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  • Lifestyles Vol. 24 November 2013AFTER 50

    www.lifestylesafter50fl.com Suncoast FREE

    Join us for the FUN FEST

    Largo Cultural CenterNov. 13

    10 am 3 pm

    Branson Celebrates VeteransFeeling the Squeeze Holiday Fun at the Beau RivagePotatoes With A Twist

    INSIDE THIS ISSUE

  • Lifestyles After 50 November 2013 page 2

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    New Technology Helps Patients See Like Never BeforeBY DAVID JEFFERY, Marketing Director, Eye Institute of West Florida

    According to a recent Pew Research poll released in September, seniors 65 plus make up nearly half of non-internet users. That information may not be surprising to most; after all, we benefit from technology regardless of our level of interaction with computers or the internet. Whether its in the car you drive, the cash register at the grocery store or the health screening devices used in medical offices, technology is a daily part of our lives. Thankfully, what matters most about technology is the level of accuracy with which computers enable doctors to make crucial decisions about our health. You do not have to know much about the internet or computers to appreciate the speed at which computers can deliver highly accurate information. Lasers that analyze our bodies and computers that crunch miles of data in

    a split second to produce information that affects the decisions doctors make about our health is nothing short of amazing. Take the Ocular Response Analyzer (ORA System) for instance. This innovative new operating room laser is what ophthalmologists use during cataract surgery to improve their decisions about your vision.

    Borrowed from the Hubble Space Telescope, the ORA System uses laser technology to help guide the surgeons decision about which lens implant power to use when replacing the natural lens in the eye. It can also help determine if your vision is free of astigmatism that causes blurred vision. Cataract surgeons who offer the ORA

    System no longer have to rely solely on pre-surgical measurements for these important decisions. With its on-demand analysis, doctors are able to achieve better patient vision outcomes with reduced dependency on glasses. The personal benefit we garner from computers should mean something whether we use computers and the

    internet or not. How technology has advanced over the last 5 or 10 years has greatly improved our standard of living. This is especially true for those of us who grew up wearing glasses but are no longer dependent on them due to the ORA System. To learn more, call the Eye Institute of West Florida at 727-581-8706.

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    President John F. Kennedy: Death in the Time of InnocenceDear Readers,

    Most everywhere you turn this month, there will be reminders of that day 50 years ago when our innocence as a country was shat-tered, the day our 35th president was assassinated.John F. Kennedys 1000-day presidency ended in a few dramatic moments on a street in Dallas. The Kennedy era was a transforma-tive time for our country. We went from the staid, war-hero presidency of Eisenhower to the leadership of someone who lived a lifestyle known to only a narrow segment of our society at the time. The Kennedys played tennis, they sailed and they had houses in several parts of the country. Now, in 2013, many people live that way, but in 1960, not many did. Remembering that November period of time, it is as if the life drained out of our country for a few days. This month you will undoubtedly share your own memories with others.

    Walter Cronkite Dallas, Texas, Friday, November 22, 1963. Time was about to stand still. CBS anchorman Walter Cronkitelater voted the most trusted man in Americahad the compelling duty to report the shootings of President Kennedy and Texas Governor John

    Connolly. Shortly after-ward, Cronkite removed his glasses and tearfully announced simply that President Kennedy had died at 1 pm Central Standard Time. Today, 50 years later, those of us of a certain age remember vividly where we were and what we were doing when we learned the news. Jim Patterson, CEO of this magazines publishing company, says, To this day we remain fascinated by Ken-nedys life and legacy, intrigued by the circumstances of his death, enchanted by the associated imagery of Camelot and changed forever by all of it. For many, the news came via a schools crackling intercom system. Patterson says, Lucy Bigham bolted from the chair in front of me and ran from the room in tears. Mr. Bunch sat behind his desk at the front of the room, his face buried in both hands, sobbing. Patterson would see his own father weep that night as well. It was also a new time of tragedy for our country because we watched events unfold in the living room on television. Nancy Kuehne, our magazines sales and marketing representative in Lee County, says, The small, two-room school I went to did not have a TV, so a parent invited all 15 students from grades ve through eight to come to their house

    to watch. I remember feeling as if I were right there in the crowd watch-ing from the streets. Nancy added something else we all rememberhow quiet everyone was. Yes, it was a new era and it changed us all. Patterson was in 9th grade that day Mr. Bunch sat at his desk and sobbed. Three sum-mers later, Patterson was

    in Washington serving as a Congres-sional page in the House of Represen-tatives. He says, I associated all of the sights of Washington with those I had seen on television that November weekend of 1963. I toured the White House and tried to imagine President Kennedys and Jackies presence in every room. I visited the Senate chamber and sat in the seat that was his when he served as the senator from Massachusetts and which was now lled by his brother Edward (Ted) Kennedy. I went to Arlington Cemetery and stood before the eternal ame and played back the images of Jackie, Bobby and Teddy lighting that ame on the day of the funeral. And so this month, through the death of a president 50 years ago, we are bonded together by our shared memories. It seems so very recentlyand yet so long agothat we were so innocent we never thought it could happen.

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    5 Managing Your Money workshop helps you set goals and budget for needs, wants and savings. Participants can request a Florida Master Money Mentor personal coach to help with questions. 1 to 3 pm at Palm Harbor Library, 2330 Nebraska Ave. Free; Registration required at 727-582-2104.

    6 Divorce Care Class and Support Group. Help and healing for individuals facing divorce or separa-tion. 6 pm at Pasadena Community Church, 227 70th St. S, St. Petersburg. $15 registration fee. 727-437-6222.

    6 Lunch and opera entertainment at The Pinellas Opera Leagues monthly meeting. 11 am; Dunedin Country Club, 1050 Palm Blvd. $20. RSVP to Nancy at 727-738-4007.

    7 Community Health Fair. Free health screenings and info on heart health, joint care, diabetes, nutrition, cancer and more. Zumba and Silver Sneakers classes. Free. 9 am at Center for the Performing Arts, 4951 78th Ave. N, Pi-nellas Park. 727-541-0805, ext. 2306.

    8 Free Classic Movie Matinee. 1 pm at Seminole Community Library, 9200 113th St. N. 727-394-6905.

    9 Dunedin Dogtoberfest. Pet costume contest, rescue groups with adoptable dogs, pet-themed vendors, a beer garden and food and beverages. Free; $4 parking. 11:30 am, Highlander Park, 1920 Pinehurst Rd., Dunedin. 727-786-1330.

    14 Citrus Tree Gardening class. 2 pm and 6:15 pm at Palm Har-bor Library, 2330 Nebraska Ave. Free; register by 11/13 at 727-582-2603.

    15 Quit Smoking Now program. Participants will receive a workbook and free nicotine patches. Meet weekly, 12:30 to 1:30 pm for six weeks at East Library, 2251 Drew St., Clearwater. Register: call Gulfcoast North AHEC at 813-929-1000.

    15 Senior Excursions. Grab your friends and explore a variety of places in the Tampa Bay Area. All

    excursions leave from the St. Petersburg Community Center, 7701 Boca Ciega Dr. $12 $15. Details at 727-363-9245.

    19 Cooking Class with Rita Fabula. Plates to Share From Around the World, As We All Are Thankful. Learn how to make meze from Tur-key, antipasto from Italy and pinchos from Spain. 1:30 pm at Beach Library, Clearwater Beach. 727-462-6138.

    20 Safety Harbor Garden Club presentation on the Serenity Gar-dens of Japan with artist Noriko Kuehn. 9:30 am at the Safety Harbor Library, 101 2nd St. N., Safety Harbor. Refresh-ments, plant exchange. 727-726-6159.

    20 Veterans Day Golf Tournament, benefits Dunedin Childrens Christmas Fund. $75/person, four-person scramble, singles welcome. 8:30 am at Dunedin Golf Club. Entry forms at rocketsports-ent.com. 727-510-7888.

    27 POW Support Group. Gather in the fellowship of other POW survivors for a monthly ceremony to honor MIAs and military heroes. The group meets at 10:30 am every fourth Weds. at the cafe in CARES Musunuru Center, 12417 Clock Tower Parkway, Hudson. 727-863-6868.

    28 Times Turkey Trot, Wingding, Fun Run, Gobbler and Clear-water Challenge. Fun runs and canned good drive to benefit local charities. First race starts at 7 am at Clearwater High School, 540 S. Hercules Ave. Register/more info at 727-562-4700.

    29 Jan. 3 Oakdale Christmas Light Display. 1/2 million lights, carnival rides, artificial snow, fiber-optic forest, tours, parades and more. Free, 6 pm to 10 pm at 2719 Oakdale St. S., St. Petersburg.

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    Second Time Arounders Will March at the Cherry Blossom Parade

    Its getting closerSt. Petersburgs own Second Time Arounders Marching Band will be marching in the Na-tional Cherry Blossom Parade in Washington D.C. in April of 2014 with an exceptional per-formance opportunity! A rare invitation has been extended to the Second Time Arounders Marching Bandthe chance to perform a show in front of the grandstands, live on televisionduring the National Cherry Blossom Parade. Marching bands are typically not allowed this few minutes of fame; however, the uniqueness and repu-tation of the Rounders has changed that! They did it for Macys and theyll do it for the National Cherry Blossom Parade! Their performance will be filled with patriotism and Americana, powerful music, an abundance of red, white and blue, plus stunning visual effects that

    will leave the crowd proud Americans and smiling from ear to ear! Now is a great time to join the Rounders if youve ever marched in a high school, college, or military marching band! The Rounders perform locally, nationally and

    internationally. Their most recent perfor-mance was in the Conch Republic parade in Key West, and their most notable was their trip to march in the Macys Thanksgiving Day Parade in 2008. 32 years in the making, and about 450 members strong, the Second Time Arounders Marching Band is the first all-ages band in the country. Its members range from age 18 85. The band proudly supports arts and music programs in local schools. For more info on the band, the trip in 2014, who they are and how to join, visit www.secondtimearounders.org.

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    Lifestyles After 50 Fun Fest Offers Great Entertainment, Education and InformationJoin us Wed. Nov. 13 for the 9th annual Lifestyles After 50 Fun Fest at the Largo Cultural Center, located at 105 CentralPark Dr. Largo, from 10 am to 3 pm. Come out early before the event starts for the Fun Walk at 9:15 am. Start off with a warm-up with Silver Sneakers then enjoy the 1-mile Fun Walk around Largo Central Park. There is a $4 minimum donation to help support the local Meals on Wheels program. Walkers will enjoy a continental breakfast, prizes and T-shirts to the first 100 walkers, and grand prizes to the winners on the day of the Walk! Send in your walk forms now. Registration starts at 8:45 that morning.

    Doors Open Inside at 10 am This free event features Senior Friendly exhibitors with information on services, lifestyles, health, travel and more. Free coffee and goodies will be offered throughout the day. Enjoy a Senior Friendly Lunch for only $5 along with other choices from Mr. Ricks BBQ. At noon there will be a special ceremony for our veterans presented by the Largo VFW Honor Guard on the main stage in the park.

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    motivating others. Meyers attends SilverSneakers classes to keep healthy physi-cally and mentally and also uses the classes as a social outlet, making and bonding with new and old friends. Myers takes her Silver Sneakers classes at FamilyFitness Center, 8846 SR 52in Hudson.

    Military Members Meet12 Military Officers Wives Club sponsors a luncheon on the second Tuesday of each month at Pasadena Yacht & Country Club, 6300 Pasadena Point Blvd., Gulfport. Social hour begins at 11:30 am, lunch at 12:15. All former, retired and active military officers wives, widows and female officers are invited to attend. Reservations are necessary, call 727-397-4146 or 727-399-1272.

    15 The Military Officers As-sociation meets for lunch on the third Friday of each month. Social hour starts at 11 am followed by lunch and a short program. Military officers that are retired, active duty or former officers and their spouses or widows are invited to attend at Banquet Masters, 8100 Park Blvd., Pinellas Park. Reservations are necessary. Call CDR Bill Bolin at 727-584-1595.

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    Gray Divorce: BY ROBERT D. BOYD AND JEANETTE LINVILLE

    The term gray divorce describes the growing trend of couples in their 50s and older choosing to end their marriages by divorce. This phenomenon came into the public eye in 2004 when the AARP conducted a study called The Divorce Experience: A Study of Divorce at Midlife and Beyond. Since then, a number of high profile gray divorces have been played out in the media, including Al and Tipper Gore, who chose to split at the ages of 62 and 61, respectively, after four decades of marriage. Actors and executives alike, including Danny DeVito, Morgan Freeman, Sumner Redstone and Jack Welch, have all sought divorces in their 60s and 70s. However, these gray divorces are not limited to the rich and famous. The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) recently conducted an online poll of 1,600 divorce lawyers, and 61 percent reported that they have seen an increase in the number of divorces among people over age 50. This number is supported by research done by Susan L. Brown of the Department of Sociology

    and National Center for Family & Marriage Research at Bowling Green State University. Brown found that the divorce rate among adults ages 50 and older doubled between 1990 and 2010. She further found that roughly one in four divorces in 2010 occurred to people ages 50 and older.

    There are a variety of reasons why the divorce rate of Americans over the age of 50 is growing. Some attribute the trend to longer life spans and more people reaching the age of retirement. Others point to womens increasing financial independence. Couples often choose to wait until their children have left home to separate. In addition, it is now easier to get a divorce and there is a greater social acceptance of divorce. It may be the culture and ideology of the baby boomers that has caused the increase in gray divorces. As a genera-tion, baby boomers have constantly challenged and reframed traditional values. They epitomize the practice of self-examination, individual growth,

    reflection and self actualization. Baby boomers, according to Brown, entered marriages with expectations emphasiz-ing satisfaction of personal needs. If those needs are not met, divorce may be an avenue to achieve lifes dreams. Whatever the reason, the gray divorce phenomenon appears to be a reality for older Americans. As these divorces usually follow lengthy mar-riages, there are a number of issues that can be especially contentious. The AAML survey found that alimony, business interests, retirement accounts and pensions were the most commonly fought over issues (in descending order) for couples divorcing after age 50. Along with memories and experiences, long marriages accumulate things. This means more assets, more deeply inter-twined accounts and more liabilities to be divided when the marriage dissolves. If you are part of this group thinking about divorce past age 50, consider the following:

    Get help from an expert. The divorce process is complicated, and you should not navigate it alone. Arm yourself with experts who will have your best interest in mind. Choose individuals you can trust and who will provide you with legal advice, finan-cial expertise and emotional support.

    Get educated about your finances. Most divorce cases, especially gray divorces with more significant assets, are dominated by financial determina-tions. You must be educated about your

    marital finances. Know what your familys wealth and debt are. If your spouse has typically handled bills, learn how much things cost. Get records and make copies of them! This includes credit reports, bills, mortgage statements, investment documents, bank accounts and any other financial records.

    Be open to settlement. Mediation can be a great way to resolve any issues with your spouse, but only if you have completed the items above. Generally, having a strangersuch as a judgedetermine ones financial future is not a good plan. Trying to work it out between the people who know the rela-tionship best, i.e. you and your spouse, is almost always preferable to going to court. However, get the input of a lawyer before any settlement is final.

    Be prepared for change. Depending on the length of your mar-riage, you have most likely become accustomed to a certain routine and lifestyle that will invariably change. Money may be tighter than it was during the marriage, as it is more expensive to run two households. Women may find themselves returning to the work force after many years at home. Additionally, keeping the marital home may be more of a burden than a blessing. Although change is hard, it does not mean that there is not life after gray di-vorce. Of those interviewed by AARPs 2004 study, 76 percent of divorcees felt they made the right decision in choosing to dissolve the marriage.

    Authors Robert D. Boyd and Jeanette Linville are with Boyd Collar Nolen & Tuggle LLC in Atlanta. Attorneys at the firm counsel clients on a number of mat-ters related to divorce. Boyd and Linville may be reached at (770) 953-4300 or by email at [email protected] or [email protected], respectively.

    The divorce rate among adults ages 50 and older doubled between 1990 and 2010s.

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    Every Day, Especially in NovemberBY FRED WRIGHT

    There are so many U.S. veterans traveling to reunions in Branson, Mo., each year, you almost expect the town of 10,000 to be painted olive drab or battleship gray. To the contrary, Branson has retained much of its Ozark Mountain charm despite an eclectic mix of architecture and building styles. Its geographic location puts the town and its multitude of theaters within driving distance of half the nations population. It has an estimated 63,000 theater seats, more than Broadway. And as a perennial destination for an average of 600 military reunions big and small every year, Branson celebrates the flag just about everywhere you look.

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    Approximately 30 years ago, we had our first Welcome Home celebration aimed at Vietnam veterans, explains Lynn Berry, director of com-munications for the Branson/Lakes Area Chamber of Commerce. That weekend, we had over 100,000 people here. It established a real camaraderie and love for hosting veterans. During the Veterans Homecoming celebration, Wartime Romance is staged at the Baldnobbers Theater. Its the story of a U.S. Marine Corps dive bomber pilot in World War II who finds strength, hope and inspiration from the love letters he writes and receives from his girlfriend back in Kansas. Bransons 80th annual Veterans Day Parade will march through the historic downtown, stepping off at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th monthNov. 11 at 11 amin honor of when the World War I armistice was signed. The parade is one of the culminating events for the week-long celebration and one of the largest events of National Veterans Week in the U.S., drawing tens of thousands of veterans, active military personnel and their families. This patriotic spirit and fervor perme-ates Branson year-round. Nearby sits the College of the Ozarks, a private Christian liberal arts college with a thousand-acre campus. Students learn employable skills while they earn a de-gree, pay no tuition and graduate with no debt. Locals call it Hard Work U.

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    Realities of being in the Sandwich Generation create anxiety, stress and depressionmore so than in any previous generations. A mere men-tion of the term conjures an image of people being squished into little flat pieces by overwhelming pres-sures squeezing the life energy out of some poor baby boomers soul. The Sandwich Generation is the 79 million baby boomers born between 1946 and 1964 alive today. They make up more than a quarter of the U.S. population. This same group has anywhere from one to three other generational groups depending upon them for financial, emotional and/or caregiving support. Other generational

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    An unbreakable bond is forged during the years spent caring for a loved one who is seriously ill. Sadly, things will finally come to an end. Thats life. And death. Ultimately the time will come when you must sit yourself down in what was once a familiar house that now feels as if someone or something literally sucked the life right out of it. If your loved one had hospice care involved, werent you shocked by how quickly they removed their equipment? I sure was! The very next morning after my dads passing, a large hospice truck arrived, two large men got out and, in no time, loaded up whatever equipment was theirs. Then silence! It was eerie the way the spot where his bed once sat seemed to permeate emptiness throughout the whole house. The first thing I did once reality set in was to start working on the interior of my house. Changes that I had been wanting to

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