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Social Training Lab presents'
"Small Talk Tactics"
How to Make Small Talk Sexy
and Use it to Create Attraction
in a Woman You're Interacting With
Istoodoutsidethedoor.
Isortofleanedintoittotrytohearwhatwasgoingoninside.Iknewitwaswrong…butI
couldn'thelpmyself.
Finally,Isortofnudgedthedooropenandpeakedin.
Herhandwaslikeabunnyrabbithoppingupanddown.Hispantswerearoundhisankle
andhehadahugesmileonhisface.Itriedtoshutthedoorquickly,butitsqueaked.
Sheumpedbackstartled.Helaughedandyelled!Shutthedoor.!
"sImumbledanapology,Icaughtaglimpseofher.I'llne#erforgetthewayshelookedat
me…withsuchcompleteandutter$I%&…
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earFriend,
IhopeIwasn'ttoographicinthestoryabo#e(butifIwas…gobuyyourselfar.$hilbook,
becauseI'mnottheguytohelpyou.)
*nfortunately,thememoryisstillpretty#i#idinmymind.InaminuteI'mgoingtotellyou
thestory…andIthinkyou'regoingtolearna#aluablelessonfromit.
"ndthenI'mgoingtogi#eyousome!+edisecrets!sothatyoune#erfindyourselfinthe
samepositionIdid.Iwouldnotwishthatfeelingofunbearablehumiliationonanyone…
eforeIgetintothestory…Iustwanttolistsomeofmorecommonad#iceyoumayha#e
heardfrom!gurus!teachingyouhowtoimpro#eyourcon#ersations…
%alkaboutsomethingyou'repassionateabout…
-ookforthingsyouha#eincommon…
akesmoothtransitions…
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-etherdoallthetalking…
"#oidflufftalk…
'm calling ,ullshit on /0/1& piece of ad#ice listed abo#e…. "nd
pretty much 234 of the ad#ice being pawned off on crafting
con#ersations that get you -" …
%hestorythatIreferencedatthebeginningofthisreporthappenedfouryearsago…
butitisstillcrystalclearinmymind.
Ihad#isitedmyoldfraternity'shouseinhopesofscoringahotyoungpieceof
collegetail.
"fterfinishingcollegeIhadgoneintoabitofa!slump!withwomen…andwas
desperatelyhopingthistrekbacktomyoldstompinggroundwoulddothetricktowards
endingthedraught.
Ihadalsorecentlystumbleduponbookslike!%he5ame!and!%he0enusians"rts
Handbook!soIwasprettyconfidentthatIwouldraidthatfrathouseofe#eryhornycoed
Icouldgetmygrubbyhandson.
%heentirenightmygameconsistedoftwo!gears.!InthefirstgearIwasin!dancing
monkey!mode…tryingtoneggirls,demonstratemassi#e#alue,dothe!+ealous6boyfriend6stealing6ring6around6the61osieroutine…!orwhate#erelseIcoulddrawinto
mymindfromrecentforumpostsandeooksIhadread.
%hesecond!gear!thatIwouldgointowouldbe!singlefocusedrapport!mode.In
thismodeIwouldfindsomethingIhadincommonwithagirl,andthenproceedtodrill
intoituntilIsuckedthattopiccompletelydry.
…acktothegirlwiththebunnyrabbithandstrokeIreferencedearlier…
IfirstcaughtaglimpseofherwhenIwasfillingmybeerupinthekitchen.Shehada
arisa%omeilikequalitytoherthatIfoundirresistiblycute.
Inoticedthatshewaseatingsomething,somy$*"infestedmindimmediately
thought!7/5H/18!
SoIsay,!&oumustha#esomeappetite,chowingdowninafrathouse9!
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Inthecutestlittle#oiceshesays!&ea,Icamerightfromworkandneededtoeat
somethingbeforeIstartdrinking!
Isay,!:hatyoueating9!
Shesortofflashesmesomeorganichealthnut#eggiebarorsomething…
%hismustbemyluckyday…
Ihadbeeninahellu#ahealthcra;emyself…soIimmediatelyfelttheneedto
demonstratemysuperiorknowledgeofhealthfoodproducts…
SherespondedustasIhoped8
Soonwewerethickinthemiddleofapassionatecon#ersationaboutourfa#orite
fruitsmoothies,yogatechniques,thebestorganicfibersupplements…."ndthenwe
touchedupontheHoly5railofsimilarinterests…5ary7ull.
5ary7ullwasahealthguruwithacultlikefollowing…andwewerebothmembersof
thiscult.
Ithoughtthatthisbasicallysealedthedealforme…
:espentthene<thourtalkingaboutourfa#orite5ary7ullbooks,quotes,and
recipes…:eboth!scoffed!atalloftheotherpartygoerswhodidn'tshareour
#egetarianideals…"ndgleefullymadeplanstosomedaygotothe5ary7ullcenterin
7&together.
:henshee<cusedherselftogoupstairstothebathroomIbeganaskingmyfriendsifanyofthemhadacondomtheycouldspare.Iputoneinmypocketandwaitedforher
tocomeback.
Shedidn'tcomeback.
"fterabouttwentyminutesIgotalittle!sick!anddecidedtolookforher.Istarted
walkingupstairsandsawherchattingwithoneofmyfratbrothers...
%hisguywasanalcoholic,drugusing,wiseass…whowouldha#elaughedatherif
shetoldhimshewasa#egan…soIwascon#incedshe'dbebackdowntoher!soul
mate!withinminutes.
Shene#ercame.
"fteranothertwentyminutesIstalkedheroutupstairs.
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%hatwaswhenIpeakedinthedoor,sawhergi#ingmybuddyahandob,andshe
turnedandlookedatmewithpityinhereyes,asiftosay,!&ou'rereallynice…butI'm
heretoparty,nottalkabout5ary7ull…loser.!
Icouldn'tfigureitout.Ibuiltrapport.Iwaspassionate.Igothertalking."ndwe
completelya#oidsmalltalk.
s !Small %alk! &our issing -ink to ating and Seduction Success9
7owyoumaybereallyconfusedasthisprobablygoesagainste#erythingyou'#e
beentaughtby#ariousdatingcoachesandpickupartistsintheseductioncommunity.
uthearmeout…
Ithinkwecanallagreethatsmalltalkisuna#oidable,right9
Infact,myconstantneedtoa#oidsmalltalk!atallcosts!wasseriouslydetrimental
tomysuccesswithwomen.
utI'msaying…notonlyshouldyounota#oidit…butyoushould/1"=/I%.
/mbracesmalltalk9
&essir.
How astering !Small %alk! =an %ransform &our =on#ersations
and =reate Serious "ttraction :hen &ou're talking to :omen
Hereismytake>"womanwantstoknowthatshecanha#efunwithyoutalking
aboutnothing.Shedoesnotwanttofeelthatwhen!5ary7ull!talkends…you'llbothbe
boredsenseless.Shewantstoknowthatthingswon'tgetweird,becauseyou'reafun
guy.
"ndsmalltalkiswhereyougettodemonstrateallofthesethingsawomanislooking
for.
uthereisthething>
Smalltalkisoneofthosethingsthatcaneitherwinyouthegame…ordestroyyouwithinseconds.
Ifyou'renotgoodatit…andcauseawkwardness,uncomfortablesilence,orthe
dreaded!inter#iewmode!…you'redeadinthewater.
utifyoucanturn!flufftalk!intosomethingthatisfun,e<citing,andplayful…thegirl
willbeputtyinyourhands.
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It?stakenmemanyyearstofindthese,identifythem,testthem,andcreatesystemssothatIcanteachthemtoyouquicklyandeasily.$leaserespectthetimeandeffortithastakenmetofindthem…
:"17 75>
%heseare:eapons6*se%hem
:ith/<treme=aution
%hisinformationis!+edi-e#el!training.It's7inastuff.
:hatIamgoingtotellyouise<tremelydangerousforonebigfatreason>
I%:A1@S.
Itworkssowellthat&A*7//tobereadyfortheresponseyouaregoingtoget.Isaythisbecausesomanymenthatha#estruggledwiththeircon#ersationswithwomen
arenotusedtogettingapositi#ereaction…andthey-AS/%H/I1SHI%…whentheydo.
eready…whenyouchangethewayyoucon#ey!smalltalk!yourcon#ersationsare
goingtotakeonanentirelynewdimension.
It'sreallyquiteliberating…andwhenitfinallysinksinthatyoucan makesmalltalk
se<y …you'llquicklyreali;ethatyouha#ethegifttotalktoanywoman,anytime…
…"nde#enifyoudon'talwaysgetthegirl("nyguruthattellsyouthathismethodis
BCC4foolproofis-&I75toyou)youwill"-:"&Sfindthatyouareabletoha#eafuncon#ersationwithawomanthatlea#esthebothofyoubetterthanyoufoundone
another…
A@,let'sroll8
"littleearlierItoldastoryabouthowagirlIhadspenthourstalkingto…ditched
me….%ogi#eanotherguyshemetahandob…withinminutes….
"nswerthisquestion,F"S%>
:hatwas&con#ersationmissing9
%ime'sup.Hereiswhatmycon#ersationwasmissing>
Se<uality%hesecondquestionis>:hydidn'tIreali;ethis9
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Ididn'treali;ethisbecauseIhadachie#edmassi#e1"$$A1%withthegirl.:ehad
connectedonatopicsowellthatcon#ersationwasliterallypouringoutofourmouths…
"ndformethiswas""DI75…
ythreebiggestfearsincon#ersationswithwomenhadalwaysbeen>
1. 1unningoutofthingstotalkabout
2. "wkwardsilences
3. 1esortingto!boring!smalltalk
SothemerefactthatIhada#oidedallthreeoftheseoutcomesledmetobelie#ethat
Iwasachie#ingsomele#elofsuccesswiththisgirl.
utweallknowhowthatstoryended….
Here'swhy…
%he EB istake en ake that $re#ent a =on#ersation From
%urning Se<ual
%henumberonemistakemenmakethatpre#entsthemaddingse<ualitytotheir
con#ersationis….
….drumroll…
F/"1AF1/"@I751"$$A1%
"ndwhydowefearbreakingrapport9
ecauseweconfuserapportwithattraction…
"ndtheyare7A%thesamething…
:e'#eallestablishedtheIF*=@/*$the!5ary7ull!chickintheearlierstory…no
moreusetalkingaboutwhatIdidwrong….
-et'stalkaboutwhatIshouldha#edone…
Here's How %o *se %his nformation to
%urn a =on#ersation Se<ual 1ight 7ow…
7e<ttimeyou'resmackinthemiddleofacon#ersationwithawomanyou're
attractedto,stopforamomentandconsiderwhyyou'retalkingtoher.
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"ndIdon'twantthebullshitanswer.
Iwantthetruth.
&ouaretalkingtoherbecauseyouHA$/thatyoucan%"-@herintobecoming
attractedtoyouinaS/*"-way...
"ndyoucan…
utinordertodothis…you'#egotto…
,urn &our Ship "nd -ea#e 7o "#enue For 1etreat…
-ea#enoa#enueforretreat…
-ea#enoa#enueforretreat…
-ea#enoa#enueforretreat…
%hismeansthatifyourI7%/7%IA7istocreatese<ualattractioninawomanyou
ha#eto$"SS%H/$AI7%AF7A1/%*17.
&ouha#etobewillingtoloseher…
IF"I-/miserablywiththegirlinthestoryearlierbecauseIwasnotwillingtolose
therapportwehadestablished…
…butwhatIshouldha#eestablishedwasaS/*"-I7%/7%…
%hefirstthingyouneedtodothisisto1/"@1"$$A1%whenyousensethatawomanisgettingtoocomfortablearoundyou…
Se<ualtensionstemsfromdesiremi<edwithuncertainty,suspense,ande#enabit
ofner#ousness…
Ifyou'reinthemiddleofanhourlongcon#ersationwithagirlabouthealthfood(or
the&ankees,ortra#eling,oryourobs)…thereisnotension,nouncertainty,no
suspense…
&es,thereiscomfortandrapport…
utyou'#egotto1/"@I%…
Soforinstance,ifagirlhasgottentoocomfortablewithyouandshebeginsgoing
intoalongrantabouthowmuchshehatesherob…
Stopherandsay>
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GIfwekeeptalkingaboutthisI?mgoingtochargeyouCCanhourfortherapy.o
youha#eyourcreditcardwithyou9J
ydoingthatyou'#ebrokenrapportforaminuteandthrownsomesuspenseback
intothecon#ersation…andyou'#esnappedher!he'ssuchaniceguy…!thoughtsinhalf.
&ou'lloftenrunintothisproblemlaterinthenightwhenyouwanttogetphysicalwith
awoman…andha#ebuiltuptoomuchcomforto#erthecourseofthee#ening…andnow
itseemsthetensionisbroken…andakissseemsinappropriate...
reaktherapport…
"dam-yonsoncetoldmeastorywherehehadagirlbackathisplaceandshe
wouldn'tstoptalkingaboutanargumentshehadwithoneofherfriends….Hewas
sittingtherethinking!howthehellcanIgethertoshutuplongenoughtokissher…!
"ndhe@I=@/H/1I7%H/H/".
I'#edonesimilarthings…IfIsensethatawomanhasbecometoocomfortableandI
can'ttransitionthecon#ersationtosomethingmorese<ual…
I'lllookatherandsay,!on'tyou/0/1shutup9!
She'llusuallylookatmelikeI'#eustlostmymind…
utthe%/7SIA75A/S%H1A*5Htheroof…."ndrapportisbroken…andfrom
thereI'llgi#eheralittlesmile…thenlightlypushheraflirtyway…andsay! AH…idIpiss
youoff…!
"ndnowweareF-I1%I75.
How to "#oid this in the First $lace
:e'#ealreadyestablishedearlierinthisreportthatyourI7%/7%IA7istocreatea
se<ualattractionwithher.
Soletherknowyourintention…
Ifyoudon'twantawomantogettoocomfortablewithyou…andbeginustseeyouas
afunguytotalkto….
on'tgi#eherthatoption…
-/%&A*1I7%/7%IA7/@7A:7…
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:henIwastalkingto!5ary7ull!girlIne#ersaidanythingtohintthatIsawheras
anythingmorethanagirlwithasimilarinterestinhealthfood.Sothatisthe!role!she
ga#eme…theguyshetalksabouthealthfoodwith…
Ishouldha#emadeastatementofintentearlyon>
"ne<ampleofastatementofintentis>(ifsheflashesasmile)G&ouha#eareally
se<yandmischie#oussmile,likeyou?retotallyuptonogood.HahaIlikethat…J
Ar…
!%hatthingyouustdidwithyourhair…isdri#ingmecra;y…Iactuallywasn'tpaying
attentiontoawordyouustsaid…!
-ea#e no a#enue for retreat…
Anceyouintroduceastatementofintentintothecon#ersationyoucanreturnback
toS"--%"-@…becausenowunderneaththe!fluff!isanunderlying%/7SIA7thatis
building…
Iustsharedwhatisprobablythebiggestmistakemenmakeintheircon#ersations
withwomen.
ostmenclingtorapport,sounwillingandafraidtobreakit…theysucke#eryounce
ofse<ualtensionoutofthecon#ersation…
ybreakingrapportandusinga!statementofintent!youarebackontracktoget
e<actlywhatyouwantoutofthecon#ersation…
"#oidthe!rapporttrap!andincreaseyourchancesofsuccess…
7owletmeteachsome%"=%I=Sformakingsmalltalkse<y…
Ifyouusethetacticsbelowrightoffthebat…youdon'tha#etoworryabouther
misreadingyourintentions…oreliminatingse<ualtension…
Herewego…
Small Talk Made Sexy Technique #1:
Create Conversation Momentum By Using a "ole" !ee
the Conversation lo$ing% Make &er 'augh% and Build
Sexual Tension(
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"nswerthisquestion>
:hatdothesethreetele#isioncharactersha#eincommon…(Ifyou?reunfamiliar
withthemgoto&outubeandwatchsomeclipsofthem)
"ri 5old> (FromHA's/ntourage)
http>KKwww.youtube.comKwatch9#Lp0hIFhA%M<c
a#id "ddison>(fromoonlighting)
http>KKwww.youtube.comKwatch9#LN*y$qfn5s
,arney Stinson(fromHowIet&ourother)
http>KKwww.youtube.comKwatch9#L&gOs6oP3g
$erforming :ithin a 1ole
:hatthesethreecharactersha#eincommonisthattheyareallperformingwithinanarrowlydefinedrole.
%hismeanse#eryfaciale<pression,gesture,banterline,orbitofsmalltalkcomes
fromtheroletheyareplaying.
"ndasamemberoftheaudienceyoucanalmostguesshowtheyaregoingtoreact
toasituation,orwhattheyaregoingtosayinresponsetosomeoneelse…
…:hatdoesthisha#etodowithyou9
Inel#inHelit;er'sbookpopularbook!=omedy:ritingSecrets!hestates>
!Humordoesn'tgointoacharacter…itcomesoutofacharacter."characterneeds
atrademark…apredictablepointof#iewthatdoesnotchange.:ithoutashtickthe
performerisustareciterofokes.:ithitacomiccangetlaughse#enwithmistakes
becauseinaway,theperformeristheoke./#erysuccessfulperformerincomedyhas
de#elopedatleastonebasicandmemorablecharacter.7otonlydoestheaudience
feelcomfortablewiththis,butthematerialiseasiertowrite.!
%hematerialiseasiertowrite…
%hinkaboutthesignificanceofthatstatementforaminute.
%hebiggestproblemmostmenfacewith!smalltalk!isthattheyfindthemsel#es
continuallyrunningoutofthingstosay,orturningtowards!boring!con#ersationtopics,
especiallyearlyoninthecon#ersationbeforeyou'#ebothbecomecomfortablewith
eachother.
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utwhatifItoldyouthatyoucantakeany!boring!topicandturnitintoafunand
e<citing,flirtatiouscon#ersation…"ndha#eanendlesssupplyof!con#ersational
material!bytakingonaroleofacharacter…
:hy this works…
%hinkaboutthethreecharacterslistedabo#e…thesethreecharactersareF*7to
watchnomatterwhattheyaretalkingabout.
%hisisbecausehumoractuallyflowsmorefromthecharacter,theresponses,and
thenaturalinteractionthanfromtheokes.%hismeansthatyoudon'tneedtoconstantly
bethinkingofhilariouslinestomakeherha#efun…infact,thefunstemsfromthe
characteryouareplaying,andyourcharacter'sinteractionwithher.
%hecharacterwritesitself...onceyougetthecharacterdownthenallthefunnystuff
takescareofitself.
"ndthishumor…thise<pectationofhumor…createstension."ndasyoucontinueto
buildupthetension…thenrelease…buildup…thenrelease…youslowlybegintocreate
S/*"-%/7SIA7…
utyouneedtochoosetherightroletodothis….
%hesecondreasonIchose"ri5old,a#id"ddison,andarnyStinsonisbecause
theyplaycharactersthatworkwellfor"7%/1I75withwomen.
/achofthesecharactersdisplayaslightdegreeof!mentaldominance!o#erthe
peopletheyaretalkingto."ndthecombinationofmentaldominanceandbanteringL "%%1"=%IA7.
:henyouchooseacharacteryouwanttochoosearolethatallowsyoutocreate
attraction."ndcertainrolesworkalotbetterforthat.Herearesomee<amplesofroles
thatgenerateattraction>
&ouaredominant,sheiscute
"nassumedpositionofauthority
Herudge,coach,orconsultant
%he#ictimofherseduction
%hecoldguy
%heneuroticallyselfishguy
"highmaintenancechick
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imickingher
%hee#ilonhershoulder
/<aggeratedlycheesypickupartist
Heradultsuper#ision
Sheisusingyouforse<
/achoftheseroleslistedabo#eworksowellbecauseitsortofele#atesyouasthe
guywho!getsit.!
"ndthemerefactthatyou'#eassignedyourselftherole,displaysthatyouarethe
oneincontrolofthecon#ersation…andyou'recallingtheshots.
InaminuteI'mgoingtoshowyoue<actlyhowtousetheserolesto"@/S"--
%"-@S/&…butfornowIustwantyoutounderstandthepurposeoftherole…
…the role writes itself... once you get the character down then all the funny stuff takes
care of itself…
%hisrolesetsthe!frame!fortheentirecon#ersation./#enthoughyouwillmo#ingin
andoutofthisrolethroughoutthecon#ersation…itis"-:"&Stheretousewhenyou
sensethecon#ersationneedssomereu#enation…
:hat to do…
%herearethreegeneralrulestotakingonarole>
1. "ssumetherolerightfromthestartofthecon#ersation
2. AwntheroleKbecongruent
3. "ndknowwhentodropit
asicallyyouwanttoe<ertfullcontrolo#ertheroleyoutakeon.1ightfromthe
beginningyouaresortofsaying!thesearetherulestoourcon#ersation…!%hisis
=1I%I="--&I$A1%"7%…you must establish your !character role! early on…ifnot,it
willbeweirdifyoubustintoitafterPCminutesof!normal!con#ersation….
"ndthenyouwanttoowntherole,andbecongruentinit.%hismeansyouA7'%
backdownifshe!shittests!you.&oudon'twaitforherto!appro#e!thegameyouset…
youustgorightintoit.
"ndfinally,youmustknowwhentodropit."tsomepoint,afterattractionhasbeen
created,therewillcomeapointwheretheroleshouldonlybeused#eryS$"1I75-&…
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becauseifyoune#erdroptherole…she'llne#ergetfeeladeepersenseofconnection
with&A*.
How to %ake a 1ole and *se it 1 5H% 7A: in the 1eal :orld….
A@.
Hereisacharacterpracticee<ercise>
Imagineaparticulartypeofcharacterthatyoucanworkwith….
$ickoneofthesethree>
1. "nA#erly=onfident$layboy
2. "Highaintenance:oman
3.
%hee#ilonherShoulder
Anceyou'#epickedoneoftheabo#echaracters,getintouchwithhowtheywould
respond,react,whatsortoffaciale<pressionswouldtheymake,whatwouldtheir#oice
tonesoundlike9
"syoureadthis,spendaminutegettinginsidethemindofthecharacteryou'#e
chosen.ecomehimforasecondwhileIwalkyouthroughthise<ercise…
&our 1eaction Stems from the =haracter…
7ow,howwouldeachcharacterrespondtothefollowingthreethings9
1. Sheaccidentallytouchesyourass
2. Shedropssomething
3. Sheasksyoutobuyheradrink
7owIwantyoutobethefirstcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings.
"ndthenbethesecondcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings…."ndfinally
bethethirdcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings.
othisrightnow8
onotkeepreadinguntilyou'#efinishedthise<ercise…
"lright…
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I'mgoingtoustgothroughsomee<amplesofhowyoucouldha#eresponded
completelydifferentlyforallthreeofthesesituationsplayingthethreedifferent
characters…
1//,/1>Sheknowsyou'replayingarole…soit'sperfectlyacceptabletobe
cheesy,e<aggerated,andtopushtheen#elopealittle….
Her>(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforali#ing9
A#erly =onfident $layboy>(Staringdownatherhandthatusttouchedyourleg)I
knowthatmo#eyouustdid…(5i#ingherthe!I'montoyou!look)it'soneofmy
fa#orites….%he'casuallygropethelegwhileaskingaseeminglyinnocentquestion'
ShouldIgothroughthecharadeofanswering…ordoyouwanttoustdroptheselittle
gameswereplayingwitheachother….
Her>(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforali#ing9
" High aintenance :oman>Ahmygod88Howdareyoutouchmyass.I'mnot
somedimestoregigolothatyoucanustha#eyourwaywithhoney…
Her>(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforali#ing9
%he e#il on Her Shoulder>+ust…slowly…put…yourhandbackonhisass…hewon't
notice…ustdoit…leano#erandshowhimsomeclea#agewhyyou'reatitto…
ore /<amples….
Her> (droppinghercellphone)
A#erly =onfident $layboy>&ouareustmakingsureyoutakee#eryopportunityto
showmethegoods…aren'tyouhoney9Idoadmit…Iappreciatetheeffortyou'reputtingintothiswholeseductionthing…mostgirlsdon'ttrythishard…
Her> (droppinghercellphone)
" High aintenance :oman> Ahplease…A7A%thinkyou'regoingtotrickme
intolookingatyourass….Iam7A%thatkindofguy.
Her> (droppinghercellphone)
%he e#il on Her Shoulder>He'slooking…uststaybento#eralittlelonger...maybe
throwyourhairbackabit…andthenmakeacutesystatementabout'howtipsyyouare…'
=anyouseehowtakingontherollofacharactermakesthingsinteresting…
…and allows you to introduce se<y topics
oyouseehowmucheasieritistocompletelytransformthe#ibeofsmalltalk9
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"ndcanyouseehow/"S&itisto"-:"&S@7A::H"%%AS"&whenyou're
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youfindthatgame…whatwaspre#iouslyatypical,boringcon#ersation,turnsinto
somethingthatyouapartof…
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+ustfindsomesimplethinginyourinteractionthatyoucanmakeintosomesortof
contest,andseewhocanoutduetheother.
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=reatesasenseofrapportbetweenthetwoofyou(thegoodkind )
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…here are a few of the fa#orites…
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%hisisanothere<cellentwaytoshareinformationinawaythatisfunandcreatesa
playfulbackandforth#ibebetweenthetwoofyou…
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Itisallaboutthe!0I/!thatgoesbackandforthbetweenyouandthewoman.
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&ourinteractionshouldbethecenterofattention….7A%the%A$I=beingdiscussed.
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topic being di cu ed .
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freaks.
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boardwalk.
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le#el…withinminutes.
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defensegoesdownandshefindsherselfplayingalong…/="*S/I%'SF*7.
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1emember,awomanisoutlookingtoha#efun."ndquitefrankly,mostguysare
boring,lame,andincapableofholdinganengagingcon#ersation(IknowbecauseI
usedtobeoneofthem)sowhenawomanmeetsaguywhocancreatearela<ed
playfulness…she'llinstantlyrecogni;e!thisguysdifferent!andshewillfollowyourlead.
&es,shewantstofollowyourlead…
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andshesaysokingly!canIcome…!
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papara;;i.I'mgoingtogi#eyouacameraandyouustneedtofollowmearoundthe
entiretimesnappingpicturesofme…."ndpointatmelikeI'msomeonefamous.%hen
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downtogambleinonaco.AfcourseI'llwinduplosingyouinapokergametosomeIraniansheik…!
&ouseehowyouusttookthisabsurdsituationandkeptmakingitmoreabsurd...
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togetheryoucreateafungamewitheachother.
"ndforgodsakes…on'tbeafraidtointroducesomese<ualityintotheroleplay…
that'sthewholepoint…
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Someofmyfa#oritewaystoaddfun,playfulness,andse<ualitytoyoursmalltalk…
andincreaseyourattracti#enessintheeyesofthewomanyou'reinteractingwith
"SSI0/-&."ndwhatisgreataboutallofthetechniquesmentionedisthatyoudonot
needtochangewhatyoutalkabout…ustthewayyoupresenttheinformation.
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&ou?lllearnhowustchangingafewwordsthatcomeoutofyourmouthwill
makeahugedifferenceinhowsheresponds.
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friendly?con#ersationswithwomenyou?llwanttocheck this out before
take it down.
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con#ersationskillsandhelpturnyouintoamastercon#ersationalistthatengagesandattractswomanyou'retalkingto.
LLLR -earn all about the program here
%hanksforyourtime,andI?lltalktoyouagainsoon,
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$.S.Ifyou'dliketogetmoregreatfreetrainingfromme,makesureyou'reonmyfreeemailnewsletterlist,ustgotoakeSmall%alkSe<y.comtooinandI'lltalktoyousoon.
$.S.S."nddon'tforgettokeepalookoutformybrandnewprogram =on#ersation/scalation>akeSmall%alkSe<y….%hisisthefirstcoursefocusedBCC4entirelyonbuildingcon#ersationskills,andfeaturessomeofthetoppickupartistintheworldworkingwithmetobringyouthe#erybestinformation…
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