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MONEY: Financial Realities MONEY: Financial Realities and Therapeutic Strategies and Therapeutic Strategies for Gambling Treatmentfor Gambling Treatment
Brian H. Farr, MA, LPC, NCGC-II1020 SW Taylor, Suite 820 Portland, Oregon 97205 503-224-0114 www.bhfarr.com
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Talk To Your Neighbor...Talk To Your Neighbor...
1) Describe one of your clients who has made progress during the past year…
2) Ask your neighbor what they want to learn today at this MONEY training…
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ListeningListening
Talking to gamblers about money…
begins with listening.
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ListeningListening
We are trained clinicians.
What do we listen for when our clients speak to us?
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ListeningListening
Listening with clinical ears:– Which financial issues are mentioned?– Does the client talk about past-due bills,
late payments or debts?– Is there a stable source of income?
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ListeningListening
Do your clients know you want to learn about their difficulties with money?
How will they know?
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Asking QuestionsAsking Questions
Ask concrete questions.
At first it may feel invasive to ask probing financial questions.
Ask the questions anyway…
ACQUISITIVE DESIRE: ASSESSMENT AND TREATMENTKottler, Montgomery and Shepard
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Asking QuestionsAsking Questions
Simple and direct questions will help clients talk about their finances:– Tell me about your bank account.– Do you have credit card debt? How much?
How do you feel about that debt?– What do you do with your bills and monthly
statements when they arrive in the mail?
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Asking QuestionsAsking Questions
Simple and direct…– What are your favorite possessions?
How and when did you acquire them?– Before the gambling got out of control,
how did you spend your extra money?
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Asking QuestionsAsking Questions
Simple and direct…– If you could change one thing that
would improve your relationship with money, what would it be?
– How can I help you make that change?
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Asking QuestionsAsking QuestionsAt first, it may feel uncomfortable to ask probing financial questions.
Ask the questions anyway…
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Why Talk About Money?Why Talk About Money?
73% of Americans report that money issues are their number one stressor, ahead of work, physical health and children.
Survey, March 31, 2004 American Psychological Association
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STRESS AND PRESSURE
OF THE WORLD
CORE SELF VS. THE WORLD
CORE
SELF
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Our Consumer Way of Life Our Consumer Way of Life ……Our enormously productive economy …demands that we make consumption our way of life, that we convert the buying and use of goods into rituals, that we seek our spiritual satisfaction, our ego satisfaction, in consumption…
Victor Lebow, U.S. retailing analyst following World War II YOUR MONEY OR YOUR LIFE, Dominguez & Robins
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Consumer CultureConsumer Culture
We are encouraged to define ourselves by spending money.
We are continually bombarded by messages that promote consumption.
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Consumer CultureConsumer Culture
Advertising and marketing expenditures directed at children in the USA:
1983: $100 Million2004: $15 Billion
BORN TO BUY, Juliet Schor, Scribner, 2004
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Consumer CultureConsumer Culture
Purchasing power of children aged four to twelve:
1989: $6.1 Billion2002: $30 Billion
BORN TO BUY, Juliet Schor, Scribner, 2004
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Consumer CultureConsumer Culture
Promoting Consumption:Eye-Tracking360° Marketing Neuromarketing
BORN TO BUY, Juliet Schor, Scribner, 2004
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Cultural InfluencesCultural InfluencesEvery individual has a relationship with money.
That relationship develops within the culture of their own unique life...
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CULTURECULTURE …… the definition:the definition:
Learned and shared values, beliefs and behaviors of a group of interacting people.
Janet & Milton Bennett, 1998 The Intercultural Communication Institute
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Cultural InfluencesCultural Influences
Racial BackgroundEthnic BackgroundReligious BackgroundFamily of OriginGender
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Cultural InfluencesCultural Influences
1) What cultural messages about money were conveyed to you by your racial, ethnic and/or religious backgrounds?
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Cultural InfluencesCultural Influences
2) What cultural messages about money were conveyed to you by your family?
By the socio-economic status of your family?
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Cultural InfluencesCultural Influences
3) What cultural messages about money were conveyed to you as a result of your gender?
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Cultural InfluencesCultural Influences
4) How are these cultural messages active in your life today?
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Cultural InfluencesCultural Influences
Are cultural messages active in the lives of your clients?
Are you willing to talk with your clients about money?
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Stages of ChangeStages of Change
How can we use the Stages of Change to help clients with their personal finances?
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Exploring Client Stage of ChangeExploring Client Stage of Change
PrecontemplationIt isn’t that they can’t see the solution. It’s that they can’t see the problem.
Contemplation“I want to stop feeling so stuck.”“I’m not quite ready yet.”
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Exploring Client Stage of ChangeExploring Client Stage of Change
PreparationPlanning to take action within the next month. Go public about the intended change.
ActionOvertly modify behavior. Make the move for which they have been preparing.
MaintenanceConsolidate the benefits of the Action Stage.
CHANGING FOR GOOD Prochaska, Norcross and Diclemente. Avon Books1994
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Exploring Client Stage of ChangeExploring Client Stage of Change
When we use the Stages of Change as a model for client development, we have three objectives:– Identify the client’s current Stage– Explore the issues at that current Stage– Assist with movement to the next Stage
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Developing Client MotivationDeveloping Client Motivation1) CONCERN
Precontemplation/Contemplation2) PROBLEM RECOGNITION
Contemplation3) INTENTION TO CHANGE
Preparation4) OPTIMISM
Preparation/Action
MOTIVATIONAL INTERVIEWING AND COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY An Integrated Strategy
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Developing Client MotivationDeveloping Client Motivation
1) CONCERN– What is there about your money that
gives you any reason for concern?– What can you imagine happening?– What do you think will happen
if you do not make a change?
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Developing Client MotivationDeveloping Client Motivation
2) PROBLEM RECOGNITION– What difficulties do you have with money?– Have you or others been harmed by
the way you handle your money?– How have your financial circumstances
interfered with what you really want to do?
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Developing Client MotivationDeveloping Client Motivation
3) INTENTION TO CHANGE– The fact that you are talking about money
indicates that at least some part of you thinks it is time to do something.
– What are the reasons you see for changing?– What are the advantages of making changes?
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Developing Client MotivationDeveloping Client Motivation
4) OPTIMISM– What is encouraging you to make this change?– If you decide to change:
What makes you think you could do it?What do you think would work for you?Why do you think this will work?
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Stages of Change: SummaryStages of Change: Summary
– Identify Client’s Current Stage– Explore the Issues at that Current Stage– Assist with Movement to the Next Stage
Develop Discrepancy (magnify dissonance)Roll with Resistance (roll, roll, roll)Support Self-Efficacy
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Relationship IssuesRelationship Issues
When the gambler stops gambling,and the partner cools down,
there might be an opportunityfor financial healing…
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Relationship IssuesRelationship Issues
Personal power in a marriage frequently correlates to economic power. The partner who earns less often comes to therapy in a disempowered position.If therapists are blind to (or minimize) this power imbalance, they implicitly align themselves with the economically dominant partner.
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Relationship IssuesRelationship IssuesMoney is a symbol of trust in a partnership or family.– Basic survival and security– Economic quality of life – Status in community – Future prospects
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Relationship IssuesRelationship Issues
Building new and healthy financial systems…
… can rebuild trust within a partnership or family.
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Working with Relationship IssuesWorking with Relationship Issues
Simple and direct questions will help clients talk about their finances:– Tell me about your bank account.– Do you have credit card debt? How much?
How do you feel about that debt?– What do you do with your bills and monthly
statements when they arrive in the mail?
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Working with Relationship IssuesWorking with Relationship Issues
Help the individuals identify good times for talking about money...
and bad times.
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Working with Relationship IssuesWorking with Relationship Issues
Identify the Terrific Time ZonesQuiet weekend mornings, evenings after the kids are settled, on a walk …
Identify the Terrible Time ZonesRight before work, kids under foot, TV blaring, in bed falling asleep…
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Working with Relationship IssuesWorking with Relationship IssuesA solution focus can create small positive results and useful momentum.
Help your clients do something right with
their money…
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Working with Relationship IssuesWorking with Relationship Issues
Explore financial issues with simple questions: – How did you handle money
when you were dating? – What was your financial situation
when you first lived together?– Tell me about some of your major purchases
(television, furniture, car or house) …
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Working with Relationship IssuesWorking with Relationship Issues
Ask questions that might offset current fears about money:– When have you felt most comfortable
about your personal finances?– What has been successful in the past?– What is working well today?
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Couples, Individuals, EveryoneCouples, Individuals, Everyone
Remember…focus on solutionswith the financial issues.
Help your clients do something right with their money…
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Treatment PlanningTreatment Planning
S.M.A.R.T.SpecificMeasurableAttainableRealisticTime-limited
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Treatment PlanningTreatment Planning
Create The Very Best WeddingObjective:– Find a fabulous dress within the budget
Look through bridal magazinesVisit 5 boutiques or dress shops Look at 3 dresses in each store
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Treatment PlanningTreatment Planning
Create The Very Best WeddingObjective:– Serve a sit-down dinner to 100 wedding guests
Talk to 5 friends/relatives for suggestions of experienced and qualified wedding caterers Meet with 3 different catering companies Taste the food of the #1 company
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Treatment PlanningTreatment Planning
Win the Super BowlObjective:– Win more games than other teams in division
Find 5 new players for the offensive squadFind 4 new players for the defensive squadImprove preseason weight-training programs
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Treatment PlanningTreatment Planning
Win the Super BowlObjective:– Win the game this coming Sunday
Score more points than other team– Develop 3 new plays for the offense
Reduce number of points scored by other team– Extra 2-hour chalk-talk with the defensive squad– Install new formation for defensive special team
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Treatment PlanningTreatment PlanningDemonstrate Understanding of
Personal Cash FlowObjective:– Track every dollar spent for 30 days– Complete Snapshot of Average Month
Research household utility costsCalculate 30 days of groceries, meals out, snacksInvestigate money spent on gifts and vacations
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Treatment PlanningTreatment PlanningMaintain effective household
money management systemObjective:– No bounced checks or NSF fees
Reduce number of auto-deduct paymentsTrack ALL check and debit card transactions
– No late fees or over-limit feesPost the due dates on the kitchen calendarTrack every dollar spent on each card
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Credit CounselingCredit CounselingNational Foundation for Credit Counseling
http://www.nfcc.org800-388-2227
Free and low-cost help from a trained, certified counselor who will assist in determining the best options to meet individual needs. Para ayuda en Español Ilama al800-682-9832.
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Reduce Credit Card OffersReduce Credit Card Offers
www.optoutprescreen.com888-567-8688Use this website or phone number to remove names from the mailing lists of the credit rating organizations and reduce the preapproved credit card offers that arrive in the mailbox…