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Mindfulness in a Mindless World – Rabbi Efrem Goldberg

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Mindfulness in a Mindless World – Rabbi Efrem Goldberg

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I. Introduction a. Guru – come home b. Mindfulness growingin popularity and research c. In truth, Judaism endorsed, promoted and prescribed mindfulness long before anyone else

II. The Present – The Only Dimension that Matters

a. Rosh Hashana judgment is about the present i. Rosh Hashana 16b ii. Kiddushin 49b

b. Rabbi Soloveitchik – three dimensions blend into one – the present c. Rav Kook – teshuva not about the past but about correcting influence of past in the present

i. Menachem Tziyon – Don’t be stuck in the mistakes of the past d. Avos – Roeh es ha’nolad, anticipate the future

i. Rambam – says nolad, not asid. Being born out of today’s actions, the present. e. Dr. Jon Kabat Zinn – the present

III. Jewish Mindfulness

a. Ramchal – zehirus, caution and mindfulness b. Yetzer ha’rah pushes us to be mindless

i. Alter of Novardok ii. Harvard research

c. R’ Chaim Friedlander – meaningful life is a life of being mindful d. Torah mindfulness

i. Rav Kook – fundamental to living ii. Ramban – you are where your head is

1. V’heyei shaim – be where you are iii. Kotzker Rebbe and R’ Moishele Kobriner iv. Chelban – be immersed entirely in what you are doing

IV. Mindful Meditation

a. Shabbos as a model i. R’ Chaim Friedlander – Hashem created a concept called rest ii. Apter Rav – Shomer Shabbos

b. Breathing i. R’ Aryeh Kaplan – meditation ii. Neshima and Neshama

1. Nefesh Ha’Chaim iii. Breathing exercise together iv. Be a thermostat, not a thermometer

V. Minfulness Living

a. Overcome rote and habit i. Yeshaya – mitzvos anashim milumada ii. Chelban – regel, raglayim

1. Tadir v’she’eino tadir – more emphasis on what we do more often b. Kavana means kivum, sharp and pointed

i. Shemen Ha’Tov – teshuva for doing mitzvos mindlessly c. Zerizus

i. Pesachim ii. Orchos Tzadikim – critical attribute. When focused, will act with alacrity.

d. Pizur Ha’Nefesh – scattered and fragmented i. Chovos Ha’Levovos – prayer to not be distracted

VI. Mindfulness of Hashem

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a. Emunah i. Rambam – love and awe result from contemplation ii. Rama – Shivisi Hashem l’negdi samid

1. Biur Halacha – 6 constant mitzvos iii. Rambam – berachos keep us conscious of Hashem

VII. Mindfulness Throughout the Day

a. Way we wake up i. Tie shoes ii. Birchos Ha’shachar

iii. Asher Yatzar – mindful of blessing to relieve oneself b. Purpose of berachos – mindfulness c. Mindful of nature around us – thunder, lightening, rainbow, etc.

VIII. Mindful eating

a. Research b. Purpose of kashrus

i. Ohr Ha’Chaim – Adom was eating mindlessly ii. Reb Nachman

iii. Rabbeinu Bachya – kashrus promotes discipline c. Kitzur Shulchan Aruch – chewing d. Berachos on food

i. Berachos 35a – like stealing ii. Rav Tzadok – purpose of berachos to imbue gratitude

iii. Ben Ish Chai – 100 berachos a day to be mindful during day e. Mindful eating exercise together

IX. Mindfulness in Mitzvos

a. L’maan taskilu i. Ibn Ezra – success ii. Yerushalmi – contemplative

b. Birchos ha’mitzvos i. R’ Elimelech – l’sheim kudsha ii. Noda B’Yehudah – no need, we have berachos

c. Yarmulka – promotes mindfulness i. Shabbos 156b ii. R’ Yehoshua of Belz – yarmulke = yarei malak, fear of King

X. Mindfulness in prayer

a. Modeled after korbanos i. Pigul – wrong though invalidates

b. Needs chizuk – berachos 32b c. Easy to be distracted

i. Yerushalmi d. Without concentration no value

i. Rabbeinu Yonah ii. Rambam

iii. Shulchan Aruch

XI. Conclusion a. Christopher Reeve story – mindlessness is our kryptonite b. Pilot or Passenger of your life? c. Disconnect to connect d. Mindfulness key to meaning

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ork

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/201

5/04

/19/

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2. APA

Benefits of Mindfulness

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4. Meditation Instead of Detention

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7. Out of the Whirlwind R’ Yosef Dov Soloveitchik

(1903-1993)

6. Kiddushin 49b

5. Rosh Hashana 16b

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8. H

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“Nowisalwaystherighttime,becauseitistheonlytime.”

9. Ma’ariv “Hashkiveinu”

10. Menachem Tziyon R’ Menachem Benzion Zaks

(1896-1987)

11. Pirkei Avos 2:13

12. Rambam (1135-1204)

13. Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn

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“The power of the Satan lies in rushing a person to carry out an action right away, before he stops to consider and wonder about what he is doing. The deed is done and there he stands, deliberating after the fact.“

16. Wandering Mind

15. R’ Yosef Yozel Hurwitz Alter of Novardok (1847-1919)

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Whenweelevatematterswithourclarityofintent,ourawarenesscontinuouslyexpandsintheabundanceofasuperiorreality.Atthatpoint,ourdesire—adesireofeternallove,ofgreatlove—forthelightoftheinfiniteisscentedfromtheEdenoflife.Thenweshallgazeandbeillumined.Butifourmindfulnessisdislodgedandgrowsimpoverished,thefaceofheavendarkens.Beautyturnstomourningandtobarrenness.Thenthatclarifyingprocessthatcomesfromheaven,whichdemandstherighttoplayitsrole,depressesthespecialmissionofhumanity.Itdullsthelightofmindfulnessandthecompletecontentsofafulllife.Thisclarifyingprocess,reachingtotherootofallbeing,isanecessity:deeplyimplantedandflowingwithoutcease.Now,thewellspringsoftheflowoflifedryupbecauseourhandsarefeebleindealingwiththesupernalTorah.Buteverythingreturnstoitslightandtoitsshininglifewhenweengageinsupernalrepentancefilledwithknowledgeandpositivemindfulness,illuminedwiththelightofTorahcontainedwithinthewisdomoftheJewishpeople,whichistheinheritanceofourpatriarchsandwhichisfilledwithaneternalglory.Thetextoftheblessing,“Heplantedeternallifewithinus,”referstotheoralTorah:inallitslevelsandinthetotalityofitsbeauty.

17. Menuchas Ha’Nefesh R’ Chaim Friedlander

(1923-1986)

18. Rav Avraham Yitzchak Kook (1865-1935)

Orot Ha’Torah 3:2

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”.A person exists where his thoughts are״

Hashem said to Moshe, “Ascend to Me to the mountain and be there, and I shall give you the stone tablets and the teaching and the commandment that I have wri#en, to teach them.”

19. Ramban Iggeres Ha’Kodesh chap. 5

20. Shemos 24:12

21. Talelei Chaim Chelban

R’ Chaim Cohen

22. Menuchas Ha’Nefesh R’ Chaim Friedlander

(1923-1986)

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23. To Be an Erev Shabbos Jew Rabbi Dr. Jacob J. Schacter

24. Menuchas Ha’Nefesh R’ Chaim Friedlander

(1923-1986)

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27. Nefesh Ha’Chaim R’ Chaim Volozhener

(1749-1821) 26. Bereishis

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“And their fear of Me was by rote”

28. Yeshayahu 29:13

29. Talelei Chaim Chelban

R’ Chaim Cohen

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30. Shemen Ha’Tov R’ Bernard Weinberger

31. Pesachim 50b

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34. Chovos Ha’Levavos R’ Bachya Ibn Paquda

11th Century Spain

35. R’ Ovadia Bartenura

33. Menuchas Ha’Nefesh R’ Chaim Friedlander

(1923-1986)

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1

It is a mitzvah to love and fear this glorious and awesome God, as [Deuteronomy 6:5] states: "And you shall love God, your Lord" and, as [Deuteronomy 6:13] states: "Fear God, your Lord."

2

What is the path [to attain] love and fear of Him? When a person contemplates His wondrous and great deeds and creations and appreciates His infinite wisdom that surpasses all comparison, he will immediately love, praise, and glorify [Him], yearning with tremendous desire to know [God's] great name, as David stated: "My soul thirsts for the Lord, for the living God" [Psalms 42:3].

When he [continues] to reflect on these same matters, he will immediately recoil in awe and fear, appreciating how he is a tiny, lowly, and dark creature, standing with his flimsy, limited, wisdom before He who is of perfect knowledge, as David stated: "When I see Your heavens, the work of Your fingers... [I wonder] what is man that You should recall Him" [Psalms 8:4-5].

Based on these concepts, I will explain important principles regarding the deeds of the Master of the worlds to provide a foothold for a person of understanding to [develop] love for God, as our Sages said regarding love: "In this manner, you will recognize He who spoke and [thus,] brought the world into being."

36. Or Ha’Meir R’ Zev Wolf of Zhitomir

37. Rambam Hilchos Yesodei Ha’Torah

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38. Shulchan Aruch Rama Siman #1

39. Biur Halacha R’ Yisroel Meir Kagan

(1839-1933)

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Just as we recite blessings for benefit which we derive from the world, we should also recite blessings for each mitzvah before we fulfill it.

Similarly, the Sages instituted many blessings as expressions of praise and thanks to God and as a means of petition, so that we will always remember the Creator, even though we have not received any benefit or performed a mitzvah.

40. Rambam Hilchos Berachos 1:3

41. Shulchan Aruch

42. Mishna Berura

43. Shulchan Aruch

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Kenneth M.Prager, M.D. Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center, New York

When I was an elementary school student in yeshiva - a Jewish parochial school with both religious and secular studies - my classmates and I used to find amusing a sign that was posted just outside the bathroom. It was an ancient Jewish blessing, commonly referred to as the asher yatzar benediction, that was supposed to be recited after one relieved oneself. For grade school children, there could be nothing more strange or ridiculous than to link to acts of micturition and defecation with holy words that mentioned God's name. Blessings were reserved for prayers, for holy days, or for thanking God for food or for some act of deliverance, but surely not for a bodily function that evoked smirks and giggles.

It took me several decades to realize the wisdom that lay behind this blessing that was composed by Abayei, a fourth-century Babylonian rabbi.

Abayei's blessing is contained in the Talmud, an encyclopedic work of Jewish law and lore that was written over the first five centuries of the common era. The Jewish religion is chock-full of these blessings, or brachot, as they are called in Hebrew. In fact, an entire tractate of Talmud, 128 pages in length, is devoted to brachot. On page 120 (Brachot 60b) of the ancient text it is written:

"Abayei said, when one comes out of a privy he should say: Blessed is He who has formed man in wisdom and created in him many orifices and many cavities. It is obvious and known before Your throne of glory that if one of them were to be ruptured or one of them blocked, it would be impossible for a man to survive and stand before You. Blessed are You that heals all flesh and does wonders."

An observant Jew is supposed to recite this blessing in Hebrew after each visit to the bathroom. We young yeshiva students were reminded of our obligation to recite this prayer by the signs that contained its text that were posted just outside the restroom doors.

It is one thing, however, to post these signs and it is quite another to realistically expect preadolescents to have the maturity to realize the wisdom of and need for reciting a 1600-year-old blessing related to bodily functions.

It was not until my second year of medical school that I first began to understand the appropriateness of this short prayer. Pathophysiology brought home to me the terrible consequences of even minor aberrations in the structure and function of the human body, At the very least, I began to no longer take for granted the normalcy of my trips to the bathroom. Instead, I started to realize how many things had to operate just right for these minor interruptions of my daily routine to run smoothly.

I thought of Abayei and his blessing. I recalled my days at yeshiva and remembered how silly that sign outside the bathroom had seemed. But after seeing patients whose lives revolved around their dialysis machines, and others with colostomies and urinary catheters, I realized how wise the rabbi had been.

And then it happened: I began to recite Abayei's bracha. At first I had to go back to my siddur, the Jewish prayer book, to get the text right. With repetition - and there were many opportunities for a novice to get to know this blessing well - I could recite it fluently and with sincerity and understanding.

Over the years, reciting the asher yatzar has become for me and opportunity to offer thanks not just for the proper functioning of my excretory organs, but for my overall good health. The text, after all, refers to catastrophic consequences of the rupture or obstruction of any bodily structure, not only those of the urinary or gastrointestinal tract. Could Abayei, for example, have foreseen that "blockage" of the "cavity," or lumen, of the coronary artery would lead to the commonest cause of death in industrialized countries some 16 centuries later?

I have often wondered if other people also yearn for some way to express gratitude for their good health. Physicians especially, who are exposed daily to the ravages that illness can wreak, must sometimes feel the need to express thanks for being well and thus well-being. Perhaps a generic, nondenominational asher yatzar could be composed for those who want to verbalize their gratitude for being blessed with good health.

There was one unforgettable patient whose story reinforced the truth and beauty of the asher yatzar for me forever. Josh was a 20-year-old student who sustained an unstable fracture of his third and fourth cervical vertebrae in a motor vehicle crash. He nearly died from his injury and required emergency intubation and ventilatory support. He was initially totally quadriplegic but for weak flexion of his right biceps.

A long and difficult period of stabilization and rehabilitation followed. There were promising signs of neurological recovery over the first few months that came suddenly and unexpectedly: movement of a finger here, flexion of a toe there, return of sensation here, adduction of a muscle group there. With incredible courage, hard work, and an excellent physical therapist, Josh improved day by day. In time, and after what seemed like a miracle, he was able to walk slowly with a leg brace and a cane.

But Josh continued to require intermittent catheterization. I know only too well the problems and perils this young man would face for the rest of his life because of a neurogenic bladder. The urologists were very pessimistic about his chances for not requiring catheterization. They had not seen this occur after a spinal cord injury of this severity.

Then the impossible happened. I was there the day Josh no longer required a urinary catheter. I thought of Abayei's asher yatzar prayer. Pointing out that I could not imagine a more meaningful scenario for its recitation, I suggested to Josh, who was also a yeshiva graduate, that he say the prayer. He agreed. As he recited the ancient bracha, tears welled in my eyes.

Josh is my son.

JAMA–JournalofAmericanMedicalAssociation 44. JAMA Dr. Kenneth Prager

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45. Mishna Berura

46. Berachos 60b

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DINING & WINE

Mindful Eating as Food for ThoughtBy JEFF GORDINIER FEB. 7, 2012

TRY this: place a forkful of food in your mouth. It doesn’t matter what the food is,but make it something you love — let’s say it’s that first nibble from three hot,fragrant, perfectly cooked ravioli.

Now comes the hard part. Put the fork down. This could be a lot morechallenging than you imagine, because that first bite was very good and anotherimmediately beckons. You’re hungry.

Today’s experiment in eating, however, involves becoming aware of thatreflexive urge to plow through your meal like Cookie Monster on a shortbreadbender. Resist it. Leave the fork on the table. Chew slowly. Stop talking. Tune in tothe texture of the pasta, the flavor of the cheese, the bright color of the sauce in thebowl, the aroma of the rising steam.

Continue this way throughout the course of a meal, and you’ll experience thethird-eye-opening pleasures and frustrations of a practice known as mindful eating.

The concept has roots in Buddhist teachings. Just as there are forms of meditationthat involve sitting, breathing, standing and walking, many Buddhist teachersencourage their students to meditate with food, expanding consciousness by payingclose attention to the sensation and purpose of each morsel. In one commonexercise, a student is given three raisins, or a tangerine, to spend 10 or 20 minutesgazing at, musing on, holding and patiently masticating.

Lately, though, such experiments of the mouth and mind have begun to seep

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48. Mindful Eating

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into

a se

cula

r are

na, f

rom

the

Har

vard

Sch

ool o

f Pub

lic H

ealth

to th

e Ca

lifor

nia

cam

pus o

f Goo

gle.

In th

e ey

es o

f som

e ex

pert

s, w

hat s

eem

s lik

e th

e si

mpl

est o

f act

s—

eat

ing

slow

ly a

nd g

enui

nely

relis

hing

eac

h bi

te —

cou

ld b

e th

e re

med

y fo

r afa

st-p

aced

Pau

la D

een

Nat

ion

in w

hich

an

endl

ess p

arad

e of

new

die

ts n

ever

seem

sto

slow

a st

ampe

de to

war

d ob

esity

.

Min

dful

eat

ing

is n

ot a

die

t, or

abo

ut g

ivin

g up

any

thin

g at

all.

It’s

abou

tex

peri

enci

ng fo

od m

ore

inte

nsel

y —

esp

ecia

lly th

e pl

easu

re o

f it.

You

can

eat a

chee

sebu

rger

min

dful

ly, i

f you

wis

h. Y

ou m

ight

enj

oy it

a lo

t mor

e. O

r you

mig

htde

cide

, hal

fway

thro

ugh,

that

you

r bod

y ha

s had

eno

ugh.

Or t

hat i

t rea

lly n

eeds

som

esa

lad. “T

his i

s ant

i-die

t,” sa

id D

r. Ja

n Ch

ozen

Bay

s, a

ped

iatr

icia

n an

d m

edita

tion

teac

her i

n O

rego

n an

d th

e au

thor

of “

Min

dful

Eat

ing:

A G

uide

to R

edis

cove

ring

aH

ealth

y an

d Jo

yful

Rel

atio

nshi

p w

ith F

ood.

” “I t

hink

the

fund

amen

tal p

robl

em is

that

we

go u

ncon

scio

us w

hen

we

eat.”

The

last

few

yea

rs h

ave

brou

ght a

spat

e of

boo

ks, b

logs

and

vid

eos a

bout

hyp

er-

cons

ciou

s eat

ing.

A H

arva

rd n

utri

tioni

st, D

r. Li

lian

Cheu

ng, h

as d

evot

ed h

erse

lf to

stud

ying

its b

enef

its, a

nd is

pas

sion

atel

y en

cour

agin

g co

rpor

atio

ns a

nd h

ealth

car

epr

ovid

ers t

o tr

y it.

At th

e Fo

od a

nd B

rand

Lab

at C

orne

ll U

nive

rsity

, Pro

f. Br

ian

Wan

sink

, the

auth

or o

f “M

indl

ess E

atin

g: W

hy W

e Ea

t Mor

e Th

an W

e Th

ink,

” has

con

duct

edsc

ores

of e

xper

imen

ts o

n th

e ps

ycho

logi

cal f

acto

rs th

at le

ad to

our

bot

tom

less

bing

eing

. A m

indf

ul lu

nch

hour

rece

ntly

bec

ame

part

of t

he sc

hedu

le a

t Goo

gle,

and

self-

help

gur

us li

ke O

prah

Win

frey

and

Kat

hy F

rest

on h

ave

beco

me

chee

rlea

ders

for

the

prac

tice.

With

the

annu

al c

how

-dow

ns o

f Tha

nksg

ivin

g, C

hris

tmas

and

Sup

er B

owl

Sund

ay b

ehin

d us

, and

Len

t com

ing,

it’s

wor

th p

onde

ring

whe

ther

min

dful

eat

ing

isso

met

hing

that

the

mai

nstr

eam

oug

ht to

be,

wel

l, m

ore

min

dful

of.

Coul

d a

disc

iplin

e pi

onee

red

by B

uddh

ist m

onks

and

nun

s hel

p te

ach

us h

ow to

get

hea

lthy,

relie

ve st

ress

and

shed

man

y of

the

neur

oses

that

we’

ve c

ome

to a

ssoc

iate

with

food

?

Dr.

Cheu

ng is

con

vinc

ed th

at it

can

. Las

t wee

k, sh

e m

et w

ith te

am m

embe

rs a

t

Min

dful

Eat

ing

as W

ay to

Fig

ht B

inge

ing

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Har

vard

Pilg

rim

Hea

lth C

are

and

aske

d th

em to

spen

d qu

ality

tim

e w

ith a

cho

cola

te-

cove

red

alm

ond.

“The

rhyt

hm o

f life

is b

ecom

ing

fast

er a

nd fa

ster

, so

we

real

ly d

on’t

have

the

sam

e aw

aren

ess a

nd th

e sa

me

abili

ty to

che

ck in

to o

urse

lves

,” sa

id D

r. Ch

eung

, who

,w

ith th

e Vi

etna

mes

e Bu

ddhi

st m

onk

Thic

h N

hat H

anh,

co-

wro

te “S

avor

: Min

dful

Eatin

g, M

indf

ul L

ife.”

“Tha

t’s w

hy m

indf

ul e

atin

g is

bec

omin

g m

ore

impo

rtan

t. W

ene

ed to

be

com

ing

back

to o

urse

lves

and

sayi

ng: ‘

Doe

s my

body

nee

d th

is?

Why

am

Iea

ting

this

? Is

it ju

st b

ecau

se I’

m so

sad

and

stre

ssed

out

?’ ”

The

topi

c ha

s eve

n fo

und

its w

ay in

to c

ulin

ary

circ

les t

hat t

end

to b

e m

ore

focu

sed

on R

abel

aisi

an e

xces

s tha

n m

onas

tic re

stra

int.

In J

anua

ry, D

r. M

icha

elFi

nkel

stei

n, a

hol

istic

phy

sici

an w

ho o

vers

ees S

unR

aven

, a h

olis

tic-li

ving

cen

ter i

nBe

dfor

d, N

.Y.,

gave

a ta

lk a

bout

min

dful

gar

deni

ng a

nd e

atin

g at

the

smor

gasb

ord-

frie

ndly

hea

dqua

rter

s of t

he J

ames

Bea

rd F

ound

atio

n in

New

Yor

k Ci

ty.

“The

que

stio

n is

n’t w

hat a

re th

e fo

ods t

o ea

t, in

my

min

d,” h

e sa

id in

an

inte

rvie

w. “

Mos

t peo

ple

have

a g

ener

al se

nse

of w

hat t

he h

ealth

y fo

ods a

re, b

utth

ey’re

not

eat

ing

them

. Wha

t’s o

n yo

ur m

ind

whe

n yo

u’re

eat

ing:

that

’s m

indf

ulea

ting

to m

e.”

A go

od p

lace

to tr

y it

is th

e Bl

ue C

liff M

onas

tery

, in

Pine

Bus

h, N

.Y.,

a H

udso

nVa

lley

ham

let.

At th

e se

rene

refu

ge a

bout

75

mile

s nor

thw

est o

f Man

hatt

an, c

urio

usla

y pe

ople

can

join

Bud

dhis

t bro

ther

s and

sist

ers f

or a

free

“day

of m

indf

ulne

ss”

twic

e a

wee

k.

At a

gat

heri

ng in

Jan

uary

, vis

itors

wat

ched

a v

ideo

tape

d le

ctur

e by

Thi

ch N

hat

Han

h (p

rono

unce

d tik

-nyo

t-H

AHN

), w

ho fo

unde

d th

is a

nd o

ther

mon

aste

ries

arou

nd th

e w

orld

; the

y st

rolle

d m

etho

dica

lly a

roun

d th

e gr

ound

s as p

art o

f a w

alki

ngm

edita

tion,

then

file

d in

to a

din

ing

room

for l

unch

.

No

one

spok

e, in

kee

ping

with

a k

ey p

rinc

iple

of m

indf

ul e

atin

g. T

he p

oint

issi

mpl

y to

eat

, as o

ppos

ed to

eat

ing

and

talk

ing,

eat

ing

and

wat

chin

g TV

, or e

atin

gan

d w

atch

ing

TV a

nd g

ossi

ping

on

the

phon

e w

hile

Tw

eetin

g an

d up

datin

g on

e’s

Face

book

stat

us.

Min

dful

Eat

ing

as W

ay to

Fig

ht B

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ing

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It’s

this

byp

rodu

ct o

f min

dful

eat

ing

— it

s pot

entia

l as a

psy

chol

ogic

al b

arri

er to

over

eatin

g —

that

has

gen

erat

ed e

xcite

men

t am

ong

nutr

ition

ists

like

Dr.

Cheu

ng.

“Thi

ch N

hat H

anh

ofte

n ta

lks a

bout

our

cra

ving

bei

ng li

ke a

cry

ing

baby

who

istr

ying

to d

raw

our

att

entio

n,” s

he sa

id. “

Whe

n th

e ba

by c

ries

, the

mot

her c

radl

es th

eba

by to

try

to c

alm

the

baby

righ

t aw

ay. B

y ac

know

ledg

ing

and

embr

acin

g ou

rcr

avin

gs th

roug

h a

few

bre

aths

, we

can

stop

our

aut

opilo

t of r

each

ing

out t

o th

e pi

ntof

ice

crea

m o

r the

bag

of c

hips

.”

The

aver

age

Amer

ican

doe

sn’t

have

the

luxu

ry o

f rum

inat

ing

on th

e in

tens

e ta

ngof

srir

acha

sauc

e at

a m

onas

tery

. “M

ost o

f us a

re n

ot g

oing

to b

e Bu

ddhi

st m

onks

,”sa

id D

r. Fi

nkel

stei

n, th

e ho

listic

phy

sici

an. “

Wha

t I’v

e le

arne

d is

that

it h

as to

wor

kat

hom

e.”

To th

at e

nd, h

e an

d ot

hers

sugg

est t

hat p

eopl

e st

art w

ith a

few

bab

y st

eps.

“Don

’t be

too

hard

on

your

self,

” Dr.

Cheu

ng sa

id. “

You’

re n

ot su

ppos

ed to

be

able

tosw

itch

on y

our m

indf

ulne

ss b

utto

n an

d be

abl

e to

do

it 10

0 pe

rcen

t. It

’s a

prac

tice

you

keep

wor

king

tow

ard.

Dr.

Bays

, the

ped

iatr

icia

n, h

as re

com

men

datio

ns th

at c

an so

und

like

a re

turn

toth

e si

mpl

e rh

ythm

s of M

aybe

rry,

if n

ot “L

ittle

Hou

se o

n th

e Pr

airi

e.” I

f it’s

impo

ssib

le to

eat

min

dful

ly e

very

day

, con

side

r pla

nnin

g on

e sp

ecia

l rep

ast a

wee

k.Cl

ick

off t

he T

V. S

it at

the

tabl

e w

ith lo

ved

ones

.

“How

abo

ut th

e fir

st fi

ve m

inut

es w

e ea

t, w

e ju

st e

at in

sile

nce

and

real

ly e

njoy

our f

ood?

” she

said

. “It

hap

pens

step

by

step

.”

Som

etim

es, e

ven

she

is to

o bu

sy to

con

tem

plat

e a

chic

kpea

. So

ther

e ar

e da

ysw

hen

Dr.

Bays

will

take

thre

e m

indf

ul si

ps o

f tea

, “an

d th

en, O

.K.,

I’ve

got t

o go

do

my

wor

k,” s

he sa

id. “

Anyb

ody

can

do th

at. A

nyw

here

.”

Even

scar

fing

dow

n a

burr

ito in

the

car o

ffers

an

oppo

rtun

ity fo

r ins

ight

.“M

indf

ul e

atin

g in

clud

es m

indl

ess e

atin

g,” s

he sa

id. “

 ‘I a

m a

war

e th

at I

am e

atin

gan

d dr

ivin

g.’ ”

Few

pla

ces i

n Am

eric

a ar

e as

fran

tical

ly a

buzz

with

act

ivity

as t

he G

oogl

ehe

adqu

arte

rs in

Mou

ntai

n Vi

ew, C

alif.

, but

whe

n Th

ich

Nha

t Han

h dr

oppe

d by

for a

Min

dful

Eat

ing

as W

ay to

Fig

ht B

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day

of m

indf

ulne

ss in

Sep

tem

ber,

hund

reds

of e

mpl

oyee

s sho

wed

up.

Part

of t

he e

vent

was

dev

oted

to e

atin

g th

ough

tfully

in si

lenc

e, a

nd th

e pr

actic

ew

as so

wel

l rec

eive

d th

at a

n ho

urlo

ng w

ordl

ess v

egan

lunc

h is

now

a m

onth

lyob

serv

ance

on

the

Goo

gle

cam

pus.

“Int

eres

tingl

y en

ough

, a lo

t of t

he p

artic

ipan

ts a

re th

e en

gine

ers,

whi

ch p

leas

esus

ver

y m

uch,

” sai

d O

livia

Wu,

an

exec

utiv

e ch

ef a

t the

com

pany

. “I t

hink

it q

uiet

sth

e m

ind.

I th

ink

ther

e is

a re

al se

nse

of fe

elin

g re

stor

ed so

that

they

can

go

back

toth

e cr

azy

pace

that

they

cam

e fr

om.”

It’s

not o

ften,

afte

r all,

that

thos

e w

orkh

orse

tech

nici

ans g

et to

stop

and

smel

lth

e pe

sto.

“Som

ebod

y w

ill sa

y, ‘I

ate

so m

uch

less

,’ ” M

s. W

u sa

id. “

And

som

eone

els

ew

ill sa

y, ‘Y

ou k

now

, I n

ever

not

iced

how

spic

y ar

ugul

a ta

stes

.’ ”

And

that

cou

ld b

e th

e in

gred

ient

that

hel

ps m

indf

ul e

atin

g ga

in tr

actio

n in

mai

nstr

eam

Am

eric

an c

ultu

re: f

lavo

r.

“So

man

y pe

ople

now

hav

e fo

und

them

selv

es in

an

adve

rsar

ial r

elat

ions

hip

with

food

, whi

ch is

ver

y tr

agic

,” D

r. Ba

ys sa

id. “

Eatin

g sh

ould

be

a pl

easu

rabl

e ac

tivity

.”

A v

ersi

on o

f thi

s ar

ticle

app

ears

in p

rint o

n Fe

brua

ry 8

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49. Ohr Ha’Chaim Bereishis 3:17

50. Likutei Moharan R’ Nachman of Breslov

(1772-1810)

51. Rabbeinu Bachya Vayikra 11:43

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52. Kuntrus Eis Ha’Ocheil

R’ Tzadok Ha’Kohen of Lublin (1823-1900)

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Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God - for one cannot understand or have any knowledge of the Creator, if he is ill - therefore, he must avoid that which harms the body and accustom himself to that which is healthful and helps the body become stronger.

They are as follows: a person should never eat unless he is hungry, nor drink unless thirsty. He should never put off relieving himself, even for an instant. Rather, whenever he [feels the] need to urinate or move his bowels, he should do so immediately.

53. Kitzur Shulchan Aruch R’ Shlomo Gantzfried

54. Rambam Hilchos Dei’os 4:1

55. Berachos 35a

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56. Ben Ish Chai R’ Yosef Chaim of Baghdad

(1832-1909)

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57. Ki Savo

58. R’ Avraham Ibn Ezra (1089-1167)

59. Targum Yerushalmi

60. Tzetel Kattan R’ Elimelech of Lizhensk

(1717-1786)

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"ConcerningtheformulaL’SHEIMYICHUDthathasrecentlyspreadandhasbeenprintedintheSiddurim...inmyviewthisisasoreevilinourgeneration.GenerationspriortoourtimeknewNOTHINGofthisformula,anddidNOTsayit.TheytoiledalltheirdaysinTorahandMitzvos,anddideverythingaccordingtotheTorahandaccordingtothePoskimwhosewordsstemfromthesourceoflivingwaters,theseaoftheTalmud.Ofthemitissaid;"Theintegrityoftheuprightshallguidethem"(Proverbs11:3).Itistheywhoproducedfruitabove;theirpietyisgreatabovetheheavens!Butinthisgenerationofours...eachonesays:"Iamtheseer!Thegatesofheavenhavebeenopenedtome!Theworldexistsbecauseofme"!...Ihavemuchtosayaboutthis,butjustasitisamitzvahtosaywhatwillbeaccepted,sotooisitamitzvahtorefrainfromsayingwhatwillnotbeaccepted.MayHashemhavemercyuponus."

61. Nodah B’Yehuda R’ Yechezkel Landau

(1713-1793)

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62. Shabbos 156b

63. Minhag Yisroel Torah

64. Berachos 32b

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65. Yerushalmi Berachos 2:4

66. Rabbeinu Yonah (Berachos)

67. Berachos 30b

68. Rambam Hilchos Tefilla 4:15

69. Shulchan Aruch

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