letter to school, russell stendal
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Russell and his son Dylan write a letter to their Christian school in Colombia.TRANSCRIPT
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To Our School
By Dylan and Russell Stendal Sr.
May, 2013
To Whom It May Concern:
Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. This means freedom to do the will of
God. The letter (of the law) kills but the Spirit brings life. If the life and love of the Lord
are flowing forth from our hearts, it will impact our children above and beyond any type
of religious ritual or requirement.
Therefore, we have raised our four children with a minimum of rules. We do not
require that they attend meetings, devotions or even that they adhere to a structured Bible
reading program. We impose no curfew, no dress code, no dos and don’ts if they are in
tune with the Spirit of God and under His discipline.
Instead, we offer them the opportunity to voluntarily be a part of ongoing ministry
24/7. They may participate freely on mission trips, missionary aviation, and in the
production of radio programs, operation and installation of radio stations, production of
feature films, and other events in whatever way the Lord leads. A clean heart or a fervent,
burning desire to have a pure heart is the only condition. And this has nothing to do with
age, gender, intellectual ability or level of education.
Lately, our young people have been invited to cutting-edge ministries in such
interesting (and sometimes dangerous) places as Iran, Cuba, and Vietnam, not to mention
the Colombian war zone where we operate numerous radio stations and have staged
dozens of events in so-called red zones. Supposedly closed to the gospel, no church
buildings or church meetings have been allowed – sometimes for decades. Close to four
hundred pastors have been killed in recent years, and the areas have produced almost four
million displaced persons, many of them evangelical Christians. This is where God is
moving, and a tremendous harvest is being gathered for Him. So far, thirty years into this,
we have a perfect safety record in both the physical as well as the spiritual realms. None
of our young people have been lost. No backsliders!
If they get in trouble with the Lord, He begins to correct and discipline them. We
stand by with wise counsel and befriend them in these times of crisis. So, this way, God’s
way, no matter what happens, our relationship and friendship with our children (and with
everyone God has given us in ministry) is always getting better and closer and safer.
(John 17:12)
Once we were at a school function, and someone unexpectedly set off some fireworks.
Most of the children ran out to see what was going on. Our children hit the dirt under the
vehicles! We had just returned from a harrowing missions trip where our seventy-foot
riverboat had blown up, and we had spent hours in the midst of a firefight between
hundreds of soldiers, police and guerrillas. Even the hospital where we were helping to
take the wounded came under rocket attack and had to be evacuated. But we fixed our
boat and continued the journey into the midst of serious opposition, and thousands of
unreached people received the gospel, including many in all the armed factions. And I
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believe that in this and many other horrible situations, none of our children have been
traumatized because we continue to reach out to our enemies in the love of the Lord (and
perfect love casts out fear) until God turns the tables, and there is a clear victory.
Contrast this with those who are forced to obey strict “Christian” rules and must attend
endless dry, lukewarm meetings, chapels, Bible studies, etc., so that even before they turn
eighteen, many are well on their way to becoming rebels that may never, ever return to
church. (They also tend to become very fearful of their personal safety.) In fact, churches
all across America are dying out because the vast majority of the young people leave and
do not return. Others become modern day Pharisees and attempt to continue the legalistic,
dysfunctional church order. Only a precious few seem to encounter victory in the
glorious liberty of the sons of God.
It is in this context that I would like to describe some of the difficulties and
frustrations that children (as well as parents) have with our local, lukewarm, spiritually-
dysfunctional Christian school. (Revelation 3:14, 15)
The first thing that troubled us was the paperwork required to enroll our son. Church
attendance must be documented for all of us, and we must belong to an approved
missionary organization or church; extremely detailed financial and other information
must be given (sensitive information that could even prove dangerous if filtered into the
wrong hands).
However, we found little or no reference to being clean or led by the Spirit of the Lord
in this huge stack of paperwork that would rival the inquisitions of the IRS. I kept getting
such a “check” in my spirit as I attempted to fill out what seemed to be inappropriate
questions and information that I was unable to proceed and turned the entire chore over to
my wife (who desired to enroll Dylan in the school).
Next, instead of giving us, the parents, and our son the liberty of choosing the Bible
translation that we would prefer, the school insisted on only using the NIV Bible. This
bothered me because we preferred not to use the NIV because of the potential for
misunderstanding – for example, if our son is required to memorize out of the NIV, and
supposing the memory verse is Matthew 5:14, Ye are the light of the world becomes You
are the light of the world in the NIV. So a child could easily think, “I am the light of the
world.” False. This could lead to New Age heresy and other problems. Ye is always plural
in the original text and in Old English, so it is clear that it is the many-membered body of
Christ (of which Jesus is now the head) that is the light of the world.
This is not an isolated example. I could give thousands more.
Our seven-year-old granddaughter, Gabriella, got into a lot of trouble in second grade
for asking questions that the elementary school principal apparently did not consider
politically correct. For instance, she kept asking the teacher things like, “Why is the story
of Moses so different in my Grandpa’s Bible?” She also had a hard time accepting
contrived and sometimes religiously humanistic values. Much of what the teachers were
saying was different from what she had been taught at home and in church.
So, even though she had good grades and excellent behavior, the school decided that
she had a psychiatric problem and began pulling her out of class for special tests and then
insisted that her parents send her to a psychiatrist, who could not understand why they
would stigmatize a perfectly normal child! Needless to say, this perturbed my daughter
and son-in-law. And come to think of it, this same tactic was attempted on most of our
children from time to time in previous years.
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The real kicker came, however, when I started to take a close look at Dylan’s seventh
grade Bible class. Dylan has always loved the Bible, and one of his favorite pastimes is to
get me to read entire chapters to him before he goes to bed. When he was little and we
were home schooling him, Elvira (who taught me when I was little, taught my daughter
Lisa, and now was teaching Bible stories to Dylan) told me that he accepted all the Bible
stories just fine except one. It was the story of the children of Israel in the desert, and
their clothes and sandals lasted for forty years without wearing out (until they got to the
Promised Land).
Little four-year-old Dylan, who was hyperactive and always wearing out his clothes
and shoes, said, “I am not believing that one unless you show it to me in my Daddy’s
Bible!” I had just finished spending about ten years completing two major Bible
translations – the Reina Valera 2000 in Spanish and the Jubilee Bible 2000 in English.
Dylan was promptly read the story of the Exodus out of “my” Bible and was not only fine
with it but has continued to request that I read him the Bible ever since.
Now, at age thirteen, in the seventh grade in a Christian school, Dylan was failing
Bible class. So, we started going over the usual things about homework and spending
enough time, etc. The fact that our ministry has involved a huge amount of travel this
year complicated the matter. Sometimes by default or by circumstances, Dylan was left
home alone. Even our housekeeper had an accident and was out of commission for over a
month. So Dylan had trouble finding someone to sign his homework, and Marina and I
had trouble calling the school because sometimes the school phones were out. At any
rate, we were never able to offer acceptable excuses to the school either for absences or
for lack of signatures.
And apparently no one at the school would believe Dylan or give him the benefit of
the doubt when he tried to tell them about the ministry of our family and the wonderful
opportunities for the kingdom of God in such strange, dangerous and far-away places. He
found himself in what he perceived as a harsh, legalistic environment where few of the
staff seemed to trust him or go out of their way to help him if he somehow upset their
legalistic apple cart. This told him that even in the midst of so many “nice” people, when
push came to shove, he was really alone (yet he never gave up because the Lord was with
him!).
Dylan had started out the semester eager and motivated, but began to lose that
motivation little by little over the course of the semester. Knowing that we kept coming
home exhausted from dicey missions trips, he almost never complained to us. However,
when questioned, Dylan says that when he would speak up in class or witness for the
Lord, he was mostly told to be quiet and sit down. Or he was given demerits. Or if he
tried to say something in Spanish, he was given demerits.
It was not until a few days ago, at the end of the school year, that I saw what I
consider to be another major part of his problem. I got home and was able to spend a few
weeks in the house, and Dylan asked me to help him study for his Bible final exam. This
helped me to understand the kind of spiritual oppression and warfare that Dylan was
facing, in addition to being very sick and in the hospital on IV’s while we were away on
back-to-back, multiple trips.
Dylan’s Bible teacher had given him a Final Exam Review Sheet (annexed) that
appears to have come from an established curriculum which introduced teachings
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inconsistent with Scripture. This sheet had fifty-one points, and Dylan and I review some
of the ones he has serious problems with here:
2. When was Kings written? Answer: “during the exile.”
Note: We would never teach something like that as gospel truth when it cannot be
clearly proven from Scripture. (We preach and teach through the Bible in a non-sectarian
manner for our radio ministry that airs on almost fifty stations throughout the Colombian
war zone and elsewhere.)
The beginning of religious humanism seeks in the end to discredit the spontaneous
authenticity of the Scriptures being inspired by the Holy Spirit. The level of detail is such
in the book of Kings that it would have been highly unlikely that it was written during the
exile instead of by a succession of godly scribes at the palace in real time who had to
stand for the Lord similar to Dylan at school. (Like the scribe Baruch in Jeremiah chapter
36 who clearly wrote down parts of the Bible during the latter part of the Kings time
frame and in the midst of some of the most troublesome events.)
3. When were the Chronicles written? Answer: “After the exile.”
Where does this come from? This answer did not come from the Bible. So, should this
topic not be the subject of open discussion and honest debate? Instead, if the student does
not give the teacher’s answer on the test, he will get the question wrong! (This type of
thing when done repeatedly distressed Dylan.)
5. What is the primary concern of the author of Kings? Answer: “Theological
interest.”
So now we have a human author who writes the book of Kings due to Theological
Interest? How bad can this get? This encourages human authors to write their own
material with their own goals, and secular humanism takes off! And if the students
answer from their study of the Scriptures in the light of the Holy Spirit and stand true to
their heart-felt convictions, they will get the question wrong!
13. Who founded the prophetic office? Answer: “Elijah and Elisha.”
Dylan and I beg to differ! God founded the prophetic office, and the earliest mention
is when God calls Abraham a prophet in Genesis 20:7. This theme is wrapped up in
Revelation 22:9 with a key line in Revelation 19:10, for the testimony of Jesus is the
spirit of prophecy. So now, according to the school and the teacher, we have men
founding the prophetic office about 1400 years after God started using the Word! This
disregards what God said and did through Moses!
36. What is the emphasis in Chronicles? Answer: “priest and temple.”
For Dylan and me, the interesting emphasis in Chronicles is where God, the author,
chose not to remember some things, giving credence to the view that the Chronicles were
written down by the priests of the godly line of Zadoc after God cut off the ungodly line
of Eli (1 Samuel 3:11-14 and Ezra 7:2-5). It is written from the perspective of how
history goes down in God’s eyes for all eternity for He says that when we are forgiven,
He remembers our sins no more. David’s sin is not in Chronicles, but all the gory details
are in Kings. Solomon’s sin is also not in Chronicles, validating the fact that Solomon
was also forgiven. Saul’s sin, however, is recorded in Chronicles along with the
explanation of why he was not forgiven.
37. Chronicles seeks to answer what 2 questions? Answer: “What is our connection
with the past? and how do we act now?”
Again, this is the same problem as with #2, 3 and 5.
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A human author with human reasons is given dangerous and unmerited priority. God
is the real author, and His thoughts are beyond our thoughts. How dare we put words in
His mouth and suggest hypothetical questions He would answer!
For with thee is the fountain of life: in thy light shall we see light. (Psalm 36:9)
38. What is the difference between the Major Prophets and the Minor Prophets? Dylan said the teacher said something about “the length of the scroll.”
There is no difference; both are equally valid Scripture. Scripture makes no distinction
between Major or Minor prophets. This is pure conjecture by theologians. The thought
that some Scripture might be just from a “minor” prophet is troubling.
39. What is the primary focus of the prophets? Answer: “relationship with
YAHWEH.”
No, the primary focus and essence of being a prophet is to say what God wants said,
no matter what the consequences, if and when God tells us to do so.
40. What was NOT the primary focus of the prophets? Answer: “Predict the
future.”
This was certainly a primary focus; so much so that it says in the Law of Moses that if
the prophet’s prediction did not come true, they were to be killed because they were false.
See Deuteronomy Chapters 13 and 18.
41. Did the prophets typically write their prophecies down? Answer: “No.”
This answer most certainly did not come from the Scriptures. Why are there so many
written Bible stories where there is only one true prophet surrounded by hundreds of false
prophets? Why did Jesus refer to the Old Testament as the law and the (written)
prophets? Why would Jesus preface his remarks on so many occasions with the words,
For it is written . . . ? Why were there no prophets from Malachi to the father of John the
Baptist? This answer from the school and the teacher would imply that there were all
sorts of prophets out there, and only a smattering was written down? This further
degrades the importance of the prophetic Scriptures all of which are profitable for
doctrine for reproof and for instruction in righteousness as the apostle Paul writes to
Timothy. This line of thought, if carried out, will damage the fear of the Lord, which is
the beginning of wisdom.
48. Why was the author of Chronicles interested in the building of the first
temple? Answer: “The temple is the instrument of God’s forgiveness.”
Jesus is and always has been the instrument of God’s forgiveness. He said that He was
the Temple of His Father. Solomon’s temple was only a type and shadow looking
forward to this truth. Now, we can be living stones, part of the body of Christ. In Christ,
we are part of the real temple, not made by hands, and are given the ministry of
reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18, 19). The Bible is clear; Jesus is and always has been
the only way to salvation. There has never been any other instrument of God’s
forgiveness. Jesus is the Lamb of God that takes away our sins, and none of the other
lambs sacrificed were the real thing. As David was contemplating the beauty of the Lord,
he was given the plans for Solomon’s temple.
Again, the problem of setting up a straw man as the supposed human author of this
book and making this primary in the thinking of the student leads to this horrible error
which is an indoctrination (forcing this on innocent children by not allowing them to
think or express their own convictions).
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51. What pattern do we see in the Roller Coaster? Answer: “Sin, Grace; Sin, Grace;
Sin, Grace.”
How does this apply to our lives? Answer: “When we sin, God is always there to lift
us up?”
What? Just where is this Roller Coaster found in the Scripture? When we sin, does
God always lift us up? Tell that to King Saul! Tell that to Judas! Tell that to Ananias and
Sapphira! Tell that to the false apostles described by Paul, Peter, James, John and Jude!
So, the bottom line in this Bible class is: No Victory!
Is this wise to teach to seventh graders who are just now entering puberty?
So I asked Dylan, ”Is this Final Exam Review Sheet typical of your daily Bible
classes?”
And he said, “Yes, and sometimes the class is even worse!”
I said, “What happens if you answer the questions according to the leading of the Holy
Spirit from your heart?”
He replied, “I will probably get an F. The teacher repeated over and over that we have
to give her the answers she provided us with, and we cannot think or respond differently.
The Bible is being treated like any other history book and essentially being put on the
same footing. That‘s why I lost interest in this class.”
This cheap grace, roller coaster message is given by the same teacher who punished
the entire class when she lost her marker! She thought one of the students stole it. Dylan
came home with a sheet telling about the collective punishment – including him, even
though across the top of the page was a note saying he had been sick that day!
After I complained about this, the teacher was apologetic, and I had the opportunity to
invite her out to dinner with Alethia and my wife, Marina. She turned out to be a
beautiful twenty-six-year-old with what appeared to be an extremely nice disposition
(except, Dylan says, that she occasionally flies off the handle and loses the respect of the
children).
Now, in hind sight, I think the teacher was in way over her head, regurgitating her
Bible school indoctrination while attempting to fulfill the school curriculum. The school
should have never drafted her to teach seventh grade Bible, let alone give or allow her
such an atrocious curriculum.
These children are not dumb. I find it absolutely chilling that they are being taught that
the Christian life is a roller coaster of sin, grace, sin, grace. And then, if Dylan is sick or
late for class, there is absolutely no grace for him. Demerits! Unexcused absence! And no
amount of input from us can change any of this? Once the school puts you down for a
demerit or for an unexcused absence, it seems to be set in stone because no one will
change it.
What if we taught this roller-coaster message that denies victory and belittles the
Word of God to the terrorists we are sharing the gospel with? For the teacher it may be:
Sin, Grace; lose her temper with the class, Grace; give a demerit to someone who angered
her, Grace . . . Oh, my, what a wonderful roller coaster at this nice Christian amusement
park! But can we tell the guerrillas: repeat this prayer after me, and now if you kill
another hostage, God’s grace will always lift you up; just say another prayer; or find a
church or temple, some place that is the “instrument” of God’s forgiveness. If you slip up
again and put another bomb in the market place, just call upon God’s grace, and God will
always be there to lift you up! Roller Coaster time! Whoopee! Here we go!
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What kind of message is this sending to our children? What will be their concept of
God after all this? Where is the authentic respect and fear of the Lord?
Yes, our children are resilient and can roll with the punches, but isn’t this a bit much?
Even the President of the United States can be impeached over high crimes and
misdemeanors. (Even the secular news media has finally got this one straight! Stay
tuned.)
Three days ago, I was told what happened to a guerrilla commander named Yesid,
whom I had witnessed to on several occasions. He accepted our ministry and us but also
made friends with a pastor who taught along the lines of the Bible class at Dylan’s
school. Soon, Yesid was getting the pastor involved in helping to collect his extortion
money (not too different from the way the pastor went about collecting the church tithe
money from the local drug growers). If people did not pay the guerrillas, they would be
disciplined (kind of like demerits), but the pastor said that whoever did not pay him
would be cursed by God (now who is the real terrorist?).
A friend of ours gave a prophetic warning to both of them. The pastor got into trouble
with a paramilitary death squad and apparently came to a bad end. When our friend told
them that she felt seriously from the Lord that he and all his men had better repent and
desist from their evil deeds before they all got killed, and that this would to happen
shortly, Yesid said, “Nothing is going to happen to us because we are with the Lord, and
He will protect us!”
Famous last words. That night bombs fell on the guerrilla camp, killing all the men
and women except Yesid, who was found the next morning by our friend. He was shell-
shocked and running around in circles in a cow pasture in his underwear. After being
clothed and fed and hid from his enemies by the (Good Samaritan) prophet, Yesid
demonstrated a completely different attitude. Now we think that he may actually have
become converted! Time will tell. For ye shall know them by their fruit . . .
The fact that we are human and can and will make human mistakes and omissions
does not mean that we cannot have the victory over willful misdeeds. (Read Romans
chapter 8 and Revelation chapter 22.) The Great Awakening that dynamically affected
the history of the English-speaking world is predicated on repentance and faith leading to
victory.
John Wesley read about victory in the Bible – victory over sin, over the flesh, over the
world, over the Devil. Even though he knew this was not a reality in his life, Wesley
decided, by faith, to preach about victory until God’s grace became real. At first, he was
not allowed to do this in church. He was exiled to the churchyard and adjacent cemetery
where, perched upon his father’s tombstone, he gave message after message, week after
week.
God moved. Conviction of the Holy Spirit fell amidst much persecution. Reality
prevailed. Hundreds of thousands of people were awakened into victory in England and
in America. The English-speaking world was irrevocably changed. The first Christian
schools were started on Sunday so that illiterate coal miners, farmers, and factory
workers could learn to read the Bible for themselves. This went down in secular history
as the Great Awakening, second only to the Reformation in Protestant Evangelical
history.
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What happens to those who graduate from modern Christian schools? There are many
sordid, twisted tales out there. What can we do now for those who are coming up through
the grades?
Here are some recommendations:
1. End the Inquisition. Allow parents and students to freely choose their Bible
translation. This will have a long-term effect over the entire life of the student, starting
with memory verses. Garbled, mistranslated, or over-simplified verses will cause trouble
throughout the life of the individual and contribute to them having a trite concept of God
and of what He says that will undermine the fear of the Lord. If there is a shortage of
qualified, mature Bible teachers with clean hearts and victorious Christian lives, don’t
continue the program! Unless Jesus baptizes us into His Spirit and Fire, unless He deals
with our hearts, unless He brings us into His victory, we are just spinning our wheels or
worse. (Matthew 3:11)
Modern translations such as the NIV remove a high percentage of key words, such as
judgment, holiness, blood, etc., while they inflate the word love multiplied by a factor of
four. This could be an attempt to recreate God in man’s image! They also make serious
and repeated mistakes with simple prepositions. Instead of waiting on the Lord, the
original in many places says we are to wait for the Lord. Because without Him, we can
do nothing. We must be willing to go with Him and do what He wants, instead of the
other way around.
Regarding almost sixty New Testament verses that our modern translations render
faith in Jesus or faith in Christ: the original texts render half of them faith of Jesus or
faith of Christ. Yes, we must place our faith and trust in Jesus, but unless the faith of
Jesus, the faith of Christ, comes forth in us as He reigns and rules from the throne of our
hearts, there will be no steady victory.
We are hopeless sinners and can only be saved by His grace. But He is not a sinner,
and He wants to live in us and take over complete control of our lives. It is only as we
yield to Him, as His love and life comes forth in us, as He brings us into clean
relationship with His Father, as the Heavenly Father disciplines and corrects us, that He
can use us and bless us and keep us safe and secure!
2. Allow parents and children to opt out of chapel and Bible indoctrination classes if it
continually goes against our witness from the Holy Spirit and core beliefs. Also, if Bible
classes and chapel are voluntary, it will give incentive to the teachers to hold the interest
of the students and to not deviate from or do things that grieve the Holy Spirit or cast
doubt on the inspired Scriptures. There will be a difference between those who are
hungry for God, and those who are not.
And more important, it will cultivate the environment of liberty to ensure that the
presence of the Holy Spirit is not quenched. Then the students will be more stimulated to
love God, love the Scriptures and fear the Lord. If this does not happen, the children will
most likely turn away from church and maybe even from the Lord as soon as they are
able to make their own choices. Observe the absence of those between the ages of
fourteen and forty at most church services (particularly males).
3. If you really believe in grace, then demonstrate it in your administrative procedures.
The bottom line is this: Unless God intervenes in our lives directly, we will not really see
His grace. If we do not receive His discipline, we will not change from the heart. If you
continue to be obsessed with the letter-of-the-law interventions in the lives of your
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students, it may obstruct some of the students from a direct relationship with the Lord. In
our churches and Christian schools, real righteousness is many times confused with self-
righteousness. In most cases, the children can tell the difference even when most of the
staff cannot. Real righteousness only flows from a transformed heart where Jesus is on
the throne.
Academic qualification or theological training can easily produce modern scribes and
Pharisees (Matthew chapter 23). We do not want our children to be alienated or corrupted
by these sophisticated instructors. They are whitewashed on the outside, so remember
that they are also rotten to the core. Their defeated personal lives will always be a
disaster, and this means that they should be kept at an arm’s length from our precious
children. (Matthew 18:6 and Luke 17:2)
Remember, according to the Bible, grace is not just unmerited favor, it is the power of
God coming on the scene to do for us what we cannot do for ourselves, to change us from
the inside out, to convict us of sin, to help us repent, to bring us into victory over all
known and habitual sin. This grace brings us into victory over the world and victory over
the devil.
4. Bottom line: Go over your entire institution with a fine tooth comb and make sure
that nothing is being done that grieves the Holy Spirit. Encourage the students to share
from the heart and do not slam them or give them a failing grade if they are expressing
the genuine convictions of their hearts (let alone send them in for psychiatric review!).
Make sure that the Holy Spirit has liberty, and this will help steer everyone clear of
legalism and licentiousness.
If you decide to make changes, remember that every step must be led by the Lord.
Otherwise, you will tend to over-correct, and everything will go in a zigzag, instead of
straight forward into the will of the Lord. For the steps of a good man are ordered by the
Lord . . .
Many Blessings,
Dylan Andrew Stendal and Russell Martin Stendal (Senior)
PS It is amazing, but our children have actually come out of this in extremely good
shape. Even though it was hard, and at times devastating (especially the psychiatric
evaluations and potential stigmatization), these children have gained much greater
discernment. Since Dylan felt muzzled many times in class and was on occasion not
allowed to express what the Holy Spirit was putting in his heart (even in the corridors of
the school, he was given demerits for speaking out), we decided to follow Malachi 3:16
and write this book of remembrance together so we can claim the entire promise in the
context of Malachi 3:16-18.
16. Then those that feared the LORD spoke one to another, and the LORD hearkened
and heard it, and a book of remembrance was written before him for those that feared the
LORD and for those that think in his name.
17. And they shall be mine, said the LORD of the hosts, in that day when I make up my
jewels; and I will spare them, as a man spares his own son that serves him.
18. Therefore become ye converted, and ye shall make a difference between the just
and the wicked, between him that serves God and him that did not serve him.
All Scripture from the Jubilee Bible 2000 (now available on Amazon.com for free
Kindle download).
Above all, Dylan and I wish to clearly state that:
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we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers,
against the lords of this age, rulers of this darkness, against spiritual wickedness in the
heavens. (Ephesians chapter 6)
Those who are under the influence of these “religious” spirits or are being bombarded
by religious spirits can one minute declare Christ and at the drop of a hat require the
rebuke that Jesus gave Peter when He had to say, Get behind me Satan! (Matthew 16:15-
23). We realize that over the years some of those who have been very nice and friendly to
our face at the Christian school have, when given the chance and when provoked by
another spirit, been nasty to our children behind our back because the spirit influencing or
maybe even controlling them hates the Spirit in us.
Cloaked in self-righteousness, they cannot stand real righteousness, and the unclean
spirit manipulating them will blow a tremendous smoke screen if cornered: Your child
was late! Your child’s absence is unexcused! You missed the parent support group
meeting! Your child forgot his or her homework! Or spoke Spanish at school! These are
all big, big no-nos; some even insinuate that the parents need the psychiatrist! Others are
like those described in Ezekiel chapter 9, who sigh and moan at the abominations yet
have been unable to significantly change the situation. Even so, they qualify for the mark
or seal of God that will spare them in the soon-coming judgment that begins at the
sanctuary of the LORD. (Revelation chapter 7)
Even though Gabriella and Dylan will probably not go back to this school next year,
and even though I, Russell Sr., have not been asked to speak at a school chapel or Bible
class in at least ten years, and even though our older children, Lisa (30), Alethia (26), and
Russell Jr. (21), have never, ever, been asked to give their testimonies at a school chapel
despite being among the most successful alumni to ever graduate from this school, we all
wish to be on record that we are available and willing to speak at chapel and Bible class
this coming year as our schedule permits if invited. We would also love to show one of
our movies.
Afterword by Russell Stendal Jr. (Alumni 2010) But legalism does work on a few individuals. When I was in your school and Mr. C
was our Bible teacher, we had theology classes about Arminianism and Calvinism, post,
pre and mid tribulation, mixed with a little hermeneutics and a whole lot of other
nonsense imagined by man. We were forced to take a position, as a Calvinist or as an
Arminian; no matter how much I argued, there was no "middle" ground.
They didn't understand that what I was saying wasn't in the middle; it was beyond.
Calvinism probably is as bad as Arminianism; although both have some truth, they both
include lies – much like most theologies. God doesn't belong in the box made by man. He
can choose a select individual who might be predestined for something; and He can let
others choose whether or not to follow Him according to their own will. According to
their free will. In Ephesians 2:8, it says that both grace and faith are involved.
For by grace are ye saved through faith and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of
God.
And the gift that God (the Father) sent us is really Jesus; so He can reign and rule from
each one of our hearts by the Holy Spirit. Therefore, we have to repent and turn from our
own way (from our own works) so He can take us with Him (He is the only way) and do
His work in and through us. Only His work will stand for all eternity. This is why
Scripture is clear that we will be judged by works. (We will either be found lost in our
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own dead works, or there will be evidence that His eternal life and love are flowing out of
us and blessing others, for out of the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks . . .)
It is obvious that our own good works cannot save us (or anyone else for that matter),
but it is essential that God work in our hearts and cleanse us by the power of the Holy
Spirit. Then He will be able to do His work through us as we reach out to others in the
power of His love. This is only possible as we yield to Him. If we are fully under His
authority, then He provides us with complete security as well as discipline and correction
when we need it. This is how I have come to understand this as I have walked with the
Lord Jesus and allowed Him first place in my life and as I have studied my Bible in the
light of the Holy Spirit as well as listen to anointed teaching and preaching of others.
For unless there is evidence that His life and love are flowing out of us (the fruit of the
Spirit), the Bible says that we are not really His (Matthew chapter 7). According to
Scripture, ye shall know them by their fruit, not just by doctrine, miracles, traditions, etc.
As much as all these theologians think they are going to understand God, the closer
they think they get with human reasoning, the farther away they really are. And as for
legalism, it works on a few, but those that it works on learn to depend only on what
individuals say and not what God is trying to speak to them. They are like a few students
who hung on every word that Mr. C said or the advice he gave, instead of actually
listening to how God was moving on their hearts.
Needless to say, these theologically-packed Bible classes definitely drove people away
from God; no surprise there. My best friend (in the school) started having doubts whether
God even exists. The majority of the boys in the class of 2009 turned skeptical at a
certain point, even though their class leader was Mr. C. And nothing was done, that I
could see, to remedy it. Gratefully, they didn't do what they did to Kessel. (He was
expelled, or should I say forced to call it quits because he created too much of a problem
in school.) I'm thankful our class leader was our own Mr. T, who taught us how to listen
to the Holy Spirit. He is probably the best teacher to have ever taught at ECA, and you
lost him too.