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Love, Intimacy
& Romance -Treasuring Relationships
S. Sandy Sanbar, MD, PhD, JD
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Thanks and Gratitude
Smita Das,
MD, PhD, MPH
Secretary
Ashleigh
Servadio, MSC
Exec. Director
Firdouse Huq, MD
President
All NCPS
Council
Members
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2016
ARCHWAY
PUBLISHING,From
SIMON AND
SCHUSTER
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January
2018
Amazon
Kindle
Complimentary
Copy
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Justice Sandra Day O'Connor
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President Ronald Reagan and
Sandra Day O’Connor
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Justice O'Connor sworn in by C.
J. Warren Burger in 1981 (John)
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Justice O'Connor , John with
President George W. Bush, May 2004.
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Aug. 12, 2009,
President
Barack Obama
presented
Medal of
Freedom at
the WH to
retired
Supreme
Court Justice
Sandra Day
O'Connor
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Justices O' Connor, Sonia Sotomayor,
Ruth Bader Ginsburg, and Elena Kagan
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➢ Justice O'Connor and John were
together for 55 years.
➢ Alzheimer’s disease at an early age.
➢ Nursing home LOVE relationship
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GREEK: Types of
LOVE
1. Storge - Natural affection
2. Philia – Virtuous love
3. Eros – Sexual or
Romantic desire
4. Agape – Divine love
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CHINESE :
Types of LOVE
Benevolent love –
Confucianism
Universal love –
Mohism
Passionate caring love -
Buddhism
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Unconditional &
Sacrificial LOVE
1•Talidari
2•Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
3•Carol Mary - ‘Poem’
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Categories of LOVE
➢Interpersonal Love
➢Unrequited Love
➢Impersonal Love
➢Sexual Fetishism and Paraphilia
➢Erotomania –
‘de Clérambault's syndrome’
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Marital Forms of LOVE
➢Consummate - ideal kind of love.
➢Companionate - affectionate love,
friendship-based love, or attachment.
➢Sexless Love - where sexual intimacy
occurs fewer than ten times per year.
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Friendship
1• Aristotle
2• Andrew Sullivan
3
• Mutual self-knowledge and will
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Love
Triangular Interpretation
1. Passion
2. Intimacy
3. Commitment
Infatuation
Liking someone
Empty love
Fatuous love
Romantic love
Companionate
love
Consummate love
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Romantic v.
Passionate LOVE➢Romantic relationship is the peak of love,
security, engagement, communication
and sexual chemistry.
➢ Passionate love” has most of the constructive
features as romantic love., plus feelings of
indecisiveness and nervousness.
It is “a state of intense longing for union
with another.”
➢Passionate Love generally fades.
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Natural Basis of
LOVE
Norepinephrine
Dopamine
Oxytocin and Others
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LOVE - Inner Peace
1-2
• State of mind
• Simplicity in life
3-4
• Acceptance of others
• Practicing forgiveness
5-6
• Insecurity
• David K. William - Quote
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LOVE -
Monogamous Relationships
GENETIC SEXUAL
SOCIAL MARITAL
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LOVE - Polyamory Consensual Non-Monogamous (CNM)
relationships
2013, Tammy Nelson, “The New Monogamy:
Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity”
Polyamory Relationships
◦ Gender equality
◦ Hierarchal Polyamorous Relationships
◦ Open or Close Polyamorous Relationships
◦ Solo polyamory
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More About Polyamory
➢PolyamoryValues
➢Shortcomings of Polyamory
➢Benefits
➢Religion and Polyamory
➢Legal Aspects of Polyamory
➢Statistical Overview of Polyamory
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Termination of LOVE
Termination of Love
Intrapsychic phase
Dyadic phase
Social phase
Grave-dressing phase
Ways of Ending a Relationship
Second Marriages
Reconciliation
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LOVE in Alzheimer’s
Capacity to Consent
Right to decide
Sexual Power of Attorney
Distinguish Sexual Pleasure v.
Abuse
Sexuality and Dementia in Nursing
Homes
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Capacity v. Competency
in Dementia
Capacity v. Competency
Alternate Decision Makers
Capacity and Dementia
Assessment of Capacity
Assessment Tools
Continuation of Assessment of Capacity
to Consent
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Do what makes YOU
HAPPY
Be with who makes YOU
SMILE
LAUGH as much as
BREATHE
LOVE as long as you LIVE
Remember