love yourself ~to be only1, not no1~
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Love yourself~To be Only1, not No1~
Riho YokoiRyutaro Imoto(Dragon)
Guidelines1. To be Only1
2. Workshop& discussion(To find your Only1)
3. How to control your approval desire
4. Workshop& discussion(To notice when you need the desire)
5. Summary
Goals• To find your Only1
• To notice human’s strong desire(approval-desire)
• To give high performance when you have high pressure, like your presentation
• You can do what you wanna do without hesitating
• To raise your self-esteem
• To support your friend’s success, not jealous of…
How do you raise your self-esteem?(high
confidence)
How does having high self-esteem change?
One of most important thingsin life
Guidelines
3 skills to be the Only1
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7 thoughts
To be the Only1(3 skills)
Controlling approval desire
Having a bird’s eyeDon’t compare
Caring about yourself You can’t please everybody
Contribution-feelingLook both sides of the coin
Low
Self esteem
High
To be the Only1
Merit・ Having contribution-feeling・ Being evaluated highly・ No need to compare
Only1=What just you can do
No1
3 skills(or characters) to be the Only1
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3skills
How to be Only1
Why To be the Only1 is 3 skills needed
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How to usein the net✖ ✖
1st Workshop
How have you spend your life so far?
Advanced work(To find other 3 skills)
You should see bad sides in your life
Look both sides of the coin
Badpoints
Good points
Anything
・What are your 3 skills by good sides?
・What are your 3 skills by bad sides?
You should be conscious of your 3 skills for all the time
1st session summary
Controlling approval desire
・ You can do what you wanna do and No need to adjust others・ High performance・ No need to compare
First step in the problem
you should notice when you feel the desire.
2nd Workshop
When do you have approval desire?
When you notice having approval
desire…?
To be the Only1
Controlling approval desire
Having a bird’s eyeDon’t compete
Caring about yourself You can’t please everybody
Contribution-feelingLook both sides of the coin
Low
Self esteem
High
Summary
To be the Only1
Controlling approval desire
Having a bird’s eyeDon’t compare
Caring about yourself You can’t please everybody
Contribution-feelingLook both sides of the coin
Low
Self esteem
High
Goals• To find your Only1
• To notice human’s strong desire(approval-desire)
• To give high performance To give high performance when you have high pressure, like your presentation
• You can do what you wanna do
• To raise your self-esteem
• To support your friend’s success, not jealous of…
Thank you
7 thoughts
1.Controlling approval desire
・ You can do what you wanna do and No need to adjust others・ High performance・ No need to compare
2.Having a bird’s eye
Having high self-esteem makes youconfident too much
3.Don’t compare
3 skills are useful for it
4.Caring about yourself
5.you can’t pleaseeverybody
others don’t love you and don’t hatehate love
10% 10%80%
6.Contribution-feeling
A misunderstand point is you shouldn’t force yourself to contribute someone.
Is it self-satisfaction orcontribution-feeling?
What is the difference between self-satisfaction
and contribution-feeling?
Self-satisfaction
Highapproval desire
Others Yourself
7.Look both sides of the coin
Badpoints
Good points
Anything
Summary1.Controlling approval desire ・ ・ ・ ・6 .7 .
First step in the program
Let’s move to workshop