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Wldjlxk`clr nblwbn ml dkmljkmnm)kcdkmljkmnm lc jnr unwlonr

Jkb# @rbnw Ml Bwkr}d`wkr

C` bngl ckca|cn m|mn ~|l jn kmln ml kcdkmljkmnm lc jnr unwlonr ml }ku` in}wki`cknj

tklcl bnigkncm` lc jnr j}kinr mbnmnr# Bwl` ~|l r| uwkcbkunj }wncrd`winbkc rl tklcl

ùlwncm` lc jn mkr}kcbkc ~|l h`{ rl hnbl lc}wl rlw dklj n nja|klc { r`r}lclw lxbj|rktkmnm

rlx|nj b`c lrn ulwr`cn# Mlrml ~|l rl lr}ngjlbklw c jl{lr bktkjlr unwn jn kcr}k}|bkc

in}wki`cknj lrn c`win ml lxbj|rktkmnm unr n rlw |c` ml j`r wl~|krk}`r d|cmnilc}njlr ml jn

tkmn lc unwlon# Nc}ka|nilc}l d|l |c kcr}w|ilc}` ml b`c}w`j r`gwl jn mlrblcmlcbkn { n r|

tlz |cn hlwwniklc}n ml mìkcnbkc mlj tnwc r`gwl jn i|olw* {n ~|l j n j` jnwa` ml jn

hkr}`wkn* rkliuwl rl jnr nwwlaj unwn lr}nw d|lwn ml lrn c`win* ` u`w j` ilc`r c` r|dwkw jnr

ikrinr b`crlb|lcbknr rk jn }wnrawlmn# N ulrnw ml ~|l nb}|njilc}l c` lxkr}n mldkckbkc

nja|cn ml jn unjngwn dkmljkmnm ~|l kcbj|{n lj b`cblu} ml lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj (unwn lj

mkbbk`cnwk` ml jn Wlnj Nbnmlikn lrun`jn rkackdkbn jlnj}nm* `grlwtncbkn ml jn dl ~|l |c`

mlgl n `}w`+* jn w|u}|wn ml lrn c`win mlc}w` ml jnr jl{lr bktkjlr mlj in}wki`ck` lr bn|rnj

ml mkt`wbk` gno` jn dka|wn ml nm|j}lwk`# N ulrnw ml }`m` {n lxkr}l o|wkruw|mlcbkn lc jn ~|l rk

|c bc{|al r`r}klcl wljnbk`clr rlx|njlr u`w d|lwn mlj in}wki`ck` rklcm` jn bn|rnj dnj}n {/`

}lwikcnbkc mlj ni`w* rl j` lxkil ml b|jungkjkmnm* n ulrnw ml ~|l rl jjltl n bng` lj

mkt wbk # Mlrml jn wld`win ml >;;< lc c|lr}w` unr* lj nm|j}lwk` lr rj |cn bn|rnj

r|gol}ktn mlj mkt`wbk`* { ml lrn inclwn lj Bmka` Bktkj mlon ngklw}` lj jkgwl njglmw` ml jnr

unwlonr# N }`m` lr}` mlgli`r r|inwjl lj bwlbkiklc} r`r}lckm` ml |ck`clr u`w d|lwn ml jnr

jl{lr bktkjlr { jnr c`winr wljkak`rnr* j` b|nj b`jng`wn n |cn in{`w jnxk}|m lc b|nc}` nj }lin

ml jn lxbj|rktkmnm# U`w ~|0 Grkbnilc}l u`w~|l unwn r`r}lclw }nc hkubwk}n wlajn }klcl

~|l hnglw ilbnckri`r ml wluwlrkc r|dkbklc}lilc}l wakm`r bì` j` r`c j`r ~|l ujnc}lnc

nignr kcr}ncbknr# [ u`w ~|l mka` hkubwk}n* rkiujlilc}l u`w~|l lc c|lr}wn r`bklmnm bì`

lc jn in{`wn* mkbhn lxbj|rktkmnm c` lr wlrul}nmn lc |c nj}rki` u`wblc}nol ulw` n ulrnw ml

}`m` rl jn rka|l mldlcmklcm`* kcbj|rktl u`w n~|ljj`r ~|l c` jn wlrul}nc#

Lr rngkm` ~|l lj mlrl` lw}kb` rl r|r}lc}n lc jn tnwknbkc mlj `gol}` rlx|nj { ~|l

u`w `}w` jnm`* }klcl dlbhn ml tlcbkiklc}`* ~|l r`r}lclwj` b`c |cn ikrin ulwr`cn wl~|klwl

ml ij}kujlr dnb}`wlr ~|l u`w j` alclwnj dnjjnc i|{ dwlb|lc}lilc}l6 ~|l jn lxkalcbkn ml jn

i`cànikn c` lr rkc` |c tnc` kc}lc}` u`w ~|lwlw wla|jnw { b`c}w`jnw n~|ljj` ~|l lr

kiu`rkgjl ml rlw wla|jnm`* n|c~|l i|bhnr tlblr rl ~|klwn t`j|c}nwknilc}l jàwnwj`#

Jn dkmljkmnm lc bnigk` lr `}wn b`rn# B`crkr}l r`gwl }`m` lc jn b`cdknczn ~|l rl

mlu`rk}n lc lj `}w` ml jn unwlon { lc lj b|iujkiklc}` ml j`r unb}`r ~|l nig`r wlnjkblc lc

b`co|c}`# Ml nh ~|l u|lml mnwrl ~|l jn ùbkc ml lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj c` rln uwlikrn unwn

nja|cnr unwlonr* ` ~|l c` rln bì|ckbnmn nj `}w` rk r|blml* ` ~|l c` rl bìl}n lc ugjkb`*

` b`c b`c`bkm`r* l}b# Jnr tnwkngjlr u|lmlc rlw kcdkck}nr bì` j` r`c jnr bìgkcnbk`clr

u`rkgjlr ml unwlonr# I|bhnr tlblr rl }`jlwnc mlrjlnj}nmlr in{`wlr wldlwkmnr n b|lr}k`clr


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lb`cikbnr* u`w loliuj`* ulw` rk rl }wn}n ml mlrb|gwkw njac lcb|lc}w` ~|l b`cdkwil jn

w|u}|wn ml lrn lxbj|rktkmnm* unwlblwn ~|l unwn i|bh`r }`m` rl mlww|ign* ~|l {n lr

kiu`rkgjl jn b`ctktlcbkn* ~|l lj ni`w ~|l lxkr}n rl nbngn* b|ncm` lc wlnjkmnm rl }wn}l* }nj

tlz ml |c lukr`mk` }wncrk}`wk`* bnr|nj# [ rk c` j` d|lwn* rk lrl lcb|lc}w` rkackdkbnwn unwn

nja|c` ml j`r m`r nja` i|{ kiu`w}nc}l* lc}`cblr rl b`cdkwinwn jn kmln ~|l cnmn lr unwn

rkliuwl* ~|l lj ni`w rl nbngn { rl wlc|ltn* ulw` lc `}w` rlw6 ~|l rkliuwl hn{ ~|l lr}nwuwlunwnm` nc}l lrn u`rkgkjkmnm* ~|l lj |ckbn}` c` u|lml wlkcnw ulwinclc}lilc}l# [ nmlir*

b|ncm` |c` ml j`r m`r bìklczn n }wncrk}nw |cn c|ltn wljnbkc* m`cml c` rj` lj rlx` lr

kiu`w}nc}l rkc` ~|l hn{ `}w`r n}wnb}kt`r i|{ tnj`wnm`r lc o|la`* ~|l hnblc ~|l jn ulwr`cn

b`crkmlwl glcldkbk`r` r`r}lclw lrl tcb|j`* j` ir uw`gngjl lr ~|l jn unwlon nc}lwk`w lr}

na`}nmn ` lc tnr ml lr}nwj`# Lc lr}`r bnr`r j`r jnilc}`r* lj mn` ~|l rl `bnrk`cn nj

ngncm`cnm` c` lr rj` lc lj ujnc` ml jn uwmkmn ml lrl ndlb}`* rkc` }nigkc lc lj bnigk`

~|l rl jl alclwn lc r| tkmn lc alclwnj* lc r| hngk}n}* lc j` lb`cikb`* lc j` r`bknj* l}b#

Ulw` lr` lr unw}l ml jn tkmn* { c` mlglwnc rlw lr`r ulwo|kbk`r jnr wnz`clr tnjlmlwnr unwn

~|lmnw lcbnmlcnm`r n |cn wljnbkc lr}wkj }`mn jn lxkr}lcbkn wlr}nc}l#

Bnmn tlz ir jn i`cànikn bì` ik}` wlbkgl lr}`bnmnr i`w}njlr mlrml i|bh`r

dwlc}lr { u`w tnwknmnr wnz`clr# Lc}wl ljjnr rl nawlan jn n|}`cìn ml jnr i|olwlr# [n c`

rj` lj hìgwl r|ljl }lclw jkglw}nm unwn c` b|iujkwjn* rkc` ~|l nh`wn }nigkc jnr i|olwlr*

lc ujnc` ml ka|njmnm* mlonc unr n r| mlwlbh` ml uw`b|wnwrl j` ~|l c` u|lmlc `g}lclw ml

r| unwlon lr}ngjl* ` n u`mlw nbblmlw* rkc b|junr* n jnr uwb}kbnr rlx|njlr ~|l lj hìgwl

m|wnc}l rkaj`r lolwbk lc d`win tkrkgjl | `b|j}n# Lj bjni`w ml ka|njmnm ml mlglwlr {

mlwlbh`r lc}wl tnw`clr { i|olwlr hngk}nc}lr ml j`r mkdlwlc}lr }ku`r ml unwlonr ~|l rl

b`cd`winc lc jn nb}|njkmnm* lr b`cr}nc}l { n|ilc}n mn n mn#

Mlglwni`r n lr}n nj}|wn ljkikcnw lj unw ml }wikc`r dkmljkmnm)kcdkmljkmnm b|ncm`

c`r wldlwki`r nj r`r}lckiklc}` ` c` ml jn lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj lc}wl j`r ikligw`r ml |cn

unwlon# Hngjnw ml nm|j}lwk` lc j`r bnr`r ml in}wki`ck` bktkj* { rj` rk lj unb}` lc}wl ljj`r

d|l lj ml uwìl}lwrl mkbhn lxbj|rktkmnm#

DKMLJKMNM @ LXBJ\RKTKMNM RLX\NJ0

Lj bnwb}lw la`r}n { cnwbkrkr}n mlj ni`w lc j`r rlwlr h|inc`r jkik}n jn bnunbkmnm ml

rù`w}nw lj bìunw}kw jn ulwr`cn ninmn b`c `}w` | `}w`r* { j` tktl bì` |cn awntl ndwlc}n#

Jn b`cmkbkc u`w j` ilc`r kj|r`wkn ml lxbj|rktkmnm (dkmljkmnm+ lc jn tkmn ni`w`rn ml jnr

ulwr`cnr rka|l rklcm` |cn clblrkmnm { |cn d|lc}l ml gklclr}nw# N ulrnw ml }`m`* jn kmln

}wnmkbk`cnj ml dkmljkmnm rl tn mkr}lcmklcm`* wljnoncm`* bnmn tlz ir#


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Nc}lr ml rla|kw nmljnc}l b`c lr}nr wldjlxk`clr r`gwl lr}l }lin }nc jakm` lc jn tkmn

ml jnr unwlonr* il a|r}nwn rlc}nw ik u`rkbkc b`c wlrulb}` n jn mkdlwlcbknbkc ~|l r|lj`

hnblw b`c wlrulb}` n dkmljkmnm) kcdkmljkmnm { lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj* hlbh`r ~|l c` |gkb` lc

ka|njmnm ml b`cmkbk`clr# Dkmljkmnm rlac lj Mkbbk cnwk` ml N|} wkmnmlr ml jn Wlnj

Nbnmlikn Lrun`jn (>174)>12;+ rl mldkcl bì` jlnj}nm* `grlwtncbkn ml jn dl ~|l |c`

mlgl n `}w` u`w rlw r|ulwk`w bì` lj tnrnjj` nj wl{* lj bwknm` nj ni`# Rkackdkbn }nigkc jntkw}|m ~|l `gjkan n b|iujkw j` uwìl}km`# Lc jn lmkbkc ml >;;7 mlj mkbbk`cnwk` ml jn Wlnj

Nbnmlikn ml jn Jlca|n rl mldkcl dkmljkmnm bì` ># Jlnj}nm* `grlwtncbkn ml jn dl ~|l |c`

mlgl n `}w`# 7# U|c}|njkmnm* lxnb}k}|m lc jn lolb|bkc ml |cn b`rn# U`w j` }nc}` rlw kcdklj lr

wìulw jn uwìlrn ml jlnj}nm hnbkn nja|klc# Il uwla|c}` rl u|lml rlw dklj n jnr uwìlrnr

~|l d`wi|jni`r lc uwkilwn kcr}ncbkn lc }`m`r j`r `wmlclr ml c|lr}wn tkmn0 Mlgli`r rlw

dkljlr n }`mnr lrnr uwìlrnr ~|l wlnjkzni`r lc njac iìlc}` ml c|lr}wn tkmn { c`

i`mkdkbnwjnr onir n }wntr ml j`r n`r0 Jnr uwìlrnr lr}c hlbhnr unwn wìulwjnr b`c lj

unr` ml j`r n`r { jnr bkwb|cr}ncbknr# Ml }`mnr inclwnr il unwlbl ~|l lc |c tcb|j`

in}wki`cknj lxkr}lc i|bh`r unb}`r ml b`ctktlcbkn ~|l r ilwlblc rlw wlrul}nm`r { ~|l jn

dkmljkmnm ` jlnj}nm unrn uwlbkrnilc}l u`w u`mlw r`r}lclw |c uw`{lb}` ml tkmn lc bìcm`cml nig`r ({ r| uw`jl+ u|lmnc tktkw b`cd`w}ngjlilc}l ndlb}ktn { in}lwknjilc}l* m`cml

j`r lrd|lwz`r unwn jàwnw lr` rlnc jla}ki`r { c` rl mkrkulc hnbkn `}w`r dwlc}lr# Ulw` nja`

i|{ mkr}kc}` lr ~|l lc njac iìlc}` ml jn tkmn ml jn unwlon `b|wwn |c lcb|lc}w` rlx|nj

b`c `}w`* rkc ~|l lr` rkackdkbn jn clblrkmnm ml wìulw lj tcb|j`#

]nc}` |c hìgwl bì` |cn i|olw u|lmlc nblu}nw h`{ lc d`win ir lx}lcmkmn* rkc

mlbkwj` ngklw}nilc}l n r| bìunlw` rlx|nj* ~|l cnmkl lr} lxlc}` ml ~|l jl `b|wwn njac

lcb|lc}w rlx|nj nj inwalc ml r| unwlon lr}ngjl* { n tlblr nawlan ~|l hnr}n u`mwn

ulwm`cnwj`# U`w r|u|lr} ~|l b|ncm` `b|wwl }`m` lr mkr}kc} ? lrn uwmkmn mlj j|anw ml

uwldlwlcbkn bn|rn m`j`w { rl j` tktl bì` |cn ndwlc}n awntl# Ml }`mnr d`winr jnr wljnbk`clr

lc unwnjlj` n|ilc}nc* { jnr i|olwlr h`{ rl ka|njnc n jn }wnmkbk`cnj jkglw}nm ~|l rkliuwl

rl r`jk nmo|mkbnw n j`r hìgwlr lc lrl nrulb}`# J`r wlb|wr`r ir dwlb|lc}lr ~|l `b|wwlc

unwn {n c` rù`w}nw ir jn lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj n j` jnwa` ml i|bh r n`r ml tkmn lc unwlon

r`c* u`w |c jnm` jn }wnmkbk`cnj hku`bwlrn ml mlbkw ~|l rl lr dklj { rki|j}clnilc}l }lclw

wljnbk`clr ml ninc}nza` gwltlr ` m|wnmlwnr* u`w lj `}w`* lj g|rbnw n unw}kw ml jn dnbkjk}nbkc

mlj mkt`wbk` { jnr rlunwnbk clr c|lt`r bìunlw`r rlx|njlr* j` b|nj hnbl ~|l |cn

lxbj|rktkmnm unwn }`mn jn tkmn {n bnrk c` rl tln* { nmlir bì` b`w`jnwk` ml j` nc}lwk`w* lj

ljlakw tktkw r`j * b`c nja|cn unwlon lr}ngjl ` c`* m`cml jn u`rkgkjkmnm ml dwlb|lc}lr

lcb|lc}w`r rlx|njlr rl tl niujknilc}l dnbkjk}nm` uwlbkrnilc}l u`w lrn b`cmkbkc ml c`

bìunw}kw lj ikri` }lbh`# U`w~|l jn ù`w}|ckmnm lr |c nalc}l dnbkjk}nm`w unwn mnw wklcmn

r|lj}n nj mlrl`# Lr}` c` rkackdkbn ~|l nc h`{ i|bhnr unwlonr b`c}kclc uwìl}kcm`rl

lxbj|rktkmnm i|}|n { ~|l nmlir jn b|iujnc# U`w lxkr}kw |cn awnc tnwklmnm ml tnwkngjlr

lr}l }lin }klcl |cn bìujlokmnm ~|l c` u|lml wlr|ikwrl lc u`bnr ùbk`clr# Lxkr}lc

wnz`clr kml`jakbnr* wljkak rnr* urkb`jakbnr* r`bk`)b|j}|wnjlr ~|l kc}lwtklclc unwn ~|l lrn

lxbj|rktkmnm rl rkan r`r}lcklcm` bì` tnj`w r`bknj#


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Ninw lr jn ndkwinbkc a`z`rn ml jn lxkr}lcbkn ml `}w`* lc r| bnwb}lw ml `}w`* b`c

wlrul}` ml lrn mkdlwlcbkn# Rl bk}njn dkmljkmnm bì` ulwdlbbkc mlj ni`w? lr}n lr |cn

uwlikrn r`gwl jn b|nj rl rka|l kcrkr}klcm`* ulw * lxkr}l |c ni`w ulwdlb}`0 @ lr rj` |c

tnj`w ~|l rkwtl bì` h`wkz`c}l* |cn zncnh`wkn kcnjbnczngjl0

Jn dkmljkmnm u|lml rlw lc}lcmkmn c` bì` tnj`w i`wnj rkc` bì` |cn clblrkmnm

r`bknj wldlwkmn lrlcbknjilc}l nj `wmlc { r`r}lckiklc}` ml jnr r`bklmnmlr lc @bbkmlc}l# Lr}

`wanckznmn lc }`wc` n |c unb}` d|lw}lilc}l wlajnm` u`w lj Lr}nm` { jnr c`winr wljkak`rnr*

uwkcbkunjilc}l u`w jn Kajlrkn ~|klc hn lolwbkm` n j` jnwa` ml rkaj`r |c unulj uwlu`cmlwnc}l

mlrml lj rkaj` TKK lc nmljnc}l# Bì` ujnc}ln Mncklj Rkg c{ i|{ nblw}nmnilc}l* jn

dkmljkmnm rl i|lr}wn bì` j` b`c}wnwk` ml jn rlm|bbkc { ml jn }wnkbkc# C` njlonwrl mlj

bnikc` ({ lrl bnikc` u|lml rlw jn wljnbkc b`c{|anj ` Mk`r u`w ldlb}` ml jn rlm|bbkc `

ml nja|cn `}wn b`rn* { nawlan ~|l nrla|wnw ~|l |c` c` rlw rlm|bkm` onir* lr bì`

anwnc}kznw bklw}n i|lw}l* { {` nawlanwn ~|l lr bì` in}nw nj mlrl`* u`w~|l jn rlm|bbkc

d`win unw}l ml jnr d|lwznr ml jn tkmn# Nbnr` c` }wnkbk`cni`r c|lr}w` uwkilw ni`w* c|lr}wn

inmwl* ~|l lr uwlbkrnilc}l c|lr}w` uwkilw `gol}` ni`w`r` { n jn b|nj }nc}nr uwìlrnr jl

hnbli`r ~|l ~|lmnwc kcb|iujkmnr0 C` }wnkbk`cn lj mkrbu|j` nj inlr}w` b|ncm` }ìncm`

j`r r|u|lr}`r nuwlcmkm`r* j`r }wncrd`win { hnr}n wlcklan ml nja|c` ml ljj`r0 Rk lc jn tkmn

c` lxkr}klwnc lrnr }wnkbk`clr clblrnwknr c` u`mwni`r hngjnw ml tkmn# Lj mkbbk`cnwk`

mldkcl n jn dkmljkmnm bì` jn lxnb}k}|m lc b|iujkw b`c |c bìuwìkr`* }nigkc bì`

b`cr}ncbkn lc lj bnwk`# Lr}n mldkckbkc ilwlbl jllwrl b`c i|bhn n}lcbkc# Rk jn dkmljkmnm

lr lc}wl `}wnr b`rnr b`cr}ncbkn lc lj bnwk` rl jn u|lml uwìl}lw0 Rl u|lml uwìl}lw lrn

b`cr}ncbkn lc ulw`m`r uw`j`canm`r0 Lj bnwk` lr |c rlc}kiklc}`* bì` }nigkc n tlblr

mlrbwkgki`r nj ni`w* ` jn awn}k}|m* lj `mk`* jn }wkr}lzn ` jn mkbhn# Jn kc}kikmnm ml j`r

rlc}kiklc}`r lr i|{ bìujlon { ikr}lwk`rn* bì` }nigkc j` lr jn d`win lc ~|l cnblc { rl

lxuwlrnc* rl r`r}klclc ` na`ckznc* j`r i`}kt r u`w j`r b|njlr mkbh`r rlc}kiklc}`r rl

mlrujklanc* rl mlgkjk}nc ` mlrnunwlblc# Jnr wnz`clr u w j` b|nj lr r|blml r`c

mlrb`c`bkmnr u`w c`r`}w`r* n tlblr cnmnc lc jnr na|nr ml c|lr}w` kcb`cbklc}l ulw` j` bklw}`

lr ~|l r`c }nc kcr`cmngjlr bì` lj njin ml jnr ulwr`cnr ~|l rklc}lc# Lj b`cblu}` ml

dkmljkmnm rlx|nj }nj bì` rl j` lxuwlrn lc jnr b|lr}k`clr mlj ni`w lr |cn c`win lx}lwcn

unwn ~|lwlw r|ujkw jnr mkdlwlc}lr unwnmònr ~|l lj ni`w ikri` ujnc}ln* ~|lwlw |c wlnrla|w`

ml nja` }nc t`j}kj { bnigknc}l bì` j` lr lj rlc}kiklc}` ni`w`r`# Jkik}nw u`w |c jnm` jn

jkglw}nm* { uwì`tlwjn* n jn tlz* u`w lj `}w`* lr bì` gklc ujnc}ln Rnw}wl* }wn}nw ~|l lrn

jkglw}nm rln lolwbkmn unwn ~|l lj `}w`/n il nil rj` { ckbnilc}l n i#

Bklw}nr b`rnr unwn hnblwrl wlnjlr mlglc unrnw u`w lrn tkgwnbkc uwlbnwkn lc jn ~|l

rl ilzbjnc dkmljkmnm { }wnkbkc N ~| lwlr dklj b|ncm` }wnkbk`cnr* { ~|l }wnkbk`cnr rklcm`

dklj rl uwla|c}n Mncklj Rkg`c{#B|c}`r b|lwu`r mlrlngjlr bnglc lc c|lr}wnr ilc}lr0

Bi` nja|klc u|lml ulcrnw ~|l j`r tcb|j`r mlglwnc nc|jnw lj mlrl` u`w `}w`r { ml `}w`r


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rlwlr0 Bi` rl hn u`mkm` }wktknjkznw }nc}` lj b`c`bkiklc}` ml jn dkmljkmnm jkacm`j`

lxbj|rktnilc}l n j` rlx|nj0 [ lc}`cblr bi` lc}lcmli`r lj b`c}nb}` drkb` lc}wl j`r

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jl nunwlbl `}wn kinalc ml nja|klc b`c`bkm` lr` lr |c lukr`mk` ml kcdkmljkmnm0 Rk r`c

uwlbkrnilc}l jnr dnc}nrnr rlx|njlr ir tnwknmnr { dw`cm rnr jnr ~|l r`r}klclc |cn g|lcn {

wkbn lxbk}nbkc# Ulw` rla|wnilc}l lc j` ~|l }lcli`r ~|l wldjlxk`cnw lr nblwbn ml bi` jn

rn}krdnbbkc ml c|lr}w` mlrl` c` bn|rl r|dwkiklc}` n c|lr}wn unwlon* {n ~|l ltk}nw lj mlrl`

lr kiu`rkgjl# C` rkliuwl jn dkmljkmnm bì` lxbj|rktkmnm rl ujnc}ln bì` |c nb|lwm`

b`crlcr|nm`* n tlblr rl j` hnbl bì` |cn b`cm|b}n n|}`)wluwlrktn n|}`)kiu|lr}n* ` n

tlblr bì` |cn `gjkanbkc ~|l lj `}w` c`r kiu`cl { }nigkc bì` uw`hkgkbkc# Lc lr}`r

j}ki`r bnr`r u`mli`r hngjnw ml mlbkrkc* jkglw}nm ulwr`cnj* nb|lwm`* unb}`0

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ujnc}ln {n ~|l rk lj `}w` c` lr dljkz b`c lr}n lxkalcbkn* c` kiu`w}n* u`w j` }nc}` c` rl }wn}n

ml |cn nb}k}|m ni`w`rn rkc` ml |c la`ri` ulwr`cnj* |cn uwlrlwtnbkc ulwr`cnj nblwbn mlj

mn` ~|l rl rlc}kwn rk lr` r|blmklwn# @}wnr tlblr }nigkc rl j` |rn bì` |cn

hlwwniklc}n ml wld|ak * b`cr|lj {/` o|r}kdkbnbkc ml |c b`co|c}` ml kcbnunbkmnmlr

ulwr`cnjlr { }li`wlr* lr mlbkw* rl }lwikcn rklcm` dklj u`w~|l c` rl u|lml hnblw `}wn b`rn*

rklcm` i|{ mkr}kc}` lr}` ml n~|j ~|l u|mklcm` { }lcklcm` ù`w}|ckmnmlr unwn hnblwj`

ljkal u`w jn clan}ktn# Lr gnr}nc}l dwlb|lc}l tlw lc jn bjckbn ~|l n~|ljjnr unwlonr ~|l rl

`gjkanw`c n |cn dkmljkmnm ngr`j|}n bnkanc lc bwkrkr i|{ uw`d|cmnr nc}l b|nj~|klw lukr`mk`

ml kcdkmljkmnm* n|c~|l lj ikri` c` rln }nc kiu`w}nc}l# R`c unwlonr ~|l mldklcmlc lj

tcb|j` bì` rk d|lwn |cn d`w}njlzn lc jn b|nj cnmkl u|lml ulcl}wnw* { nc}l lj ilc`w n}krg`


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ml kc}wìkrkc* lr}njjnc b`c }`mn r| nw}kjjlwn# Lrl lr |c b`cblu}` ml dkmljkmnm i|{

kwwldjlxkt`* wakm`* u`b` ulcrnm` { b`ctlwrnm` ~|l rl hn `wanckznm` gno` |c i`mlj`

}wnmkbk`cnj ml unwlon ~|l h`{ lc mn lr}n rklcm` b|lr}k cnm` u w jnr kcblrnc}lr

}wncrd`winbk`clr r`bk`)b|j}|wnjlr#

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mlulcmklc}l }nigkc ml jnr }wncrd`winbk`clr ~|l |cn unwlon tn r|dwklcm` b`c j`r n`r#

Nmlir hn{ ~|l }lclw lc b|lc}n jnr c`}ngjlr mkdlwlcbknr ml jn c` lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj lc j`r

mkdlwlc}lr }ku`r ml unwlonr* { c` hnblw ndkwinbk`clr blwwnmnr* |cktlwrnjlr unwn }`mnr jnr

wljnbk`clr# Jn dkmljkmnm lc}lcmkmn bì` jlnj}nm* b`cdknczn* lr clblrnwkn unwn u`mlw

inc}lclw bìuw ikr`r nm~|kwkm`r { hnblw ~|l |c tkcb|j` ml unwlon u|lmn inc}lclw

b`c}kc|kmnm lc lj }kliu`# Lr d|cmnilc}nj unwn lr}ngjlblw |cn tkmn lc bìc {bìuwìl}lwrl b`c lj `}w`# Lrl jnz`* b|ncm` lr rjkm` c` rl wkdn u`w njac lcb|lc}w`

rlx|nj u`w d|lwn ml jn unwlon lr}ngjl# [ rk nr jjlanwn n r|blmlw lr u`w~|l j` c|lt` nm~|klwl

r|dkbklc}l d|lwzn r`gwl j` ~|l {n rl lr}ngn na`}ncm`* }lwikcncm`# Lj b`c}lckm` ml jn

dkmljkmnm tn bnigkncm` n ilmkmn ~|l tn bnigkncm` jn tkmn* { jn tkmn lc bìc ml jn

unwlon* rl tn wlmldkcklcm` b`c lj unr` mlj }kliu # C` lr nja` ~|l rl alclwn

n|}ì}kbnilc}l? lr |cn mlbkrkc b`c b`c}lckm`r lrulbdkb`r lc bnmn bnr`# Lr jn b`cdknczn

ml rlc}kw nj `}w` ml jn unwlon bì` |c bìunlw` ml tkmn ~|l c`r nu`w}n lrn b|`}n clblrnwkn

ml rla|wkmnm* uw`}lbbkc* b|kmnm`* ndlb} * bìunlwkri`* njlawn* bìujkbkmnm*

b`cd`w}ngkjkmnm { ~|l nmlir ml rlc}kwj` bì` wlbkuw`b` lr}ni`r mkru|lr}`r n o|anwc`r u`w

lrl `}w` mlj tkcb|j`#

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ckbnilc}l bì` |c unb}` ml lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj# Nh lr m`cml rl mktkmlc jnr na|nr# Bwl`

~|l lr hkubwk}n jn uwìlrn ml ndkwinw lrn lxbj|rktkmnm nj `}w`* u`w~|l lr bì` rk

~|krkwni`r r|ol}nw c|lr}w` d|}|w` mlrlnc}l n |c unb}` (~|l lc i|bh`r bnr`r lr |cn c`win

{ hnr}n |c mlbwl}` ` nw}b|j` mlj bmka` bktkj+# Ir* mkwn ~|l lr kiu`rkgjl uwìl}lw r`gwl

nja` }nc mljkbnm`* bnigknc}l* ikr}lwk`r` bì` j` lr lj mlrl` h|inc`# Lr bì` uwìl}lw

ni`w n nja|klc unwn }`mn jn tkmn b|ncm` rngli`r ~|l rlw hnr}n ~|l rl nbngl* rnjt` ~|l

|c` }lcan jn uwlmkru`rkbkc ml kiu`cwrlj` n wnon}ngjn unwn r ikri` { unwn lj `}w`

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c` nmù}nc lrl rkr}lin ulw` ~|l rl unwlblc lc bnrk }`m` n jnr uwkilwnr# ]nc}` jn jl{ bktkj

bì` u w loliuj` jn bncckbn bwkr}kncn b`crkmlwnc jn c` lxbj|rktkmnm rlx|nj bì`

nm|j}lwk` { bn|rn ml rlunwnbkc ml j`r bc{|alr* rklcm` u`w j` }nc}` |cn dnj}n (ulbnm`+

awntl# Lr}` ml u`w r {n lr r|dkbklc}l unwn wlr|j}nw rlw |cn uwlrbwkubkc r`bknj i|{ d|lw}l {

i|{ wlrkr}kmn n r|dwkw bnigk`r#

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` c` (a|nwmnw dkmljkmnm lr jn dwi|jn lbjlrknj+# Lr |cn bwlnbkc ml jn t`j|c}nm lc jn

wljnbkc ni`w`rn#

Jn dkmljkmnm* ` jn kcdkmljkmnm* rl wldklwlc nj b|iujkiklc}` ml |c nb|lwm` mlc}w` mlj

b`c}wn}` ml wljnbkc b`c{|anj* c` n jn uwlrlcbkn ` n|rlcbkn ml wljnbk`clr rlx|njlr b`c

}lwblw`r# Ml lr}n inclwn u|lml hnglw |cn wljnbkc dklj lc jn ~|l rl mlc wljnbk`clr rlx|njlr

lx}wnb`c{|anjlr { |cn wljnbkc kcdklj lc jn ~|l c` lxkr}nc wljnbk`clr rlx|njlr b`c }lwblw`r#

\cn ulwr`cn lr dklj ml inclwn b`ctlcbkmn b|ncm` rl nmhklwl n jn wljnbkc b`c jn `}wn

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|c` mlgl n `}w`# Dklj lr n~|j ~|l c` mldwn|mn jn b`cdknczn ~|l rl mlu`rk}n lc j# Jn

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jjltni`r mlc}w` { ~|l d`win unw}l ml c|lr}wn lrlcbkn h|incn#

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wukmnilc}l lc i`c`}`cn* { ~|l lj b`cblu}` ml jn dkmljkmnm lr nja` ~|l hn ~|lmnm`

`gr`jl}`* u`w j` ~|l nmik}lc ml njac i`m` jnr wljnbk`clr rlx|njlr lx}wnin}wki`cknjlr*

mcm`jlr |c bnwb}lw jla}ki` b|ncm` rl }wn}n ml wlb|ulwnw jn n|}`lr}kin ` jn rlcrnbkc ml

rlwlr h|inc`r# Lc bnigk` i|bh`r i`wnjkr}nr mldklcmlc jn dkmljkmnm bì` |c mlglw

b`c{|anj kclxb|rngjl* { ùkcnc ~|l jn unw}l kc`blc}l lr} `gjkanmn n mkt`wbknwrl ml jn

kcdklj* u`w ~|lmnw lj in}wki`ck` tnb` l kiu|w`#

Rl u`mwn ulcrnw jn kcdkmljkmnm bì` |cn inclwn ml g|wjnw jn jl{ in}wki`cknj* ulw`

lc wlnjkmnm nj rlw tktkmn bì` }wnkbkc* ilc}kwn* lcan`* c` hnbl ir ~|l wld`wznwjn# Lr}n

b|lr}kc ml jn i`cànikn ~|l rl kcr}nj lc jn bktkjkznbkc `bbkmlc}nj c` lr r`jnilc}l |c

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