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Screaming at Work is Not An Acceptable Behavior Compass Rose Consulting Donna Price Leadership Consultant Keynote Speaker, Seminar Leader www.CompassRoseConsulting.com

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Screaming at work is not the correct strategy for dealing with conflict. Whether you are a manager or an employee, screaming is just not the right approach to deal with your boss, your co-workers or your employees. When managers take on a screaming approach, then employees think that screaming is okay. But overall screaming just is not good for business. What do customers think when they are at the counter waiting to purchase your high quality services or products and they find that the employees are have an out and out screaming match. It really doesn’t even matter what the topic is. The customer feels uncomfortable. What should they do? Do they say “excuse me”? Or do they wait patiently for the match to end, or perhaps they just leave their items on the counter and walk out. What happens to the customer after they leave your business? Are they speaking highly of your customer service? Do they want to return or do they feel a new service provider --- your competition. When there is fighting at work it decreases your business effectiveness. There is an impact on the customers and there is a detrimental impact on your staff and managers. For staff, they feel angry, uncomfortable, hurt and possibly many other emotions. There is an impact on their work performance as well and it is a negative impact. They may even feel depressed and/or helpless; that they are powerless to change the environment and make it a good place to work. For managers, if they are the screamer, they may actually feel fearful and be dealing with their fears as a manager with loud outbursts. The manger may also feel helpless as they have created a pattern of behavior that they are unsure how to change. Screaming behaviors do need to be changed by both managers and employees. For employees, managers/leaders need to give staff alternatives through coaching and training they must teach new behaviors and coach staff on how to make needed changes. Boundaries of acceptable behaviors should be outlined for staffs. For managers, business owners and leaders take on the responsibility to recognize the impact of this behavior and seek out resources to make necessary changes. They too, can outline boundaries of acceptable behavior for managers and let them know that screaming is not acceptable. The impact of terminating employees and managers is severe. It is worth investing in coaching and training to make changes in behavior. Good coaching combined with training can have dramatic impacts on these types of behaviors. Through this combination new skills can be learned and then practiced. Creating a coaching culture can be the long term goal. http://www.compassroseconsulting.com

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Page 1: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Screaming at Work is Not An Acceptable Behavior

Compass Rose ConsultingDonna Price

Leadership ConsultantKeynote Speaker, Seminar Leader

www.CompassRoseConsulting.com

Page 2: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Screaming at work is not the correct strategy for

dealing with conflict

Page 3: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Whether you are a manager or an employee,

screaming isjust not the right approach to deal with your boss, your co-

workers or your employees

Page 4: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

When managers take on a screaming approach, then

employees think that screaming is okay.

But overall screaming just is not good for

business.

Page 5: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

What do customers think when they are at the counter

waiting to purchase yourhigh quality services or

products and they find that the employees are have an out and out screaming match?

Page 6: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

It really doesn’t even matter what the topic is.

The customer feels uncomfortable.

What should they do? Do they say “excuse me”?

Page 7: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Or do they wait patiently for the match to end,

or perhaps they just leave their items on the counter and walk out

Page 8: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

What happens to the customer after they leave

your business? Are they speaking highly of your customer

service?Do they want to return or do they feel a new

service provider --- your competition

Page 9: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

When there is fighting at work it decreases your

business effectiveness

Page 10: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

There is an impact on the customers and there is a

detrimental impact on your staff and managers

Page 11: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

For staff, they feel angry, uncomfortable, hurt and

possibly many other emotion

Page 12: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

There is an impact on their work performance as well

and it is a negative impact

Page 13: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

They may even feel depressed and/or

helpless; that they are powerless to

change the environment and make it a good place to work

Page 14: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

For managers, if they are the screamer,

they may actually feel fearful and be dealing with their fears as a manager with loud

outbursts

Page 15: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

The manger may also feel helpless as they have

createda pattern of behavior that they are unsure

how to change

Page 16: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Screaming behaviors do need to be changed by both

managers and employees

Page 17: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

For employees, managers/leaders need to give

staff alternatives through coaching and

training they must teach new behaviors and coach staff on how

to make needed changes

Page 18: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Boundaries of acceptable behaviors should be

outlined for staffs

Page 19: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

For managers, business owners and leaders take

on the responsibility torecognize the impact of this behavior and seek out resources to make necessary

changes

Page 20: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

They too, can outline boundaries of acceptable

behavior for managers and let them know that screaming is not acceptable

Page 21: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

The impact of terminating employees and managers

is severe It is worth investing in coaching and training

to make changes in behavior

Page 22: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Good coaching combined with training can have dramatic impacts on these types of

behaviors. Through this combination new skills can be

learned and then practiced

Page 23: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Creating a coaching culture can be the long

term goal

Page 24: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

By teaching managers how to use coaching skills to

workwith staffs over controlling, screaming, and

disempowering will all be addressed

Page 25: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

Managers will take a new approach that is focused on

employee empowerment andengagement, increased innovation and a

collaborative team environment

Page 26: Screaming at Work:  Not Okay

The results are happier employees and manager;

ultimately your company becomes a good place to work

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Additional positive results occur as well,

increases in innovative ideas are shared, collaborative problem solving and more.

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