthosewhodooftensaytheresmuchmoredepthtoitthantheythought.Ihavealsohadpeoplesaytome,Idontlikepositivepsychology,butIlikeyourwork.[Laughs.]Mygoalistoencouragepeopletoseethattheresfarmoretopositiveemotionsthanjustfeelinggood.
Winter:AsIwassearchingonlineforcritiquesofthepositivepsychologyfield,IwassurprisedtofindEnglishteachersweighingininparticular,EricG.Wilson,anEnglishprofessoratWakeForestUniversity,whoswrittenabookcalledAgainstHappiness.Heandothersarguethatsorrow,melancholy,andothersocallednegativeemotionsstimulatepeopletoreflectdeeply,toplumbthedepthsofthepsyche,andtogenerateworksofart.Doyouthinknegativityissomethingtobeavoidedorminimized?
Fredrickson:Notatall.Actuallywevefoundthatnegativityisrequiredforflourishing.Thebeautyof
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 9/12
havingamathematicalmodel,asLosadaandIdid,isthatyoucantesthypotheticalworlds,suchasaworldwithalmostnonegativity.Whatwouldthatleadto?Weranthemathematicalmodelwithahundredtooneratioofpositivetonegativeemotions,andthecomplex,beautifulbutterflydynamicsjustdissolved.
Nobodyinpositivepsychologyisadvocatingfulltime,100percenthappiness.Thepeoplewhodobestinlifedonthavezeronegativeemotions.Inthewakeoftraumasanddifficulties,thepeoplewhoaremostresilienthaveacomplexemotionalreactioninwhichtheyreabletoholdthenegativeandthepositivesidebyside.Sayyoureinmourningforaspouse,butyourestillabletolaughorfeelblessedwhenyouappreciatethedeceasedsgoodqualities,ortoappreciatethatyourneighborsaretakingsuchgoodcareofyou.Itdoesntmeanthatyourenotdeeplypainedbythedeath.Andthepositiveemotionsyoufeelarequiet,morereverent.Denyingthenegativeandpaintingonthepositiveisunhealthy,andanybodywhomakesittheirgoalnevertoexpressanegativeemotionquicklydriveseveryoneawayfromthem,becauseweknowtheirpositivityisntreal.Andthereasonweknowitsnotrealisthatemotionsshouldreflectourcircumstances,andnobodygoesthroughlifewith100percentgoodcircumstances.Theresnoescapingloss,grief,trauma,andinsult.
Winter:TheSunhassometimesbeencriticizedforbeingtoosad.Infact,manyoftheessaysandstorieswepublishdescribedifficultexperiencesoremotions.Ivewonderedwhethernegativestoriescarrymoreweightoraresimplymorecompelling.
Fredrickson:Negativeeventsdograbpeoplesattentionfarmorethanpositiveones.Inpsychologythisiscalledthenegativitybias.Ourbrainsarewiredtoscanforperennialthreatsliketheonesourancestorsfaced.Yettheresanotherpsychologicalfindingthatgetstalkedaboutlesscalledthepositivityoffset.Itsaysthateventhoughthenegativegrabsmoreattention,mostmomentsinlifeifyouevaluatethemonebyoneareactuallypositive.Sotheopportunitiestoexperiencepositiveemotionsaremuchmoreabundant.Indeed,negativeemotionsgrabourattentionpartlybecausetheyrerelativelyrareindaytodayliving.
Negativeexperiencescandemandourattentionsomuchthatittakesselfdiscipline,willpower,andpracticenottofocussolelyonthem,andtolookatallthatspositiveinoursituation,aswell.Negativitydoesntalwaysfeellikeachoiceitfeelslikeitjustlandsonyou,andyouhavetodealwithit.Positiveemotions,Ithink,aremoreofachoice.
Winter:Isntfocusingonpositiveemotionsaluxuryavailabletoonlythosewhocanaffordit?Whataboutpeoplewhoaremiredinconflict,orpoverty,orawfulsocialconditions?
Fredrickson:Ithinkpositiveemotionsareavailabletoeverybody.Theresbeenresearchdonewithpeopleinslumsacrosstheglobeandwithprostitutes,lookingattheirwellbeingandsatisfactionwithlife.Thedatasuggestthatpositiveemotionshavelesstodowithmaterialresourcesthanwemightthinkitsreallyaboutyourattitudeandapproachtoyourcircumstances.Hardlivesoftenappearworsetotheoutsideobserver.Ifweseesomebodylivingonthestreets,wethinkthatpersonslifemustbeawfuleveryminute.Wethinkthathavingcertainillnessesorphysicallimitationsmustbeterribleallthetime.Butifyoustudypeoplewhohavetheseillnessesorliveonthestreets,youfindthattheystillfeelgoodwhentheyarewiththeirfriendsorfamilies,andtheyfeelexcitedwhentheyencountersomethingnew,andsoforth.Itsintheordinarytransactionsoflifebeingwithothersandfollowingyourintereststhatpositiveemotionsgrow.
Thatsaid,Ihavedonesomestudiesthatshowthatwhenpeoplearefearfulorthreatenedwhen
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 10/12
theydontfeelsafeandsatiated,asIwouldputittheyhavefarfewerpositiveemotions.IanalyzeddatafromarecentGallupWorldPoll.TheyaskedquestionslikeDoyoufeelyouhaveenoughresourcestofeedyourfamilyeveryday?andDoyouhavearooftosleepundereverynight?Otherquestionswereindicatorsofwhetherpeoplefoundtheirenvironmenttobesafe:Ifyoulostyourwallet,wouldsomeonereturnittoyou?orHaveyoubeenassaultedinthepastyear?Inmyanalysisofthesedata,Ideterminedthatpeoplewhodontfeelsafeandsatiatedhavefewerpositiveemotionsbecausetheyretooworriedaboutsurvival,theirnextmeal,orhowtoclothetheirchildren.Sotherearesomebedrockconditionsthatneedtobemet.Oncetheyaremet,though,evenataverylowlevel,everyonehasthesameopportunitiestoexperiencepositiveemotions.Affluenceisntnecessary.
Winter:Whataresomewaystoincreaseonespositivity?
Fredrickson:Onewayistobeawareofthepresentmoment,because,again,mostmomentsarepositive.Wemissmanyopportunitiestoexperiencepositiveemotionsnowbythinkingtoomuchaboutthepastorworryingaboutthefuture,ratherthanbeingopentowhatis.
Anotherwayistopayattentiontohumankindnessnotonlywhatothershavedoneforyou,whichhelpsunlockfeelingsofgratitude,butalsowhatyoucandoforotherpeople,howyoucanmakesomebodysday.Wefoundthatevenjustpayingattentiontowhenyouarekindnotnecessarilyincreasinghowoftenyourekind,butjustpayingattentiontothetimeswhenyouarecanmakeyoumorepositive.
Anothersimpletechniqueisgoingoutsideingoodweather.Oneofmyformerstudents,MattKeller,whosnowonthefacultyattheUniversityofColoradoatBoulder,foundthatpeoplewhospendevenjustthirtyminutesoutsidewhentheweatherisgoodshowanimprovementintheirmood.
Therearemoreinvolvedwaystoincreaseyourpositiveemotions,suchastopracticeeithermindfulnessmeditationorlovingkindnessmeditation.Youcanalsorearrangeyourlifearoundyourstrengths.Askyourself:AmIreallydoingwhatIdobest?Beingemployedinajobthatusesyourskillsisagreatsourceofenduringpositiveemotions.
Winter:Youvewrittenthatemotionsarecontagious,andthatcertainlyseemstobethecasewhensomebodyisalwaysspreadingnegativeones.Howcanwedealwiththenegativityofothers?
Fredrickson:Ihearthatalot:Itsnotmynegativitythatsaproblemitstheirs.[Laughs.]Ithinknodifficultpersonis100percenthorrid.Well,youmaycomeupwithsomehistoricalexceptions,butthereareusuallysmallthingsthatyoucanappreciateaboutanyperson.Sometimesthebestsolutionistohavelesscontactwithsomebody,butIthinkwechangeandgrowmorewhenwecontinuetoconnect.Askyourself:WhatcanIchangeaboutmyapproachtothispersonthatmightleadustoadifferentplace?Icallthissocialaikido,awaytodefuseothersnegativitywithoutharmingthemoryourself.Maybetherearecertaintasksthatyoushouldntdowiththisperson.IfeverytimeyoutrytodotaskAtogetheryoureateachothersthroats,maybeyoucanarrangetodoothertaskswithhimorher.
Winter:Whatareyourthoughtsaboutpharmaceuticalapproachestomentalhealth?
Fredrickson:Idontdoresearchonpsychopharmacology,butmytake,simplyasaprofessionalinthefield,isthattherearecertaincircumstancesinwhichapersonhasnoinitialseedsfromwhichpositiveemotionscangrow.Thisconditioniscalledanhedonia.Drugtreatmentisoftennecessaryto
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 11/12
getsuchpeopleoffrockbottom.
Itsalsotruethat60percentofpeoplewhoaregivenaplacebofordepressiongetbetter.Ithinkthatplacebosworkonpeoplewhodonthaveanhedoniawhostillhavesomepositiveemotions,likehope,fromwhichtheycanbuildapathtorecovery.
Winter:InspiredbyyourworkwithLosada,youvewrittenthatpeoplewhoflourishbecomebeautifullyunpredictable.Whatisthevalueofunpredictability?
Fredrickson:Actinginunexpectedwaysisnecessaryforgrowth.Nobodygrowsbydoingthesamethingeveryday.
Innaturalselectionrandomgeneticvariationleadstonewtraits,evennewspecies.Childrenarenotexactreplicasoftheirparents.Theresalwayssomerandomgeneticcombinationthatcanleadtonewskillsandattributes.SimilarlyIthinkthatbeingbeautifullyunpredictableisessentialforourindividualevolution.
Winter:Isthereonepositiveemotionthatseemstobemorebeneficialthanothers?
Fredrickson:No,allpositiveemotionsappeartogenerateequallygoodoutcomes.Therearecertainpositiveemotionsthatareeasiertoelicit,suchasgratitude,becauseitspossibletocultivateatanygivenmoment.Aweoramusement,ontheotherhand,requiresspecificsituations.
Winter:Howhasyourworkchangedyou?
Fredrickson:IgotintosciencebecauseImatypicalintellectual,ivorytowerpersonnotdrivenbyemotions,veryfocusedonachievementandsuccess.LivinginmyheadgotmethroughdifficulttimeswhenIwasyoungerandhelpedmebecomeagreatstudent.ButIthinkitdisconnectedmefrommyheart.Sothebiggestchangeformehasbeentorealizethatachievement,recognition,andsuccessarenoteverything.Ihaveworkaholictendencies,butmyworktellsme:Enjoythemoment.
Winter:Canyougivemeanexampleofatimewhenyouhadtodrawonwhatyouvelearnedinyourwork?
Fredrickson:ItookafacultyseminarinintegrativemedicineattheUniversityofMichigan.Theapproachwasexperiential.Wewereencouragedtoparticipateaspatients,toseeintegrativemedicinepractitionersourselves.Ithought,What?Youdontwantustojustreadaboutit?[Laughs.]ButIacceptedthechallenge.ThatyearIrealizedthatIwasfortyyearsoldandhadneverlearnedselfcare.Iknewonlyhowtowork,howtoachieve.TillthenIdlivedoffmyyouthfulenergyreserves.Butbyagefortythoseweredwindling.Iwascarryingextraweightfromhavinghadtwokids,andIhadworkaholichabitsandbadbackandjointpain.Ididntknowhowtogetwellexceptbypushingmyself,saying,Ineedtoworkharderatthegym.Ineededtolearnhowtotakecareofmyself.
Irealizedthatselfcareneededtobeguidedbypositivity.Lookingfornewwaystoexercise,Icameacrossadanceclassthatwasaboutbeingjoyful.Ittaughtmetoseebeingactiveaspleasurable.Beforethat,Ihadviewedexerciseonlyaswork,andIdalwaysgetboredandwouldntstickwithit.Now,becauseIcravethesheerjoyofmovement,Ikeepmoving.Ithelpedmelosethirtyfivepoundslastyear.
Asamother,Ihadtolearninalmostanintellectualfashionhowtotakecareofmykids.Iwasanextraordinarilyanxiousnewmom.Iwouldaskmyhusband,WhatdoIdowiththebaby?Andhed
-
26/2/2015 Coursera
https://class.coursera.org/positivepsych001/wiki/view?page=winter_2009 12/12
CreatedThu8Jan20156:52AMPST
LastModifiedTue10Feb20158:14AMPST
say,Ifyouwerethebaby,whatwouldyouwant?Hehadamuchbetterintuitionforparenting.Imluckytohavehadhimtoteachme.
Winter:Doyoutrackyourownpositivityratio?
Fredrickson:No,notformally.ButIdomakeaconsciousattempteachdaytocultivatemyownandotherspositivityandtoappreciatethepossibilitieslifehasgivenme,becauseyouneverknowwhenthenextblastofnegativitywillshowup.
Toaccompanythebook,Icreatedafreewebsitewherepeoplecantracktheirpositivity:PositivityRatio.com.Trackinghelpsyoutobecomemoremindfulofyoursourcesofpositiveandnegativeemotionsthesamewaythatkeepingafooddiaryhelpsyoubecomemoremindfulofyoureatinghabitsorabudgethelpsyoubecomemoremindfulofyourspending.Afteryougetafeelforitandyourhabitsarewhereyouwantthemtobe,youdontneedthetrackingtoolssomuch.Buttheycanbeagoodplacetostart.
Iwantedtowriteabookaboutthepositivityratiobecauseitssopractical.Itmovesthefindingsfromdescriptiontoprescription.Manyscientistsarehesitanttoprescribe,butitsnotaprescriptionforwhattothinkorwhattodo.Itsaprescriptionforhowtotellwhetherwhatyourethinkinganddoingismovingyouintherightdirection.
Winter:Areyouhappiernowthanyouusedtobe?
Fredrickson:Happierisnttherightword.IfeelImmoreawareandmoremindful,andIfeelmorealive,andIyearntokeepfeelingthisway.IhaveabetterappreciationofwhatlifecanbeandahumblenessaboutwhatIneedtodotofostergoodnessintheworld.Imastudentofmywork,notafinishedproduct.