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I've been teaching now going on 13
years and in all honesty there is only one day that stands out for me.
There were a lot of
little moments here and there
that I felt particularly proud or sad,
but...
...one day that I can
isolate as my best day is also probably my worst
day was within my first week in a
half of teaching.
I had my own classroom. I
had 35 kids in my freshman English
class.
It was a beautiful sunny morning.
September 11, 2001.
Mary's Best Day
I was teaching at
Kellenberg Memorial High
School, which is a catholic prepratory
high school in Long Island.
On a clear day, if
you are standing on the roof of the building, you can
see a little bit of the New York City skyline.
It was a hot day and our
principal was very strict about the kids not taking off
their blazers.
So when the bell for the intercom had rung...
...the kids automaticallly
thought that brother Ken, our principal was going to tell us that
we could take our blazers off.
And I said, "Wait! Wait! We don't know what
the announcement is yet.
Brother Ken came on and I
could tell that he was struggling
to think for himself about what to say.
And the announcement
was: "two planes have crashed into the World Trade Center.
We don't have any other information
at this time."
And that was the
announcement
And immediately I thought if it was just
one plane I could see how maybe it was an accident.
Maybe some guy in a Cessna went off course and made a grave
error.
But two planes?...That
sounded strange.
And the
students in my room had facial
expressions similar to the one
I have now--just
confusion.
Sheer confusion.
And there was a moment of silence...
And then a couple of kids shouted out:
"Two planes? How is that possible?"
And the
class broke out
in a
cacophony..
.
One girl--I don't
remember her name, but she had brown
curly hair and was sitting toward
the back of the class said: "Wait! My dad works in
the World Trade
Center!"
I don't know what happened to me, but in the snap of a finger
I was on.
I said, "Okay,
everybody, sit down, calm
down..."
I have a radio...
And if you are quiet and if
you listen and you don't panic, we'll listen to the radio and find out what
is going on.
So I turned on the
radio and turned to an AM
radio station that I knew
broadcasted news.
And we listened to a reporter for about
three minutes.
And suddenly
he said: "For all intents
we do believe this is a
terrorist attack."
We are under
attack.
And at that moment I
thought it was a good idea to shut off the
radio
I didn't have permission to turn on the radio. I din't know if it was a good idea.
I'd only been
teaching for a week.
This was not
something my teacher preparation program had
set me up for.
It was all...Instinct.
And so I shut the
radio off. The kids were sitting...
And because it
was a catholic
school....
and it seemed
appropriate at the time...
I said, "All Right,
guys, let's...let's
pray. Let's say Hail Mary.
Let's hope for the best.
And we said a hail mary.
And I went
through the rest of my
lesson until the end of
the period.
I don't know if that
was the right thing to
do...
but I felt like I had to keep going.
So after the period was over
there was 4 minutes of
passing time in the hallway.
I stepped outside and met with my colleagues, and we all had the same confused look on
our faces.
I mean, this was 2001.
We all had cellphones, but
nobody was sending text messages, nobody
was on the Intenet. Nobody had looked
at a television.
2nd period came in and we talked briefly about what had happened 1st
period.
There had been no other announcements at that point.
So I proceeded
with my lesson for
second period.
Almost like
autopilot, if you will.
It was like I knew what I had to do in my head and I
just kept going.
3rd period I had free and that
was the first time I saw what was really going
on.
Images of smoke rising
from the tops of the trade
center--both buildings.
Fire....People falling from the
windows...
...Just leaping out of the windows to
their death.
It was all on
camera right in front of
us.
Confused newscasters
narrating through it.
It was during that
period that the first tower
fell.
And I think we were all still really in shock about what was
going on.
While that faculty room is
usually bustling and noisy and
everyone is having coffee, chit-
chatting, working on lesson plans,
grading papers...
Everybody was just
glued to this tiny TV that we
had in the corner.
I didn;t have anybody in the city at that time.
Except a few friends from college and I
had a feeling that they would have been okay.
Nobody worked in the Wrld Trade Center that
I knew of
But During the period I
was summoned down to the main office.
Apparantly, a student who
was in my homeroom had
his mom come up to school to come pick him
up.
He had left his soccer gear in my classroom,
which was not unusual. I often
let them do that.
His name was Connor Gergahty.
Connor was one of my favorite 9th
graders.
Just bubbly and
energetic and cute with freckles.
You can tell
that he was going to be a,
like, a popular
kid.
Everybody liked him.
Mrs. Gergahty needed to
get into the classroom
to get connor's things.
It wasn't
unusual. People were coming to the
school to take the kids out.
In fact I
spent the rest of my
prep periods that day running passes.
Just hanging out at the main office, getting passes for kids whose
parents had come to school to pick them up, getting them out of class and getting thm out of the
building.
Mrs. Gergahty came to my home-room with me and she
picked up Connor's soccer gear
and ... she said : "Connor, go
to your locker and get your things, we're going to go
home."
And she turned to me and I
could tell she was also trying
to hold it together...
And she said,
"My husband is FDNY. Battalion Chief...."
Sorry. This part
always gets me...I'll be
okay.
"My husband is a battalion chief and he works down
there..."
"And his firehouse was the first to respond."
And she said, "I heard from him
when he was on his way,
but I haven't heard from him since."
And her face was a little red, and she was
trying to hold back
tears.
And I could
tell that she was
trying not to cry in front
of her son.
And she said, "I don't
know what to tell
connor."
So I told her
that I would pray for her and for her
husband.
And hoped
that as the day went on
things would get
better.
At this point we had heard about the pentagon being hit.
And we really had
no idea what was going
on.
It was just so frightening.
Mrs. Gergahty Left with connor.
He didn't come back to school for quite
some time.
His father did die on that
day.
They had never
heard from him after that initial phone
call.
And when connor did come back to school later on in the school year--i think he came back in october--he wasn't the same kid.
The best way I can explain
it. It's almost as if he came
back from war.
He wasn't the
same bubbly,
energetic kid that he was at the beginning
of the school year.
And he didn't stick around for
much longer.
He did eventually
leave Kellenberg
.
I think he
finished his freshman
year in public school
Through the beauty of
facebook I've been able to keep in touch with some
of my former students
And I have since
learned that connor has
become
fdny.
I'm proud of him
for that.
I've seen pictures. I know that he's involved with the 5K race called Tunnels
to Towers race.
And they do it for
the memorial fund for
firfighters and their families.
He ran with a
friend with some of his
father's gear.
I think that is really cool.
But that was the
interaction that stood out for me that day.
At one point the principal broke in again
over the loudspeaker
during class.
And he advised us to turn on the television the kids could
watch the news.
And I think the
rational behind that was that he wanted actual
news to come to the kids rather
than just rumors.
So we did that.
We had televisions because of channel one And we
turned on the newsand it was basically
the image of the plane crashing into the tower on repeat over and over again.
We're watching this.
And suddenly it's like...
"maybe this isn't such a good idea.
Maybe we shouldn't be watching the
news."
So then another
announcement came over the
speaker to turn it
off.
Finally, when we were
dismissed for the day, the faculty
congregated in the big room again and
we were watching tv.
And nobody was in a hurry to
get out of there that day. Sports and after school
activities had been
cancelled.
One of my
colleagues left early
because her husband was in the trade
center.
And he was able to call her and say: "I'm not going to be
able to make it out of here."
And I didn't see this happen...
But other teachers had, and they were
incredibly emotional as a
result.
I remember about a week or so later, school was cancelled so
we could go to his funeral.
And that was a tough moment for
me.
It was standing room
only at that church and the
whole faculty had gone, and it was
only just another reason that I felt
part of that family at
Kellenberg.
I didn't cry all day.
I think I was in
some kind of state of
shock, for the most
part.
I felt like I was in control
all the time.
And when I had a chance to reflect on this later
on...
That's why I
thought that this was my best day
so far.
And it's 2013 and I can still look back on that day from 2001 and say
that that was my best day so
far.
That was when instinct kicked in.
That was when I had
those 35 face in the room who
were accountable
to me.
And I had to do the best I could for
them.
I had to keep them
calm.
I had to give
them the information
that they needed
without giving them so much
that they were
afraid.
I don't know if I did the right
thing, but looking back I think I did
the best I possible could
have.
I can't tell you
what happened the
next day or the day after that or any other
day in the following
weeks.
With the
exception of my
colleague's husband's funeral.
but that day vividly stands out as
my best day
Because that was the day I knew I had
made the right decision--not
necessarily teaching--but working with kids.
I knew I could do it.