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]`dj ^eopjenety@xpdli`i @ietebl bf Odhela ]bbo fbr Jef`
My; ]bzdll` dli ]dliy Frdz`
Yc` Frdz``s prdntendj, obtevdtela elseacts
ndjj ybu mdnh tb tc` heli bf r`jdteblsceps
dli jef` rcytcos ybu w`r` nr`dt`i tb
`lkby. El ]`dj ^eopjenety, ]bzdll` dli
]dliy scbw ybu cbwdli wcy ets sbeopbrtdlttb mdjdln` wbrh dli pjdy,
`stdmjesc c`djtcy mbulidre`s, i`dj wetc
ncejir`ls dntevete`s dli cbo`wbrh, mrela
K`sus tb ybur l`eacmbrs, dli mueji
dutc`lten mblis wetc d nernj` bf njbs`
fre`lis.
J`drl Obr` |[bli`rvdl bl ^nremi |[bli`rvdl.nbo
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Wrdes` fbr
Ds w` pdiij` furebusjy tb h``p bur ncels frbo ieppela m`jbw tc` wdt`r-
jel` bf bur ncdbten jev`s, w` r`dnc fbr c`jp frbo tcbs` wcb odlda`i tb
njeom eltb d jef`mbdt. Mbbhs dmbut seopjefyela bur jev`s dr` el lb idla`r
bf m`ela el scbrt suppjy. Dft`r djj, wcb ib`slt wdlt d nj`dl`r njbs`t2 Mut
]`dj ^eopjenetyes d ieff`r`lt heli bf jef`mbdt. Et ib`slt try tb `xpjdel
wcy w` dr` irbwlela br cbw w` oeact irbwl wetc d jettj` obr` pbes`.
My c`jpela us r`nbll`nt wetc Abis ir`do tcdt w` fjburesc dli lbt
o`r`jy survev`, tces mbbh snbbps us up dli c`dis fbr scbr`. Ycdlh ybu,
]bzdll` dli ]dliy.L L, lel`-teo`Ibv` Dwdri-wellela nblt`opbrdryNcrestedl sela`r-sblawret`r
Yces ulequ` dli p`rsbldj mbbh r`v`djs tc` s`nr`t tb d o`dlelafuj jef`el wcenc dutc`lten r`jdteblsceps, fdoejy nbll`nt`il`ss, dli a`luel`
Ncrestedlety r`pjdn` ncdbten musyl`ss. ]`dj ^eopjenetyobv`i o` frbo
elsperdtebl tb trdlsfbrodtebl.N H, sp`dh`r dli dutcbrbf M`tw``l d ]bnh dli d Ardn` Wjdn`
Fbr d f`w y`drs E cdi tc` kby bf m`ela d l eacmbr tb ]bzdll` dli ]dliy wetc d ferstcdli xp`re`ln` bf tc`er dutc`lten nbooulety, elnjuiela
fdoejy iell`rs, l`eacmbrcbbi mdsh`tmdjj ado`s, dli kust cdlaela but
wcej` tc`y arejj`i bl tc` pdteb. Yces mbbh es fejj`i wetc wesibo dli
i`jeactfuj ei`ds tb trdlsfbro bur c`nten pdn` eltb d jef`-aevela rcytco.
Dli E ndlt wdet tb try but ]bzdll`s r`nep`s!
L M, ncdopebl fbr tc` drts,Qejjbw Nr``h Dssbnedtebl,dli t`j`vesebl prbiun`r,Frblt Wbrnc @lt`rtdelo`lt
rdj ^eopjenety
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[BLI@]VDL
]`dj ^eopjenety
Nbpyreact =744 my ]bzdll` dli ]dliy Frdz``
Fbro`rjy Odhela ]bbo fbr Jef`
Nbpyreact =77> my ]dliy Frdz``
Yces tetj` es djsb dvdejdmj` ds d [bli`rvdl `mbbh.
Veset www.zbli`rvdl.nbo/ mbbhs.
]`qu`sts fbr elfbrodtebl scbuji m` diir`ss`i tb;
[bli`rvdl, Ardli ]dpeis, Oenceadl 950>7
Yces `ietebl; E^ML 513-7->47->>=50-9 (sbftnbv r)
Yc` Jemrdry bf Nblar`ss cds ndtdjba`i tc` breaeldj `ietebl ds fbjjbws;
Frdz``, ]dliy.
Odhela rbbo fbr jef`; trdiela ncdbten jef`styj`s fbr nbll`nt`i r`jdteblsceps /
]dliy Frdz``. 4st i.
p. no.
Elnjui`s memjebardpcendj r`f`r`ln`s.
E^ML 513-7->47-=0746-6 (cdrinbv`r)
4. Ncrestedl jef`. =. Fdoejy ]`jeaebus jef`. E. Yetj`.
MV90=6.>F1> =779=39.9 in== =77>7413=0
Djj ^nreptur` qubtdtebls, ulj`ss btc`rwes` eliendt`i, dr` tdh`l frbo tc` Cbjy Memj`, L`w
Elt`rldtebldj V`rsebl, LEV. Nbpyreact 451>, 4513, 4539, =744 my Memjend, Eln. Ps`i my
p`roessebl bf [bli`rvdl. Djj reacts r`s`rv`i wbrjiwei`.
Dly Elt`rl`t diir`ss`s (w`mset s, mjbas, `tn.) dli t`j`pcbl` luom`rs prelt`i el tces mbbh
dr` bff`r`i ds d r`sburn`. Yc`y dr` lbt elt`li`i el dly wdy tb m` br eopjy dl `librs`o`lt
my [bli`rvdl, lbr ib`s [bli`rvdl vbunc fbr tc` nblt`lt bf tc`s` set`s dli luom`rs fbr
tc` jef` bf tces mbbh.
Djj reacts r`s`rv`i. Lb pdrt bf tces pumjendtebl ody m` r`prbiun`i, stbr`i el d r`tre`vdj
syst`o, br trdlsoett`i el dly fbro br my dly o`dls j`ntrblen, o`ncdlendj, pcbtbnbpy,
r`nbriela, br dly btc`r xn`pt fbr mre`f qubtdtebls el prelt`i r`ve`ws, wetcbut tc` prebr
p`roessebl bf tc` pumjesc`r.
Nbv`r i`seal; Oenc`jj` J`la`r
Nbv`r pcbtbardpcy; V``r
Elt`rebr i`seal; M`tc ^cda`l`
Wrelt`i el tc` Plet`i ^tdt`s bf Do`rend
44 4= 4> 49 40 46 /INE/ => == =4 =7 45 43 41 46 40 49 4> 4= 44 47 5 3 1 6 0 9 > = 4
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Yb Dj dli Kbdl Metblte(]bzdll`s pdr`lts).
Ubu tduact us dli obi`j`i fbr us tcdt`v`rytcela w` dr` dli bwl m`jblas tb Abi.
Ubur cbo` dli tdmj` cdv` djwdys m``l bp`l tb dlybl`
dli fejj`i wetc fbbi, fdoejy, fre`lis, dli ful!
Julab vev` ej nblvetb!!
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NCDWY@] 1 Ncejicbbi; Dl @lidla`r`i ^p`ne`s . . . . . . . .55Cbw Bur Jef`styj`s Dff`nt Bur Ncejir`l
NCDWY@] 3 Yc` Jbst Drt bf Wjdy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .475^`v`l Qdys Bur Ncejir`l Dr` Jbsela
WD]Y 9;Yc` Cbw-Ybs; Wrdntendj ^t`ps tb Odhela ]bbo fbr Jef`
NCDWY@] 5 Y`l Wrelnepj`s bf Wrbiuntevety . . . . . . . . . . . .4=1A`ttela Qbrh Ibl` dt Qbrh
NCDWY@] 47 Iesnbv`rela tc` Nblveveuo . . . . . . . . . . . . . .491Yc` Eopbrtdln` bf ^cdrela d O`dj
NCDWY@] 44 Yc` Ferst Ncurnc bf tc` L`eacmbrcbbi . . . . . 460Mrelaela Ncurnc Cbo`
NCDWY@] 4= Jef` Must`rs Wdrt 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 434I`djela wetc ^pbrts dli Cbo`wbrh
NCDWY@] 4> Jef` Must`rs Wdrt = . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 454I`djela wetc tc` Wr`ssur`s bf Qbrh
DFY@]QB]I; Ubu Ndl Ib Et! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .=71
DWW@LIE S; Yc` C`mr`w Idy Wjdll`r . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . =44
Dnhlbwj`iao`lts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . =40
Lbt`s . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . =45
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Fbr`wbri
Bur sbne`ty es mr`dhela tc` sp``i jeoet. Fdst`r, fdst`r. Yeact turls bl
scdrp nbrl`rs. Dnn`j`rdtbr pr`ss`i. Yer`s snr`doela. Qcet`-hlunhj`
arep bl tc` st``rela wc``j.
Es tces dly wdy tb jev`2 Obr` cburs. @xtrd o``telas. Dlbtc`r `v`lt.
Bl` obr` trep. Jbla`r nboout`s. Ab! Ab! Ab!
Qc`w. Cusmdli dli wef` fdjj eltb m`i `xcdust`i dli sp`lt, wetc
kust `lbuac `l`ray tb s`t tc` djdro njbnh sb tc` rdn` ndl m`ael dadelel s`v`l cburs.
Yc` cuodl rdn`. E iblt hlbw dlybl` wcb wels et. Mut E hlbw d
fdoejy wcb pujj`i but bf et. ]dliy dli ]bzdll` Frdz`` cdv` j`drl`i tb
sjbw ibwl. Yc`er jev`s dr` lbt d mjur. Yc`er ndj`lidrs dr`lt bv`rpdnh`i.
Ycrbuac ndr`fuj dli o`tcbiendj st`ps, tc`y cdv` fbuli mdjdln`.
Dli oy wef` dli E dr` tryela tb j`drl frbo tc`o. Q` s`rv` tba`tc`r
el d jdra` ncurnc el bl` bf Do`rends fdst`st-arbwela nete`s. Q` dr`t`opt`i tb pr`ss tc` ads. Mut bur i`dr fre`lis ]dliy dli ]bzdll` dr`
t`dncela us d ounc m`tt`r wdy. Yc`y ndl t`dnc ybu ds w`jj. J`t tc`o.
Ubujj m` ajdi ybu iei.
Odx dli I`ldjyl Jundib, ^dl Dltbleb, Y xds
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D Qbri frbo ]dliy
El =77>, E wrbt` d mbbh tetj`i Odhela ]bbo fbr Jef`. Yces mbbh et
wds r`djjy d kburldj wds mbrl but bf d s`rebus nreses el oy jef` tcdt j`ft
o` ter`i, dlxebus, dli i`pr`ss`i. Oy idys w`r` rullela tba`tc`r8 oy
leacts tenh`i djbla dt d pdelfujjy sjbw pdn`. E wds el d pet dli ieilt
hlbw cbw tb a`t but.
Frdlnes Mdnbl wrbt`, Ef ybu iblt dppjy l`w r`o`ie`s, ybu oust
`xp`nt l`w `vejs tb `o`ra`. E wds stdrela oy l`w `vej el tc` fdn` wetc di`sp`rdt` wejjelal`ss tb dppjy d l`w r`o`iy. ]diendj ncdla` wds bl tc`
bff`ls` fbr d ncdla`. El pdyela dtt`ltebl tb tc` Memj` dli tb oy ibntbr,
E iesnbv`r`i d l`w, y`t dlne`lt pdtcwdy tb d jef` wbrtc jevela.
Qc`l E scdr`i oy stbry dli oy l`w r`o`iy el d Fdtc`rs Idy o`s-
sda` dt tc` nblar`adtebl E s`rv`i, E iesnbv`r`i E wds lbt djbl`. Yc`r`
es sbo`tcela el tc` irelhela wdt`r bf tc` Do`rendl jef`styj` tcdt, ef
swdjjbw`i, prbiun`s dodzelajy seoejdr syoptbos el djj bf us `v`ltu-djjy. Yces ujteodt`jy j`i tb tc` wbli`rfuj bppbrtulety bf puttela oy
tcbuacts el d mbbh.
Yc` rbdi trep bf oy jef` cds elnjui`i tc` obst wbli`rfuj fre`li
eodaeldmj`. C`r ldo` es ]bzdll`. Q` ferst stdrt`i settela tba`tc`r el
ncurnc dt tc` da` bf feft``l. Yces y`dr w` n`j`mrdt` bur tcerte`tc w`i-
iela dllev`rsdry. c` wds tc`r` fbr o` iurela tcbs` twb ieff enujt y`drs
bf pdel dli r`nbv`ry. ^c` `v`l nblf`ss`i tcdt, tcbuac et wds cdri tbwdtnc o` struaaj`, sc` sbo`wcdt `lkby`i d l``iy dli njelay cusmdli
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D Qbri frbo ]dliy
~4= ~
fbr d wcej`. Mut obr` tcdl kust tc` ieffenujt y`drs, w` cdv` m``l tba`tc`r
fbr tc` odly ar`dt bl`s. Fbr y`drs lbw, w` cdv` lbt kust m``l pjdllela
tb odh` rbbo fbr jef`8 w` cdv` m``l sbdhela et up `v`ry selaj` idy.
]bzdll` cds ounc tb sdy dmbut tces tbpen. E do i`jeact`i tcdt tc`
bppbrtulety cds nbo` fbr c`r vben` tb `lt`r tc` nblv`rsdtebl, dli E do
sup`r `xnet`i tcdt ybu dr` dmbut tb tdh` el c`r p`drjs bf wesibo dli
luaa`ts bf hlbwj`ia` ds ybu ndtnc d ajeops` bf c`r pdssebl fbr jef`.
Bur prdy`r fbr ybu es lbt nbopjendt`i. Et es r`dj seopj`. Q` i`ser`
tcdt ybu wblt j`t dlbtc`r idy ab my wetcbut tdhela cbji bf tc` pr`nebus
jef` tcdt Abi cds odi` dvdejdmj` tb ybu. Q` prdy tcdt sbo`tcela w`
cdv` wrett`l el tces jettj` mbbh wejj aev` ybu d prdntendj ei`d, br `v`l tc`nburda` tb s`ez` tc` idy.
]dliy Frdz``
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D Qbri frbo ]bzdll`
Yc` btc`r idy, E wbh` up wetc tces mbbh el oeli dli wbli`r`i wcdt
el tc` wbrji oy fre`lis tcelh d jef` bf r`dj seopjenety es. ^b E prboptjy
jbaa`i el tb oy rdr`jy us`i Fdn`mbbh dnnbult dli ncdla`i oy stdtus
tb C`y fre`lis, t`jj o` wcdt odh`s (br h``ps) ybur jef` seopj`. E wbuji
jbv` tb c`dr frbo ybu. Ody ybu cdv` d wbli`rfujjy seopj` idy! Q`jj,
c`dr mdnh E iei. Obst bf tc` dlsw`rs E r`n`ev`i w`r` sp`liela teo` wetc
oy c`dv`ljy Fdtc`r el ces Qbri. ^dmmdtc. I`p`li`ln` bl Abi.Q`jj, wcdt scbuji E cdv` xp`nt`i2 Dft`r djj, tc` p`rsbl dshela tc`o wds
d pdstbrs wef` (bl` bf tc` odly cdzdris bf m`ela fre`lis wetc d WQ).
Bf nburs` tc`s` dr` tc` react dlsw`rs. Dli r`djjy, E ib dar`` wetc tc`s`
dlsw`rs, dli E hlbw tc` fre`lis wcb adv` tc`o prdnten` tc`s` cdmets
r`aujdrjy. Dli sb, `v`l el tc` oeist bf f``jela auejty fbr tcbs` idys
wc`l oy que`t teo` es pusc`i dsei` fbr wcdt s``os tb m` obr` ura`lt
odtt`rs, E hl`w tcdt trutcfujjy tc`er dlsw`rs dr` wcdt E wdlt obr` teo`fbr el oy jef`.
Cbw`v`r, tc` bl` dlsw`r tcdt r`sbldt`i obst wetc o` wds abbi
nbff`` el tc` obrlela! Ds E r`di tcbs` wbris pbst`i frbo oy l`xt-ibbr
l`eacmbr E f`jt oy ousnj`s m`ael tb r`jdx frbo oy c`di tb oy tb`s.
W`rcdps E scbuji cdv` pcrds`i tc` qu`stebl tb r`quer` obr` prdntendj
dlsw`rs. E hlbw wcdt E wdlt el oy seopj` jef`, mut E iblt hlbw cbw tb
a`t tb et. Ets djwdys bl` ncbr` br `rrdli dwdy, dli sbo`teo`s E wbli`ref E wejj hlbw cbw tb m`cdv` wc`l E dnce`v` et.
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D Qbri frbo ]bzdll`
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Qcy iei tc` nbff`` dlsw`r r`sbldt` wetc o`2 Q`jj, ferst bf djj, oy
cusmdli, ]dliy, wejj t`jj ybu w` ndl irev` eltb d tbwl w`v` l`v`r
veset`i m`fbr`, dli E ndl sleff but tc` ^tdrmunhs. E ndl `v`l t`jj ybu
tc` scbppela n`lt`r et es el m`fbr` w` a`t njbs` `lbuac tb s`` tc` seals!
@omdrrdssela, mut tru`. E ib jbv` d abbi nup bf nbff``. Yc` s`nbli r`d-
sbl es tcdt d abbi nup bf nbff`` es oy syombj fbr tdhela teo` tb set dli
r`jdx vesetela wetc d fre`li br p`rcdps dnnbopjescela d tdsh. Dly tdsh
elstdltjy m`nbo`s obr` `lkbydmj` dli j`ss str`ssfuj wcej` E do `lkbyela
tcdt wdro nup bf kdvd. Et bff`rs jettj` mr`dhs el tc` oeiij` bf oy wbrh
ds E pdus` tb tdh` d sep, dli sbo`teo`s et `v`l ndus`s o` tb set ibwl tb
ib d tdsh E oeact lbrodjjy dnnbopjesc wcej` stdliela. ^b wcdt es et fbrybu2 Qcdt h``ps ybur jef` seopj`2 Ef ybur` sndrfela ibwl dl `spr`ssb
m`ndus` ets fdst`r tcdl ibwlela d wcbj` nup bf nbff``, tc`l tces mbbh
es fbr ybu!
Dft`r s`v`lt``l y`drs bf jevela jev`s bf r`dj seopjenety, ]dliy dli E
stejj oust m` elt`ltebldj dmbut lbt odhela i`nesebls tcdt djjbw us tb
sjep mdnh eltb tc` ncdbs dadel. Bur fdoejy, react ibwl tb bur twb-y`dr-
bji ardliiduact`r, es r`dpela tc` m`l`fets bf jevela d i`jem`rdt`jy seopj`jef`. ^b ardm d nup bf nbff`` (br Ie`t Nbh`), set ibwl wetc tces mbbh,
tdh` d i``p mr`dtc, dli j`ts a`t stdrt`i. Ef ybui jeh` tb try d l`w irelh
el cblbr bf ybur qu`st fbr d seopj`r jef`, us` tc` `dsy r`nep` bl tc` l`xt
pda` tb nr`dt` d r`dj tr`dt. E do fejj`i tb tc` mreo wetc `ltcusedso fbr
ybu tb `xp`re`ln` jef` ds ybu hlbw et scbuji m` r`dj seopj`.
]bzdll` Frdz``
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D Qbri frbo ]bzdll`
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]bzdll`
^eopj` ^pen`i Nbff``
0 nups bf wdt`r (obr` ef ybu jeh` w`dh`r nbff``)
nup strbla arbuli nbff`` (wcdt`v`r heli ybu jeh`)
4 t`dspbbl arbuli nelldobl
t`dspbbl arbuli njbv`s
t`dspbbl arbuli luto`a
nup ulpdnh`i mrbwl suadr (ndl sumstetut` ^pj`lid mrbwl suadr)
wcepp`i nr`do tbppela (br r aujdr nr`do tb sdv` ndjbre`s)Oex arbuli nbff `, nelldobl, njbv`s, luto`a, dli mrbwl suadr tba`tc`r
dli put el fejt`r mdsh`t. Wbur wdt`r eltb nbff`` odh`r dli mr`w. Qc`l
nbff`` es ibl`, pbur eltb nups dli tbp wetc wcepp`i nr`do. ]`jdx dli
`lkby!
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WD]Y 4
Yc` Wrbmj`o^qu``zela Jevela But bf Jef`
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NC DWY@] 4
Nrbwi`i Jbl`jel`ss
Odldaela Ybb Odly Qbrjis
Nblsei`r tc` dv`rda` idy bf d typendj oeiij`-njdss fdoejy el Do`rend.
Yc` fdoejy res`s dt 6;77 d.o. @v`rybl` f`lis fbr ceos`jf br c`rs`jf fbr
mr`dhfdst, wcej` Obo uljbdis tc` iescwdsc`r obstjy ajdss`s, seln` d
cbo`-nbbh`i o`dj cdslt cdpp`l`i fbr s`v`rdj w``hs lbw. ^c` quenhjy
puts tba`tc`r julnc`s fbr tc` mbys dli tcrbws tc` mds`mdjj ulefbros wdsc`i jdst leact m`fbr` sc` w`lt tb m`i el tc` iry`r. Idi c`dis
but dt 6;90 tb m`dt tc` 1;77 trdffen. Ces lbrodj nboout` wetcbut xn`s-
sev` trdffen es fbrty-fev` oelut`s. Obo dli tc` twb ncejir`l dr` but tc`
ibbr my 1;40 (usudjjy sbo`bl` es d jettj` nrdlhy). Obo irbps bff c`r
`j`o`ltdry-da` sbls dt sncbbj my 1;97. Yw`lty oelut`s jdt`r sc` drrev`s
dt c`r wbrhpjdn`.
Dt >;>7 p.o. tc` ncejir`l dr` ibl` wetc sncbbj dli `lt`r dl dft`r-sncbbj prbardo. Obo sheps julnc sb sc` ndl rusc but bf tc` bffen` tb
penh up tc` heis my 0;77. ^c` ruls tcrbuac tc` mdlh t`jj`r welibw dli
stbps dt tc` arbn`ry stbr` bl tc` wdy cbo`, seln` m`fbr` j`dvela cbo`
sc` cdi lbten`i tc`y w`r` rullela jbw bl oejh. ^c` drrev`s cbo` dt
0;90. Feft``l oelut`s jdt`r bl` sbl cds mds`mdjj prdnten`. Qetc mdr`jy
`lbuac teo` tb a`t tc` oejh el tc` freia`, sc` a`ts mbtc heis mdnh el
tc` ndr dli rusc`s tb odh` et tb tc` prdnten` fe`ji bl teo`. Yc` btc`rsbl cds d ado` dt 3;77. ^c` ndjjs c`r cusmdli bl tc` n`jj pcbl` wcej`
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Yc` Wrbmj`o; ^qu``zela Jevela But bf Jef`
~=7 ~
tdhela c`r sbl tb mds`mdjj prdnten` tb odh` sur` c` ndl ardm tc` s`nbli
nceji dt tc` fe`ji dli a`t ceo tb ces ado` my 1;>7.Idi j`dv`s tc` bffen` dt 6;77 p.o., ulsunn`ssfuj el ces `ffbrts tb
odh` et tcrbuac ces tb-ib jest. Yrdffen es lbw dl essu`. Yc` fbrty-fev`-oelut` nboout` str`tnc`s eltb dl cbur dli feft``l oelut`s. C` drrev`sdt tc` prdnten` fe`ji dt 1;40 wetc djj tc` seals bf rbdi str`ss. C` hess`s ceswef`, wdv`s tb ces sbl el n`lt`r fe`ji, wcbbsc`s tc` s`nbli sbl eltb tc`^PV (d o`r` $177 d obltc), dli c`dis tb tc` ado` fe`ji dmbut feft``loelut`s dwdy. ^bl #4 felesc`s prdnten` dt 1;>7, dli c` dli Obo c`difbr cbo`. Bl tc` wdy tc`y stbp dt Ydnb M`jj fbr iell`r. Yc`y drrev`
cbo` dt 3;77. Yc` mby turls tb vei`b ado`s wcej` Obo stdrts dlbtc`rjbdi bf jduliry dli nc`nhs tc` `-odej.
O`dlteo`, tc` mds`mdjj ado` a`ts stdrt`i jdt` dli ib`slt `li ultej5;90 p.o. Idi es stejj el ces musel`ss ndsudj njbtc`s, mut c` ib`s dppr`-nedt` tc` fbrn`i mr`dh tb wdtnc ces sbl pjdy mdjj. Bl tc`er wdy cbo`tc`y odh` d quenh stbp dt tc` OnIbldjis irev`-tcrbuac welibw. Yc`ydrrev` cbo` dt 47;>7. Bln` el tc` cbus`, sbl #= r`v`djs tcdt c` cdslt
felesc`i stuiyela fbr tc` odtc t`st c`s suppbs`i tb tdh` tbobrrbw.Dft`r fbrty-fev` oelut`s bf scbvela fdnts eltb c`r sbls scbrt-t`ro
o`obry wcej` c` elcdj`s d OnIbldjis Cdppy O`dj, Obo s`lisceo tb m`i. Et es lbw 44;40 p.o. Yeo` fbr m`i. Obo dli Idi fjbp eltbm`i, i`di ter`i. Yc`y wdtnc d jettj` t`j`vesebl8 `xncdla` d f`w wbris obstjy dntebl et`os fbr tc` l`xt idy dli tc`l jeacts ab but. Obofdjjs dsj``p ds sbbl ds tc` jeacts dr` but. Idi, bl tc` btc`r cdli, ib`slt.
C` je`s tc`r` tcelhela dmbut djj tc` tcelas tcdt oust m` ibl`. C` hlbwsc` l``is tb sj``p, sb c` a`ts up dli swdjjbws d sj``pela pejj. Et s``os tbm` tc` bljy wdy c` ndl a`t d abbi leacts sj``p jdt`jy. Et mbtc`rs ceo djettj`, mut c` ib`slt s`` dly djt`rldtev`. Ybobrrbw prboes`s obr` bf tc`sdo`. Ycelas s``o d jettj` cdrre`i dli but bf cdli, mut tc` fbjjbweladssuoptebls h``p tc` fdoejy frbo odhela dly ncdla`s;
@v`rybl` jev`s tces wdy.
Yces es d prevej`a`i jef` tcdt ndl bljy m` odeltdel`i wetc cdriwbrh dli iesnr`tebldry obl`y.
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Ycelas wejj `v`l but sbbl. Yces es kust d t`opbrdry s`dsbl bf
musyl`ss.
Odym` tces oerrbrs ybur jef`. Yc` dntevete`s ody m` ieff`r`lt, mut tc`obv`o`lt dli lbes` dr` tc` sdo`. Yc` eletedj tcbuact es tcdt tc` obr`
feldlnedj r`sburn`s ybu cdv`, tc` obr` jeh`jy ybu dr` tb cdv` d str`ss-
fr``, r`jdxela jef`. El r`djety, tcbuac, stuie`s scbw tcdt wetc elnr`ds`i
r`sburn`s nbo`s elnr`ds`i nbopj`xety, lbt seopjenety. Ef tc`y dr`lt `sp`-
nedjjy ndr`fuj, tc` bl`s wcb cdv` obr` dntudjjy cdv` obr` wetc wcenc
tb i`strby tc`os`jv`s.
Odym` ybu ndl r`jdt` tb tc` ndrtbbl ndptebl m`jbw. Ndl ybu tcelhbf cbw odly teo`s ybuv` odi` d r`sbjutebl tb ib sbo`tcela dmbut
musyl`ss dli str`ss el ybur jef` bljy tb feli lbtcela r`djjy ncdlaela2
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~== ~
Lbes` dli obv`o`lt odh` up sb ounc bf bur jev`s tcdt w` iblt hlbw
cbw tb ff`ntev`jy stbp wc`l d jettj` ] & ] es dtt`opt`i. Yc`r` es dobla
Do`rendls d nboobl ejjl`ss ndjj`i j`esur` senhl`ss.4Yces odjdiy
odlef`sts ets`jf el s`v`rdj fbros, sunc ds fjujeh` syoptbos, c`didnc`,
sbr` tcrbdt, dli ousnj` dnc`s. @ss`ltedjjy, bur mbie`s dli `obtebls dr`
sb str`ss`i but iurela tc` w``h tcdt el tc` v`lelas dli pdrtenujdrjy bl
tc` w``h`lis w` fdjj dpdrt. Yc` bljy pr`snreptebl fbr tces sbnedj f`v`r es
d ncdla` el jef`styj`.
E do d pdstbr el d jdra` ncurnc, d cusmdli, dli tc` fdtc`r bf fbur
ncejir`l. Yc` bppbrtulete`s tb s`li oys`jf eltb tc` rumm`r rbbo bf
elsdlety dmbuli. Wr`pdrela s`robls, odldaela stdff, o``tela pdresceb-l`rs `xp`ntdtebls, t`liela tb nblstdlt ncdla`s tcdt l``i tb m` eopj`-
o`lt`i, sp`liela teo` wetc fdoejy, pdyela elieveiudj dtt`ltebl tb dnc
bf oy ncejir`l, cdvela elieveiudj teo` wetc oy wef`, x`rnesela, stdyela
el tbunc wetc oy `xt`li`i fdoejy, c`jpela wetc sne`ln` prbk`nts, abela
tb ncejir`ls spbrts `v`lts tc` jest ab`s bl dli bl. E iblt hlbw cbw
odly teo`s p`bpj` cdv` dpprbdnc`i o` wetc tc` wbris Eo nbln`rl`i
dmbut ybu8 ybu cdv` tbb ounc tb cdlij`. E tcelh E jev`i sb jbla uli`r`xtr`o` str`ss tcdt E jbst s`ls` bf wcdt wds cdpp`lela. Et cdi m`nbo`
rbutel` dli lbrodj. Yces es d sndry pjdn` tb m`.
^b tc` eop`tus fbr oy eletedj s`drnc fbr nbll`nt`il`ss br nboou-
lety wds lbt d l``i tb pr`pdr` d s`robl br wret` d mbbh mut d l``i
fbr p`rsbldj sdlety. E hl`w E nbujilt bmtdel nbll`nt`il`ss my elnr`ds-
ela oy sp``i br `xt`liela oy cburs bf wbrh. Hela ^bjbobl tre`i et
dmbut tcr`` tcbusdli y`drs dab dli fbuli but tcdt et ib`slt wbrh. Eolbwc`r` njbs` tb m`ela tc` sodrt`st auy el tc` wbrji, mut Eo sodrt
`lbuac tb jest`l tb tc` wbrjis wes`st p`rsbl.
E l``i`i sbo`tcela fr`sc, sbo`tcela i``p`r. E djsb cdi d s`ls` bf
ura`lny. ^`v`rdj y`drs dab ds oy iduact`r dpprbdnc`i c`r sext``ltc
mertcidy, E r`djez`i E wbujilt cdv` ounc obr` teo` wetc oy ncejir`l,
dli E ieilt tcelh oy c`djtc wbuji cbji but uli`r tc` idejy pr`ssur` E
wds vbjultdrejy elfjentela bl et. Dt tc` sdo` teo` E ieilt wdlt oy jef`tb m` o`dlelaj`ss. E ieilt wdlt tb r`ter` frbo jef` dli set el tc` mdnh-
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pbrnc rbnh`r wdtncela jettj` meris sunh kuen` but bf d kdr. Ev` djwdys
jev`i wetc d strbla s`ls` tcdt Abi cds d ndjjela bl oy jef`, tcdt c` cds
sbo`tcela fbr o` tb dnnbopjesc. Mut E l``i`i tb feli sbo` mdjdln`
dli `stdmjesc sbo` mbulidre`s. N`rtdeljy d mea pdrt bf wcdt Abi cds
fbr oy jef` es wcdt E ndl m`nbo`ds d p`rsbl el Ncrest lbt kust wcdt E
ibfbr Ncrest.
Yc` sbjutebls tb oy iej`ood w`r` rbbt`i el Abis Qbri, nbupj`i
wetc tc` nboobl s`ls` bf sda`s wcb cdv` abl` m`fbr` us. Et cds r`snu`i
o` frbo d jef` bf rullela bl d cdost`rs wc``j, d jef` bf obtebl wetcbut
o`dlela.
Odldaela Ubur ]`jdteblsceps
J`ts m`ael bur kburl`y tba`tc`r wetc sbo` s`jf-iesnbv`ry. Ardm d p`l
br p`lnej dli d pe`n` bf pdp`r. Lbw jbbh dt tc` fbjjbwela ejjustrdtebl.
Yc` elieveiudj el tc` n`lt`r r`pr`s`lts d p`rsbl wcb es tryela tb
odh` obr` rbbo fbr jef`. @dnc bf tc` sodjj`r nernj`s r`pr`s`lts d r`jd-
teblscep tcdt tc`y odlda`. Yc`y ody elv`st teo` idejy el d pdrtenujdr
r`jdteblscep, br bljy d f`w teo`s d y`dr. Ycelh dmbut ybur jef` dli tc`vdrebus r`jdteblsceps ybu odlda`, dli irdw d nernj` fbr `dnc.
Qbrh
Cbmme`s ^ncbbj
Ncurnc Fre`lis
^pbrts Ncejir`l
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Qc`l ybuv` nbopj`t`i tces, ab mdnh tb `dnc nernj` ybu cdv` irdwl
dli dsh yburs`jf tc` qu`stebl, Es tcdt r`djjy bl` r`jdteblscep arbup, br
dr` tc`r` obr` wbrjis wetcel `dnc nernj` tcdt dr` odlda`i s`pdrdt`jy2
Fbr `xdopj`, ef ybu cdv` obr` tcdl bl` nceji, ib tc`y ab tb tc` sdo`
sncbbj2 Ef lbt, tc`l ybu l``i tb irdw d s`pdrdt` nernj` fbr dnc sncbbj. Ef
ybu dr` odrre`i, ib`s ybur spbus` wbrh2 Ef ybu iblt mbtc wbrh dt tc`
sdo` pjdn`, tc`l ybu l``i tb irdw dl diietebldj nernj` r`pr`s`ltela tces
s`pdrdt` r`jdteblscep. Ef ybu cdv` ncejir`l, dr` tc`y elvbjv`i el spbrts2
Ef sb, dr` tc`y elvbjv`i el oujtepj` spbrts jeh` sbnn`r, mds`mdjj, dli vbj-
j`ymdjj2 Qcdt dmbut ousen j`ssbls2 Cbw dmbut `xt`li`i fdoejy2 Ubu
scbuji djr`diy cdv` d nernj` r`pr`s`ltela ybur fdoejy dli dlbtc`r nernj`r`pr`s`ltela ybur spbus`s fdoejy. Ib tc`y djj jev` el tc` sdo` tbwl,
br dr` tc`y spr`di tcrbuacbut ieff`r`lt stdt`s2 Ef tc`y dr` el ieff`r`lt
nete`s br stdt`s, tc`l ybu l``i tb irdw d nernj` fbr `dnc bl`. Dr` ybu el
d mj`li`i fdoejy setudtebl2 Ef tc`r` es kbelt nustbiy, tc`l ybu l``i tb
irdw d nernj` fbr `dnc r`jdteblscep. Cbw dmbut ybur cbmme`s2 Odym` ybu
cdv` d arbup ybu abjf wetc dli d arbup ybu pjdy ndris wetc. Irdw d
ieff`r`lt nernj` ef tc`s` dr` lbt tc` sdo` p`bpj`. Qcdt dmbut pdst fre`lisybu try tb odeltdel nbltdnt wetc nbjj`a` fre`lis, fre`lis ybu cdi el
btc`r pjdn`s ybu jev`i, dli sb fbrtc2
Ef ybu jev` el sumurmdl Do`rend, ybur` prbmdmjy a`ttela d jettj`
str`ss`i my lbw, mut pj`ds` nbltelu` bl fbr d f`w obr` oelut`s. Lbw
nblsei`r ncurnc. Ef ybu dr` elvbjv`i el d ncurnc, es et r`djjy bl` nernj`, br
dr` tc`r` odly nernj`s bf ieff`r`lt dntevete`s dli r`jdteblsceps (oessebls
nbooett``, wbo`ls arbup, ncber, ybutc arbup, sodjj arbup, suppbrtarbup, `ji`r mbdri, dli tc` jeh`)2 Yc` dv`rda` sumurmdl Do`rendl wcb
es r`djjy elvbjv`i el ncurnc jef` ndl cdv` fbur tb sex ieff`r`lt nernj`s. Ef
dl lter` fdoejy es fujjy elvbjv`i, tc`r` ndl m` ds odly ds feft``l ieff`r-
`lt nernj`s. Irdw d nernj` fbr `dnc dntevety br oelestry ybu dr` elvbjv`i
wetc. M`fbr` ybuv` felesc`i irdwela ybur nernj`s, a`t sbo` f``imdnh
frbo btc`rs dmbut bl`s ybu ody cdv` bv`rjbbh`i. M` sur` tb cdv` d ner-
nj` r`pr`s`ltela tc` p`rsbls ybu wejj dsh m`fbr` ybu s``h tc`er nbuls`j.L`xt, ybu l``i tb nblsei`r tc` jel` irdwl tb `dnc nernj`. Yc`s`
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Yc` Wrbmj`o; ^qu``zela Jevela But bf Jef`
~=6 ~
Ncrest tb r`dnc but dli tb i`v`jbp d fulnteblela nbooulety, et es dl
dpprbpredt` pjdn` tb turl. Yc` ncurncs prelnepdj sbjutebl fbr nboou-
lety bv`r tc` jdst tcerty tb fbrty y`drs cds m``l tc` sodjj arbup. Qetc-
but qu`stebl, tc` sodjj arbup obv`o`lt cds odi` ets odrh bl sbne`ty.
^tuie`s scbw tcdt 97 p`rn`lt bf Do`rendls dr` elvbjv`i el sbo` heli
bf sodjj arbup.0Odly p`bpj` a`t elvbjv`i el sunc d arbup tb feli d
pbelt bf nbll`ntebl dli d ar`dt`r s`ls` bf elteodny dli m`jblaela, tb
cdv` d pjdn` wc`r` tc`y ndl scdr` f`drs dli ir`dos. Y`steobly r`v`djs
tcdt sodjj arbups dr` abbi dli c`jpfuj. Mut stuie`s djsb scbw tcdt tc`y
bft`l iblt wbrh.6
Ycelhela bf tc` bji Ncel`s` prbv`rm tcdt stdt`s tc` m`aellela bfwesibo es tb ndjj sbo`tcela my ets react ldo`, ab mdnh tb ybur p`rsbldj
adjdxy dli dii d nernj` fbr ybur sodjj arbup (ef ybu cdv`lt djr`diy).
E jbv` tb nbbh, dli bv`r tc` y`drs, E cdv` `stdmjesc`i d fdvbret` elar`ie`lt.
Yc` j`obl. Fr`sc j`obl kuen` es us`i el djobst `v`ry o`dj E odh`,wc`tc`r E spjdsc et bl ncenh`l, fesc, v`a`tdmj`s, pbtdtb`s, sdun`s, sdjdis,
br i`ss`rts. Yc` kuen` bf d j`obl ndl wdh` up dli mreact`l tc` fjdvbrs bf
djobst dly fbbi. Cbw`v`r, oy fdvbret` tcela tb ib es tb seopjy squ``z`
dli tc`l irbp d w`ia` eltb oy wdt`r. Oooo! ^b ounc obr` r`fr`scela
tcdl pjdel wdt`r, dli E irelh obr` bf et.
Bl` `v`lela, E sdw d j`obl jyela bl tc` nbult`r tcdt E cdi us`i tb
fjdvbr oy mrbnnbje. Ds E penh`i et up dli `xdoel`i et, E r`djez`i E cdisqu``z`i tc` jef` but bf tcdt j`obl. Yc` pujp wds sodsc`i tb tc` sei`s,
tc` fr`sc kuen` abl`, dli tc` bljy tcela j`ft wds tc` mett`r reli. ^uii`ljy
et idwl`i bl o`. E f`jt jeh` tcdt j`obl! Yc` musyl`ss dli nrdzel`ss
bf odldaela oy wbrjis dli tcbs` bf `dnc bf bur fbur ncejir`l, m`ela
elvbjv`i el bur ncurnc jef` dli bur elt`r`st arbups, `xp`re`lnela jef` wetc
bur `xt`li`i fdoejy dli bur fre`lis, cdi squ``z`i tc` jef` react but
bf o`. E wds lbtcela obr` tcdl d sc`jj bf d j`obl elsei`s sodsc`i,
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]bzdll`
Lbw r`ldo` tc` sodjj arbup dnnbriela tb wcdt ybu s`` dli f``j. Cbw
dmbut Dlbtc`r Qbrji tb Odlda`2 Yc` fdujt ib`s lbt je` wetc tc`
nbln`pt bf sodjjl`ss br wetc tc` p`bpj`. Yc` prbmj`o je`s wetc brmet
odlda`o`lt. Obst p`bpj` nblf`ss tb ruscela frbo bl` wbrji tb d tbtdjjy
s`pdrdt` wbrji bf sodjj arbup. El btc`r wbris, tc` p`bpj` el tc`er sodjj
arbups dr` lbt elvbjv`i el dly btc`r arbup tc`y odlda`. V`ry f`w sodjj
arbup o`om`rs a`t tba`tc`r butsei` bf tc` fbrodj o``tela idt`, lbt
m`ndus` tc`r` eslt d i`ser`, mut m`ndus` tc`r` kust eslt dly teo`. Qcej`
dtt`opts dr` odi`, tc`r` es jettj` ncdln` tc` o`om`rs bf tc` sodjj arbup
ndl a`t tc`er dros drbuli ybur wbrji br ybur dros drbuli tc`ers. Yc`er
jev`s seopjy ib lbt elt`rs`nt dlywc`r` `xn`pt tc` sodjj arbup o``tela dli p`rcdps d quenh c`jjb dt ncurnc bl ^ulidy obrlela. Q` dr`
seopjy lbt prelnepdj ncdrdnt`rs el `dnc btc`rs wbrjis.
j`ft wetc mett`rl`ss nr`dt`i my bur ncbs`l jef`styj`. E wds dnnbopjescela
`v`rytcela, y`t y`jjela nblstdltjy dt bur heis tb curry up. E wds dlarydt oy cusmdli fr`qu`ltjy dli ieilt `v`l r`djjy hlbw wcy. Mut E ieilt
tcelh E nbuji stbp tces nrdzel`ss w` ndjj`i bur jef`.
A`ttela pusc`i dsei` w`r` `x`rnes`, cbmme`s, dli r`diela (`sp`nedjjy
oy que`t teo`s) tc` tcelas tcdt r`pj`lesc`i o`. Ef E iei stbp djj tc`
ruscela, et o`dlt Ei m` j`ttela sbo`bl` ibwl. Qcb wbuji et m`2 Oy
cusmdli2 Qcenc bf bur fbur ncejir`l2 M`sei`s, E wds tcelhela tcdt oy
Obtc`r bf tc` U`dr dwdri wds kust drbuli tc` nbrl`r, ef bljy E nbujih``p et up fbr d jettj` wcej` jbla`r. (U`s, dt teo`s et wdsdjj dmbut o`.) ^b
E sustdel`i dli p`rp`tudt`i bur elsdl` rdt rdn`, djj tc` wcej` m`nboela
dl dlary dli mett`r sc`jj bf d p`rsbl, kust jeh` oy squesc`i j`obl settela
bl tc` nbult`r. Dr` ybu f``jela d jettj` jeh` d squ``z`i j`obl, elsei`s
squesc`i dli iry, wetc lbtcela j`ft mut tc` mett`r reli2 Ef ybu ib, h``p
r`diela, m`ndus` tc`r` es dl djt`rldtev`.
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Yc` Wrbmj`o; ^qu``zela Jevela But bf Jef`
~=3 ~
Ef ybu cdv`lt ibl` sb djr`diy, felesc irdwela ybur wbrjis, br dii
l`w bl`s tcdt ndo` tb oeli ds ybu r`di. Qcdt dr` ybur tcbuacts
dmbut wcdt ybu cdv` irdwl2 Ef ybur` tc` dv`rda` p`rsbl, ybujj m` s``-
ela d pentur` bf str`ss. Ydh` sbo` teo` tb aev` tc` react ldo` tb ybur
jef`. Cbw dmbut Jbst el ^pdn` br @v`rymbiy Hlbws Oy Ldo`, mut
Lbmbiy Hlbws O` br Wjdl`t Cbpp`r br ^pdn` ^cuttj` Iw`jj`r2
Cbw dmbut d l`w ldo` fbr ybur ndr sunc ds Nbnbbl bl Qc``js br
Obmej` W`let`ltedry N`jj2 Ef w` dr` abela tb `xp`re`ln` r`dj seopjen-
ety, ef w` dr` abela tb odh` rbbo fbr jef`, tc`s` dr` tc` helis bf cbl`st
nblfrbltdtebls wetc bur `xestela jef`styj`s tcdt w` oust cdv`.
Ds ybu r`di tc` fbjjbwela pda`s dli tcelh tcrbuac tc` eopjendteblsfbr ybur jef`, m` sur` tb fbroujdt` d jest bf dntebl st`ps tcdt wejj obv`
ybu furtc`r frbo o`r` `xest`ln`dli njbs`r tb dutc`lten jevela. Oy abdj
dli pdssebl dr` lbt kust tb s`` ybu `xest el d jef` bf nrbwi`i jbl`jel`ss
mut tb aev` ybu d vesebl fbr d l`w wdy bf jef` djbla wetc prdntendj
st`ps tb a`t tc`r`. Yc` ei`ds wejj m`, E cbp`, `dsy tb uli`rstdli, mut tc`
eopj`o`ltdtebl wejj tdh` nburda`. Mut ef ybur` jeh` o` dli sb odly
btc`rs E hlbw, ybu dr` r`diy fbr d ncdla`.
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Nrbwi`i Jbl`jel`ss; Odldaela Ybb Odly Qbrjis
~=5 ~
Iesnussebl dli ]`fj`ntebl
4. Qcdt ib`s d jef` bf r`dj seopjenety o`dl tb ybu2 Ef ybu w`r` tb
m`nbo` sunn`ssfuj dt seopjefyela ybur jef`, wcdt wbuji ybu m`
ibela dli odym` obr` eopbrtdltjy, wcdt wbujilt ybu m`
ibela2
=. Iesnuss tc` ieff`r`ln` m`tw``l jbl`jel`ss dli nrbwi`i
jbl`jel`ss. Qcenc bf tc`s` ib ybu cdv` d t`li`lny tb struaaj` wetc
obr`2
>. Jbbh dt tc` irdwela ybu odi` bf djj ybur r`jdtebldj wbrjis. Dr`ybur s`pdrdt` r`jdtebldj wbrjis h``pela ybu frbo i``p`r, obr`
sdtesfyela r`jdteblsceps2 Qcdt st`ps ndl ybu tdh` tb diir`ss tces2
9. Ei`ltefy bl` p`rsbldj dntebl st`p ybu ndl tdh` tbwdri dibptela d
jef` bf r`dj seopjenety.
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~>4 ~
NC DWY@] =
Yc` Nbll`ntebl ]`quer`o`lt
Nr`dt`i fbr Nbooulety
Ef w` cbp` tb m` sunn`ssfuj el trujy `xp`re`lnela r`dj seopjenety dli
odhela rbbo fbr jef`, w`r` abela tb cdv` tb r`mueji bur nurr`lt jef`-
styj`s bl d l`w fbulidtebl. Q` ndllbt seopjy pbur obr` obl`y dli
`l`ray eltb tc` pdrdieao bf nrbwi`i jbl`jel`ss. Odldaela dl `lij`ss
luom`r bf iesnbll`nt`i jel`dr r`jdteblsceps es `xcdustela. Mut obr`tcdl kust odhela us ter`i, tces wdy bf jef` es tbxen.
Ycbs` bf us wcb dr` selaj` br wcb dr` odrre`i wetc lb ncejir`l ody
cdv` dl `dse`r teo` h``pela up wetc r`jdtebldj wbrjis tcdl tcbs` bf us
wcb dr` odrre`i wetc ncejir`l, `sp`nedjjy sodjj ncejir`l. Ycrbuac tc`
y`drs, cbw`v`r, w` cdv` s``l `v`l tcbs` wcb cdv` obr` fr``ibo a`t
ter`i bf rullela m`tw``l r`jdteblsceps. Djtcbuac tc`y iblt uli`rstdli
`xdntjy wcy, tc`y cdv` lbt fbuli tc`s` iesnbll`nt`i r`jdteblsceps tb m`ds sdtesfyela ds tc`y scbuji m`. Bv`r teo`, tc`y cdv` iesnbv`r`i tc`y dr`
jbbhela fbr sbo`tcela i``p`r ds w`jj.
Q` w`r` nr`dt`i wetc d nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt, dli ef tces r`quer`-
o`lt es lbt sdtesfe`i, w` wejj `v`ltudjjy ie`. Ef w` `v`r m`ndo` nbl-
veln`i bf tces, et wbuji odh` bur pursuet bf d seopj`r r`jdtebldj jef` d
ceac`r prebrety. Yces, tc`l, es tc` abdj bf tces ncdpt`r.
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Yc` Wrbmj`o; ^qu``zela Jevela But bf Jef`
~>= ~
Q` v`rsus O`
Lbrtc Do`rendls cdv` d r`v`r`ln` fbr elieveiudjety dli nblsuo`reso.
Et fjbws frbo tc` t`dncela bf o`l jeh` ]`l I`sndrt`s, wcb pbpujdr-ez`i tc` pcrds` E tcelh, tc`r`fbr` E do. Dt ferst tces s``os jeh` d rdtc`r
m`leal dli sbt`ren pcejbsbpcen pcrds`. Ets obst mdsen o`dlela suaa`sts
tcdt bl`s ei`ltety f jbws frbo bl`s`jf. Dft`r djj, Qcetl`y Cbustbl sdla
tcdt tb jbv` bl`s`jf wds tc` ar`dt`st jbv` bf djj. Qetcbut mbulidre`s,
Do`rendls cdv` tdh`l tc` nbln`pt bf s`jf-ei`ltety tb d l`w j`v`j dffbri`i
tc`o my w`djtc. El Do`rend, sunn`ss es i`fel`i my tc` l`xt purncds`.
El odly pjdn`s drbuli tc` wbrji, sunn`ss es i`fel`i my d seopj` o`djdli nblv`rsdtebl wetc fdoejy dli fre`lis. Yc` dnnuoujdtebl bf stuff es
dii`i tb bur l`t wbrtc stdt`o`lt tcdt i``os us wbrtcy el r`jdtebl-
scep tb btc`rs wcb cdv` j`ss.
Q` pdssebldt`jy pursu` tc` l`xt purncds` el dl dtt`opt tb rdes`
bur p`rn`ev`i vdju`. Yc`s` dr` twb v`ry ieff`r`lt fbulidtebls tb mueji
d jef` bl wetc twb v`ry ieff`r`lt r`sujts. Q` lbw jev` my tc` pcrds` E
purncds`/dnnuoujdt`, tc`r`fbr` E do.El bl` bf tc`er ^trdla` mut Yru` nbjuols tetj`i ^`jjela tc` o`
v`rsus w`, mrbtc`rs ]enc dli Mejj ^bl`s dlsw`r`i tces qu`stebl;
Cbw dr` dis tcdt tdra`t nblsuo`rs el elieveiudjesten sbne`te`s sunc ds
tc` Plet`i ^tdt`s dli Ndldid ieff`r`lt frbo dis el nboouldj sbne`te`s
sunc ds Hbr`d2
Yc` fbro`r try tb s`jj @AB dli wcdt tc` prbiunt ndl ib fbr
ybu8 tc` jdtt`r s`jj ^BNEDJ NBLL@NY@IL@^^ dli cbw tc`
prbiunt ndl fbst`r f``jelas bf m`jblaela dli cdrobly . . .
M` djj tcdt ybu ndl m`. Kbel tc` Droy, es d njdssen P.^. petnc
dt elieveiudjesten `ab-`lcdln`o`lt. Ybybtds E jbv` wcdt et ib`s
fbr o`. Frbo dly dlaj` (tc` ndr pentur`i frblt dli sei`wdys) sun-
n``is el tc` P.^., mut Yc` m`st r`jdteblsceps dr` jdstela bl`s . . .
Ybybtd Tudjety wbrhs m`tt`r el nboouldj Hbr`d. Qc`l r`s`drnc-
`rs ^dla-Wej Cdl dli ^cdrbl ^cdvett t`st`i nc`wela auo dis elmbtc nujtur`s, tc`y fbuli Yr`dt yburs`jf tb d mr`dtc-fr`sc`lela
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Yc` Nbll`ntebl ]`quer`o`lt; Nr`dt`i fbr Nbooulety
~>> ~
]bzdll`
`xp`re`ln` wbrh`i el bl` mut lbt tc` btc`r8 tc` sdo` fbr ^cdr`
d mr`dtc-fr`sc`lela `xp`re`ln`. Ndl ybu au`ss wcenc wds wcenc2>
Ef ybu, jeh` obst p`bpj` E hlbw, dr` wbrl but frbo d jef`styj` bf
dnnuoujdtebl, tc`l dl elvetdtebl tb d jef`styj` bf nblv`rsdtebl dli nbo-
oulety es w`jnbo`. Bur ulev`rsdj jblaela fbr nbooulety es d vdjeid-
tebl el dli bf ets`jf bf tc` nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt. Et scbuji odh` uswdlt tb rul tb tces l`w pjdn`.
Dt tc` tbp bf tc` jest fbr obst pdr`lts es tc` i`ser tb prbvei` d abbi
cbus` el d abbi l`eacmbrcbbi. Mbtc pdr`lts cdv` `lt`r`i tc` wbrhfbrn`tb aev` tc`er ncejir`l twb odel tcelas sdf`ty dli `iundtebl. J`t o`
`xpjdel. Ferst dli fbr`obst obst pdr`lts wdlt tb s`` tc`er ncejir`l
dtt`li tc` react sncbbj, sb tc`y obrtada` mbtc tc`er elnbo`s tb muy d
cbus` tcdt es jbndt`i el d sdf` l`eacmbrcbbi wetc i`serdmj` sncbbjs, br sb
tc`y ndl dffbri prevdt` sncbbj tuetebl.
El Yc` Ywb-Elnbo` Yrdp, obtc`r dli iduact`r dutcbrs @jezdm`tc
Qdrr`l dli Do`jed Qdrr`l Yydae stdt`, Yc` Ywb-Elnbo` Yrdp es tcenh
wetc erbly. Oeiij`-njdss obtc`rs w`lt eltb tc` wbrhfbrn` el d ndjnujdt`i
`ffbrt tb aev` tc`er fdoeje`s dl `nblboen `ia`. Elst`di, oejjebls bf tc`o
dr` lbw el tc` wbrhpjdn` kust sb tc`er fdoeje`s ndl mr`dh `v`l.4Q` wejj
ib dlytcela fbr bur heis, dli tces es d wbrtcy pursuet ds jbla ds wcdt
w` dr` pursuela es trujy tc` obst eopbrtdlt tcelas tcdt bur ncejir`l l``i.
Qcej` E cdv` lbtcela dadelst obtc`rs wbrhela, oy nbln`rl nbo`s
m`ndus` bf tc` dii`i str`ss et pjdn`s bl tc` fdoejy wetc r`adri tb teo`
dli feldln`s. Yc` trdp nbo`s wc`l d trda`iy cets tc` fdoejy dlul`xp`nt`i `xp`ls`, kbm jbss (jdybff br ferela), br odkbr c`djtc nreses. Yc`
fdoejy cds pjdy`i djj ets ndris dli cds lb fdjjmdnh pjdl. Dpprbxeodt jy
bl` el s`v`l fdoeje`s wetc ncejir`l cds i`njdr`i mdlhruptny bv`r tc` jdst
i`ndi`.=Aev`l bur pr`s`lt `nblboy, tces luom`r ody w`jj res` bv`r tc`
l`xt s`v`rdj y`drs.
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~>9 ~
^butc Dfrendl Dlajendl oelest`r I`sobli Yutu cds nbel`i d t`ro
tcdt `xpbs`s d renc`r fbulidtebl fbr jevela bl` muejt bl nbooulety
dli nblv`rsdtebl el nbltrdst tb elieveiudjeso dli dnnuoujdtebl. Yc`
t`ro es umultu Dfrendl fbr p`bpj` dli et cds nbo` tb r`pr`s`lt d
nbooulety tc`bjbay `xpr`ss`i el tc` pcrds` w` dr`, tc`r`fbr` E do.
Yces pbw`rfuj pcrds` suaa`sts tcdt bl`s ei`ltety es fbro`i my nboou-
lety.9Bl` bf tc` fulido`ltdj m`je`fs bf umultundl m` xpr`ss`i el tc`
Dfrendl sdyela, obtcb h` obtcb md mdtcb md mdlaw`/uoultu lauoultu
ladmdlt,wcenc o`dls, D p`rsbl ndl bljy m` d p`rsbl tcrbuac btc-
`rs.0El btc`r wbris, bur p`rn`ev`i vdju` ab`s up el prbpbrtebl tb bur
elv`sto`lt el nbooulety. Yces t`dncela eopje`s tcdt w` w`r` i`seal`iwetc d nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt. E furtc`r suaa`st tcdt tces m`je`f strun-
tur` es obr` el h``pela wetc wcdt Abi cdi el oeli wc`l c` nr`dt`i us.
Nr`dt`i fbr Nbll`ntebl
Cbw w`r` w` odi`2 Qcdt dr` tc` r`quer`o`lts fbr jevela c`djtcy dli
fruetfuj jev`s2 J`ts irdw bur dtt`ltebl tb tc` breaeldj i`seal bf cuodljef` el A`l`ses 4 = tb feli tc` dlsw`rs. El tc` sex-idy i`snreptebl bf
tc` nr`dtebl bf tc` c`dv`ls dli tc` `drtc dli djj jevela tcelas wetcel
et, Abi odh`s d kburldj `ltry eltb ces nblstruntebl jba; Et es abbi.
Yces scbuji lbt surpres` us aev`l tc` snbp` dli i`ptc bf Abis ndpdn-
ety. Bl tc` sextc idy, Abi ulv`ejs ces supr`o` nr`dtebl us! Qetc tc`
elnjusebl bf tc` cuodl m`ela eltb tc` `qudtebl Abi odh`s tces feldj
nboo`lt el ncdpt`r 4; Abi sdw djj tcdt c` cdi odi`, dli et wds v`ryabbi. Yrelety Nblstruntebl `lada`i el cestbrys ujteodt` i`seal-mueji
prbk`nt. Ei jbv` tb s`` tc` irdwelas bl cbw bl` ab`s dmbut s`ttela tc`
sul, obbl, dli stdrs el tc`er prbp`r pjdn`s.
Qc`l w` a`t tb ncdpt`r = bf A`l`ses, tc` dutcbr ab`s eltb ar`dt`r
i`tdej bl Abis i`seal dli purpbs` fbr odl. Q` dr` tbji tcdt Abi
tbbh iust frbo tc` arbuli dli fbro`i et eltb tc` cuodl scdp`. Yc`l,
c` mr`dtc`i eltb Didos jef`j`ss lbstrejs tc` mr`dtc bf jef`, dli Didom`ndo` d jevela m`ela (v`rs` 1). Q` dr` tbji tcdt Abi prbvei`i d iw`jj-
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Yc` Nbll`ntebl ]`quer`o`lt; Nr`dt`i fbr Nbooulety
~>0 ~
ela pjdn` fbr Dido ndjj`i tc` adri`l bf @i`l (v`rs`s 3 49). Ds ybu
r`di tc` i`snreptebl bf tces pjdn`, ybu a`t tc` ei`d tcdt Dido cdi
d cbo` tcdt odh`s Mejj Adt`ss `stdt` jbbh jeh` d tbbj sc`i. Q` dr`
tbji tcdt Dido wds aev`l tc` kbm bf ndrela fbr tc` adri`l wcenc
nbujilt cdv` m``l tbb cdri seln` w``is cdilt y`t m``l nr`dt`i (>;43).
Q`r` djsb tbji tcdt Dido wds tb `dt tb ces c`drts nblt`lt frbo dly
bf tc` tr``s `xn`pt bl` tc` tr`` bf tc` hlbwj`ia` bf abbi dli `vej
(=;46 41). Qcdt d i`dj tb cdv` bljy bl` jdw tb bm`y. Et wbuji l`v`r
m` tces seopj` dadel.
Yc`l el A`l`ses =;43 tc` ul`xp`nt`i cdpp`ls. Dft`r sex nbls`nu-
tev` `ltre`s bf cbw abbi tcelas w`r` tc` jdst `ltry `v`l suaa`stelatcdt tc` wcbj` prbk`nt wds v`ry abbi w` dr` lbt `xp`ntela Abi tb
sdy tcdt sbo`tcela es lbt abbi, mut c` ib`s. Yc` J Abi sdei, Et
es lbt abbifbr tc` odl tb m` djbl` (v`rs` 43, `opcdses dii`i). Qcdt
ib`s tces o`dl2
Ef Abi hl`w tcdt odl nbuji lbt cdlij` cuodl esbjdtebl, wcy iei
c` lbt i`dj wetc tces up frblt bl idy sex2 E m`je`v` tces es Abis wdy bf
ceacjeactela fbr us odls l``i fbr nbooulety. Ef Abi cdi nr`dt`i @v`bl tc` sextc idy, djbla wetc Dido, w` oeact cdv` tdh`l fbr ardlt`i
tc` dmsbjut` eopbrtdln` bf nbopdleblscep dli nblv`rsdtebl. E tcelh
Abi i`jdy`i tc` nr`dtebl bf @v` tb irev` tc` pbelt cbo` tcdt cuodls
cdv` lbt m``l nr`dt`i tb m` djbl`. El btc`r wbris, nbooulety es tc`
bljy ncdla` bri`r el nr`dtebl. Abi es sdyela tcdt c` i`seal`i cuodls tb
r`quer` bxya`l tb jev`. My tc` sdo` tbh`l, c` es djsb sdyela tcdt w` oust
cdv` nbooulety tb jev`. Q` dr` muejt wetc d nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt.
Q` Yc`bjbay
Fbr obst bf oy Ncrestedl jef`, Ev` r`di tc` L`w Y`stdo`lt j`tt`rs ds
tcbuac tc` dutcbrs w`r` wretela tb elieveiudjs dmbut arbwela ds elie-
veiudjs el Ncrest. E tbbh tc` p`rsp`ntev` bf Do`rendl elieveiudjeso dli
nblsuo`reso dli r`di et eltb ^nreptur`; @v`rytcela es djj dmbut o`.Dft`r adelela dl uli`rstdliela tcdt tc` oessebl bf tc` ncurnc es tb
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~>6 ~
mueji up dli mrela tb odturety tc` mbiy bf Ncrest, wcenc es odi` up bf
djj bf us, lbt kust o`, E lbw s`` tcdt E cdi m``l oessela tc` nboouldj
purpbs` bf jef`.
E cdv` d ndjj ds dl elieveiudj tb m`nbo` jeh` Ncrest el tc` wdy E jev`.
Yces ndjj es `opbw`r`i my tc` ^peret bf Abi wetcel o` ds E ye`ji oy
jef` el bm`ie`ln` tb Abis Qbri. Cbw`v`r, tces ndjj oust lbt m` s``l
el esbjdtebl, dpdrt frbo oy elt`rdntebl wetc btc`r m`je`v`rs. Yb ib sb
wbuji m` jeh` `x`rnesela ybur react dro wc`l ybu jeft`i w`eacts mut
lbt ybur j`ft. Ef ybu iei tces bv`r teo`, ybur mbiy wbuji m`ael tb jbbh
rdtc`r jbpsei`i dli strdla`. Yba`tc`r w` dr` tb aev` burs`jv`s tb jbv-
ela Abi dli jbvela `dnc btc`r. Ds d ulefe`i mbiy, wetc Ncrest ds tc`
Ef ybu stejj cdrmbr dly ibumt tcdt w` cuodls w`r` nr`dt`i wetc d
nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt, E suaa`st ybu nc`nh ybur n`jj pcbl`, `-odej,
Fdn`mbbh, Oy ^pdn`, dli Ywett`r dnnbults m`fbr` ybu dar`` tb iesdar``.
(Ef ybu iblt cdv` djj bf tc`s` dnnbults, nc`nh ybur heis dnnbults8 Eosur` tc`y cdv` tc`o.) Yc` Fdn`mbbh nrdz` stdrt`i el =779 wc`l Odrh
[unh`rm`ra, d Cdrvdri stui`lt, wdlt`i tb nr`dt` d sbnedj l`twbrh bf
Cdrvdri stui`lts. Djtcbuac [unh`rm`ras elt`lt wds l`twbrhela, et cds
tdh`l bff dli m`nbo` dl Elt`rl`t nbooulety, bms`rv`s Kbcl Lbrv`jj,
d vesetela j`ntur`r bl nujturdj dltcrbpbjbay dt ^nrepps Nbjj`a`.6
E `stdmjesc`i d Fdn`mbbh dnnbult m`ndus` E wdlt`i tb uli`rstdli
wcdt oy ncejir`l w`r` `xp`re`lnela dli wcy et wds sb nbop`jjela. Lbtsur` cbw tb ib et, E sbjenet`i tc`er c`jp. Dft`r d nbupj` bf cburs bf tryela
tb nr`dt` oy prbfej`, E cet tc` fre`li r`qu`st muttbl dli elvet`i oy heis
tb m` oy Fdn`mbbh muiie`s. Yb oy `xtr`o` pj`dsur` (dli r`je`f) tc`y djj
nblfero`i oy r`qu`st. Dft`r sp`liela d nbupj` bf cburs `xpjbrela tc`er
prbfej`s, E w`lt tb m`i ds d cdppy obo. E sdw pentur`s bf djj tc`er fre`lis
dli bms`rv`i tc`er nblv`rsdtebls dli djj w`r` wcbj`sbo`. Qc`w!
Pltej tc` l`xt obrlela!
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Yc` Nbll`ntebl ]`quer`o`lt; Nr`dt`i fbr Nbooulety
~>1 ~
]bzdll`
C`di, w` dr` tb jbv` btc`rs butsei` tces nbooulety bf fdetc el tc` cbp`
tcdt tc`y wejj `xp`re`ln` tc` jbv` bf Ncrest tcrbuac us dli `v`l kbel us
m`ndus` Ncrests bff`r es fbr `v`rybl` (@pc`sedls 9;49 46). Yc` Wrbt-
`stdlteso tcdt irev`s Do`rendl Ncrestedlety cds d str`dh bf prbt`stela
tcelas jeh` nbooulety. Bur dttetui` es bft`l bl` tcdt prbobt`s ruaa`i
elieveiudjeso bv`r nbooulety. Qc`l w` bp`l tc` L`w Y`stdo`lt, w`
bft`l r`di et el jeact bf bur elieveiudjeso, r`diela d o` tc`bjbay eltb
wcdt es wrett`l. Q` wbuji ib w`jj tb j`drl frbo bur Ndtcbjen mrbtc-
`rs dli sest`rs wcb cdv` cestbrendjjy r`di tc` Memj` frbo d nbooulety
p`rsp`ntev`, bft`l ndjj`i d w` tc`bjbay. Q` dr`, dft`r djj, nr`dt`i wetc
d nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt.
Dft`r E wbh` up, E nc`nh`i oy `-odej, dli E cdi 4=7 Fdn`mbbh fre`li
r`qu`sts el oy elmbx. Bf nburs`, E dnn`pt`i djj bf tc`o. E ieilt wdlt tb
curt dlybl`s f``jelas my turlela tc`o ibwl. E soej`i ds E dii`i oy
sbls aerjfre`li, tc`l d mby wcb jev`i ibwl tc` str``t frbo us wcb culabut wetc oy btc`r sbl. ^bo` bf tc`o w`r` oy bwl fre`lis. E ieilt `v`l
hlbw tc`y w`r` bl Fdn`mbbh! Yc`r` w`r` odly p`bpj`, cbw`v`r, tcdt E
ieilt hlbw. Yc`y w`r` fre`lis bf fre`lis bf fre`lis.
Qetc tc` t`nclbjbay nrdz`, E idr` sdy w` dr` tryela tb stdy nbll`nt`i
obr` tcdl w` `v`r iei el pdst a`l`rdtebls. Bur n`jj pcbl`s aev` us tc`
dmejety tb m` dvdejdmj` =9/1. Fdn`mbbh dli Oy^pdn` c`jp us hlbw wcdts
abela bl el bur r jdteblsceps wetcbut `v`l cdvela tb nblv`rs` wetcp`bpj`. Yc`l tc`r` es Ywett`r, wcenc djjbws ybu tb hlbw ybur fre`lis
`v`ry tcbuact br dt j`dst ds bft`l ds tc`y ncbbs` tb upidt tc`er
dnnbult.
Ndl ybu eodael` h``pela up wetc djj tcbs` r`jdteblsceps el p`rsbl2
Bur t`nclbjbay cds mrbuact us tb d l`w j`v`j bf nrbwi`i jbl`jel`ss
p`bpj` djj drbuli, elnjuiela tcbs` wcb pbp up tb ar``t us el bur elmbx,
mut lbt dl dntudj fdn` el seact.
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Yc` Wrbmj`o; ^qu``zela Jevela But bf Jef`
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@vei`ln` bf tc` Nbll`ntebl ]`quer`o`lt
Ef et es tru` tcdt Abi i`seal`i us wetc d nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt, tc`l
et wbuji stdli tb r`dsbl tcdt ef sbo`bl` w`r` esbjdt`i frbo nbll`ntebl,et wbuji cdv` s`rebus l`adtev` `ff`nts bl ces br c`r jef`. Yc` Do`rendl
Elstetut` bf ^tr`ss cds nbliunt`i `xt`lsev` r`s`drnc bl tc` rbj` bf sbnedj
suppbrt el c`djtc. Yc` felielas dr` nblnjusev`, eln`ssdlt, dli stdaa`r-
ela. Ier`ntjy bff tc` pda`s bf tc`er r`s`drnc r`pbrts dr` tc`s` wbris;
Yc` wesibo bf tc` da`s, dl`nibtdj bms`rvdtebls, ndr`fuj njelendj nds`
stuie`s dli tredjs, `pei`oebjbaendj idtd bl odrreda`, ievbrn` dli i`dtc,
ds w`jj ds sbpcestendt`i psyncbpcysebjbaendj dli jdmbrdtbry t`stela djjnblfero tcdt strbla sbnedj suppbrt es d pbw`rfuj str`ss must`r.1Yces
suoodry stdt`o`lt mdsendjjy sdys tcdt et ib`slt tdh` d o`iendj ibntbr
tb nblnjui` tcdt nbooulety es `ss`ltedj tb jef`, mut ef ybu l``i tces heli
bf `vei`ln`, tc`yjj prbvei` et el spdi`s.
Fbr `xdopj`, ndr`fuj r`s`drnc wds nbliunt`i bl =>= pdte`lts wcb
cdi uli`rabl` ndriedn sura`ry. Bf tc`s` pdte`lts, tw`lty-bl` ie`i
wetcel sex obltcs. Ywb stdtestendjjy sealefendlt obrtdjety pr`ientbrstcdt `o`ra`i frbo tc`s` tw`lty-bl` nds`s w`r` d jdnh bf pdrtenepdtebl
el sbnedj br nbooulety arbups, dli tc` dms`ln` bf str`latc dli nbo-
fbrt frbo r`jeaebl.3Yc` o`iendj nbooulety cds pbli`r`i tc` strbla
nbll`ntebl m`tw``l nbooulety dli ndriebvdsnujdr ies`ds` dli nbl-
njui`i tcdt wcbj`sbo` nbooulety r`iun`s cyp`rdntev` ndriebvdsnujdr
r`dntevety tb str`ss.5Qc`l tces nbooulety es speretudjjy mds`i, c`djtc
res`s `v`l furtc`r. C`r` es d sne`ltefen v`refendtebl tcdt Abi nr`dt`i uswetc d nbll`ntebl r`quer`o`lt.
Dlbtc`r `xdopj` nbo`s frbo d ^w`iesc r`pbrt tcdt i`oblstrdt`s
tcdt oeiij`-da`i o`l wcb cdi r`n`ltjy `liur`i ceac j`v`js bf `ob-
tebldj str`ss mut cdi jettj` `obtebldj suppbrt w`r` tcr`` teo`s ds jeh`jy
tb ie` bv`r tc` l`xt s`v`l y`drs ds tcbs` wetc njbs` p`rsbldj te`s.47D
Ndjefbrled stuiy elvbjvela s`v`l tcbusdli o`l dli wbo`l fbuli tcdt
dft`r lel` y`drs tcbs` wetc tc` f`w`st sbnedj te`s w`r` twen` ds jeh`jy tbie` ds tcbs` wetc tc` strbla`st bl`s.44Yc` Do`rendl Elstetut` bf ^tr`ss
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Yc` Nbll`ntebl ]`quer`o`lt; Nr`dt`i fbr Nbooulety
~>5 ~
djsb net`s d r`pbrt eliendtela tcdt sbnedj dntevety ndl pr`ient ndriedn
obrtdjety ds strblajy ds `j`vdt`i ncbj`st`rbj dli s`ruo jepei pdtt`rls.4=
]`s`drnc scbws tcdt jdnh bf sbnedj suppbrt es jelh`i wetc ceac`r obr-
tdjety rdt`s fbr c`drt dttdnhs, iedm`t`s, rc`uodtbei drtcretes, dli btc`r
dutbeooul` iesbri`rs.4>Feldjjy, dlbtc`r w`jj-ibnuo`lt`i stuiy scbws
tcdt sbnedj esbjdtebl nbltremut`s tb ejjl`ss dli i`dtc ds ounc ds sobh-
ela.49^b ef ybu f``j ybu oust sobh`, fbr abbil`ss sdh`, iblt ib et
djbl`!
El tces ncdpt`r w`v` j`drl`i tcdt w` dr` nr`dt`i wetc d nbll`ntebl
r`quer`o`lt. Dft`r r`diela tc`s` ferst twb ncdpt`rs, odly p`bpj` wejj
lbi tc`er c`dis el dar``o`lt, nblnjuiela tcdt tc`y pbss`ss tc` sbnedjsuppbrt l`n`ssdry tb sdtesfy tc` ievel` r`quer`o`lt. Obst p`bpj`, ds
d odtt`r bf fdnt, oeact `v`l nblnjui` tcdt nbopdleblscep eslt tc`er
pdrtenujdr prbmj`o. Q` cdv` p`bpj` djj drbuli us.
El r`djety, tcbuac, ets pbssemj` tb m` el tc` nbopdly bf btc`rs dli
stejj f``j esbjdt`i. Nbooulety sp`nedjests ndjj tces mrdli bf esbjdtebl
`xp`re`ln`i my tc` odkbrety bf Do`rendls nrbwi`i jbl`jel`ss. Et es tc`
obst idla`rbus jbl`jel`ss bf djj m`ndus` et `oets d fdjs` der bf nboou-lety tcdt pr`v`lts us frbo iedalbsela bur iej`ood nbrr`ntjy. Q` cdv`
`xpbsur` tb p`bpj` mut lbt d i``p nbll`ntebl tb p`bpj`. Yc` trutc es
tcdt tc`r` es d cua` adp m`tw``l Abis breaeldj i`seal fbr nbll`ntebl
dli tc` wdy obst bf us jev` bur jev`s. Bv`r tc` jdst fefty tb s`v`lty-fev`
y`drs, Do`rendls dli p`bpj` frbo btc`r divdln`i eliustredjez`i pjdn`s
`etc`r cdv` l`v`r uli`rstbbi tces i`seal r`quer`o`lt br cdv` ibwl-
ardi`i et tb dl bptebldj do`lety. Q` oust iessbjv` tcdt adp dli njbs`et, br w` wejj nbltelu` tb struaaj`, suff`r, dli E wbuji `v`l idr` tb
suaa`st ie` m`fbr` bur teo`.
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Iesnussebl dli ]`fj`ntebl
4. Yces ncdpt`r suaa`sts w` l``i tb odh` d sceft frbo d jef`styj`
bf dnnuoujdtebl tb d jef`styj` bf nblv`rsdtebl. Qcdt wbuji tces
ncdla` jbbh jeh` el ybur jef`2
=. Cbw ib ybu f``j dmbut tc` `vei`ln` tcdt tc` nblietebl bf d p`rsbls
pcysendj c`djtc es nbll`nt`i tb tc`er j`v`j bf r`jdtebldj nbll`ntevety2
Ib ybu m`je`v` tcdt ybu br tcbs` el ybur l`twbrh bf r`jdteblsceps
cdv` pcysendj prbmj`os m`ndus` bf d jdnh bf sealefendlt nbooulety2
Ei`ltefy bl` st`p ybu ndl tdh` tces w``h tb diir`ss tces essu`.>. ^bo`bl` cds wes`jy bms`rv`i, Q` iblt wbrh tb prbvei` fbr bur
l``is8 w` wbrh tb fuli bur ncbs`l jef`styj`. M` nbopj`t`jy cbl`st
ds ybu dlsw`r tc`s` qu`stebls; Qcdt es tc` purpbs` bf oy wbrh2
Qcdt do E tryela tb dnce`v` tcrbuac oy wbrh2
9. Ei`ltefy bl` p`rsbldj dntebl st`p ybu ndl tdh` tbwdri dibptela d
jef` bf r`dj seopjenety.
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