sharing rituals: online behaviors shaping reality
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Sharing Rituals:Online Behaviors Shaping Reality
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Which is a fancy title for chatting with you about how
what we share online has real impact on our
lives offline.
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STACY FULLERHEAD OF SOCIAL INNOVATIONAT CAKE@STACYKFULLER
MAUDE STANDISHFOUNDER +
MANAGING DIRECTOR AT TAROT
@MAUDECHILD
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#overshare
sxswovershare.tumblr.com
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Eek! Is Social Media Bad?
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what IS IT doing to our brains?
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3 lbs.20%OUR BODY’S
ENERGY
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9CUBIC INCHES
SHRUNK
10%LOSS OF MASS
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HIS WAS BIGGER,BUT OURS IS MORE SOCIAL.
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SOCIAL MEDIATAPS INTO OUR
DEFAULT.
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it’s making us positivity addicts.
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So what is Social Media doing to relationships?
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STALKINGBEFORE YOU MEET
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This is terrifying.
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The couple that posts together stays together
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Get over it!
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It’s also reconstructing how our memory works.
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Social media is overloading our short-term memory.
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Our memory may be getting worse, but that’s okay because we have things like Instagram to capture the moments for us.
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right?
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THE photo-taking-impairment effect
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good at Instagram = BETTER MEMORY
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#YOLO
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REGRET
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Networked Publics
Public places on the internet where different conflicting contexts and
social norms coexist.=
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#FAIL
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We all perform for social networks
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We run into issues with we portray the wrong self to the
unintended audience
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Regret in real life is based on what you don’t do
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I do not regret the things I didn’t post
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— Padraig Reidy
“ The problem Justine Sacco has, and the problem that has led to her losing her job, is that you and I really have no idea who she is, apart from the woman who makes bad jokes on Twitter.
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of social media users report being bullied
online
39%
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1950s electric shock study
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Lack of social cues
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Body languageGestures
Facial RecognitionTone of Voice
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of social media teens admitted to joining in when witnessing
cruelty online
21%
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Ask someone to back off
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How does this effect women?
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72.5%
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i hope someone slits your throat and cums down your gob.
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5%
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I heard Facebook is making me depressed.
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In College Facebook Only
82 PEOPLE
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How are you using Facebook?
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Are you these people?
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OR THIS PERSON.
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But your vacation picture does bum me out :(
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— Steven Furtick, NPR Commenter
“ The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reel.
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SENSE OF WORTH
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Studies have found that browsing social media raises our self esteem far higher than looking in the mirror.
And this isn’t just true of “selfies.”
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But that raised self esteem can have detrimental effects.
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Greater social media use is correlated to increased binge eating, higher body mass, lower credit score, and higher levels of credit card debt.
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FACEBOOK & drunk STUDENT narcissists
NOW
30%1982
15%
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#SORRYNOTSORRY
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#SORRYNOTSORRYInternational Center for Media & Public Agenda
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STUDENTS100
COUNTRIES10
NO SOCIAL MEDIA24 HOURS
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For those under 25 you can’t imagine your life without a constant connection.
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— UK
“ Media is my drug; without it I was lost.I am an addict.
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— China
“ I can say without exaggeration, I was almost freaking out.
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— Slovakia“ I felt sad, lonely and
depressed.
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— Argentina“ I felt DEAD.
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— New York“ Who would volunteer
for this study?!
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alarmed?
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ANGELO ALCASABAS Art Director, CAKE
A BIG THANKS TO
@GELo123
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thank you for staying.
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QUESTIONS?