"OK" (also spelled "okay", "ok", or "O.K.") is a word denoting approval, acceptance, agreement, assent, or acknowledgment. "OK", as an adjective, can also express acknowledgment without approval. So says the wiki definition of this word.

However, the use of the word “OK” at the end of a statement is often the word used when a customer, client or family member wants an immediate answer to a pertinent question. How often do you hear a waitress or airline ticket agent comment, “It’s going to be awhile, OK?” This is not what you want to hear.

It’s another way to avoid giving a reason for the consequence. It is a hidden indiffence to an honest inquiry and could be considered rude to many persons including myself. Many times I have heard an individual come back with a “No! It’s not OK.” What would you say if challenged?

What instances would most persons avoid making this a part of an expression? I could think of a few:

A doctor tells a family “Your loved one is dying. OK?” A banker tells a client, “A check bounced on your account, OK? Your best friend says, “I’m having an affair with your spouse, OK?” Your minister says, “I baptize you in the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Ghost, OK?”

By now you are now aware of the fallacy of this statement. No one wants to hear this disclaimer at the end of a statement. Be sure to think first what you mean before you say it. Most clients, family members and the general public would like an honest and positive reply to their inquiry, good or bad.

Have a nice day, what’s left of it, OK?