A ROMAN CATHOLIC COMMUNITY � 1465 INCARNATION DRIVE � CHARLOTTESVILLE, VIRGINIA 22901 Office Phone: (434) 973-4381 Fax: (434) 973-1757 E-Mail: office@incarnationparish.org Website: www.incarnationparish.org

Fr. Gregory Kandt, Pastor ~ Fr. Jaime Guardado Delgado, Parochial Vicar Rev. Mr. Christopher Morash, Deacon ~ Rev. Mr. Thomas Healey, Deacon

Growing in Christ and Living Our Faith through Relationships

May 14, 2017 Fifth Sunday of Easter

Readings: Acts of the Apostles 6:1-7–1 Peter 2:4-9–John 14:1-12

OFFICE HOURS: 8:30am–4:30pm Monday –Friday (Closed: 12:20–12:50pm daily) LITURGY SCHEDULE:

Monday–Friday: Mass times on page 2 Saturday: 5:30pm Sunday: 9:00am, 11:30am & 4:30pm – English

1:30pm- Español Nursery: 9:00am, 11:30am & 1:30pm

SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION: Saturday 4:30–5:00pm or by appointment Sunday 12:45-1:15pm & Thursday 7:00pm (Español)

Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament Thursday, 1:00 – 9:00pm

COME OUT AND CHEER FOR TEAM INCARNATION! May 19 - 7:00pm, Field: McIntyre #1

Opponent: Westminister Presbyterian Church 8:00pm, Field #1

Opponent: All Saints Anglican Church If you are interested in joining Team Incarnation, contact parishioner, John Breen: jbreen@btlaw.com or 975-1984

THE HEALING PRAYER MINISTRY of Church of the Incarnation invites you to times of prayer. Healing prayer is offered for emotional, physical, or spiritual

healing, or prayer for personal or relational concerns. You may feel you have a need but have difficulty putting your finger on it or expressing it in words. Please do not let that difficulty stop you from receiving prayer. The Lord is our intercessor and healer. Prayer is available for all.

The Team will be available after the following Mass: Saturday, May 20 ~ 5:30pm Mass

JOIN US FOR FOOD-FUN-FELLOWSHIP: Incarnation Night at BAJA BEAN on Tuesday, May 16, 5:00-7:30pm, across from Sam’s Club. A portion of the proceeds help support our Parish! Be

certain to tell your waiter you’re supporting Incarnation!

Our Holy Father Pope Francis published an Apostolic Exhortation titled Amoris Laetitia (The Joy of Love: On Love in the Family) on March 19, 2016, as his authoritative teaching following the 2015 World Synod of Bishops on the Family. Our parish is having

a discussion group on this important instruction by Pope Francis. It is beautiful teaching on living the Sacrament of Matrimony and on Christian family life. Our next meeting is May 24, 7:30-9:00pm in the Conference Room. The text that we are using is the edition published by The Word Among Us Press, which can be obtained at The Sycamore Tree. At our meeting on October 26, we will be discussing #47-56 of the document, using the discussion questions #5-6 found on pages 257-258. All are welcome. Facilitated by Father Gregory.

We marvel at how God's mercy, presence, and grace breaks in to the lives of ordinary people in good times and in crisis. That is what we see in the films that we view and discuss at our parish TNT (Theater ‘N’ Theology). Our next TNT takes place on Friday, June 2, beginning promptly at

7:00pm. All are welcome to come to our Incarnation Movie Theater (the “Stone Chapel”) with comfortable seating and large projection. After the movie (the “Theology” part), we discuss the film’s relevance to our life in Christ and note the action of God’s mercy. Our June feature is the 2016 French film The Innocents. In 1945 Poland, a young French Red Cross doctor who is sent to assist the survivors of the German camps discovers several nuns in advanced states of pregnancy during a visit to a nearby convent. Rated PG-13. Facilitated by Fr. Gregory. All are welcome. Come watch a great movie with your brothers and sisters in Christ!

YOUTH MISSION TRIP: All students currently in grades 8-12 are invited to join us in Farmville, VA July 12-19 to serve God by serving our brothers and sisters in

need through home repair projects (you can join us for the whole time or any part you can make). We also learn about our Catholic faith and how God is calling us to serve everyday. And, to be honest, we have an insane amount of fun, too. Interested? Contact Patrick with questions or to register. The cost is $140 for the whole week ($30 per day if you can't make the entire week), if you register by June 4.

DIRECTOR OF CHRISTIAN FORMATION Patrick Drury: patrickd@incarnationparish.org

CHURCH OF THE INCARNATION

WORSHIP Deacon Chris Morash: deaconchris@incarnationparish.org

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MASS INTENTIONS: May 13-21 Saturday 13: 5:30 Jane Stevens (Pat & Mike Crawford) Sunday 14: 9:00 Ethan Paladino (Loving Hearts) 11:30 Mark Sullivan (Special Intention) 1:30 Missa Pro Populo

4:30 Angela Mahoney (Cottrell Family) Monday 15: 12:15 No Mass Tuesday 16: 12:15 Pat & Kendon Stubbs (Special Intention-Kate Heggarty) Wed’day 17: 2:00* The Rives Thursday 18: 12:15 Lee Stone (COTI) Friday 19: 12:15 Santo Micallef (Nancy & Tom Strassburg) Saturday 20: 5:30 Leo Busch (Karen Lansing & Cindy Campbell) Sunday 21: 9:00 Gene Albro (COTI) 11:30 Ethan Paladino (COTI) 1:30 Missa Pro Populo

4:30 Bob Niehaus (Augie & Aileen Feola)

2:00* Mass at the Laurel’s

WANT TO BE A EUCHARISTIC BREAD BAKER? Contact Chrislyn:

csrussamano@yahoo.com

… at times greater emphasis is placed on the outward expressions and traditions of some groups, or on alleged private revelations which would replace all else, than on the impulse of Christian piety. There is a kind of Christianity made up of devotions reflecting an individual and sentimental faith life which does not in fact correspond to authentic “popular piety”.

n Pope Francis, The Joy of the Gospel #70

VBS: Vacation Bible SAINTS! Vacation Bible Saints will be held at Incarnation Monday-Friday, July 24-28 from 9:00 am until 12:00 pm each day. Come

learn about some of our beloved Catholic Saints through crafts, music, games, and other activities. All rising kindergarten through 5th grade children are invited to participate. Suggested donation of $25 per family to attend. We are also looking for middle and high school students and adults to serve as leaders. Please contact Patrick with questions (patrickd@incarnationparish.org).

ROUNDTABLES ON RACE: Sunday May 14, and May 21 from 4:00-5:30pm. Attend any or all sessions to examine racism and right relationship through the lens of faith. Please email and RSVP to receive the topics and the short readings for each session. HELP NEEDED with weekly weeding and other garden tasks, either in the earlier morning or in the evening, any day M-Fri from May through August. A minimum of 3 visits would be appreciated, but any help is welcome. No experience necessary. Contact us for more information! PRAY WITH US! Every Wednesday morning, we greet the day with an ancient form of prayer, the Liturgy of the Hours. All are welcome to join us for chanting the psalms, times of silence, and sharing our intentions. Prayer begins at 7:30am, concludes at 8:00am.

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With praise and thanksgiving to Almighty God, the Diocese of Richmond joyfully announces the ordination of

Transitional Deacons (May 20, 10:30am) John Baab

James O’Reilly Nick Redmond

Priests (June 3, 10:30am) John Christian Mark Kowalski

Miguel Melendez through the imposition of hands and the invocation of the Holy Spirit by His Excellency the Most Reverend Francis X. DiLorenzo Bishop of Richmond at Cathedral of the Sacred Heart

All are welcome to attend!

ANNUAL BACCALAUREATE MASS - MAY 19 Fr Joseph Barranger, OP, pastor of St Thomas Aquinas University Parish, invites all and especially the entire University of Virginia community - faculty, students, and staff, including those retired and alumni - to join graduating students and their families at 7:00pm on Friday, May 19, for the annual Baccalaureate Mass. This festive Mass on the eve of Commencement has grown into a great tradition of prayer over the years. UVA faculty and students are invited to wear their academic regalia and to join the procession into church. Students participating in the procession are asked to arrive in St Thomas Hall no later than 6:30pm; faculty should arrive no later than 6:45pm. A reception and opportunities for photos will follow the Mass. Students, sign up online at : http://www.stauva.org/worship/music/baccalaureate-mass/ For more information, faculty and staff may contact Keith Kozminski (kkoz@virginia.edu); students contact Nate Smith (nsmith@stauva.org).

SAVE THE DATE! Saturday, June 24 from 8:00am-4:00pm. Please join the Office for Black Catholics for a Women’s Day of Reflection. Pam Harris and Candra Parker invite us to come together as Sisters in Christ to spend a day of prayer, reflection, and talk. The day of reflection will take place at St. Paul Catholic Church/ 909 Rennie Ave, Richmond, VA 23227. For questions please contact the Office for Black Catholics at email obc@richmonddiocese.org or by phone at (804) 622-5262.

CONCERT IN HONOR OF OUR LADY OF FATIMA: Rachel Laurin, acclaimed Canadian organist and composer will give a celebratory concert marking the 100th Anniversary of Our Lady of Fatima on Tuesday, May 23 at 7:30pm at St. Bridget's Catholic Church, 6006 Three Chopt Road, Richmond. The concert will include compositions by Liszt, Dupre, and Langlais devoted to Mary along with other selections by Bach, Franck and Laurin. Guests may submit themes for an improvisation that will conclude the concert with a reception to follow. No tickets required. Handicapped accessible. Contact Allen Bean (abean@saintbridgetchurch.org) for more information. All are warmly welcome!

DIRECTOR OF CHRISTIAN FORMATION Patrick Drury: patrickd@incarnationparish.org

To everything there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven . . .

“. . . a time to be born . . .” “. . . a time to be healed . . .”

James Armstrong, Ronald Balsam, Ann-Marie Balwinski, Meg Bojarski, Shauna Rose Boone, Diana Busch, Mary Jo Muir, Rose Byrne, Carla Campbell, Jude Campbell, Mary Glenn Carrington, Rose Colasuonno, Pat & Richard Cook, Ken Cottrell, Anna May Cutitta, Becca Dameron, Esther Davis, Harry DeLeijer, Sue DeMong, Evans DiSantis, Melani Dinh, John Dovel, Alice Dunbar, Teal Estrada, Nancy Floyd, Joe Frisina, Joann Harrell, Randy Hobbs, Susan Hodous, Jean Holienka, Eli Houston, Jerome Jareb, Atman Johnson, Helen Krespach, Genevieve Krynitsky, Tyler Lafferty, Mary Lederman, Alan Leidecker, Patty Lockwood, Vito Maltese, April Manteris, Ivy Maupin & Family, Levi Miller, Jeff Mahoney, Kathy Milchus, Ron Mohr, Janice Moler, Patrice Moore, Joanne Niehaus, Ronald Olowin, Jack Ostrowski, Henry Oswald Sr., John Packett, John Reynolds, Chris & Jadea Riener, Joel Rivera, James Robins, Robert Ross, Jennifer, David & Amelia Scheer, Roger Scott, Perry Sennewald, Tom & Lynn Shepherd, Fran Slayton, Betty Smoyleak, Maureen Spokes, Denise Sprouse, Sandy Stevens, Craig Stotz, Debra Strzepek, Pat Stubbs, Nicholas Surat, Pat Velikov, Brett Venditti, Jan Vineyard, Glenda Voelmeck, Beverly Whitlock, Karen Will, Kathleen Yates, Marianne Zeigler

“. . . a time to love . . .” “. . . a time to die . ..”

“. . . and a time of peace .” Jessica Farrell, Joshua Ostrowski,

Roberto Santamaria, David Waidelich, Joshua Wilson

FIFTH SUNDAY OF EASTER MAY 14, 2017

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We celebrate the life of our parish! Please let us know if you are new to the parish,

are moving from it, are celebrating a significant event or

are in need of prayers.

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FINANCIAL RESOURCES

For the weekend of May 6/7 Will be reported in the bulletin on May 21

EVENTS & OPPORTUNITIES

ENROLLMENT for the 2017-18 school year is now open at Charlottesville Catholic School.

PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY: The shawl serves as a mantle and sign of God's healing presence to strengthen someone who is weary, to ease their suffering and to comfort them when in pain or when they feel alone. The shawls are made with love by

parishioners. Prayer shawls are available in the Parish Office. There is no cost for the shawl. Donations are accepted.

The Parish Pastoral Council has a new bulletin board with photographs of new members and a suggestion box. We want to hear from you - your thoughts,

concerns and ideas. Please include your name to facilitate real communication and dialogue and so that we will be able to follow up personally if clarifications are necessary.

WORLDWIDE MARRIAGE ENCOUNTER: “Amen, amen, I say to you, whoever believes in me will do the works that I do, …” Let the Lord into your marriage to do his works by participating in a WorldWide Marriage Encounter weekend. The next weekend is September 15-17 in Herndon, VA. Early sign up is

recommended. For more info visit: https://renewmarriage-vasouth.org/ or contact us at applications@renewmarriage-vasouth.org or 757-690-1369. LEBANESE FOOD FESTIVAL: May 19-21, Friday & Saturday: 10:00am-10:00pm, Sunday 10:00am - 8:00pm RAIN OR SHINE ~ FREE PARKING AND FREE ADMISSION.The Lebanese Food Festival voted The Area’s Favorite Festival! Something for everyone! Free Shuttle and offsite parking available at Markel Inc. 4521Highwoods Parkway. No Pets allowed. Visit: www.StAnthonyMaroniteChurch.org. SECULAR ORDER OF DISCALCED CARMELITE Community of Blessed Elizabeth of the Trinity meets at St. Francis

Church in Staunton on the 2nd Sunday of each month. If you are interested in learning more or if you feel called to a Carmelite way of life, please contact Lori Stevenson at 979-3175.

DIOCESAN JOBS: visit www.richmonddiocese.org/human. Click on “subscribe for job updates” to receive new notices. PILGRIMAGE: Please join Fr. Joseph Barranger,OP, on a blessed pilgrimage from Fatima to Lourdes Oct. 4-14. The pilgrimage will begin in Lisbon and end in Lourdes and will include Fatima, Salamanca, Avila, Caleruega (where St. Dominic was born), Santo Domingo de Silos, Burgos, Loyola, and a few other pilgrimage places. The cost is $3,899 per person for double occupancy, departing from Washington, DC. A deposit of $400 will be requires to hold your space. For any questions, please contact Julie Zackrisson at julieanne333@gmail.com or 434-296-4615. $200 discount for those paying by June 5. FIRE CONCERT TO BENEFIT PACEM: Fire will be

performing a concert on Sunday afternoon, May 14, at 3:30pm at First Presbyterian Church at 500 Park Street. The concert is free and open to the public. A free-will offering will benefit PACEM. Fire is a Charlottesville-based women’s a cappella chamber ensemble whose members

share both a desire to live grounded in the Divine and a great joy in singing well together.

Anniversary! First Communion! Confirmation! Have you considered honoring these special occasions by making a donation for a leaf on our Tree of Life. The tree is located on the south wall of the Narthex. Enrollment forms are available next to the Tree of Life or in the Parish Office. Forms can be returned in the collection basket, to the Parish Office or mailed. Please make checks payable to

Church of the Incarnation with Tree of Life on the memo line.

Happy Mother ’s Day!

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Twinning with the Little Brothers and Sisters of the Incarnation, Pandiassou, Haiti

JUSTICE AND CHARITY MINISTRY Sheila Herlihy: sheila@incarnationparish.org

VIRGINIANS FOR ALTERNATIVES FOR THE DEATH PENALTY: VADP will be hosting their annual regional meeting at Incarnation on Tuesday, May 16 at 7:00pm in the Conference Room. Please join us to get updates on what's happening, and participate in discussion around this important pro-life issue!

FOOD MINISTRY-INVITATION: For our food ministry to function, we need people in a variety of roles. Currently, we are looking for help with picking up from Bell Air Farms through the growing season. If you are interested in this or any other aspect of the ministry, contact Sheila in the Parish Office. If you’d rather donate material goods, we accept all food items in the basket in the Narthex, (along with paper bags and empty egg cartons). The item of the week is an easy way to add something small to your grocery list, and donate something that is very needed by our ministry. This week, the item of

the week is spaghetti and pasta sauce. IMPACT CELEBRATION: For people who are network members in our Justice Ministry, don’t forget about our Celebration on May 25 at St. Thomas Aquinas. There will be a pot-luck dinner from 6:00-7:00pm, and the program from 7:00-8:00pm, with an opportunity to invest in the work of justice. If you would like to invest, but can’t make the celebration (or aren’t a network member), please mail a check made out to IMPACT to 1700 University Avenue, with Incarnation in the memo line. GREEN TEAM EnvironMINUTE: God invented the most energy efficient laundry dryer: sun and wind. One idea is to save the energy consuming dryer for emergencies. Drying racks and clotheslines can be used outdoors and indoors for drying laundry. JUSTICE CORNER: By working with 26 other congregations in IMPACT, Incarnation’s Justice Ministry got a Free Dental Clinic added to the free clinic. Since 2008, the clinic has served over 6,000 patients! HABITAT FOR HUMANITY BUILD DAYS: Incarnation participates in the work of Habitat for Humanity, building houses for and with community members in need! No construction experience is necessary, and this is a great way to spend a Saturday living our faith and doing tangible work in the community. We also need people to photograph the event, and provide lunch. Our next build dates are May 20, and July 15. Please check out the sign-up sheets in the Narthex for details and to put your name down! LOVE INC EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITY: A spiritually mature individual is needed to serve as the Transformational Ministry

Coordinator of a new initiative for Love INC. The position oversees, directs and administers ministerial duties and activities in coordination with volunteers, churches and community leaders in ministry programs designed to transform lives, enhance self-esteem and promote self-sufficiency. Must have excellent written and verbal communication skills, the ability to teach, influence, motivate and coordinate group discussions. Will need to be

competent in computer skills. Would prefer a BA/equivalent in management, ministry, social work, community development or related field. Past experience counts. The position begins as part time, $15/hour, 24 hours per week. Please send resume to Director, Love INC, 198 Spotnap Road, Suite C-1, Charlottesville, VA 22911. CATHOLIC SOCIAL TEACHING 101: The Life and Dignity of the Human Person is the foundation for every other tenant of Catholic

Social teaching. We base all our beliefs concerning other people on the fact that every person is made by God in love, and is thus deserving of both Life and Dignity. This touches on hot-button items, like abortion and capital punishment, but it has an extended reach to other issues. How can we claim to respect the life of persons while denying them healthcare? How can we claim to respect the dignity of individuals if we refuse to meet and know those who have suffered from the cycle of poverty? Every issue is a life issue. Here at Incarnation, we have several people involved at the Pregnancy Centers of Central Virginia, and our PACEM team does a wonderful job of treating each of the homeless who comes to our door with

dignity. To learn more, or get involved, contact Sheila!

FOSTER CARE. FOSTER HOPE. CCC is dedicated to the children and youth entrusted to our agency’s foster care program and we recognize the special role that foster parents play in these children’s lives. CCC is blessed to work with a group of passionate individuals who have embraced their calling as foster parents. One foster parent recently shared

the following: “Years ago, I kept seeing the UNICEF pictures of children in need, I wanted to take them all home. I had two children of my own and my husband was not interested in fostering. In my early fifties, I became a single woman and determined that it was the right time to pursue fostering, as I was the sole decision maker. I learned about CCC through one of my coworkers who was fostering through them. It’s been a wonderful ten years of fostering, I wish I had done it a lot sooner. It’s such a rewarding thing to do, the children are so good, they’re wonderful. To give safety and security is a nice thing to do for another human being especially a child. If you accept youth in a trusting and loving way, they respond. If you have fear, doubt or any apprehension, they’ll pick up on it. Just give love. Treat them like your own children.” If you would like to learn more about foster care and foster parenting, please visit our website at www.cccofva.org.