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ST. JOHN OF THE CROSS PARISH FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER

APRIL 29, 2012

5005 SOUTH WOLF ROAD WESTERN SPRINGS, ILLINOIS 60558

PARISH CENTER: 708-246-4404 SCHOOL: 708-246-4454 YOUTH CATECHESIS: 708-246-6760

WWW.STJOHNOFTHECROSS.ORG

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From the Desk of the Pastor

SAVE THE DATE AND PLAN TO ATTEND A Re-dedication Mass

Concelebrated with Bishop John R. Manz

Sunday, June 10, 10:45 a.m. Reception to immediately follow

More information on how to RSVP will be available in the bulletin in the coming weeks. We hope you will be able to join us as we celebrate the completion of

our many Our Legacy projects!

Dear Parishioners, Today the Youth Catechesis Council is hosting an Appreciation Luncheon for the catechists and volunteers of our Youth Catechesis program. We have over 190 women and men who faithfully volunteer to teach religion to 1,080 parish children who participate in our program. The YC staff, consisting of the Director, Janet Caschetta, and the Grade Level Coordinators, Deb Pusinelli, Barb Campbell and Cathy Mahoney, gives tremendous support of lesson plans, resources for the classroom, creative ideas and tons of organizing for every session. The office support personnel, Liz Clawson, Kathy Steider and Mary Jamrozik, are the unsung heroes behind the scenes who answer the phones, enter the data, welcome the visitors to the office and are the extra hands for all the last minute details. The YC program is strengthened and improved every year. Most classes have two catechists who share responsibility for the class. Some are friends who volunteer together. Some are high school students who are matched with adult volunteers. Becoming a certified catechist, approved by the archdiocese, is a real commitment to religious education and personal growth. One of the best kept secrets of ministry is that the minister gets more out of it than those being ministered to, and I think almost every catechist would agree that is what happens with them. They are the teachers but frequently say they learn more than the students. It’s the best of volunteerism that helps others and at the same time helps the volunteer grow in their faith. I am very grateful today to the Men’s Club cooks and Confirmation students who are helping with our Appreciation Luncheon and all those who express gratitude to this great group of parishioners who run the religious education program. Truly, without them we could not do it. If you’ve never been a part of it, start thinking now how you might be able to fit it into your already busy schedule for next year. You’ll never regret it. There is a perfect place waiting for you. Beginning next Saturday and the following Saturday 197 second graders will make their First Holy Communions. We try to be as ‘family friendly’ as possible and offer four different time periods on those two weekends for families to choose what fits their schedule best. Another option, if those days and times are not possible or preferred, is that any child can receive Holy Communion at any of the Sunday Masses during the Easter season. (In some parishes all of the First Communicants receive with their families at a Sunday liturgy.) Invariably, no matter when or how it is celebrated, First Communion is a time of great anticipation for the children and a family milestone accompanied by great celebration. Please keep these children and their parents in your prayers. It is a grace to see the Body of Christ welcome new members to the Table of the Lord. The Easter seasons continues to unfold each week. Three weeks from now is the Ascension, four weeks is Pentecost. Let the rich Easter scriptures feed your faith and may the sacrament of unity bind us all to one another. Peace, Fr. David

SAVE THE DATE

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Reflections

Discovering Your True Self Through Prayer “Second half of life” wisdom requires prayer and discernment more than knee- jerk responses toward e i ther conservative or liberal ends of the spectrum. You have a spectrum of responses now, and they are not all predictable, as is too often the case with most knee-jerk responses. Law is still necessary, of course, but it is not your guiding star, or even close. It has been wrong and cruel too many times. The Eight Beatitudes speak to you m u c h m o r e t h a n t h e T e n Commandments as you grow older. Life is much more spacious now. The boundaries of the container have been enlarged. You are like an expandable suitcase, and you became so almost without your noticing. Now you are just here, and here holds more than enough. Starter Prayer: Teach me to pray. From Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life. By Rev. Richard Rohr

Living the Gospel Jesus has proven his trustworthiness as a good Shepherd. He has already laid down his life for the sheep. He has done this freely in response to the Father’s command and love. What is the command Jesus received from his Father? That he be the Good Shepherd by laying down his life for his sheep. That he gather all people into one flock by laying down his life for his sheep. We, Jesus’ disciples, receive the same command from him. In the Father’s love we too gather all people into one flock by laying down our lives for others. Jesus is the Good Shepherd. So are we to be. The challenge of the Gospel, of course, is that Jesus’ being our Good Shepherd doesn't save us from the hard work of the Gospel call—to lay down our own lives. Even in Easter joy we are reminded that following Jesus as his disciples has two faces: both dying to self as well as rising to new life in Christ. Laying down his life isn’t just something Jesus does; it’s also what his disciples do. Loving completely and everlastingly isn’t just what the Father and Jesus do; it’s also what his disciples do. The Gospel also spells out for us how we are to lay down our life: by leading, protecting, guiding, knowing, loving. Our Christian living, then, is about relating to others as the Father and Good Shepherd have related to us. The Gospel uses “love” as a way to describe the community and unity between the Father and Jesus, between God and us, and among ourselves. If our relationship with Jesus is so lovingly intimate, then we share that same love and intimacy with each other. This is how we are all “one flock.” This is how we share in bringing salvation to others: by loving others with the same intimacy and self-giving as the Father and Jesus love us.

For Reflection: I know Jesus to be my Good Shepherd when. . . I know myself to be a good shepherd when. . . What helps me be willing to lay down my life for others is . . .

Closing Prayer May we hear the voice of the Good Shepherd and willingly lay down our lives for others. May we rejoice that we are called to be good shepherds for one another, loving others as Jesus does. Our Father. . . ©Living Liturgy

Readings for Today

4th Sunday of Easter

Acts 4:8-12

Psalm 118

I John 3:1-2

John 10:11-18

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This Week @ SJC Monday, April 30 10:30 a.m. 11th Step Christian Meditation 2:30 p.m. Eucharistic Adoration 2:30 p.m. Spiritual Journaling Tuesday, May 1 1:30 p.m. Sr. Josephine’s Bible Study 3:00 p.m. Rosary 6:30 p.m. YC Council Meeting Wednesday, May 2 9:30 a.m. Bible Study 2:00 p.m. Christian Meditation 3:30 p.m. Girl Scouts 7:30 p.m. Christian Meditation Thursday, May 3 9:30 a.m. Bible Study 1 7:00 p.m. Baptism Prep Meeting Saturday, May 5 7:00 a.m. Christian Meditation 11:00 a.m. First Holy Communion 2:00 p.m. First Holy Communion

Baptism Preparation Meeting Thursday, May 3

The Baptism preparation meeting this month will be held Thursday evening, May 3rd, at 7 p.m. in the Parish Center. Godparents as well as new babies are most welcome to attend with parents. Please call the Parish Center if you are coming or if you have any questions.

We, your people, the flock of your pasture, will give you thanks for ever and ever; we will

tell your praise from age to age, alleluia!

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the

beginning, is now, and will be for ever. Amen. Alleluia!

Parish News

Catholic Charities Mother’s Day Collection

I am the good shepherd. Mary saw a sign about openings at Catholic Charities’ senior housing. She was a 68-year old nurse’s aid doing back-breaking work to make ends meet and avoid burdening her children. She wanted to retire, but her budget wouldn’t allow it. She was accepted for an apartment paying only 30% of her income for rent. Her new affordable housing allowed her to retire and live comfortably with her social security benefits.

Your gift to Chicago Charities on Mother’s Day, May 13, will rescue someone and carry her awhile on your shoulders.

“Thank you for my beautiful apartment; my days of aches and pains are over.”

Golden Wedding Anniversary Mass

This year the Golden Wedding Anniversary Mass will be held on Sunday, September 23 at 2:30 p.m. at

Holy Name Cathedral, 735 North State Street, Chicago. Couples married in 1962 interested in attending this celebration should contact the Parish Center by May 30. For further information call the Family Ministries Office at 312-534-8351 or visit www.familyministries.org.

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Crossroads

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CALENDAR April 29 Spring 5 p.m. Mass & Pizza in Parish Center May 6 Last Home Group Meetings May 20 Leaders End of the Year Meeting 6-8 p.m.

Summer Conference & Service Opportunities for

TEENS & ADULTS STILL AVAILABLE!

Info packet AVAILABLE ONLINE www.stjohnofthecross.org/crossroads/service

June 17-22 Local Intergenerational Work Tour Trip

(3 day minimum) June 22-24 Teen Leadership Conference

July 28-Aug. 4 Work Tour to OLPH in Kentucky

Our 4 U 2 concert stories: Here’s the Light being shared by Maggie Moran: “After arriving in Kentucky, no one really knew what to expect from our first work day. We all prepared for difficult work in the blazing heat, unaware of

the amazing people we would meet and the stories we would hear….” CONTINUE hearing about how each individual can make an impact at

www.stjohnofthecross.org/crossroads.

PRAYER FOR OUR YOUNG CHURCH Heavenly Father,

Our St. John of the Cross Parish celebrates our young Church.

In gathering together to praise and worship you, our teenagers acknowledge the love and

peace that you bring to their lives. We ask that you continue to wrap them in

your presence as the school year winds down.

Encourage and sustain them. Allow them to see you in all their daily activities.

Their energy and spirit are a gift to our parish and we are so grateful for each teenager.

Pray blessings on them all. Amen.

National Conference on Catholic Youth Ministry will take place 7 months from this weekend at the

Walt Disney Swan & Dolphin Conference Center

In Orlando, Florida November 29—Dec. 1 CHECK IT OUT at http://www.nccym.info

Crossroads wants to send a group of our adult volunteers to receive formation & training, build community & energy, and return to share the spirit of the conference with our young people! YOU can help: donate any unused Disney Points to reduce costs of hotel; sponsor a volunteer’s travel or food expenses; pray for the Spirit to encourage volunteers to say YES!

Contact [email protected] if you can help us!

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Parish School

Ticket Order Form Friday, May 11, Saturday, May 12, Sunday, May 13th

*All ticket order forms due into the school office by Friday, May 1.*

Name_________________________________________ Phone #____________________

Student’s Homeroom Teacher/Room # for Ticket Delivery____________________ Friday, May 11 @ 7 p.m. # of tickets___________ Saturday, May 12 @ 7 p.m. # of tickets___________ Sunday, May 13 @ 2 p.m. Matinee # of tickets___________ For ticket orders larger than six, we may not be able to sit your entire group together. Please indicate your preferred groupings on form (for example, for an order of 10 tickets, you could indicate two sets of five or one set of six and one set of four). We will do our best to accommodate your request.

Checks payable to St. John of the Cross Tickets will be sent home via the student listed above the week of May 7. Ticket orders must be placed with this ticket order form only. Reservations will not be taken over the phone or through the web site. All tickets are $10.00 and all seats are re-

served. Sorry, no refunds.

My child is a Cast Member ___Yes ___No

Chairs/Main Floor_________________Bleachers______________________ Total number of tickets_________@$10.00 each = $___________

SJC Family Fun Run and Social

Save the Date for the final anniversary celebration of the year! Join us for a family fun run and social on June 1st from 7-9 p.m. at SJC. Join your

school friends and families for a fun run and the post race party with hot dogs, chips, sodas and ice cream. Register online on the SJC website. We look forward to seeing everyone at the starting line!

Math Teams Wins Local Competition Congratulations to our 4th –7th grade students who participated in the 2012 McClure Junior High School Math Olympiad. Our 6th grade team tied for first place!

SJC Wildcat Athletics Speaking of running, good luck to the SJC track and field team which just began the 2012 season. Over 160 students are on the team this year. Athletes are busy running, jumping and throwing the javelin, shot and discus! Good luck to all the SJC Wildcat athletes! And thanks to our coaches and volunteers!

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Youth Catechesis SJC Club Events

Remember!! Register for 2012-13 YC

Register for YC Stop by the YC Office to register for next year. The only way we can

reserve a spot for your child is with

a completed family registration form. But it’s easy!!

Complete the pre-printed form at our office!

Share Your Faith with

our students! This is the year for you to

grow spiritually!

The wonderful volunteers teaching your children welcome you

to join them.

YC Schedule

Classes K-6 10:15-11:30 a.m. Sunday, April 29, May 6 6:15-7:30 p.m. Monday, April 30, May 7 Home Groups & Special Needs April 22

YC Office Hours: Mon-Thurs 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Fridays (thru May 18th) 8:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Open Sun a.m. & Mon p.m. during class times

39TH ANNUAL SJC GARAGE SALE

The “mission” of the Garage Sale means giving to those in need, respec ng others less fortunate, bringing together volunteers in a Chris an spirit, raising funds to support local chari es within our community, suppor ng the parish as a whole, and it means…making a di erence in the lives of others!

All Volunteer Mee ng: May 15

at 7:00 p.m. in the Parish Center

Our success is because of YOU! Volunteers who share 6 hours or more of their me shop the sale early on June 15th! If you have ques ons about vol-unteering please call Mary Beth White (708) 246-6339.

Mark your Calendars SJC Men’s Golf Outing

Friday, June 1,

Flagg Creek Golf Course 6939 S. Wolf Road, IHP Cost: $26, includes cart and two beverage tickets; snacks provided, and participation in contests (with prizes): Low Score, Closets to the Pin; Longest Drive.

Questions? Call Steve Ryan, 708-217-2530. See the website for tee times and more information.

SATURDAY, JUNE 16 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. HALF-PRICE/BAG SALE,

MONDAY, JUNE 18TH, 10 A.M. TO 1 P.M.

Join Us! The Senior Walking Club meets at 9:00 a.m. every Thursday (weather permitting) to walk

around our parish campus and beyond. All are welcome!

Register for Vacation Bible School Come join us as we reach for the SKY!! This summer’s VBS program shows children that “For God all things are possible. VBS at St. John of the Cross is amazing! It’s interactive, filled with games, skits, crafts, and snacks – all while learning about God’s love for us! All children entering kindergarten through 5th grade in the fall can be registered online at our website: www.stjohnofthecross.org! Registration fee is $30.00 Volunteers are WELCOME!!!

For questions, contact the YC office at 708-246-6760 or [email protected]

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Spirituality and Care Outreach

Christian Meditation as an 11th Step Practice*

*We are a group of men and women from 12-Step Programs, following the teachings of John Main and the World Community for Christian Meditation. We are not a replacement for, nor are we affiliated with, any 12-Step Program of recovery. We are here to share this ancient path of contemplative prayer as a way to practice the 11th Step: “Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of his will for us and the power to carry that out.” Please join us for a quiet time of meditation 10:30-11:30 a.m. every Monday, St. John of the Cross Parish Center.

Everyone is welcome: Those who meditate,

Those who want to learn to meditate, and Those who want to know more about meditation.

Contact Janet, 708-246-4866.

Andrew Music Parents are hosting the University of Notre Dame Wind Symphony on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 7:00 p.m. Andrew High School is located at 9001 W. 171st Street, Orland Hills, Illinois. Tickets are $10. This symphony has traveled the world and will provide a wonderful evening of entertainment. If you are interested in attending you can contact the school office (708) 342-5800 or Marta Krysztopik at [email protected]. Tickets are available at the door. Thank you for your support.

Our Good Friend Fr. John McGivern Seeks our Help

My dear friends at St. John of the Cross Parish, Happy Easter! I hope that this Easter Season is a joyous one for you. I am writing, as in past years, to seek your help. I’ve now been here at St. Edmund Parish in Oak Park for almost eight years. It doesn’t seem nearly that long since I was your associate pastor—six years that I remember with great fondness. St. Edmund’s is a very diverse parish. We have parishioners from all over the world who worship with us. Our diversity includes racial and ethnic background, various cultures and socioeconomic statuses. We are not a wealthy parish and although we have made great strides at getting our fiscal house in order, we still have far to go. As our annual parish fundraiser approaches, I am writing to seek your support. Our fundraiser income is budgeted as operating income. It isn’t used for any extras, but simply to make ends meet. I know that you have demands on your spending and that times are tough. I must admit that it is difficult to ask, but might you consider supporting our fundraiser? If you are able to do so, there are many ways to help. You can:

purchase a raffle ticket for $50 (for the possibility of winning, $5,000, $3,000 or $2,000).

make an outright donation to the event. attend the event. I would love to see you!

There are several ways to offer your contribution:

E-mail me at [email protected] Mail your gift to my attention at St. Edmund Parish: 188 S. Oak Park Ave., Oak Park, IL 60302 Log on to www.stedmund.givezooks.com

Whether you are able to help or not, I’d appreciate your prayers for the success of the event. In closing, I do wish for you to know that I continue to keep the wonderful people of St. John of the Cross Parish in my prayers. My six years with you were some of the most joyful years of my life. I remain forever grateful. In Christ,

Fr. John McGivern

Novena to St. Rita of Cascia The St. Rita of Cascia Shrine Chapel, 7740 S. Western Ave., Chicago, IL 60620, will be hosting its 105th Annual Nine Day Solemn Novena to St. Rita of Cascia. Mass and Novena Prayers will take place each evening at 7:00 p.m. Sunday, May 13th through Monday, May 21st lead-ing up to Mass and Novena Prayers in celebration St. Rita’s Feast Day on Tuesday, May 22nd at 10:00 a.m. and 7:00 p.m. For more information please call (773) 925-6600 or visit www.stritahs.com.

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Outreach

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“ Catholic Charities Shelter Should be Your TARGET! “ “This is how all will know you are My disciples, your love for one another…” John 13: 34, 35. Located on Chicago’s south side, St. Francis DePaula Shelter is one of Catholic Charities’ two interim housing shelters serving families who have unexpectedly become homeless. Generally, a family spends three or four months at St. Francis DePaula. During that time, they receive intensive case management services where each family works with a case manager to create a plan, identify goals, develop life and parenting skills and find job opportunities and other necessary resources. For each family, the ultimate goal is permanent housing and self-sufficiency -- but that can only happen after their immediate needs of food and shelter are addressed! St. Francis DePaula Shelter is capable of serving 14 families at one time. Last fiscal year (July 1, 2010 – June 30, 2011), St. Francis DePaula Shelter provided an astounding 16,092 nights of stay and 48,282 meals to 338 parents and children. Located in a former convent that was built in the late 1920s, St. Francis DePaula Shelter has been in continuous operation 24 hours per day, 7 days per week, year round since 1984 causing significant wear and tear. Fortunately, the Shelter is

currently undergoing a renovation of the common areas of the facility, including the kitchen and dining room. That is where you come in!!! We have set up a registry on Target.com where you can go online and purchase items needed for the new kitchen and dining room. These needy families should feel at home . . . even when they don’t have one. The Registry is simple: (1) Go to Target.com; (2) Click on TargetLists; (3) Enter the first name “Christina” and the last name “Brotto”; (4) Start shopping. All of your purchases will be delivered to the Parish Center. When the Shelter remodel is complete, we will arrange to have all of the purchases delivered to the Shelter. If you have any questions, please contact Christina Brotto at (630)920-2203 or [email protected] or Bill Bright at 708-246-4404, x130.

“Off the Street Club” Needs Our Help The club needs a number of items for the summer camp it has for the children: The top of the wish list are gently used or twin sheets, pillow cases & new pillows. Swim goggles Swim suits (new or gently used, toddler—young adult) Mosquito repellent Regular-sized bath towels (New or gently used) Tooth brushes and toothpaste. Please drop off at the Parish Center, back of church, or at the YC office in designated boxes beginning the week of May 1st through May 18th.

Questions, Contact Debbie Pusinelli 708-246-6760 or

[email protected]

Knitters and Crocheters Needed

The Prayer Shawl Ministry regularly makes and gives shawls to those who are ill or going through any of life's difficulties, as well as sending shawls to Dover Delaware for the

families of fallen service men and women. If you would like to participate in this meaningful ministry, you would be welcome. We meet the second Wednesday each month at 1 p.m. in the Parish Center. If you are unable to attend meetings, but would like to contribute a shawl, we would be happy to pick it up. The next meeting is Wednesday, May 9 from 1-2:30 p.m. in the Parish Center. Call Mary, 708-246-5108, for further information.

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To Live In The Light Several years ago, I was approached by man who asked me to be his spiritual director. He was in his mid-forties and almost everything about him radiated a certain health. As we sat down to talk, I mentioned that he seemed to be in a very good space. He smiled and replied that, yes, this was so, but it hadn't always been so. His happiness had its own history ... and its own pre-history. Here's how he told his story: "I haven't always been in a good space in my life; in fact, it's been a long struggle to get where I am today. For more than 20 years, from the time I left high school until three years ago, I struggled with two addictions: alcohol and sex. I had them enough under control that I could essentially hide them from my family, my friends, and my colleagues. As well I never acted out in very dangerous ways. I was addicted, but still had good control in my life. The problem was that I was living a double life - showing one life to my family and friends and living another life secretly (alcohol, pornography, and pick-up bars) on the side. I never once missed a day of work and was always able to function at a high level professionally, but my life slowly began to fixate around my addictions - hiding them, lying about my activities, fiercely protecting my privacy, resentment towards anything or anybody who stood between me and my addictions, and daily anxiety, scheming about where I would go at night. I functioned decently within my work and my relationships, but my mind, heart, and real attention were focused on something else, my addictions, my next hit. I'm not sure what the exact trigger was since there were a number of things that hit me at a point (my father's death, a couple of near escapes in terms of being discovered, some real shame, some graced moments of clarity when I sensed both my hypocrisy and the dead-end road I was on), but three years ago I went on a retreat to a monastery and had the courage to have a long talk with the Abbott. He suggested that I go into two recovery programs, one to deal with alcohol and the other to deal with sex. I took his advice and all I can say is that it has completely turned my life around. I've been "sober" now for three years and the best way that I can describe it is that now "I see color again". Nothing feels as great as honesty! I have never been this happy! I'm now living in the light! We're called to live in the light, but we tend to have an overly romantic idea of what that should mean. We tend to think that to live in the light means that

there should be a kind of special sunshine inside of us, a divine glow in our conscience, a sunny joy inside us that makes is constantly want to praise God, an ambience of sacredness surrounding our attitude. But that's unreal. What does it mean to live in the light? To live in the light means to live in honesty, pure and simple, to be transparent, to not have part of us hidden as a dark secret. All conversion and recovery programs worthy of the name are based on bringing us to this type of honesty. We move towards spiritual health precisely by flushing out our sickest secrets and bringing them into the light. Sobriety is more about living in honesty and transparency than it is about living without a certain chemical, gambling, or sexual habit. It's the hiding of something, the lying, the dishonesty, the deception, the resentment we harbor towards those who stand between us and our addiction, that does the real damage to us and to those we love. Spiritual health lies in honesty and transparency and so we live in the light when we are willing to lay every part of our lives open to examination by those who need to trust us. · To live in the light is to be able always to tell our loves ones where we are and what we are doing. · To live in the light is not have to worry if someone traces what websites we have visited. · To live in the light is to not be anxious if someone in the family finds our files unlocked. · To live in the light is to be able to let those we live with listen to what's inside our cell-phones, see what's inside our emails, and know who's on our speed-dial. · To live in the light is to have a confessor and to be able to tell that person what we struggle with, without having to hide anything. To live in the light is to live in such a way that, for those who know us, our lives are an open book. Fr. Ron Rolheiser, OMI

Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, teacher, and award-winning author, is President of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, TX. He can be contacted through his website www.ronrolheiser.com.

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Lord Hear Our Prayer

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Pray for our Sick

Theresa Budzinski

Bryan Chambers Garth Christie

Robert Feldmeier George Florian

Mary Ann Gecan Christopher Grant

Hunter Himes Karen Hult

Ruth Ilg

Emily Johanns Jacob Kenny Greg LaValle Yvonne Lowry

Meredith Mangold Thomas Martin Olga Matusik

Julie O’Connor Nancy Olin

Greg Palaschak Matthew Pecis

Raymond Principe

Margaret Prost Arlene Rehak Nick Saldana Bruce Soifert

Bob Sturenfeldt Norma Sumpay Mary Tischler Diane Tymick

James Whelton

Lauren Caroline, daughter of Scott & Sharon (Skowron) Bunnell

Ethan James, son of Matthew & Heather (Hagstrom) Marquardt

Richard William, son of Richard & Regina (Montana) Nelson

Zach Michael, son of Jonathan & Laura (McElligott) Reepmeyer

Kelsey Claire and Owen James, infant children of Timothy & Kristy (O’Brien) Rhatigan

Lukas Kovas, son of Justinas & Jennifer (Rule) Riskus

Baptisms

Mass Intentions Monday, April 30, St. Piius, V 6:30 Our Beloved Dead; Rose O’Brien Rispin 7:45 Alfredo Pinto; Diane Tymick Tuesday, May 1, St. Joseph the Worker 6:30 John Redling; Rose O’Brien Rispin 7:45 Daniel O’Brien; Eugene Garvy Wednesday, May 2, St. Athanasius 6:30 Sam Marotta 7:45 Moore Family; Betty Ann Bennett Thursday, May 3, Ss. Philip and James 7:45 Ordination Class of 1955; Gail Marvin Friday, May 4 7:45 Joseph Kmet; Genevieve Hojnar Saturday, May 5 8:00 Robert Plechaty; Madeline Jean Solik 5:00 Kyle Bozick; Joseph Kmet Sunday, May 6, Fifth Sunday of Easter 7:30 Jim Kenny; Bruno Shukis 9:00 Margaret Edwards; Jack Polivka 10:45 Don Spiering; Mira Bielewicz 12:15 SJC Parishioners & Kolbe House Parishioners 5:00 John Redling; Mercedes Hacholski Italics—Living

God of love, ever caring, ever strong,

stand by us in our time of need. Watch over who is sick,

Look after him/her in every danger, and grant him/her your healing and peace.

We ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

Trying to get in touch with us? More info is on our website: www.stjohnofthecross.org Fr. David Dowdle Pastor [email protected] Fr. Darrio Boscutti Associate Pastor [email protected] Fr. Fil Ngwila Associate Pastor [email protected] John Schopp Deacon [email protected] Bill Bright Outreach [email protected] Janet Caschetta Director of Youth Catechesis [email protected] Jim Clauer Worship [email protected] Marianne Firlit Spirituality & Care [email protected] Kathleen Gorman School Principal [email protected] Katie Hayes Crossroads High School [email protected] Jessica Koch Music [email protected] MJ Martin Operations [email protected]

Wedding Banns Jon Iwert and Jennifer Brenk

READINGS FOR THE WEEK Monday: Acts 11:1-18; Jn 10:1-10 Tuesday: Acts 11:19-26; Jn 10:22-30 or, for the memorial, Gn 1:26 — 2:3 or Col 3:14-15, 17, 23-34; Mt 13:54-58 Wednesday: Acts 12:24 — 13:5a; Jn 12:44-50 Thursday: 1 Cor 15:1-8; Jn 14:6-14 Friday: Acts 13:26-33; Jn 14:1-6 Saturday: Acts 13:44-52; Jn 14:7-14 Sunday: Acts 9:26-31; Ps 22; 1 Jn 3:18-24; Jn 15:1-8

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DUPLEXELECTRIC

708-387-9400Expert TroubleshootingElectrical Rehab/Repair

Greg Fiflis – Parishionerwww.duplexelectricservice.com

JOHN C. SKREKO, DDSGENERAL DENTIST Since 1981

CARE FOR THE ENTIRE FAMILY

• Reconstruction• Root Canals • Extractions, Oral Emergency

Indian Head Park708-246-1263

Salon & Spa• Hair • Nails • Make Up• Body Care • Massage

800 Hillgrove Ave., Ste 200Western Springs 708.784.1300

michaelgrahamsalon.com

ENROLLING NOW!20% OFF Enroll Early and Save

116 S. WASHINGTON ST.HINSDALE 630.750.7625

WWW.SCHOOLOFROCK.COM

GUITAR - BASS - VOCALS - KEY - DRUMS

INTERIOR / EXTERIOR Fine painting of walls, ceilings & woodwork

Wallcovering removal & installationStaining & varnishing woodwork

Complete painting/staining of exteriorsInstallation of chair & crown moldings,

baseboard & shoe moldings

John [email protected] (630) 337-8946Office (708) 246-5604Parishioner

COMPASSIONATE HOME CARE• Meals • Personal Care • Companionship• Light Housekeeping • Laundry • Errands

630.323.7231 www.MaryAndMikeCare.comMichael & Mary Doepke, RN • ParishionersState Licensed

WE’RE NEW!

Mirabella’sHAIR SALON

In Business 25 Years.Now offering 20% off new clients.

Bella’s Boutique Now Open. 10% off on Bridal Jewelry, scarves, hats, aprons, etc.

Customize your own aprons or pillows.Quality Work – Affordable Prices

6950 S. Wolf Rd.Indian Head Park 708.246.7400

HEATING & COOLING708.352.3131JC ASK FOR

PARISHIONER

DISCOUNTwww.JCComfort.com

009239 St John of the Cross Church (B)

HASMERGED

WITH

Enhancing Our Ability to Provide theHighest Level of Service in the Following Areas of Law:

• Personal Injury • Mediation • Estate and Guardianship Litigation• Estate Planning, Probate & Trust Administration

708.246.4911 www.clgattorney.com 630.571.0222

MARY ANN COVONEAttorney At Law • Parishioner

Our Family Keeping Your Family Comfortable Since 1951

Call Hoekstra Today! (630) 968-0896

Valuable CouponSave $10 Off Your AnnualFurnace or A/C Tune-Up,Save $25 Off A Combo!

Special Parishioner Discount

Rob’s on the JobHandyman Service

Repairs - Maintenance - AssemblyWe’ll turn your “Honey Do” list into a “Honey Done” list

630-441-0648www.RobsontheJob.com

Insured Bonded

Business Slow?Advertise In This Bulletin!

Businesses that advertisedthroughout a recession...grew 256%

more than the businessesthat chose not to advertise.

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Call 1-800-621-5197 ex 2704 today for a FREE ad design.

POLSKI WYROB WEDLIN FRESH & SMOKED POLISH SAUSAGEHOMEMADE PIEROGI EUROPEAN IMPORTED FOODS

DINNERS TO GO PARTY PLATTERS / CATERING7145 S. Kingery Hwy., Willowbrook

(SE Corner Plainfield & Rt. 83 Next to Michael’s)

630.655.2200 www.LassakDeli.com

Drs. Battistoni + Beam Ltd.Practice specializing in orthodontics

708-352-4500922 S. La Grange Rd.La Grange, IL 60525

www.awesomebraces.com

Dr. Thomas S. FlachDr. Clodagh T. Ryan

Family Practice• Pediatrics • Women’s Health• Adult Medicine • Geriatrics

Most Insurance PPO, HMO, Medicare512 Hillgrove Ave. 708.246.4376Western Springs Parishioner

NOTRE DAME FAMILY CENTERRev. James Watzke, Ph.D.

Depression - Anxiety - StressFamily - Separation - Divorce

Sub Abuse - Medicare - EspañolOakbrook Terr. 630.691.1114

www.jspaluch.com For Ads: J.S. Paluch Co., Inc. 1-800-566-6170

323-4610Restoration & Collision Work515 Blackhawk Dr., Westmont

Al Machacek, Owner

Maloney & Company, Ltd.Certified Public Accountants & Consultants

Specializing in Personalized Accounting, Tax and Consulting ServicesFor Individuals and Family Owned Businesses

7650 S. County Line Road, Burr Ridge, IL 60527Dan Maloney, Parishioner Email: [email protected] (630) 887-0500

Kitchens • Bathrooms • AdditionsDan MaddenParishioner 246.8898708

Gregg Communications Systems, Inc.Telephone Equip. Voiceover IP (VoIP)

38 Years in BusinessMary Dine 630-571-7000 www.greggcomm.com

Independent Senior Living in Downtown LaGrange

708.354.7600 www.lagrangepointe.com

CHICAGO TILE BROKERS

CUSTOM INSTALLATIONS

• NATURAL STONE

• GLASS • CERAMIC

708.259.8955WESTERN SPRINGS

ADRIAN GONZALEZ, PARISHIONER

KEENAN ROOFING AND SOLARIF YOUR HOME’S EXTERIOR IS UNBECOMING TO YOU

YOU SHOULD BE COMING TO US!• WINDOWS • SIDING • GUTTERS • SOFFIT • FASCIA

FREE CONSULTATIONSFX Parishioner 708.937.9400

Full Service Women, Men & ChildrenFirst Time Client Only - Offering

$5.00 Off Men & Children Cuts$10.00 Off Women Cuts

$15.00 Off Chemical Services

James ApostalPaolo Romano

Susie KareyLauren Ottley

708-784-0777Call for Convenient Appointments

and Walk-Ins Welcome923 Burlington Ave., Western Springs

VINCENT T. VERSACI, DDS, PCGENERAL DENTISTRY

4471 Lawn Ave., Ste. 200 Western Springs(708) 246-6006

www.VersaciDental.comEMIL J. COGLIANESE, JR.

COGLIANESEFUNERAL HOME

7508 SOUTH COUNTY LINE RD.BURR RIDGE, IL 60527 630-654-8484

Law Office ofKevin J. Moore, P.C.

Parishioner• Business Law• Civil Litigation

708.246.15954365 Lawn Ave., Ste 7

Western Springswww.KJMooreLaw.com

PC MDPC & MAC Sales & Service

Networking • WIFI • Internet(630) 789-3971 Tom

[email protected] www.pcmd.comWE STILL MAKE HOUSE CALLS!

FAMILY DENTISTRYKevin E. Collins, DDS, PC475 W. 55th St., La Grange

Office 354-5575After Hours Emergency – 354-2281

John F. O’Connell III, D.D.S.

Restorative and Implant

General Dentistry

930 N. York Rd., Suite 120

Hinsdale, IL 60521

(630) 455-1666

ALLMAKEAPPLIANCE

REPAIRAll Major Kitchen

And LaundryAppliances Repaired

579-5262325-5100

Forever Hardscapes, Inc.• Patios • Driveway

• Retaining Walls

• Accessories

• Brick Pavers

• Natural Stone • Bluestone

• All Work Guaranteed

• Install • Design • Restoration

Free Estimates630-908-7950

www.foreverhardscapes.com

LIZA’S TOUCHFull Service Hair Salon

Anniversary Sale

Inside Hair Salon Suites6972 S. Wolf Rd.Indian Head Park 708.783.1910

Spring Sale at Liza’sPerms, Color or Hilites

$45.95 and up.

NEW MANAGEMENTUPDATED MENU

QUALITY MEALS PREPARED DAILY5545 S. LAGRANGE ROAD

COUNTRYSIDE • 708.352.3600WWW.BEEFNBRANDY.COM

VEHICLESWANTED

$500 to $5,000• Cars • Vans • SUV’s • Trucks

$50 DONATEDto Parish at Closing

708.516.8888

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WINE TASTINGS • EVENT PLANNING • GIFTS

On York • ½ Block North of Ogden Ave.

3821 S. York Road, Oak Brook • 630-325-6550

ZAWASKI & ZAWASKIReal Estate Appraisers & Consultants, Ltd.------------------------------------

3848 Lawn AvenueWestern Springs, IL 60558

Office: (708) 784-1445 • FAX (708) 784-1446

FAMILY OWNED & OPERATEDPROVIDING DISTINGUISHED

SERVICE SINCE 1923COUNTRYSIDE

1025 W. 55th Street708-352-6500

DOWNERS GROVE301-75th Street630-964-6500

Canvas, Aluminum, Retractables708-596-4434 1-800-339-6522

Pisa PizzaWE DELIVER

708-352-00085440 S. LaGrange Rd., Countrysidewww.pisapizza.samsbiz.com

pvwealthmgt.com708.246.2366

4365 Lawn AveWestern Springs

General Contractors • Construction ManagersDistinctive Residences • Renovations • Additions

Remodeling for Handicap AccessibilitySeniors • Disabled Veterans • Safety Inspections

Craig J. Workman • 630.421.3400

CAMEOENDODONTICS

Practice Limited to EndodonticTherapy and Dental Implants

(708) 579-0488Keith Sommers, DDS, Parishioner

• 475 W. 55th Street, Suite 208, LaGrange• 3116 Oak Park Ave., Berwyn

• 7234 W. North Ave., Elmwood Parkwww.cameoendo.com

504 Hillgrove • Western Springs708.286.1100 • www.CombsEyeCare.comComprehensive Family Eye Care for ages 3-103!

OptometristIrene D. Combs, O.D.

High-Definition Vision

Village HARDWARE“Help is just around the corner”835 Burlington • Western Springs • 708-246-0892

MON. THU. 8 AM-8 PM; TUE. WED. FRI. 8 AM-7 PM SAT. 8 AM-5:30 PM; SUN. 9 AM-3 PM

KIRSCHBAUM’S BAKERYQuality and Variety

Wedding & Party Cakes825 Burlington Ave.

Western Springs 246-2894

Air Conditioned Restaurant & Carry Out-Seating for 200-Delivery ServiceCALL 354-4500 YOUR ORDER WILL BE READY 5525 LA GRANGE RD.

OPEN DAILY11:00 AMDAILY &SUNDAY2:00 PM

FOOD&

LIQUOR

009239 St John of the Cross Church (A)

ALLAN E. POWERPlumbing & Heating

Plumbing Repairs, Sewer RoddingBathroom Remodeling Lic #058-132085352-1670 804 Arlington, La Gr.

Carol L.KlimaMartin

Attorney At Law, Parishioner• Real Estate • Trusts • Probate Licensed in Illinois & Florida

(708) 246-7570

TheCOMMUNITY BANK of WESTERN SPRINGS

A branch of Hinsdale Bank & Trust Company®

1000 Hillgrove Ave., Western Springs, IL 60558 708-246-7100

www.jspaluch.com For Ads: J.S. Paluch Co., Inc. 1-800-566-6170

We Are Casual Dining$5.00 OFF your total bill when

you spend $25.00 or more.MUST BRING IN THE COUPON TO BE VALID AND

CANNOT BE COMBINED WITH ANY OTHER OFFER.• Small Banquets • Gift Certificates Available800 Hillgrove Ave., Ste 100

Western Springs 708.783.1500www.800westrestaurant.com

• On-Site Adult Care Facility• Homemaker Services

• Senior Social Activities• Personal Care

(At Home or At Our Facility)Alexandra Sulik, RN MSN NP

708.299.4364www.youngathearthc.info

Complete PsychologicalEvaluation & Treatment

Individual - Marital - FamilyLorraine D. D’Asta, Ph.D.

and AssociatesHINSDALE 655-9040

Alexandria Z. Meccia, M.D.DERMATOLOGY ASSOCIATES OF LAGRANGE

Parishioner 708.482.32135201 S. Willow Springs Rd.

Suite 430 LaGrange

CLEANING SERVICESHomes, Condos, Offices

Honest, Family Owned BusinessExcellent References, Low Prices

312-296-8042 (New Number)

• INSTALLATION OF BRICK PAVERS

AND OUTDOOR MASONRY

• LANDSCAPE DESIGN & BUILD

• PAVER MAINTENANCE & SEALING

FREEESTIMATE

www.prairiepathgroup.com

Since 1990

708.354.2182

Dwight A. Frey, DDS, PC

630.323.4060Complimentary Exam and Consultation

28 W. Chicago Avenue • HinsdaleFreyOrtho.com

915 BURLINGTON AVE.WESTERN SPRINGS, IL 60558708-246-0380

Mon.-Fri. 8-6 - Sat. 8-5:30Sundays (Seasonal) 10-4

www.caseymarketonline.com

Val VlaznyAttorney At Law

• Trusts • Wills • TaxesParishioner 630-357-8668

CONBOY’S-WESTCHESTERFUNERAL HOME

A Family You Can Rely On...Today and Tomorrow.

10501 W. Cermak Road, Westchester

708-562-5900Parishioner

Peter Conboy

Jean Conboy Hanson

Matthew Conboy

ED THE PLUMBERED THE CARPENTER

Best Work • Best RateSatisfaction Guaranteed AsWe Do All Our Own Work

Lic# 055-026066Parishioner Discount708-652-1444

GARAGE DOORSAND OPENERS

Family Owned & Operated Since 1947ALL MAJOR BRANDS

CUSTOM GLASS SECTIONSSALES & SERVICE

FREE IN HOME ESTIMATE708.458.2345 www.AR-BE.com

Ask For Parishioner Discount

National Academy of

Elder Law Attorneys, Inc.

MEMBER

academy ofspecial needs

plannersCharter Member Since 2006

Massage Therapy and Spiritual Direction• Deep Tissue • Pregnancy• Swedish • Energy WorkSr. M. Clancy, SSND

IN PRACTICE SINCE 1990LaGrange ParkHomer Glen

Gift Certificates Available

PATH TORELAXATION

708.288.9065

ACT-SAT TEST PREP(The Route to a Higher Score)

Individual SessionsFlexible Scheduling

Local Availability [email protected]

BILL BRENNAN, Agent• Auto • Home • Life • Health

• Long Term Care • Bank643 S. LaGrange Road, LaGrange

708.354.1180Billinsuresme.com [email protected]

• Siding • Soffit • Fascia• Gutters • Roofing

FREEESTIMATES

Ask For Parishioner Discountwww.goreckiexteriors.com

708.670.4146

LAGRANGECUSTOM

CONCRETE, INCUNIQUE SURFACES OUR SPECIALTY

• PATIOS • DRIVEWAYS • WALKWAYS

• GARAGE FLOORSFREE ESTIMATES JOHN JAMROZIK

708.354.2445

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April Showers bring May flowers and… The Women’s Club 17th Annual Flower Sale!

Beautiful flowers from one of the best growers in the area. See color photos, plant descriptions & care instructions for all available plants on the parish website!

2 Ways to Order this Year! Order Deadline is Monday, May 7th 1. Place your order and pay with credit card online at www.stjohnofthecross.org 2. Use an order form available in the church vestibule or the Parish Center or you can down-load a form from our website home page. Drop off your order form and check made out to SJC Women’s Club at the Parish Center. Volunteers needed to help the day of sale! Please contact Trish Orndorff at [email protected] or 708-655-7947 for more information. Pick up your flowers Thursday, May 10th in the parking lot north of the church.