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LIFE SKILLS Program Budget Class
Week 7
Welcome Back!
Pray
Read Announcements
Questions before we begin?
Agenda for Today
Today’s Biblical Principle: Life’s Challenges
Types of loans/debt
Working with Creditors
Bible Lesson
Job 1 (The Message)
1-3 Job was a man who lived in Uz. He was honest inside and
out, a man of his word, who was totally devoted to God and
hated evil with a passion. He had seven sons and three
daughters. He was also very wealthy—seven thousand head of
sheep, three thousand camels, five hundred teams of oxen, five
hundred donkeys, and a huge staff of servants—the most
influential man in all the East! 6-7 One day when the angels came
to report to GOD, Satan, came along with them. GOD singled out
Satan and said, “What have you been up to?” Satan
answered GOD, “Going here and there, checking things out on
earth.”
Bible Lesson
8 GOD said to Satan, “Have you noticed my friend Job? There’s
no one quite like him—honest and true to his word, totally
devoted to God and hating evil.” 9-10 Satan retorted, “So do you
think Job does all that out of the sheer goodness of his heart?
Why, no one ever had it so good! You pamper him like a pet,
make sure nothing bad ever happens to him or his family or his
possessions, bless everything he does—he can’t lose! 11 “But
what do you think would happen if you reached down and took
away everything that is his? He’d curse you right to your face,
that’s what.” 12 GOD replied, “We’ll see. Go ahead—do what you
want with all that is his. Just don’t hurt him.” Then Satan left the
presence of GOD.
Bible Lesson 13-15 Sometime later, while Job’s children were having one of their
parties at the home of the oldest son, a messenger came to Job and said, “The oxen were plowing and the donkeys grazing in the field next
to us when Sabeans attacked. They stole the animals and killed the field hands. I’m the only one to get out alive and tell you what
happened.” 16 While he was still talking, another messenger arrived and said, “Bolts of lightning struck the sheep and the shepherds and fried
them—burned them to a crisp. I’m the only one to get out alive and tell you what happened.” 17 While he was still talking, another messenger arrived and said, “Chaldeans coming from three directions raided the camels and massacred the camel drivers. I’m the only one to get out
alive and tell you what happened.” 18-19 While he was still talking, another messenger arrived and said, “Your children were having a party at the home of the oldest brother
when a tornado swept in off the desert and struck the house. It collapsed on the young people and they died. I’m the only one to get
out alive and tell you what happened.”
Bible Lesson
20 Job got to his feet, ripped his robe, shaved his head, then
fell to the ground and worshiped: 21 Naked I came from my mother’s womb,
naked I’ll return to the womb of the earth.
GOD gives, GOD takes.
God’s name be ever blessed.
22 Not once through all this did Job sin; not once did he
blame God.
Reflection
In a short period of time Satan:
• Takes all of Job’s wealth (money and possessions)
• Kills almost all of his servants (friends)
• Kills all 10 of his children (family)
We all experience challenges (few greater than Job)
Questions to wrestle with
Age old question: Why do good things happen to bad
people?
Why did God allow Satan to turn Job’s life upside down?
Is it ok to be frustrated (and even angry) about our
challenges?
Why do we sometimes need challenges to grow?
Final Thoughts
Challenges are opportunities to trust God
God has a plan for each of us and is ALWAYS working on
our behalf
Do not try and face challenges alone
1) Turn to God
2) Find a positive support system
Loans
We are going to spend some time talking about various
types of loans
We will also discuss how to appropriately and effectively
communicate with creditors
Debt Consolidation Loans
Combines many debt payments into one monthly payment
Why do people consolidate debt? • Lower monthly payment
• Simplifies debt paying- only paying one creditor
Why is this usually a bad idea? • Can be expensive
• Service fees
• You will pay more in interest
• Even though the interest rate is often lowered the term length is increased
• You lose flexibility
• It will be harder to renegotiate terms or make alternative payment plans
• Risky if you are unable to make the payments
Debt Consolidation Loans
Consolidating debt treats the symptom but does not
address the root problem
• It is estimated that 78% of the time, after someone consolidates
credit card debt, the debt grows back
The Debt Snowball Method is a better alternative to debt
consolidation
• This will be discussed in detail during Workbook
Payday / Cash Advance & Rent-to-Own Loans
DO NOT USE
Tempting for a couple of reasons: 1) the promise of “quick cash”
2) one’s situation is desperate
Typical fee is $15 per $100 borrowed for a two week period • 390% APR! (Annual Percentage Rate).
If the loan is not paid in two weeks, you must renew the loan at this rate plus added fees for non-payment
• The probability of having to roll over the loan multiple times is very high.
Video: Pay day loans briefly explained: • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rOVmUnUM7A
Title Loans
DO NOT USE
Allows you to receive instant cash in exchange for the Title of your vehicle
Why is this a bad idea? • Similar terms to Payday loans
• High interest rates
• Loan Must be paid off in full • High probability of rolling over the loan = more fees
• Your vehicle can be repossessed if the loan is not paid in time
Video: Title Loans briefly explained • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wriLs6iECvE
Home Equity Loans or Line of Credit
Allows you to take out a loan using your home as collateral
(similar to a Title Loan)
• Can foreclose on your home if not paid, even if the amount not
paid is seemingly small
• Risky!
Loan terms are usually between 5-15 years
• The loan must be paid in full at the end of the term
May include up front costs and service fees
Refinancing a Mortgage Changes the terms and interest rate on your existing
mortgage
Up front costs
• Origination fee
• Appraisal fee
You have to consider how long you plan to live in the home
• The longer you live there the more benefit there potentially may be
• Remember: Plans can change!
Refinancing a Mortgage An alternative option…
If you have extra money to put towards your mortgage than
“pretend” it has a shorter length than it actually does.
• There is no change in contract and therefore no obligation to higher
payments each month
• Ex: Pay your 30 year mortgage as if it were a 20 year mortgage
Should only be considered if all debts and other obligations
are securely taken care of
Dealing with Creditors
Some of you may:
• be facing debt that you will not be able to pay on
• be strained by the terms and monthly payments of a debt
• have not paid on a debts in a long time.
• Collection agencies may be calling
As hard as it may be it is important to be proactive with the
creditors in which you have debt
Why contact creditors?
Contacting creditors shows a willingness to work with them
• You are taking ownership of your debt
Avoiding creditors can cause them to be uncooperative
Sometimes a creditor will work with you to
1) Renegotiate the terms
2) Decrease the amount you owe
Debt is a multi-trillion dollar industry
• They can afford to work with you
How to Contact Creditors
Before you start, ask God for favor, wisdom and patience
• Do not call when you are stressed, overwhelmed, or angry
Spend some time thinking about the desired outcome
• “What result will I be happy with?”
• “What will work for me financially?”
• Thinking through these questions ahead of time can keep you from
making an impulsive decision
How to Contact Creditors
Call the creditor and ask for the collections department.
• Introduce yourself.
• Inform them that..
1) You are enrolled in a Budgeting Program
2) You intend to repay them, but are requesting their assistance
3)The credit account and others will be closed and no other ones will
be opened.
Contacting Creditors
During the phone call you should write down:
• Name(s) and the employee ID number(s) of whom you are
speaking to
• Direct phone numbers
• Company address
• Email Address or Fax Number
• *The details of what was discussed
Chances are you will not come to a solution on the first call
• Having the above information gives you credibility and keeps them
honest about what was discussed
Contacting Creditors
Let them make an offer
• Their offer may surprise you
• Request the agreement in writing prior to sending in payment
• If it is not in official writing it is not guaranteed
• Do not give out bank account information
• It is best to pay using a money order or cashier’s check
Before hanging up:
• Repeat back to them the details of the conversation
• Ask them to repeat what the “next steps” will be
Making a Lump Sum Payment
Creditors are often quicker to negotiate a lump sum
payment
• Why? Guarantees that they are receiving money from you
Most creditors will take a lump sum payment even if it is a
fraction of what was owed
Save up before hand
• Negotiating a final payment only works if you have the money
available
Paying off Debt
The journey to becoming debt-free is likely a marathon not a sprint
• It may take time to feel “successful”
• Stay committed
• Celebrate the small victories (paying off a debt, no new debt, lower balances)
“How do you eat an elephant?”
One bite at a time!
With more time in the program you will begin to develop the best game plan for you
Are there any questions?