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&MRS.VOLUM E 3 | NO. 1 8
RU S T I C W E D D I N G S | G R A N D R A P I D S , M I C H I G A N | FA L L I S S U E 2 0 1 5 | M R & M R S .
Having the opportunity to capture such a beautiful day is an honor. Being by the couple’s side from the beginning of hair and makeup, to the first sight, and then hearing the exchanges of “I do’s” between husband and wife is a responsibility that I don’t take lightly. I delight in knowing that I am able to preserve those memories that the new Mr. and Mrs. can look back on and remember the day that they became united, and one.
Photographer | Designer
WEDDINGS
LAWSON 1 MOREHOUSE 9 RINNELS 17 ROBINSON 25| | |
WELCOME LAWSON | OCT. 18
LAWSON WEDDING | 1
So I’m not a girly girl at all!
Never wanted the fairy tale wedding, the poofy
dress none of it! Swore up and down I was never
going to get married! Then I met Noah...
Things changed, and from day one I pretty much
knew we would be together for ever! After 6
years of living in sin, as we called it, we did
everything backwards, First kids, then bought the
house, then we decided to get married... On our
defense they say it takes 2 years fully living with
someone to truly know them... So after 6 I know
him pretty well! Then came the dress shopping...
I had a dress in my head and a budget! I went
and searched out the style I thought I wanted
and in the right price range...
None of it worked... Looked horrible wasn’t
feeling it, not me at all... Then my mom picked
out this poofy, sparkly over the top, everything I
hated princess dress! Three times my budget! To
please her I tried it on, Fit like a glove perfect to
a T! The moment I walked out of the fitting room,
My Sister, Best Friends, Mother and soon to be
Mother in law all started to cry, at that moment
we knew it was the one!
FOREVER | LOVE.
“You don’t love someone because they’re perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they’re not.”
Jodi Picoult
I never believed people when they said you will
know what dress is the one, until that zipper
reached the top and it was perfect! I knew it was
the one! We ordered our bouquets through a
local company, when meeting with then for the
first time realized they have the perfect setting
for pictures! Two huge barns, perfect Romeo and
Juliet balcony, beautiful wild flowers everywhere!
It was just simply perfect! It had been misting all
day, Said for weeks it would rain the whole day.
But for that hour or so we were out there taking
pictures it was amazing! No rain at all, the sun
was just peaking through making the shots in the
barn wonderful! On the way back from the barns
found a perfect spot on the Grand River to get
some of my handsome man and I! Just us two...
those are by far my favorite!
We had the ceremony and recep-
tion at the same place, Its called
the Waddell Center just outside of
downtown.
Some think it was small but it was perfect for us.
Just the right amount! We had roughly 125 guest,
we actually got to sit and talk with everyone!
It was convenient for all the out of town guest
we had! The ceremony was short and sweet, my
cousin was the officiate so that was a special
touch. I do remember my walk down the isle
being a little long, I don’t remember even seeing
the people as I walked past them I was focusing
on not falling!
“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
WELCOME MOREHOUSE | SEPT. 5
LOVE | I DO.MOREHOUSE | 10
Growing up, I was never really the type to
“dream” about the princess wedding I would
have when the time were to come to marry
the man of my dreams. Of course, I had
thought about what the day might be like. The
“dreaming” didn’t really come until I had finally
started spending more and more time with
the man I knew I wanted to marry. As the years
passed, I knew he was the one and just antici-
pated the day that we would become husband
and wife!
Finally! The day had come, my man proposed
after 5 wonderful years of being together. We
started the planning right away even though
I had not a clue what to do. I had never been
in a wedding before, nor had I come close to
planning one. It was so much fun in the begin-
ning stages together, then it turned to stress!
One of my favorite parts that took
away some of the stress was picking
out my very own wedding dress!
I had watched so many shows about “saying
yes to the dress” and was so excited that it
was finally my turn. I tried on about 5 dresses
at the first place that I had always dreamed
about wearing and none of them felt quite right.
Well, at the next place that we did not have an
“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”
Robert A. Heinlein
appointment at, I tried on the first dress we saw
that was completely different. I walked out of the
dressing room and turned to look in the mirror
and knew right away that it was the one! All of
my bridesmaids and my mom started to cry and
that just reassured my feelings. I felt amazing! It
was a beautiful dropped waist gown with just the
right amount of ruffles and it was unique in style.
Thank goodness for that moment of feeling stress
free! It was all I had ever imagined it to be.
In the final months of planning, I felt as if my
head was going to explode. Even the hours and
minutes leading up to the moment I would stand
in front of my groom saying our vows, I felt as if
my head was spinning. There was a brief moment
after getting the ceremony put together on the
morning of the best day of my life that everything
just didn’t seem to matter anymore. Today was
the day I would marry my best friend and that
was the only thing that mattered to me from that
point on. I was about to marry a man who was
more caring, loving, kind and passionate about
life than anyone I had ever met.
I had my family and friends surrounding me in
my house, craziness happening all around. I
was getting pampered left and right, hair and
makeup getting done, my mind going crazy.
The time came when I could finally put on the
most beautiful dress I could have ever dreamed
about. Everything was becoming so real and I
could not believe the time was finally here! The
time came when I was all done getting ready to
go see my dad. I walked out of my house and
turned the corner to show my dad how I looked
on my wedding day. That was one of a very
few times that I had ever seen my dad cry, with
actual tears! He was so surprised and so very
happy that his daughter was having the best and
most beautiful day of her life in every way.
I will always look back on my wedding day
and have happy memories and know that
every moment leading up to my big day was
truly worth everything I put into it. I was finally
married to the man I know was always meant for me.
RINNELS WEDDING | 17
WELCOME RINNELS | SEPT. 22
My wedding day began... in a suite of a hotel with all of my bridesmaids
and two flower girls. I remember waking up and
not knowing what to expect, yet having so many
expectations. I felt nervous, giddy, thankful and
most of all excited to marry my best friend of
7 years! I wanted to take in every moment, I
wanted to embrace it, cherish it, and remember it
forever.
After a morning of coffee, hair, makeup, my girls
and many smiles and laughs we were off to the
venue. Brandon and I enjoy the outdoors and
have never been into anything really fancy. We
are both pretty simple and both wanted our day
to be about celebrating with family and friends.
Which is why we choose an outdoor venue with a
picnic style dinner. Charlton Park was the perfect
location with beautiful landscaping and a fun
atmosphere.
When I pulled up I got to see the
work of art created by my florist.
She did an amazing job creating and
setting up all the centerpieces.
My flowers were a variation of types, ranging
from lilies to orchids, and different colors of
orange and grey. Again with the simplicity but
with a pop of color. I couldn’t imagine them
ALWAYS | LOVE.
looking more beautiful and fresh. They were
more than I could of asked for and the set up
was beautiful. I remember feeling like it was all
coming together, this vision I had for 2 years.
At this point it was time to get dressed!
Unzipping the bag that had carried my dress
was really emotional for me. It was almost time
to see my best friend, to walk down the aisle to
the man of my dreams, to tie the knot officially
and combine 2 families into 1.
My girls helped slip my ivory, satin dress over
my big hair and zipped me up. It felt like a
fairytale, but each moment that passed made
me realize it was real life. My dress made me
feel complete, made me feel beautiful. My best
“In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours.In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.”
Maya Angelou
friend was the one who picked it off the rack and
I remember saying “yes” to this one because it
felt comfortable and fit me like a glove. It was
simple but elegant and made me feel amazing.
Before I knew it we were only a couple hours
from wedding time. I couldn’t wait to see my
future husband! As I walked across the lawn to
meet him I still had all the same feelings running
through me but I was starting to not be able
to wipe the smile off my face. This was really
happening!
When I saw Brandon’s smile and he kissed me
on the forehead, like he always did, I couldn’t
help but feel like the most beautiful girl. I was so
incredibly happy and in love with this man.
When it came time to walk down the aisle I
couldn’t believe where the time had gone!
As my Dad began to walk me down the aisle I
remember seeing all the faces of friends and
family, it was surreal. Brandon and I began
reciting our vows, that we picked out together,
exchanging rings and actually tying a knot! We
had done it, we had gotten married!!
It was time to party! The rest of the night
was filled with amazing food, cake, pictures,
dancing, drinks, and more dancing. We had an
amazing time with all of our guests that shared
our special day. We still have people tell us
how much fun they had at our wedding. We
credit that to our relaxed theme and venue. We
couldn’t have asked for a better night, it was all
we ever asked for.
RINNELS WEDDING | 24
WELCOME ROBINSON | AUG. 3
My wedding day was not your typical fairy tale wedding... More twine, less sparkle.. To me it was perfec-
tion. 50 of my closest family and friends waiting
outside in the beautiful garden planted and
cared for by myself and one of my closest
friends.
I was nervously waiting inside along with my
father who could barely hold back tears for he
was about to walk me down the aisle and hand
me off to the care another man.
The music began and my flower girl excitedly
rushed toward her uncle Jake to give him the
little note I wrote him before she took her seat.
My song started. Nervous as all get out, I take
my dads arm and away we go. Wow, I can’t
even put into words the way my future husband
looked as we met eyes for the first time in over a
day. He was so handsome, and so mine. Hearing
those vows come sweetly off his lips, I was
hypnotized in awe that this day was really here!
“Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet under-standing, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses”
Ann Landers
Being so young, only 20 at the time while my
husband was 22 I never thought I would find this
kind of love so soon.
The crazy, mad, endless laughter kind
of love. It was deep and so so real.
My badass tattooed biker boy whisked me off in
my dress and all on his Harley and we’ve lived
happily every after! It’s been a year and a half
since that day and I still remember it like it was
yesterday. It was everything I could’ve wished for
and more.
“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”
Dr. Seuss
YOUNG | LOVE.
Let us always meet each other with a smile,
Mother Teresa
for the smile is the begging of love.
xoxo.
D A N I E L L E R E I D S M A | P H O T O G R A P H E R & D E S I G N E R | D A N I E L L E R E I D S M A @ G M A I L . C O M
Coming January 2016
In this Winter edition of Mr. & Mrs. we will be featuring cakes,
center pieces, and a variety of indoor venues. Readers will follow a
number of brides as they plan their winter wonderland weddings,
snow and all! We hope that our readers feel included in their
special days throughout the issue, acting as an unofficial guest at
some of the most beautiful weddings of the season. Brides to be,
rest assured that if your special day will take place in the winter
there is no reason to be overwhelmed. You will be amazed at how
the snow can add just the right touch to your picturesque winter
fairytale, and create stunning memories that will last a lifetime.