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n !"#$, limitsrefer to issues that participants in a play scene or dynamic feel strongly
about, usually referring to prohibited activities.
Participants typically negotiatean outline of %hat activities %ill and %ill not take place.
The participants outline %hat they desire or %ill not tolerate, including the determination oflimits. For e&le, it is common to set a safe %ordand to establish certain types ofplayas
prohibited.
The !"#$ usage of the terminology 'limits' derives from the concept of (off limits(, theidea of limiting a sceneto a specific set of activities, and the limitations )in terms of bothinterest and tolerance* of the participants.
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- #etting limits
o -.- 'o limits'
/ Types of limits
o /.- 0ard limit
o /./ #oft limit
o /.1 2e3uirement limit
o /.4 Time limit
1 #ee also
4 Further reading
5 6&ternal links
Setting limits[edit]
#ee also:egotiation )!"#$*
!oth dominantsand submissivescan set limits. 7imits can be agreed to verbally or they can
be incorporated into a formal contract. #ometimes the participants engage in a formal
conversation about limits and boundaries called 'negotiation'. 8ther couples discuss theirlikes and dislikes in a similar manner to (vanilla( relationships.
"No limits"[edit]
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#ome partners choose not to set limits. This is commonly seen in total po%er e&change
dynamics, consensual non9consent, and edge play. Whether or not this type of arrangementis considered 'safe, sane, and consensual' is a matter of some controversy in !"#$
communities.
Types of limits[edit]
The terminology varies slightly across different local communities and nternet forums.0o%ever, there are general usages recognied across most !"#$ populations.
ard limit[edit]
; hard limit is something that must not be done. scatis a hard limit
for me? or > have a back in=ury, so striking on the back is a hard limit?.
Soft limit[edit]
; soft limit is something that a person hesitates about or places strict conditions on, but for
%hich they %ill still give informed consent. ;n action could be prohibited e&cept under
specific circumstances or an area of discomfort that someone %ishes to avoid. #oft limitscan also be something that re3uires a cautious approach or %hile appealing, still generates
an uncomfortable amount of fear.
!euirement limit[edit]
; re3uirement limit, or must limit, is something that a person %ill not do the scene %ithout.
6&les include >lots of hair pulling is a must9limit for me? or >f you@re going to flog
me, @ll need lots of aftercare.?
Time limit[edit]
; time limit is a set time period for %hich an activity or temporary relationship takes place.
This is most common for scenesand casual Play.
#ome couples practice time limitations for relationships. They can be used to set time limitson phases of relationships, such as training or consideration.
See also[edit]
egotiation
Aonsent
#urt$er reading[edit]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Total_power_exchangehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consensual_non-consenthttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edge_playhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe,_sane,_and_consensualhttp://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=3http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=4http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feceshttp://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=5http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=6http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aftercare_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aftercare_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=7http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scene_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Play_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=8http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negotiation_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consent_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=9http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Total_power_exchangehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consensual_non-consenthttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edge_playhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe,_sane,_and_consensualhttp://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=3http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=4http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feceshttp://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=5http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=6http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aftercare_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=7http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scene_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Play_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=8http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negotiation_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consent_(BDSM)http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Limits_(BDSM)&action=edit§ion=9 -
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