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MANAGING CONFLICT IN YOUR
ROTARY CLUB
Rotary District 9685
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Aims for Session
Understand the sources of potential conflict in your club
Identify different methods used to resolve conflict
Develop and implement an action plan to reduce & manage conflict in your club
Identify opportunities to increase skills in conflict resolution, complaint and dispute handling
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The Potential for Conflict
Voluntary organisations are strongly
values-based, and may experience intense
conflicts about directions and policies.
Volunteers can assume a special
“ownership” of a project or organisation
Their interest can involve such dedication
that it can become a passion. For some,
this can reach the level of obsession.
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Scenarios
Rotary
Food
Venue
Cliques
Financial statements
Roles
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The Impact of Conflict
Disputes are time-consuming, and get in the way of the good work.
Public image and reputation.
Adversely affect membership, morale, relationships and fund-raising potential.
Like other sectors, the voluntary sector is looking for ways of managing conflict and resolving disputes.
Conflicts, left to themselves, nearly always grow!
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The Impact to Rotary
Aggrieved person
Becomes disinterested
Becomes negative
Takes leave of absence
Joins another Rotary Club
Resigns from Rotary
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The Impact to Rotary
The Club
Becomes focussed on conflict and not service
Becomes divisive rather than inclusive
Loses another member
Becomes a smaller club
Loses it vitality
Loses critical mass
Fails to meet its reason for being
Club folds
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Nature of Conflict Understanding conflict is basic to its resolutions
Conflict is natural, inevitable, necessary and normal
Conflict may be viewed as a feeling, a disagreement, a real or perceived incompatibility of interests, inconsistent world views or a set of behaviours
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Sources of Conflict
There are 5 basic sources of conflict:
Communication
Emotion
Values
Structures
History
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What Not to Do at your Club
If you notice a member or partner in your club is unhappy or has raised a complaint you can:
ignore him/her and the problem will go away eventually
try to talk the person/s out of it by saying it is not important
tell the person to forget about it
make jokes over dinner in front of others
the member was probably going to resign anyway
it’s not my problem so I’m not getting involved
it was his/her choice and every end is a new beginning
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Create a Conflict Management
System
prevent and manage conflict and
create a culture of conflict competence- the creation of an environment where all who experience conflict feel comfortable to raise it, knowing it will be dealt with respectfully and responsibly.
Training
Feedback
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Types of Interventions
Facilitative
Negotiation –Mediation -Facilitation
Advisory
Counselling – Coaching - Investigation
Determinative
Adjudication – Arbitration – Expert
determination
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Coach/Advisor
Active listener, doesn’t interrupt
Asks open questions
Reality tests proposals
Coaches you through options
Plays the “devil’s advocate”
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Mediation/Conciliation
the process whereby an impartial third party (the Mediator) assists parties in dispute to agree on terms to resolve their dispute.
Confidential process
Can provide guidance, but does not impose an outcome
Internal– a Rotarian mediator
External – CJC or LEADR
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Impact on Club
Retention of members who may otherwise
leave.
Happier club atmosphere
Better outcomes and mutual respect for all
Rotarians
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Amendment to Bylaws of Rotary
Adopted enactment 07-343
Article 24 – Arbitration and Mediation
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Disputes
Any dispute, excluding an internal club dispute, or a
dispute over a decision of the Board of RI, that
cannot be settled amicably,
Current or former member of a Rotary club, Rotary
district, RI or an RI officer
By request by any disputant, to general secretary
within 60 days of dispute arising
First to referred to mediation; if a party refuses
mediation, then direct to arbitration
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Mediation
Within 90 days after request
Procedure set by RI board
Mediator appointed by general secretary or his appointee
Mediator to be a Rotarian with mediation skills & experience, not from the disputing clubs
Outcomes/agreements to be recorded & copy provided to general secretary
Costs to be borne equally
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Arbitration
If a disputant objects to mediation
At the request of a disputant, if mediation is
unsuccessful
Each party shall appoint an arbitrator &
arbitrators shall appoint an umpire
Arbitrators & umpires are to be Rotarians
Decision by arbitrators or umpire (if they
can’t agree) is final and binding
Costs to be borne equally
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Internal Club Dispute
The club rules or constitution must provide a
process of conflict resolution
Train the board to be conflict competent
Consider crucial conversations and plan them
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Basis of Resolving Conflict
Interest based
focuses relationships
Rights based
Focuses on perceived legal entitlements
Power based
Relies on the power of numbers or position
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The 4 Way Test
of things we think, say or do:
is it the truth
is it fair to all concerned
Will it build goodwill and better friendships
Will it be beneficial to all concerned
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Conflict Management Options
Conflict coaching
District conflict officer
Mediation
Arbitration
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CLUB MEMBERS
District conflict officer
Advice/information
Assistant Gov
For coaching
MediationSettled
Arbitration
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Conclusion
Traditionally, there has been a tendency for dispute avoidance, rather than resolution.
Create conflict management skills within clubs & districts
Resolve disputes at the lowest level
If disputes cannot be resolved:
refer to district conflict officer,
if conflict is between clubs, members of other clubs, or with the district, refer to RI general secretary for mediation & if necessary, arbitration