Sly Sex and Guilt Youngsters of today know the problems arising from sly drinks and sly sex. Yet, they try because forbidden fruit is sweet and tempting. Also, their conduct is not tempered with experience and adequate information. For example, many girls who have a fling with a boy friend do not know the boy’s disease status, if any. here is no dearth of literature on pitfalls of promiscuity, teenage drinking and sly sex. hese are related to delinquency, yet few parents realise the gravity, nor apply brakes. !ut there is evidence between sex experimentation and drink. "hen parents themselves are indulgent, they are unaware or blink away the dangers of teenage drinking and explosion. Alcohol has b een the tool of seduction . #andy is dan dy, liquor is q uicker$ %nder its spell, the ma le is emboldened and the female is robbed of her resistance. &he is fired on her sex desire. eenage girls need be alarmed, as also their parents. he main task is to better home conditions. "hy a '( year old is allowed or provided a mobile$ "hy is she allowed to attend a party)a)day on one pretext or the other* +ore and more parents ought to realise that the old)fashioned parental authority has to be exercised. hey have to proclaim-As far as drink and late nights are concerned, you have to follow our instructions because we are held responsible for your actions.%nion +inister /enuka #haudhary has suggested that parents be looked for teenage reckless driving. "hy not drinking, too* 0ewspaper reports have indicated that loaded fags, cocaine and hari patti 1!hang leaves2 are widely used by teenagers. !arbiturates with soft drinks are fashionable with college and university students, including some high)styled girls. "ine, liquor and now ladies’ beer are as common as soft drinks$ 3rugs and drinks are powerful in luring and seducing youngsters into immoral ways. /ecently, a bunch of girls was arrested from a #handigarh hotel for acting as call girls. 4ne of the girls, a graduate, said that she was drugged and forcibly pushed into prostitution. &he had been promised a 5ob in a ho tel. 6arents have to be practical and realistic. First, they must educate themselves with realities. hen acquaint youngsters with facts and grim consequences. !e constantly alert to any faddish use of soft drinks or combinations. /aise a protest, not merely an eye)brow$ &ly sex often leads to delinquency of sorts. 7ovebites have to be kept hidden. 7ies roll off the tongue. You blush when you face your parents. here are many lies that make you red when you are asked why you are so late coming home. !ut secrets have a nasty way of getting out. You chance to face your brother outside a bar. Dirtybooks fall out of your bag. here is no safe place to keep love letters which are too explosive to keep but are too lovely to burn. 7ongstanding parental pressures conflict with the philosophy of the liberated mind. Young girls and boys who can discuss their sex lives freely with the parents are few and far between. his feeling spills over to marriage. &ays 8iran, -9 became so guilt)ridden that 9 couldn’t make freely love until my marriage was many months old, for fear of incurring husband’s displeasure. And when) ever 9 shut my eyes, 9 saw my husband’s disapproving face hovering over me.
