so, you think you know a narcissist
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BUT OF COURSE YOU DOUBT YOURSELF BECAUSE SO OFTEN, YOU HAVE THIS TENDENCY TO OVERREACT TO…
WAIT, WAIT…
JUST ONE MINUTE HERE. MAYBE..JUST MAYBE…
So, you think you know a narcissist.
AFTER ALL…
Maybe you’re not crazy
Does someone in your life:
Over-criticize you on a regular basis?Make you feel “less than” or “not good enough”
often?Always put his or her feelings before your own?Often make choices without regard to your needs or
comfort?Make you question your sanity by talking in circles
all the time or twisting your words?Make you feel like you aren’t really as “real” as other
people, and like your opinion isn’t valued?
DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST…
You might be surprised to learn that you might just be
That’s right. A Narcissist.
You can’t always see the scars of a victim of narcissism.
Just like the psychological and emotional injuries that are a result of being in a toxic relationship with a
narcissist,
you can’t tell that a person is stuck in a narcissistic relationship
unless you happen to be a personal witness to the behavior of the narcissist.
Narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder
can wreak havoc on the lives of anyone involved with the people affected by these psychological conditions.
Turns friends and family members into sources of “narcissistic supply”
Will cause an affected person to have an “emotional vampire” effect on those closest to him
Will most negatively affect the children and spouses of those who are affected by it – or anyone who lives in the same space
Can also directly affect co-workers and classmates
Narcissists are abusers
They are bullies. They don’t beat their victims physically, generally.But the scars you can’t see are indelibly etched on
the souls of their victims. People who identify as sources of “narcissistic
supply” often describe life with a narcissist as “SOUL CRUSHING”
A kind of overwhelming, all-consuming emotional abuse inflicted on the victims of narcissists is a form of aggression that should also be recognized.
Devastating emotional scars
The painful scars insideThat never go away…You can’t see them.
But you can start to heal them.
THE “SOURCES” OF NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY SUFFER IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS
AND YET WHEN THESE VICTIMS SPEAK UP, PEOPLE OFTEN MISTAKE THEM FOR
WHINERS AND DISMISS THEIR PAIN.
Most people have no idea how much
And then the crazy-making…
This, of course, leaves them confused and blaming themselves for everything that is wrong in their lives.
Good news – you’re not crazy. This is a technique employed by most narcissists and
it’s called Gaslighting. Often used subconsciously by the narcissist, it’s a
manipulation technique that is designed to make you feel crazy.
It is known to cause regret for the simple utterance of the wrong word in the victims of narcissists.
It’s like your love is a drug to a narcissist
So you have to learn how toSHUT DOWN narcissistic behaviors DETOXIFY your relationshipsFigure out what you really believe (and what you
believe because you were told to believe it)Redefine yourself and your relationshipsStart living the life you really deserve today.
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