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LOVELOVE

Love vs. InfatuationLove vs. Infatuation

Love is ……..Love is ……..

* Grows slowly, beginning with friendship* Grows slowly, beginning with friendship * Lasts over a long period of time* Lasts over a long period of time * Involves the entire character and personality of the partner* Involves the entire character and personality of the partner * The relationship grows and matures as time passes* The relationship grows and matures as time passes * Little jealousy—accepting of one another's feelings* Little jealousy—accepting of one another's feelings * Work harder at assigned tasks* Work harder at assigned tasks * Less emotional and moody—more happy and kind* Less emotional and moody—more happy and kind * Opinions of other people are not as important* Opinions of other people are not as important * Fun times and friendship are more important than a physical relationship* Fun times and friendship are more important than a physical relationship * Share common interests* Share common interests * Enjoy being together without need of expensive entertainment* Enjoy being together without need of expensive entertainment * Trust and have confidence in self and in the relationship* Trust and have confidence in self and in the relationship * Trust the partner* Trust the partner * There is no rush to make decisions—the future is planned with confidence* There is no rush to make decisions—the future is planned with confidence * More vital, more energy* More vital, more energy * See life realistically* See life realistically

Infatuation is ……….Infatuation is ………. Is common during teen yearsIs common during teen years * Grows rapidly—love at first sight* Grows rapidly—love at first sight * Does not last long* Does not last long * Occurs shortly after breaking up with someone—known as “on the rebound”* Occurs shortly after breaking up with someone—known as “on the rebound” * Is centered on a few admired traits in the other person* Is centered on a few admired traits in the other person * Is often based on physical traits or feelings* Is often based on physical traits or feelings * Does not see or acknowledge the other person's weaknesses* Does not see or acknowledge the other person's weaknesses * The relationship stays the same for a long time—does not go anywhere* The relationship stays the same for a long time—does not go anywhere * Selfish and possessive of the other person—jealous* Selfish and possessive of the other person—jealous * Disagreements are common -- fighting* Disagreements are common -- fighting * Daydream—cannot concentrate on necessary tasks* Daydream—cannot concentrate on necessary tasks * May lose your appetite* May lose your appetite * Is easily influenced by the person they are infatuated with* Is easily influenced by the person they are infatuated with * Creates a selfish relationship—"How can he/she help me get what I want?"* Creates a selfish relationship—"How can he/she help me get what I want?" * Other people's opinions matter too much* Other people's opinions matter too much * May be based on physical enjoyment–a couple who finds themselves bored * May be based on physical enjoyment–a couple who finds themselves bored

without physical stimulation without physical stimulation * Feelings of insecurity* Feelings of insecurity * Lack of trust in partner* Lack of trust in partner * Feels a real need to marry* Feels a real need to marry * Causes lack of ambition and to disregard problems* Causes lack of ambition and to disregard problems

ROMANTIC LOVEROMANTIC LOVE

Also known as Also known as “puppy love”, it is “puppy love”, it is an exaggerated an exaggerated form of love. form of love.

SEXUAL LOVE SEXUAL LOVE

The intimate expression of love. This type of The intimate expression of love. This type of love is best saved for a committed married love is best saved for a committed married couple couple

PRAGMATIC LOVEPRAGMATIC LOVE

A rational reasoning kind of love.A rational reasoning kind of love.

Arranged marriage

PLATONIC LOVEPLATONIC LOVE

spiritual and intellectual relationship spiritual and intellectual relationship between a man and a woman. Non between a man and a woman. Non sexualsexual

COMPANIONSHIP LOVE.COMPANIONSHIP LOVE.

Typically found in good friendshipsTypically found in good friendships

ALTRUISTIC LOVEALTRUISTIC LOVE

Selfless love, or concern for the Selfless love, or concern for the spouse.spouse.

MANIC LOVEMANIC LOVE

a crazy, possessive, a crazy, possessive, jealous kind of love. jealous kind of love.

Unconditional love Unconditional love

Showing love towards someone Showing love towards someone regardless of his or her actions or regardless of his or her actions or beliefsbeliefs

SELF-LOVESELF-LOVE

a egotistic, narcissistic kind a egotistic, narcissistic kind of love. of love.