some reflections on patriarchal family and civil society, 1991-2007
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jlp}hul`kn. `sbsnk}lc kp qcnn kp `hg}cbvhuku| `jck}lga ho nkehu mscp lghncm jcuc' ]jc
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lg }jc enkgdc} b|p}lol`k}lhg kgm heosp`k}lhg ho jsbkg pczsknl}|. asln} kgm knn. e|
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hgn| lg }jc vk}ulku`jkn okblnlcp. hgc olgmp nl}}nc }uk`c ho asln} kuhsgm pczsknl}| kbhga
}jhpc }ulekn(lgmlacghsp vchvnc qjh kuc isp} mlp`hculga vk}ulku`j| ohu }jcbpcncp kgm. kuc
ncpp lgonscg`cm e| }jclu `hg}k`}p ql}j }jc bhuc `hbvncz vk}ulku`jkn `lln ph`lc}|'
]jc auhq}j lg }jc spc ho `hg}uk`cv}lcp kgm. ho kqkucgcpp kehs} jsbkg pczsknl}lcp. jkp
`uck}cm }jc }c`jghnhal`kn kgm h}jcu `sn}sukn vuc`hgml}lhgp ohu mcnlgdlga jsbkg pczskn
k`}ll}| ouhb vucagkg`| kgm `jlnmelu}j' ]jcpc vuc`hgml}lhgp kuc bhuc vuhghsg`cm lg }jc
bhuc lgmsp}ulknlycm(suekglycm ph`lc}lcp' Jcg`c. }jc aukmskn ql}jculga kqk|. ho phbc
kpvc`}p ho }jc asln} kuhsgm pcz. lg }jc bkpp"`sn}suc ho }jc |hs}j. ho }jcpc ph`lc}lcp'
Lgmccm. l} lp hgn| lg }jc cuk ho }jc pc`hgm. }jlum c}`' lgmsp}ulkn uchns}lhgp }jk} qc `hsnm
uklpc }jc cg}luc lppsc ho vk}ulku`jkn mhblgk}lhg kgm czvnhl}k}lhg ho qhbcg ouhb }jc
vucpcg} vcupvc`}lc' ]jc `hbelgcm cooc`}p ho `hg}uk`cv}lc"`sn}suc. bkpp hs}mhhu
cbvnh|bcg} ho qhbcg kgm. }jc ucnk}cm `jkgacp lg pczskn kgm okblnlkn vuk`}l`cp. nloc
p}|ncp c} '. kuc lg`uckplgan| ucgmculga }jc bc`jkglpb ho asln} }ukgpocu kuhsgm pcz
sg}cgkenc kgm sggc`cppku|' Lo pczskn lg}cu`hsupc kgm vucagkg`|(`jlnm elu}j `kg ec
*}juhsaj }jc spc ho `hg}uk`cv}lcp kgm `sn}lk}lhg ho pkocu pczskn `sn}suc, kgm. jkp }h ec
*hqlga }h }jc hs}mhhu qhud p`jcmsncp ho }jc qhbe"cgmhqcm ocbknc, mcnlgdcm. }jcg }jc
}ukgpocu ho asln} ohu }jc ghg"vk|bcg} ho }jc qloc(bh}jcu. ouhb }jc `jck}lga lghncm
kuhsgm `jlnm eckulga. uckulga kgm ucnk}cm mhbcp}l` qhud. hg }h }jc jsbkg pcz k`} kp ps`j.`kg gh nhgacu ucbklg gc`cppku| kgm cooc`}lc' E| vksvculylga }jc vchvnc. e| bkdlga
}jcb bcuc qkac ckugcup. }jc lgmsp}ulkn uchns}lhgp kuc k} }jc pkbc }lbc cuhmlga }jc
ohsgmk}lhgp ho kg lbvhu}kg} bk}culkn mulc ho vk}ulku`j|. gkbcn|. }jc qhuulcp kuhsgm }jc
vuhencbp ho lgjcul}kg`c ho vulk}c vuhvcu}|. kbhga }jc bkppcp' ]jlp lp mluc`}n| ucnk}cm }h
}jc svuhh}lga ho }jc vckpkg}u|. cuhplhg ho vckpkg}"vk}ulku`jkn"vkp}hukn knsc p|p}cbp c}`'.
ccg lg }jc lnnkacp' ]jc ankpp jhspc ho asln} kuhsgm pczsknl}|. kpplmshspn| cuc`}cm e|
vk}ulku`j|. lp sgmcu k}}k`d ouhb bkg| mluc`}lhgp' Qc olgm hgc ho }jc czvucpplhgp ho ps`j
k}}k`d lg }jc vuhms`}p ho bkpp"`sn}suc9 vhvsnku bspl`. nl}cuk}suc. olnbp. ]_ pculknp c}`'
]jc cln lp eclga nlo}cm. knecl} pnhqn|' ]jc sgoklugcpp ho ocbknc pnkcu| lg }jc okbln| lp
eclga vhpcm hg k bhukn vnkgc e| }jc `hg}cbvhuku| qhbcg!p nlecuk}lhg bhcbcg}' ]jc}kpd lp }h uklpc }jc {scp}lhg k} }jc nccn ho p`lcg`c. `hgp}us`} k `hbvucjcgplc vhnl}l`kn
c`hghb| ho }jc okbln|. kg kgkn|}l`kn c`hghbl` }jchu| ho }jc okbln|4 kgm. }jcuce| vucvkuc
}jc `hg`cv}skn auhsgmp ohu `huuc`}lc vcuphgkn. okblnlkn. auhsv kgm bkpp ph`lkn k`}lhg lg
}jc mhbklg ho cbkg`lvk}lhg ho }jc ocbknc mhbcp}l` pnkc'
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]jc qk| hs} ho }jc uckn okblnlkn asln} nlcp }juhsaj }jc vk}j ho c{sl}kenc ucmlp}ules}lhg ho
okblnlkn nkehu' ]jc bku`j ho }lbc lp bkdlga l}p }ukgpocu kgm }ukgpohubk}lhg lg}h phbc
b|p}lolcm asln} kuhsgm pczsknl}|. sg}cgkenc' Nc} sp }ck`j }jc bknc `jlnm }h vku}l`lvk}c lg
okblnlkn nkehu kp bs`j kp }jc ocbknc `jlnm mhcp' ]jc asln} kuhsgm pczsknl}| qlnn kglpj lg
l}p hqg }lbc'
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kgm. l}p heic } lp vuh`uck}lhg kgm ncaknlyk}lhg ho `jlnmucg' Ohu }jc Jlgmsp ho Lgmlk
bkuulkac lp ohubknn| pk`ukbcg}kn' Jhq kehs} }jc Iklgp. Esmmjlp}p kgm Pldjp8 Jhq kehs}
}jc Icqp8 Jhq kehs} }jc `huucpvhgmlga pl}sk}lhg kbhga }jc lgmlacghsp vchvnc ql}jhs}huakglycm ucnlalhg8
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Oucsm qkp ecjhnmcg }h k elh"ecjklhukn vsulpb' Jc lp plncg} hg }jc uhnc ho lmchnha| lg
mc}cublglga jsbkg lgjlel}lhgp' L} pvckdp hnsbcp kehs} jlp hqg lmchnhal kn
`hgml}lhglga'
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Bhuc hg }jc ]jchu| ho Okbln| kgm @lvln Ph`lc}|
]jc mk}k"ekpc ohu kg kmc{sk}c }jchu| ho okbln| kgm `lln ph`lc}| qlnn jkc }h ec esln}
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='Ecnncp"nc}}ucp qhcg kuhsgm jsbkg nhc kgm okblnlkn ucnk}lhgp4
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3' ]jchulcp kehs} bhmcp ho vuhms`}lhg vhp}snk}cm lg vhnl}l`kn c`hghb|4 kgm.
?' P}sm| ho }jc p`ulv}sucp hu. mjkubkpjkp}ukp kp ku}jkpjkp}ukp ( dkbkpjkp}ukp kgm.p`lcg}lol` lgcp}lak}lhgp lg}h pc`snku lmchnhalcp'
Vuhms`}lhg kgm ucvuhms`}lhg ho nkehu lg }jc okbln| kuc k} hg`c k9
;' Elhnhal`kn k`}. }h ecalg ql}j4
5' Ok`} psepc{scg} }h phbc `hg}uk`} *bkuulkac, qjl`j alcp ulpc }h p}k}sp ekpcm ulaj}p *ho
}jc jspekgm, kgm ms}lcp *ohu eh}j }jc qloc kgm }jc jspekgm,4 }jc p}k}sp ekpcm
ms}lcp(qhud(nkehu kuc sn}lbk}cn| }ukgpocuucm lg}h k vuhms }9 }jc `jlnm k`{slulga }jc
`kvkelnl}| }h vuhlmc nkehu ohu }jc ph`lc}| *lg kgm }juhsaj }jc vuh`cpp ho uckulga lg }jc
okbln|. p`jhhn. kvvucg}l`cpjlv c}`',4
0' Ok`} vuc`cmcm e| kgm ohnnhqlga ouhb phbc lg}cuvcuphgkn pczskn nhc(mcpluc ho bcg kgm
qhbcg4 }jlp ehgmlga cncbcg} ho }jc okblnlkn vuhms`}lhg ucnk}lhgp `hgp}l}s}cp }jc pseic`}
bk}}cu ho k kp} kbhsg} ho hukn kgm qul}}cgNknl}k Pkjl}|k(nl}cuk}suc4
=' Vuh`cpp qjcuce| k vulbku| vuhms`} *}jc elhnhal`kn `jlnm, lp olup} }ukgpohubcm lg}h kg
lg}cubcmlk}c vuhms`} *}jc `jlnm lg }jc okbln|, kgm. olgknn| lg}h k olglpjcm vuhms`} uckm|
ohu spc. kp k vklm(sgvklm qhudcu lg k alcg bhmc ho vuhms`}lhg4 }jlp vuh`cpp lp `knncm }jc
vuh`cpp ho uckulga kgm cms`k}lga k `jlnm4
3' Vku}. }jc bhp} osgmkbcg}kn vku}. ho }jc acgcukn `|`nc ho vuhms`}lhg ho ahhmp kgmpcul`cp lg kg| alcg bhmc ho vuhms`}lhg4 kgm.
?' Kg heic`} ho `hg}lgshsp heosp`k}lhg e| knn vk}ulku`jkn ucnlalhsp kgm pc`snku lmchnhalcp'
Nlecukn kg}juhvhnha| `hgplmcup vk}ulku`j| }h ec k j|vh}jc}l kn `hgp}us`}' Bkuzlp}p
ucncak}cm l} }h vulbl}lc ph`lc}|'
Vk}ulku`jkn Okbln| lp }jc vuh}h}|vc ho knn ph`lkn lgp}l}s}lhgp' \c} l} lp k `hbvhgcg} vku} ho
kg| alcg ph`lc}|(ph`lh"c`hghbl` ohubk}lhg kgm. }jk} lp qj| l} lp pseic`} }h }jc hcuknn
p|p}cbl` vhpplelnl}lcp(`hgp}uklg}p ho }jk} alcg ph`lh"c`hghbl` ohubk}lhg hu ho }jc lg}cu"ohubk}lhgkn yhgcp'
Ph oku }jc }jchu| ho lgp}l}s}lhgp jkp eccg kvvuhk`jcm ouhb }jc bk`uhp`hvl` cgm9 }jc
olub(`hbvkg|. }jc p}k}c c}`' Ghq l} gccmp }h ec kvvuhk`jcm knph ouhb }jc bl`uhp`hvl`
cgm9 }jc k}hbl`(gs`ncku okbln|' ]jc }jchulcp kehs} }jc lgp}l}s}lhgp ho }jc vk}ulku`jkn `lln
ph`lc}| qlnn vcujkvp ec`hbc kmc{sk}c. qjcg }jcpc lgp}l}s}lhgp qlnn jkc k} nckp} jkno hs}"
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auhqg }jclu czlp}cg`c' Jkp vk}ulku`jkn okbln| czjksp}cm k} nckp} jkno ho l}p nloc8 Lg h}jcu
qhump. lp vk}ulku`jkn `lln ph`lc}| k} nckp} jknoqk| }jhuhsaj8 ]jcuc kuc lgml`k}lhgp }jk}
ps`j lp }jc `kpc'
]jc cbcuacg`c ho gsbcul`kn lgp}usbcg}k}lhg. bl`uh"cnc`}uhgl`p. `hbvs}culyk}lhg kgm
uheh}l`p kp ohubp ho ks}hbk}lhg. kp `hbvc}l}hup ho mluc`} jsbkg nkehu. kuc phsgmlga }jc
mck}j dgcnn ho }jc vuhms`cu ho kesgmkg} jsbkg nkehu9 }jc vk}ulku`jkn okbln|. qjl`j jkp
eccg. kgm p}lnn lp. cgakacm lg }jc vuhms }lhg kgm ucvuhms`}lhg ho jsbkg nkehu' ]jc
cbcuacg`c ho }jc vk}ulku`jkn okbln| lg }jc Gchnl}jl` kac `hlg`lmcm ql}j }jc cbcuacg`c ho
bhuc p|p}cbk}l` kglbkn jspekgmu| kgm kaul`sn}suc' ]jc gccm ohu jsac kbhsg} ho bkgskn
nkehu ohu }jcpc h``svk}lhgp `hgphnlmk}cm }jc vk}ulku`jkn okbln|' ]jc olup} lgmsp}ulkn
uchns}lhg cuhmcm l}p ekpc ohu }jc olup} }lbc9 ql}gcpp }jc ihsugc| ouhb ucknlpb }h
czlp}cg}lknlpb lg ecnncp nc}}ucp msulga }jc olup} jkno ho }jc }qcg}lc}j `cg}su|' ]jc hgahlga
pc`hgm. }jlum c}`' lgmsp}ulkn uchns}lhgp kgm. }jc cbcuacg`c ho elh"}c`jghnha| ekpcm
pc`hgm kaukulkg kgm vkp}hukn uchns}lhgp kuc `hlg`lmlga ql}j k osu}jcu ql}jculga kqk| ho}jc gc`cppl}| ho czlp}cg`c ho }jc vk}ulku`jkn okbln| kp }jc vlh}kn huakglyk}lhg ho ph`lc}|9
jcg`c knn }jc `hg}cbvhuku| `u| kehs} }jc nhpp ho okblnlkn knscp kgm. }jclu !vhp}"bhmcug!
mc`hgp}us`}lhg' Lg vhlg} ho ok`}. }jlp lp gh}jlga es} k qk| ho pculga k gh}l`c }h }jc
vk}ulku`jkn `lln ph`lc}|' ]jc nhppcp ho lbvhu}kg`c ho hnm kaul`sn}suc. kglbkn jspekgmu|
kgm lgmsp}u| kgm. }jc vuh`cpp ho qckdcglga ho }jc vk}ulku`jkn okbln| kp kg lgp}l}s}lhg kuc
bcucn| }jc }qh kpvc`}p ho k plganc vuh`cpp9 }jk} ho }jc aukmskn mcblpc ho }jc vk}ulku`jkn
`lln ph lc}|' Ecohuc l} olgknn| mlpkvvckup. }jc vk}ulku`jkn okbln|. }jlp vuhms } ho }jc
Gchnl}jl` uchns}lhg. qlnn vcujkvp `hg}lgsc }h czlp} ohu kgh}jcu :";6 }jhspkgm |ckup'
Jhqccu. }jlp }lbc kuhsgm l} qlnn `hg}lgsc }h mh ph ql}j k plaglol`kg} mloocucg`c9 lg }jlp
pc`hgm jkno ho l}p jlp}hul`kn czlp}cg`c. l} qlnn e| kgm e| pjcm phbc ho l}p vuclhsp uhncp4
ohu czkbvnc. kp k pl}c ho }jc dl}`jcg. nksgmu|. vulk}c vuhvcu}| c}`' Plblnkun| }jc p`jhhn.
ahcugbcg}(p}k}c c}`' qhsnm nhpc hu kuc knuckm| nhplga phbc ho }jclu ckunlcu uhncp' Ps`j
uhnc pjulgdkac qlnn gh} knqk|p ec luuccuplenc' ]jcuc bk| ec ek`d nkpjcp ouhb }lbc }h
}lbc. lg mloocucg} achaukvjl`kn nh`k}lhgp' Jhqccu. l} kvvckup }jk}. lg psb. }jc vuh`cppcp
ho ql}jculga kqk| ho }jc lgp}l}s}lhgp ho }jc czlp}lga `lln ph`lc}|. gkbcn|. ho }jc
vk}ulku`jkn okbln|. }jc huakglycm p`jhhn. p}k}c c}`'. kuc ahlga }h ec lg}cumcvcgmcg} kgm
plbsn}kgchsp'
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Hg Okbln|. @kp}c. kgm @nkpp
Nlecukn ph`lhnha| vuhvhpcm k p}sm| ho }jc okbln| jcuc kgm ghq' Ucpsn}9 k auhq}j ho
p|g`juhgl` cbvlul`kn lgcp}lak}lhgp lg}h }jc kulhsp kpvc`}p ho bhmcug bl`uh"okblnlcp'
Bkuzlp}p p}ucppcm }jc `nkpp `jkuk`}cu ho }jc okblnlcp' Ucpsn}9 lg}uhms`}lhg ho ph`lkn `nkpp
ucnk}cm }cublghnha| lg}h }jc mlk`juhgl` p}sm| ho }jc jlp}hul`kn chns}lhg ho kulhsp }|vcp
ho okblnlcp'
Phs}j Kplkg okblnlcp eclga lg bhp} `kpcp mc}cublgcm e| }jclu `kp}c(c}jgl` p}k}sp. vhpcm k
p}sbenlga enh`d }h }jc Bkuzlp} kg}juhvhnhalp}p' Ucpsn}9 k `kp}c"c}jghp"`nkpp mlncbbk }jk}
jksg}p bhp} bhmcug kg}juhvhnhal`kn(ph`lhnhal`kn p}sm| ho }jc Phs}j Kplkg okblnlcp'
L} lp eclga vuhvhpcm jcucsgmcu }jk} }jc }us}j. l'c'. }jc eclga kgm }jc ec`hblga. }jc gk}suc
kgm }jc jlp}hu|. ho Phs}j Kplkg okblnlcp mcbkgmp phbc lgcuplhg ho }jc jl}jcu}h vuckncg}
kvvuhk`jcp'
]jc gcanc`} ho mlk`juhg|. ho jlp}hu|. ho ec`hblga. ho }jc euhkmcu vkukbc}cup ho `nkpp"
mllmcm `lln ph`lc}|. e| nlecukn ph`lhnha|. p}kgmp `huuc`}cm. es} hgn| vku}lknn|. e| }jc
Bkuzlp} lg}cucg}lhgp' ]jc Bkuzlp} kg}juhvhnhalp}p kgm ph`lhnhalp}p qcg} }h }jc h}jcu
cz}ucbc e| gcanc`}lga p|g`juhg|. }jc p}sm| ho }jc gk}suc. }jk} ho }jc eclga. ho }jc Phs}jKplkg okblnlcp jcuc kgm ghq' K} ecp} }jc| }ulcm }h vspj }jc p}sm| ho `hg uc}c
okblnlcp(`kp}cp(c}jgl` cg}l}lcpvcu pc }h }jc vculvjcu|. k} qhup} }jc| ucphu}cm }h snaku
ucms`}lhg ho knn ph`lc}kn `k}cahulcp lg}h ph`lkn `nkpp ucnk}cm `k}cahulcp' ]jlp jkp bkuucm
}jclu k}}cbv}p }h `huuc`} }jc lbeknkg`c ho nlecukn ph`lhnha|'
]jc phns}lhg bk| nlc lg kg cgnlaj}cgcm uc}sug }h }jc `cg}ukn `hg`cug ho nlecukn
ph`lhnha|(kg}juhvhnha|9 }h }jc p}sm| ho okblnlkn(dlgpjlv ucnk}lhgp kgm p}us`}sucp4 es} l}
jkp }h ec k uc}sug lgohubcm e| }jc k}}cbv}p ho Bkuz. k} lgcp}lak}lga }jc `hg}uk`}"hulcg}cm
lgc{sknl}lcp ho `nkpp"mllplhg kgm. e| }jc `ul}l`kn kg}juhvhnhal`kn k}}cbv}p k} lgcp}lak}lga
}jc p}k}sp hulcg}cm lgc{sknl}lcp ho `kp}c"mlp}lg`}lhg lg Phs}j Kplk'
Okblnlkn lgc{sknl}lcp kuc }jc bh}jcu ho knn p}k}sp kgm `hg}uk`} ekpcm lgc{sknl}lcp' Ps`j
lgc{sknl}lcp kuc knph hepcucm lg }jc vuc"`kp}c(vuc"`nkpp(vuc"`lln ph`lc}lcp ho
}ulecp(`nkgp(lgmlacghsp vchvnc' ]jk} lp qj| mc`lvjculga ho }jc okblnlkn `hmcp kuc kplgc{sk ghg ohu }jc osu}jcu auhq}j ho p}smlcp lg}h }jc }ulekn". `nkg". `kp}c". kgm. `nkpp"
lgc{sknl}lcp' ]jlp p}sm| jkp }h ec k} hg`c p|g`juhgl` kgm mlk`juhgl`. cbvlul`kn kgm }cz}"
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`ul}l`kn4 qjlnc ucbklglga kncu} kehs} }jc vcgc}uk}lhg ho kulhsp lmchnhalcp lg}h }jc ucnckg}
mlp`lvnlgcp9 kg}juhvhnha|(ph`lhnha|. jlp}hulhaukvj|. jcubcgcs}l`p c}`'4 ps`j p}sm| bsp}
knph kmmucpp }jc vuhencb ho }jc okblnlkn uhh}p kgm ohubp ho knn lmchnhalcp. bcmlk}cm kp
}jcpc kuc }juhsaj }jc nkgaskacp qc spc. ouhb }jc cu| bhbcg} ho elu}j ho jsbkg
`hbbsgl`k}lhg. k `hbbsgl`k}lhg }jk} ucbklgp `hmcm lg }jc phsgmp. ohu lgp}kg`c. ho }jc
vuh}h"Pkgpdul}l` li bkg}ukp. Plkps}ukp ho hsu _|kdkukgp kgm. lg }jc aukvjl`p ho hsu
knvjkec}p. ohu lgp}kg`c. lg }jc km|k bk}uldkp ho hsu]kg}ukp'
]jsp. }jlp vuhvhpcm uc}sug }h }jc p}sm| ho }jc okbln| lghncp pccukn lgcuplhgp9 ouhb }jcBkuzlp} p}sm| ho `nkpp"`jkuk`}cu ho okblnlcp. k dlgm ho !kehs} }sug! lp eclga vuhvhpcm jcuc
}h }jc p}sm| ho }jc okblnlkn `hmcp ho `nkpp. `kp}c. }ulekn c}`' huakglyk}lhgp4 ouhb }jc nlecukn
p}sm| ho okbln|"lg"l}pcno. k ihsugc| lp eclga vuhvhpcm }h }jc p}sm|"ho"okbln|"ohu"}jc"
p}sm|"ho"h}jcup. gkbcn|. kp k dc| }h }jc p}sm| ho }ulecp(`nkgp(`kp}cp(ph`lkn `nkppcp'
Lg }jc vkp}9 lg }jc nlecukn vuhaukb. lgmllmskn okbln| qkp `cg}ukn kgm ph`lkn `nkpp qkpvculvjcukn4 lg }jc Bkuzlp} vuhaukb. ph`lkn `nkpp qkp `cg}ukn kgm lgmllmskn okbln| qkp
vculvjcukn4 lg `hnhglkn Lgmhnha| `kp}c qkp `cg}ukn kgm eh}j ph`lkn `nkpp kgm lgmllmskn
okbln| qcuc vculvjcukn4 lg }jc bhmcug Phs}j Kplkg kg}juhvhnha| ho }jc vuc" lln
ph`lc}lcp. }ulecp(`kp}cp kuc `cg}ukn kgm lgmllmskn okbln| lp vculvjcukn'
Lg }jc vuhvhpcm os}suc9 okblnlcp qlnn kaklg jkc }h ec ho `cg}ukn `hg`cug es} hgn| kp }jc
dc| }h }jc p}sm| ho }jc czlp}lga ucknl}lcp ho }jc }ulecp(`nkgp(`kp}cp(ph`lkn `nkppcp' Ghq }jc
p|g`juhgl p}sm| ho }jc okbln| jkp }h `hg`cg}uk}c hg lmcg}lo|lga }jc p}us`}sucp kgm
bc`jkglpbp ho okblnlkn `hg}uhn. ph kp }h nh`k}c }jc vk}j ho chns}lhg ho }jc `hg}uhn"
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okbln|,'
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