Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org

MASS SCHEDULE Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am &

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday,

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism

Contact the Parish Office. Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance.

Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office.

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

DEACON George Montalvo DEACON Edward Maron

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

Third Sunday of Advent — December 11, 2016

Parish Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Fri..9 am-5 pm, ; Rel. Ed.: Mon –Thurs.: 9:30 am—5 pm (Also by appointment.)

*Advent PENANCE Service —DEC. 12 (see p. 3)

*GIVING TREE GIFTS DUE —DEC. 15 *Cub Scout CANDY SALE TODAY!

*Advent Reflection by Rich Fritzky —DEC. 17 ( see p. 4)

December 12, 2016

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 pm

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember those who are ill: Baby Oliver Kamal, Baby Ronan Wnuk,

Felix Matos, Maria Scaglione, Bobbie Murtha, Geoffrey Pluto, Ron Silvers, Savannah Spinosa

Let us remember those who have recently died: Rev. Donald E. McLaughlin, Rev. John F. Connor,

William Scanno

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Week of December 4, 2016 BASKET PARISHPAY TOTAL $8,563 $5,102 $13,665

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread and wine for the week of

December 11, 2016 are offered in

Thanksgiving for Our Family

as requested by the Winklers.

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “You too must be patient. Make your hearts firm, because the coming of the Lord is at hand.” JAMES 5:8 Patience is another one of those things many of us struggle with. We want things to go according to our plan and our schedule. Any change brings anxiety and fear. Through daily prayer we better align ourselves with God’s will and His plan, which is far better than anything we can come up with on our own.

See the bulletin in full-color at sjcnj.org

HELP US DECORATE FOR CHRISTMAS!

Volunteers are needed to help us decorate Saint Joseph Church for the celebration of Our Lord’s birth. Helpers are needed on Sunday, December 18 at 2:00 pm to prepare the sanctuaries in both the Upper Church and Mary’s Chapel and to set up our Nativity scenes and other decorations. Volunteers are also welcome on Friday, December 23 at 9:15 am to arrange our Christmas flowers, set up the altar in the school gym for our third Christmas Eve Mass, and to put the final touches to everything. Please call or email Tom Moran at 201-220-9278 or at tmoran62@gmail.com to let us know you will be able to come to one or both of our decorating days. Your help is greatly needed and much appreciated.

EARLY DEADLINES

Due to the Christmas holiday, announcements for the following church bulletins are due early:

December 18 bulletin due Tuesday, Dec. 13 December 25 Christmas bulletin due Friday, Dec. 16 January 1 bulletin due Thursday, Dec. 22

December 10, 2016 Graham O’Brien

December 11, 2016 Janet Mulcahy Don Casey Marie Roeltgen Don Casey Vincenzo Alise

December 12, 2016 Dan O’Connor (Birthday—living) Rose Ronda

December 13, 2016

Thomas Barbagallo (Birthday Remembrance) Emanuela & Frank Scarano

December 14, 2016 Nancy Degand (12th Anniversary Remembrance) Bernadette Ancheta

December 15, 2016 Noreen Lynch Louise Monaruli

December 16, 2016 Susan Blume Timothy Curtin

December 17, 2016 Rose Geronimo Graham O’Brien

December 18, 2016 People of the Parish Janet Mulcahy Paul A. Rota Janet Mulcahy Emily E. Martin

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THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT ~ DECEMBER 11, 2016

Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org

SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK

JOINT ADVENT PENANCE SERVICE —THIS MONDAY,

DECEMBER 12 This year’s Advent Penance Service for both Saint Joseph and St. Peter the Apostle Parishes will be held at St. Peter’s Church, 445 Fifth Avenue, River Edge, NJ on Monday, December 12 at 7:30 pm. The clergy of both Saint Joseph Parish and St. Peter’s Parishes will be available to hear confessions.

When the comedian Bob Newhart, a faithfully practicing Catholic, was invited to give the

graduation address at Catholic University in Washington, he offered some humorous advice on going to confession during football season.

Growing up in Chicago, the best time to go to confession was during the Notre Dame-SMU game. You could tell that priest anything—”I just killed my family” … “Well, don’t do it again, my son”—and you could hear the game on in the background.

I knew a priest who was a big Notre Dame fan and used to take one of those little radios with the ear-buds into his confessional if the Fighting Irish were playing at the time and disconnect it when penitents showed up. But, of course, the Sacrament of Penance is serious business, as Bob Newhart knows very well, and as Pope Francis has often said. By the 1590s, the Holy Father’s Jesuit predecessors offered confession to pilgrims to Rome’s St. Peter’s Basilica in twenty-seven languages. Although the priests of St. Joseph’s and St. Peter’s in River Edge will not be able to match that linguistic convenience, we will be hearing confessions at our parishes’ combined Advent communal Penance service, which will take place this Monday at St. Peter’s at 7:30 pm. After prayers and a homily, there will be an examination of conscience followed by individual confessions until everyone has been heard. Our own parish will also offer additional opportunities, beyond our usual Saturday schedule, to benefit from the sacrament. Our priests will all be hearing confessions next Saturday at the usual 4:00-5:00 pm time. And we will also be available after our daily Masses of the following week, up to and including the 8:30 am Mass of December 24, which will be the last scheduled opportunity to receive the sacrament. (There will be no confessions from 4:00-5:00 on Christmas Eve, because the priests have to get ready for the three 5:00 pm Masses we will offer.) Jean Vanier, who is renowned for the work he has done in creating the L’Arche communities for disabled people, has enchantingly described confession as “a meeting of love and as a renewal of friendship” with God. I hope you will consider receiving this important sacrament as part of your spiritual preparation for Christmas.

Msgr. David Hubba

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CHRISTMAS FLOWERS You are invited to make a donation—in memory of a loved one or for a special intention—toward the cost of decorating our worship spaces for the Christmas season.

Please use the “Flower Envelope” that you will receive in the mail. (Extra envelopes are available in the parish office.) Please PRINT clearly on the envelope your intention, your name and phone number. Donation is $10 per name/family and payable to “Saint Joseph Church.” Your envelope can be put in the collection basket.

OUR LADY OF GUADALUPE —DECEMBER 12, 2016

On December 9, 1531, Our Lady appeared to a simple Aztec Indian who had converted to the Catholic faith, Juan

Diego. Three days later, at Juan Diego's request, Mary provided a sign so the local bishop would believe that she actually had appeared. Roses grew out of the cold winter soil, and when Juan Diego opened his cloak to show the bishop what he had found, an image of Our Lady appeared on the fabric. These occurrences led to the conversion of most of Mexico and remain today a strong sign of Our Lady's concern and love for us. Church-approved Marian apparitions always point to her Son, Jesus. For many of us with a strong Marian devotion, Mary is a pathway into a stronger relationship with our Lord. Her generosity shown to Juan Diego is the same generosity shown to each of us that choose to ask her intercession. Families pray for one another and she is a very prominent member of our family. May the miracle of Our Lady of Guadalupe be a sign of warmth for you in the cold of winter and of Advent hope for a Christ Child that has redeemed the world. —Tracy Earl Welliver, MTS

PRAYER TO OUR LADY OF GUADALUPE Our Lady of Guadalupe, my mother, into your hands joined in prayer,

take my prayers, petitions and hopes,

and present them to Jesus for me.

Remembering the love and care your hands rendered to Him,

He will not refuse what they hold now, even though they are from me.

Amen.

ADVENT REFLECTIONS “TIDINGS OF GREAT JOY”

LEGION OF MARY THIRD SATURDAY LITURGY

—DECEMBER 17 Richard Fritzky author of A Pilgrim’s Song: Mary Varick and Her Theology of Suffering, What Must Needs Come: A Legacy of Gettysburg and Tidings of

Great Joy: Keeping Christmas Well will speak in Saint Joseph’s Upper Church on Saturday, December 17 after the 8:30 AM Mass at the Legion of Mary Third Saturday Liturgy Gathering. All are most welcome! Focusing upon the topics of “Carrying the Cross” and “Keeping Christmas Well,” he will suggest that affliction and suffering can be the ultimate instruments of joy, transformative grace, and redemption—and that truly living in the spirit of Christmas requires journeying deep within and giving of oneself without. If you are challenged and/or struggling with suffering of any kind – be it mental, emotional or physical – or if you are simply interested in going deeper this Advent, please consider coming. You will not be disappointed.

BERGEN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL

WINTER CONCERT —DECEMBER 14

AT SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH Everyone is cordially invited to attend the Winter Concert of Bergen Catholic’s award-winning Men’s Vocal Ensemble right here at Saint Joseph Church on Wednesday, December 14 at 7:30 pm. The Men’s Ensemble will be joined by the young women of Our Lady Help of Christians Choir. All are invited to the reception in the lower church immediately following the Concert. There is NO charge. Come enjoy an evening of beautiful music in our own sacred setting.

CANDY SALE—THIS WEEKEND The Cub Scouts of Pack 142 will be selling chocolate after all Masses THIS WEEKEND, December 10-11 to help fund their programs. Your support is greatly appreciated.

CALENDARS AVAILABLE NEXT WEEKEND Thanks to Beaugard Funeral Home LLC in River Edge, Boulevard Funeral Home and Cremation Service in New Milford, Volk Leber Funeral Home in Oradell and the Catholic Cemeteries of the Archdiocese of Newark, we will have a limited number of 2017 Calendars

available for our parishioners the weekend of December 17-18. Please pick up yours NEXT WEEKEND while supplies last.

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THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT ~ DECEMBER 11, 2016

TAKE A TAG SHARE THE BLESSINGS

OF CHRISTMAS DEADLINE EXTENDED TO

DECEMBER 15

Our Giving Trees, an Advent tradition at Saint Joseph Parish, are located in the main entrance of the Church and at the Harrison Street entrance. Please take a tag from the Giving Tree, purchase the requested gift and then place the wrapped gift, with tag attached, under the tree the next time you come to Mass. The tag you take from the tree is very important. It tells our office staff and the agencies we are helping for whom the gift is meant. It is extremely important that the tag you took from the Giving Tree be attached securely to the wrapped gift so that it will reach the correct person on Christmas. All Giving Tree Gifts need to be returned no later than Thursday, December 15.

STUDENTS IN GRADES 7-12 COME TO PLC TODAY, DECEMBER 11

Want to do something great for our men and women of the Armed Forces? The Youth Group is going to be making rosaries and writing letters to the service me and women for Christmas. THIS IS OPEN TO ALL STUDENTS FROM GRADES 7-12 (whether you’ve attended a youth group meeting or not). We will be meeting after the 12:00 pm Mass, on Sunday, December 11, in the Parish Life Center. Come and join us to help give the men and women of the Armed forces a special thank you for all of the sacrifices they make to keep us safe. If you have any questions about Youth Group or this activity, please feel free to contact me at cirinod@sjcnj.org or call me at 201-362-8783.

A WARM THANK-YOU FROM NEW HOPE FOR CHILDREN

Many thanks to all who participated in our "Relax and Unwind Friday" fundraiser for New Hope for Children. It was a "wonder-

filled" evening of friendship, music and song spent in the warmth of our Parish Life Center and surrounded by the magnificent sounds of the All Star Trio. Many thanks as well to our generous donors, volunteers, and to everyone who participated in our 50/50 raffle. Cash prizes totaling $5,044 went to three lucky winners--all parishioners of Saint Joseph! Because of your generosity and support, homeless and refugee children in Ukraine will find comfort, love and safety in the Sisters of the Holy Eucharist Shelter. It was fitting that our delightful evening ended with our own Peter Greco leading us in the song "Let There Be Peace on Earth." Thank you for giving real meaning to the words of that beautiful hymn. Your kindness will make it possible for many children to have a future of hope and promise. —Maryanne Olsen and Committee

SPECIAL MASS FOR THOSE AFFECTED BY ALCOHOLISM

—DECEMBER 17

A special mass and support group meeting for all who are affected by the disease of alcoholism will take place at the Church of St. Mary, 20 Legion Place, Closter, NJ on Saturday, December 17 at 12:00 noon. Mass is offered for the support, healing and recovery of not only the man/woman directly infected with the abuse of alcohol or drugs, but also for anyone involved in the life of the alcoholic or drug addict. For information please call 201-768-7565.

IS SAINT JOSEPH ON YOUR GIFT LIST? Your donation at Christmas means a great deal to Saint Joseph Church. Our parish depends upon your financial support, especially at Christmas, to meet its larger expenses. Your

gift to Saint Joseph’s Christmas Collection may be made up to and including January 8, the last day of the Christmas Season. Please memo your check or offering envelope “CHRISTMAS COLLECTION.”

FA-LA-LA-LA-LA!

Saint Joseph Church's very popular annual Christmas concert “An Afternoon of Christmas Joy” will take place on Sunday, January 8 at 3:00 pm. It will feature the Adult and Children's Choirs as well as soloists and instrumentalists who are a part of the Music Ministry at Saint Joseph Church. Don’t miss it!

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A CHRISTMAS GIFT TO REMEMBER

Looking for a special gift? Or a way to remember a loved one? Or

something to record a special event (birth, Baptism, First Communion, Marriage) in the life of your family? A personalized engraved paver placed in our Commemorative Path (beside the church) or in our Garden of Saints (behind the parish office/rectory) may be just the answer. In the Garden we have shrines to Saints Francis of Assisi, Anthony of Padua, Joseph, Therese the Little Flower, and Jude. (We hope to include Saint Patrick in the near future.) Your brick can be placed in front of the saint of your choice. The donation for each brick is $125. Pick up an order form in the literature racks in the church or in the parish office/rectory and return it to 105 Harrison St., New Milford. Engraved bricks will be installed in the spring. Any questions, call 201-261-0148.

YOUR

LOVED ONE’S

NAME

NOTICE OF CLOSINGS and CANCELLATIONS In the event of inclement weather, a power outage, or other emergency, be sure to check our parish website sjcnj.org—click on ”CLOSINGS”— to see if parish meetings and activities are canceled for the day.

HELPING THOSE IN DESPERATE NEED Saint Joseph parishioner Sophia Mustard will be going on a Mission Trip to Rivere Friode, a small town in Haiti, from January 5-14. She will be traveling with the Franciscan Friars and Sisters of the Renewal and the lay support group “Friar Suppliers.” The group will be working to build 45 houses and latrines (destroyed by Hurricane Matthew in October). Many people there have only a tent to live in. The group’s medical team will treat as many as 2,000 people, giving medicine for high blood pressure (a big problem there), treating wounds and handing out vitamins to a community that is without even the barest necessities. Food is never in abundance and many people there only eat every three days! The group is hoping to be able to feed 1,500 families. Sophia is asking for our financial help. The cost to build a house is $600; a latrine costs $350. A 50 lb. bag of rice is $40; a bag of kidney beans of the same size is $75. Corn is relatively inexpensive ($25 for a 50 lb. bag), but grinders are needed. The group hopes to provide both manual grinders ($300 each) and electric grinders (at $1,500 each) to make cornmeal so that the children can have breakfast in their school. If you can help, please write your check, for whatever amount you can afford, to “Friar Suppliers,” put it in an envelope marked “Mission Trip” and drop it in the collection basket or at the rectory/parish office. Friar Suppliers is a 501c3 organization. 100% of your donation will go to help the people of Haiti, the poorest country in the western hemisphere. If you’d like to see what was done on the Mission Trip in 2016 go to friarsuppliers.com Thank you for your generosity.

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Parish Trustees………..Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Dir. of Religious Education ……..Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator ………...Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister ……………………….Mrs. Donna Cirino Facilities Director …………………...Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager …………………. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………...Mrs. Geraldine Carolan

Principal of Saint Joseph School…………..Mrs. Colette Vail Dir. of Comm./ Bulletin Editor…...Mrs. Diane Hellriegel

IMPORTANT INFO ABOUT MIRACULOUS MEDAL NOVENA

Our Novena WILL take place at its regularly scheduled time (7:00 pm) on December 12 and December 19. The Novena will NOT be held on December 26 or January 2 due to the holidays. (The Novena prayers may be said at home.) The Novena will resume as a regular devotion of Saint Joseph Church on Monday, January 9.

SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL 2017 TRICKY TRAY

RESERVATIONS BEING ACCEPTED NOW!

For the 12th year in a row, Saint Joseph School will host its extremely popular Tricky Tray fundraiser at the Rockleigh Country Club Thursday, February 9 5:30 pm

(You can preview the hundreds of amazing prizes!) Dinner will be served at 7:30 pm.

Your ticket ($70 per person) includes the cocktail hour, three-course dinner with beer/wine/soda, plus a 25 ticket sheet for the auction. You may also purchase Pre-Sale Discount Ticket Packages. (And the savings are big!) To reserve your seat and tickets at the biggest event of the year, go to our parish website at sjcnj.org, click on “Parish Events” and then on “SJS Tricky Tray.” Or contact AnnaMaria Gugliotta at 917-733-8370 or via email at annabanana42672@gmail.com

DON’T MISS THE BIGGEST EVENT OF THE YEAR!

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