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Staff Tim Mason, Pastor [email protected]

Tom Poole, Director of Worship & The Arts [email protected]

Shelby Yuu, Parish Administrator [email protected]

Lehua Nakamaejo, Parish Assistant [email protected]

Patti Kendall, Finance Secretary [email protected]

Kay Burgoyne, Calvary Preschool Director Mai Ly Schultz, Preschool Admissions [email protected]

Sharing the Blessing of God’s Grace with Aloha

www.CalvarybytheSea.org VOLUME 18: Issue 4 APRIL 2013

IN THIS ISSUE

Articles of Inspiration

A Message from Pastor Tim Pg. 2

Notes from Tom Pg. 3

What’s going on at Calvary? Stephen Ministry News Pg. 4

Stephen Ministries Pg. 4

Adult Forum pg. 4

Calvary Directory Updates Pg. 4

ANC News Pg. 5

Hukilau Assembly Pg. 5

Sunday Bible Study Pg. 5

Yoga by the Sea Pg. 6

Prayer List pg. 6

Confirmation Schedule pg. 6

Living in the Power Zone Pg. 6

Aloha Groups pg. 7

Birthday Greetings pg. 8

Insert 2013 April Calendar

Living in the Power Zone flyer

Council of Deacons Jim Myers, Vice President

Peggy Trout, Secretary

Susan Schwichow-Lord, Treasure

Jack Ashby

Don Hardaway

Timm Vedder

Rafael del Castillo

Karen Sisler

Adam Sylvester

Thea Johanos-Kam

Bob Joseph

As I write this article, we are in the swirling

world of Holy Week services. When I look at

my April calendar, I notice that there are no

major events or holidays, only Arbor Day

4/27, Earth Day 4/22, and the anniversary of

the sinking of the Titanic 4/15! April looks

like it will be a wonderful month when we

will be able to enjoy living in the joy and free-

dom that was fulfilled and proclaimed to us at

Easter time. But will we allow ourselves to

live in this joy and freedom or will we let our-

selves be knocked around by all the distrac-

tions, judgments, fears and unknowns that

seem to come at us from all directions at the

most unexpected times?

If there is anything I have learned in this past

year, it is the great truth that all we really have

is what we can feel, see, touch, and hear

RIGHT NOW. It is a gift. That is why it is

called the present. That doesn't mean we

should live a carefree or careless life right

now… I like what all good campers say, ―we

must always be living in such a means that we

leave our campsite or better yet, our planet, in

better shape than the way we found it, or were

born into it.

Please allow April to be a time to practice that

joy and freedom in we all long for. Walk on

the beach. Start that new hobby you always

wanted to begin. TAKE UP YOGA, surf, sail,

scuba, read, write, hike, meditate. Begin a reg-

ular practice routine with your favorite instru-

ment (except if they are bagpipes…) or go to

the Iolani Palace or the Bishop Museum!

April is a wonderful oasis in the year. Drink

your fill and stay focused on what matters

most. Dispel angry thoughts, worthless grudg-

es and regrets. Let go of needless fear and

doubt! You are a Child of God! Live in that

promise… while you can!

See you in church!

Pastor Tim

NOTES FROM TOM

It was ―Aloha Friday‖ and the downtown traffic

was unusually heavy. I had just run errands and I

was thinking about supper. I was heading home.

All I needed to do was slide over into the turning

lane and make a left onto King.

The driver of the car in the next lane wouldn’t let

me over. I turned my signal on. He sped up. I

waved my arm out the window. He sped up. I

stuck my head out the window, waved my arm,

and had my turn signal on. HE SPED UP! He was

not going to let me in front of him!

I couldn’t believe it. What a jerk! I had to stop

traffic in my lane in order to merge into the turn-

ing lane all because the jerk wouldn’t let me in

front of him. I made the turn onto King, but what

I really wanted to do was to follow the man and

ask him why he refused to let me over. I wanted

to tell the man, ―I hope you don’t live your life

like you drive your car!

I’ll never know why the man was rude. Maybe it

was an emergency. Maybe he was late for an ap-

pointment. Maybe he didn’t like the color of my

car. Maybe he didn’t like the baldness of my

head, or the whiteness of my skin. Maybe it was a

control/power issue. Maybe he didn’t see me.

Maybe he was a jerk.

The bottom line for me is not that he wouldn’t let

me over. The bottom line is how I chose to re-

spond. I responded by holding the mirror up to

my own face. I asked myself how many times I

had been rude, not only in driving, but in dealing

with people. I asked myself how often I had let

unimportant things affect how I viewed the

world. I asked myself what good does it do to

―put other people in their place.‖ Who wins?

You see, I cannot control how other people treat

me, or relate to me, or what they think of me, or

especially how they drive. But I can control how I

relate/react to others. Jesus didn’t say, ―live your

life so that you please everyone, and everyone

loves you.‖ Jesus said to love your neighbor with-

out expecting anything in return.

I have been thinking about the rude driver as a re-

minder of what it means to be a follower of Christ

not only on Sundays or when the traffic is easy. I

have been thinking about this driver as a reminder

of what it means to be a follower of Christ when

the world is too much with us, and when the

―fussy‖ people are in control. I have been thinking

about this driver in these days when there seems

no hope for compromise, and a refusal to simply

practice the give and take of getting along.

Kelly Willard, who was born in Winter Haven,

Florida, in 1956, says it this way:

Make me a servant, humble and meek,

Lord, let me lift up those who are weak;

And may the prayer of my heart always be:

Make me a servant, make me a servant,

Make me a servant today.

In this glorious Easter season, keep singing even

when surrounded by jerks! Remember to love

your neighbor.

See you in worship—

Calvary Calls

A monthly publication produced by:

Calvary by the Sea Lutheran Church

5339 Kalanianaole Hwy,

Honolulu, HI 96821

Ph:808-377-5477 fax: 808-373-7233

www.calvarybythesea.org

The Stephen Series is a complete system for training

and organizing laypeople to provide one-to-one Chris-

tian care to hurting people in and around your congre-

gation.

Founded in 1975, the Stephen Ministries organization,

based in St. Louis, Missouri, has helped more than

11,000 congregations implement Stephen Ministry.

These congregations represent more than 150 denomi-

nations and come from all 50 states, 10 Canadian prov-

inces, and 23 other countries.

Stephen Ministers provide high-quality, confidential,

Christ-centered care and support to people experiencing

grief, divorce, cancer, job loss, loneliness, disability,

relocation, and other life difficulties.

The Stephen Ministry Difference

With Stephen Ministry--

Pastors don't carry the burden of being the congre-

gation's sole caregivers. They have a team of gifted,

trained, committed lay caregivers ready to minister to

hurting people inside and outside the congregation.

Laypeople have a chance to use and strengthen

their leadership and caregiving gifts in meaningful min-

istry--serving others while experiencing tremendous

spiritual growth.

People who are hurting no longer suffer alone. A

caring Christian friend comes alongside them to provide

emotional and spiritual care for as long as the need per-

sists.

For more information regarding becoming a Stephen

Minister or to receive care from a Stephen Minister,

Please contact Pastor Tim Mason (808) 377-5104 or

John Travis at (808) 371-2557.

Stephen Ministries

Stephen Ministry training classes are being held

every Tuesday at 6:30pm in the Loft.

Please contact John

Travis if interested at

371-2557 or by e-mail

at [email protected]

The next Adult Forum will be on

Sunday, April 7, 2013 From 8:45 to 9:45 in Hale Aloha

We will be learning about the parable of the sower as found in Matthew and how it

relates to our ocean and marine life.

Special members of our congregation will join us to share their knowledge and ex-

periences. Come and bring a friend!

Calvary

Directories It’s that time of year to update the church di-

rectory for all Calvary members. If you are a

Calvary member with new contact infor-

mation please contact the church office

at 377-5477 and speak with Lehua or Shelby

or e-mail updated information to

[email protected].

* A great big mahalo for all you real-life angels who have helped us reach our fundraising goal of $10,000! To be doubly blessed, Thrivent Lu-theran has gifted us with matching funds of 50%- that's $15,000! These donations will help serve our ever-growing number of guests by fill-ing our ever-depleting shelves, stocking our laundry and shower facilities, and making our purchases at the Hawaii Food Bank. Many thanks to our wonderfully supportive and gener-ous community! * Remember: we are open to serve our guests every Thursday and Friday (except the first Fri-day) 9-3 at Angel Network. We pack up bags of food every Wednesday evening. C'mon down and volunteer! The more the merrier! * For you financially curious folks, here is a breakdown of our 2012 Sources of Revenue. 7% Thrivent and Hawaii Food Bank 34% CBTS Subsidy 3% Interest & Fundraising 43% ANC Individual Donations, including Hunger Walk 5% CBTS Individual donations 8% Other donations * Shocking statistic ... The number of guest we have served since 2009 has increased by a WHOPPING 88%. Mahalo for your continued support!

Pop on over and say hi to Mac and our great vol-unteers or lend a hand.

All are welcome!

Hukilau Assembly

At Pohai Nani Retirement Community Center

Saturday, April 6, 2013 From 9am to 3pm

$10 fee for lunch

9-10am: Sign-in and Registration 10-12 noon: Opening Worship 12– 1pm: Lunch 1-3pm: Final Business

Sunday Adult Bible Study

will begin on

April 21, 2013 from

8:45am to 9:45am

in Hale Aloha with

Pastor Tim.

Bring your Bibles and get ready to

learn about all the amazing stories and

lessons it has to offer!

Adopted Missionaries

Dr. John Lunn

Dr. Jim & Carolyn Brown

Mary Borgman

Alex & Val Mathieu

Anita Buel

Cliff

Del Castillo

Diane Lau

Edith McCelvey

Emi Oshima

Gail Nakano

George & Nora

Helen

John Holdaway

Keith Johnson

Krista Hutchinson

Leslie Detor

Mary Bello

Nick Arrant

Susan Chavez

Enhancing Our Prayer Life

Being able to communicate with God on behalf of our-

selves and someone else is a great gift God gives us.

We ask that you join us in this gift. You can phone in

their names and requests, write them on the prayer re-

quest forms, or email requests to

[email protected]. We also ask that as prayers

are answered that you submit their name again for a

thank you to God for answered prayer.

Confirmation Schedule

Thursday, April 11, 2013 (Ohana Lani)-

Lutheran Worship Practices

Tuesday, April 23, 2013 (Pastors Office)-

Saved by Grace Through Faith

Thursday, April 25, 2013 (Ohana Lani)-

Sharing Your Faith

Tuesday, April 30, 2013 (Pastors Office)-

The Book of Revelation

Sunday, May 5, 2013 (Sanctuary– 7:30 &

10:00am service)- Confirmation Sunday!

Tuesday, May 7, 2013 (Pastors Office)-

Devotion and Living Your Faith

If there are any questions, or if you’d like to register your child for Confirmation, please contact the church office at 377-5477. Or by e-mail at [email protected]

April 2013 Schedule

Wednesday, April 3, 2013 @ 7:00pm

Saturday, April 6, 2013 @ 8:30am







All classes are held in Hale Aloha. This beginning level

class is open to people of all ages, abilities, and faiths. For

additional information call Martha Staff at 808-372-1280.

Friday, 4/19/13- 7pm to 9pm and

Saturday, 4/20/13- 9am to 4pm

Ohana Lani building

$85.00 Suggested donation

$60.00 Suggested donation for CBTS members

To register, contact

Dr. Reynold Feldman

[email protected]

720-323-1417

Sunday

Worship Times

7:30 am & 10:00 am

Prayer Circle

Tuesdays at 9 am

Pastor’s Office

Bible Study

Thursdays 10:45 am

Hawaii Kai Retirement

Center

Alcoholic Anonymous

meetings in Hale Aloha

Sunday at 5 pm,

Monday at 7 pm

Friday at 8 pm

Al Anon

Tuesdays at 7 pm

Hale Aloha

Hula

Tuesdays at 7 pm

Sanctuary

Handbell Choir

Tuesdays at 6:30pm

Ohana Lani

Calvary Choir

1st Thursday of the

month

at 6:30pm

Sanctuary

Submission deadline for

articles in Calvary Calls is

the 15th of each

month to

[email protected]

THE ADULT FORUM A Christian education aimed at adults in

our congregation. It is open for topics that increase spiritual growth,

expand knowledge and broaden awareness and compassion for others

outside our personal comfort zone. The Forum meets on the first Sun-

day of the month at 8:45 in Hale Aloha when a topic or series has been

developed. Watch the Sunday activity bulletin, and newsletter for top-

ics. Coordinator is Karen Sisler.

ANGEL NETWORK CHARITIES Donations through ―The Whale” at Sunday

Worship are greatly appreciated. To offer your time and assistance to the group contact

our Manager, ―Mac‖ Macalino at 808-386-8644.

BOOK OF THE MONTH GROUP April’s Book of the Month is ―The Billionaire

Who Wasn’t: How Chuck Feeney Secretly Made and Gave Away a Fortune‖ by

Conor O’Clery. We will meet on Thursday, April 25, 2013 at 6:30pm. Meeting will

take place at Assagio’s in Koko Marina. in Kaimuki. For more information contact

Cindi John at 225-8240.

CALVARY IN THE SEA (CITS) Join in caring for our beautiful bay and ocean

front by removing invasive species of seaweed while learning about our reefs. Contact

Michael @253-970-2435.

GLOBAL MISSIONS TEAM For more information on Global Missions Com-

mittee Meetings, contact Ted Hsia, 597-1452, [email protected].

MEN'S ADVENTURES IN SPIRITUALITY A group not for everyone. Meets

Saturdays at 7:45am on the marina side of Cha Cha Cha Salsaria in Hawaii Kai. Ed

Kimsey, 732-0268

PEACE & SOCIAL JUSTICE Reading and discussion group meets normally on

the last Sunday of each month at the home of Bob & Judy Joseph after the 10 am ser-

vice (at ca. 11:45 am) for brunch followed by a discussion on the topics of the

month. However the next meeting will be on Sunday, 7th April to avoid conflict

with Easter Sunday. Contact Bob Joseph 377– 8565, [email protected] for more

information. We are reading and discussing the book, Rediscovering Values: A Guide

for Economic and Moral Recovery, by Jim Wallis.

PRAYER CIRCLE Come join Pastor Tim in his office on Tuesday mornings at

9:00 am for Prayer Circle! We will pray for those in need (those on our prayer list),

our Church Ohana, the needs of the Community, and the world.

STEPHEN MINISTERS Stephen Ministers are trained to provide confidential,

one-on-one care, prayer, and support to those who are going through a difficult

time. If you would like a Stephen Minister to support and help you carry your burden

or if you are interested in serving as a Stephen Minister, please contact Pastor Tim or

John Travis at 371-2557.

YOGA BY THE SEA Expand your physical, mental and spiritual horizons

through Maya yoga. Classes are offered Wednesday evenings at 6:45 and Saturday

mornings at 8:30 am in Hale Aloha. You will be guided by certified yoga teachers

Martha Staff and Laura Sprowls, Maya yoga blends mindfulness, alignment and flow

in an accessible and gentle style. Open to all ages, no previous experience re-

quired. First class free, subsequent classes are by donation to support CBTS and An-

gel Network. For further information call 372-1280.

mailto:[email protected]

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April 12 Kanoa Pick

April 16 Shirley Isaacs

April 18 Alexander Hall

April 19 Norman Bruckmann Kristia Hutchinson Deborah Kimsey

April 20 Claude Hottendorf

April 21 Thomas Poole

April 22 Zsuzsa Bakonyi Matt Emanuele

April 23 Ansel Bliemester Hali’a Osorio

April 24 Jessica Hall Mary Philpott

April 1 Jerome Renick

April 3 Jasmine Ako

April 4 Thea Johanos-Kam

April 7 Nalani Taniguchi

April 9 Matthew Omori

April 10 Sherri Clar Summer Contreras

April 26 Carter Holden

April 28 Theo Bliemeister Sabine Nelson

Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday

1. Office Closed

2. 9:00 am Prayer circle (PO) 7:00 pm Hula (S) 6:30 pm Stephen Minis-tries (L) 7:00 pm Al-Anon (HA)

3. 1:00 pm Voice Class w/ Tom (HA) 3:30 pm Children Choir (OL/ HA) 6:45 pm Yoga (HA)

4. 6:30 pm Choir Rehearsal (S)

5. 4:30 pm PAC (HA) 8:00 pm AA (HA)

6. 8:30 am Yoga (HA) 9:00 am Hukilau Assembly (PNR) 6:00 pm After Dark Reef Walk & BBQ (S)

7. 7:30 am Worship 8:45 pm Choir (S) 8:45 am Sunday School (OL) 10:00 am Worship 11:45 am Peace & Social Justice (OC) 5:00 pm AA (HA)

8. 7:00 pm AA (HA)

9. 9:00 am Prayer circle (PO) 6:30 pm Hand bell (OL) 7:00 pm Hula (S) 6:30 pm Stephen Minis-tries (L) 7:00 pm Al-Anon (HA)

10. 1:00 pm Voice Class w/ Tom (OL/ HA) 3:30 pm Children Choir (OL/ HA) 6:00 pm Stephen Ministries (L) 7:00 pm After-shock (YT)

11. 6:00 pm Con-firmation (OL)

12. 4:30 pm PAC (HA) 8:00 pm AA (HA)

13. 8:30 am Yoga (HA)

14. 7:30 am Worship 8:45 pm Choir (S) 8:45 am Sunday School (OL) 10:00 am Worship 5:00 pm AA (HA)

15. 7:00 pm AA (HA)

16. 9:00 am Prayer circle (PO) 6:30 pm Hand bell (OL) 7:00 pm Hula (S) 6:30 pm Stephen Minis-tries (L) 7:00 pm Al-Anon (HA)

17. 1:00 pm Voice Class w/ Tom (HA) 3:30 pm Children Choir (OL/ HA) 6:45 pm Yoga (HA)

18. 6:00 pm COD Meeting (L)

19. 4:30 pm PAC (HA) 7:00 pm Pow-er Workshop (OL) 8:00 pm AA (HA)

20. 8:30 am Yoga (HA) 9:00 am Power Workshop (OL)

21. 7:30 am Worship 8:45 am Choir 8:45 am Sunday School (OL) 8:45 am Adult Bible Study (HA) 10:00 am Worship 5:00 pm AA (HA)

22. 7:00 pm AA (HA)

23. 9:00 am Prayer circle (PO) 6:00 pm Confirmation (PO) 6:30 pm Hand bell (OL) 6:30 pm Stephen Minis-tries (L) 7:00 pm Hula (S) 7:00pm Al-Anon (HA)

24. 1:00 pm Voice Class w/ Tom (HA) 3:30 pm Children Choir (OL/ HA) 6:45 pm Yoga (OL)

25. 6:00 pm Con-firmation (OL)

26. 12:00 pm Lunch Bunch 4:30 pm PAC (HA) 7:00 pm Mov-ie by the Sea (OL) 8:00 pm AA (HA)

27. 8:30 am Yoga (HA) 10:00 am One Pot One Hope (ML) 4:30 pm PAC (S)

28. 7:30 am Worship 8:45 am Choir 8:45 am Sunday School (OL) 10:00 am Worship 11:45 am Peace and Social Justice (OC) 5:00 pm AA (HA)

29. 7:00 pm AA (HA)

30. 9:00 am Prayer circle (PO) 6:00 pm Confirmation (PO) 6:30 pm Hand bell (OL) 7:00 pm Hula (S) 6:30 pm Stephen Minis-tries (L) 7:00 pm Al-Anon (HA)

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