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Heloise J Ridley, MBA

Ridley Concepts Solutions: Powerful Resources for Parents Families

http://HeloiseRidley.com


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“Get off of the razy ycle…

and onto a Path of Peace”

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“Get off of the Crazy Cycle… and onto a Path of Peace”

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Womb – Infancy

Toddler – Preschooler

Early School Years Teens


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While we as parents model Christianity to become an

example and train them as best as we possibly can...Our efforts are wee little comparatively to God’s.

But our God, in His mercy gently leads us parents in

the path we should take to encourage our children to

live a fulfilled life with Jesus.

Helping kids fall in love with God is obviously a lifetime pursuit.

There is no ”formula” that guarantees success in 30days or your money back.

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should

go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.


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II Timothy 3:15

“And how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures

which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in

Christ Jesus.”


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Parenting Science from an Amazing God:

A baby’s brain begins to form just three weeks after conception.

During this time, trillions of neurons are produced, reaching a lifetime highbefore birth.

Synapses—connections between cells in the brain—are rapidly developed,with memory beginning at only four months in utero!

These beginning years of life prove scientifically to be the foundational

launching point for a human being’s entire life.”

– Dr Melodye Hilton


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Memory Development In Utero = God’s Design for Us


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#2 GREAT MUSIC

Relaxing worship music to loud fast music

Christian, Classical and Factual

#3 PRAY for baby….

Pure Joy

Crystal Wade and Arthur Burke

Includes scripted prayers and declarations to help youpray for baby

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GOALS

In the early years I recommendmaterial closely tied to the

bible to lay a groundwork for all learning:

The reality of Jesus Christ dying on the cross for their sins…

The concept ofpraying and talk

ing to God

Their identity as a child of God

Learn Bible verses

Heroes of Faith as role models and gatekeepers (David and

Goliath to Esther)


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This fundamental time is an amazing opportunity for us to

be builders of healthy minds.

How?

Every word that we speak is an electromagnetic light

impulse that develops neural pathways or connections in

the brain establishing memory.

This forms an automatic habit of thinking that will stay with

a child for the rest of their life.

-Dr Melodye Hinton


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They can memorize verses as soon as they can speak:


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In addition, 75% of a child’s personality is recognized by the

time they reach three years old.

During this precious time of life, trust is established, identity

is shaped, and the mind is developed—at the very same

time the spirit is alive and receptive to the Word of God ,

which knows no age, height, or stature.

The human brain thrives when words and actions of

validation, love, nurture, and truth are freely expressed.

-Dr. Melodye Hilton


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Train and discipline with scripture to solidify understanding

Kids learn how the Bible can help them in everyday life


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I personally like a tight correlation

between what they EAT SPIRITUALLY

and WHAT they know foundationally.

The goal is to get those bible storiesdown, memory verses, a few truths

for a firmer foundation before

digesting a wider variety of materials.

Christian Light Publications BJU Press


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Christian Light Publications BJU Press

Visual Bibles and storybooks, Sunday School workbooks, Discount Stores/Clearance

Light of Life

Family

Resources

Abeka


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http://wttbabies.org

Audio CDs and DVDs with

simple straight-forward Bible

Stories, scriptures & songs

Printouts & CDs and Curriculum

Helpful

activity ideas

http://wttbabies.org/http://wttbabies.org/


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Free TBN ONLINE– Smile of A Child

Hands-On Curriculum – kidsinministry.org Homeschooler discount

Full verses – Memorized over time


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Impressionable ages

Fun season - they still like playing

Can still listen to music / DVDs even if not “cool”

They learn more self-awareness in this phase Scripture is laid intentionally on the heart to help them feel

happier about themselves and life.

They understand the reality of an adversary (bad guy) and

a battle that they are in helps….especially the boys.


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1. POST picture Verses on the Walls, Doors &Fridge (verses can help in times of need):

“ And you shall write them upon the

doorposts of your house, and on your gates.”Deut. 6:9

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Its critical at this stage to teach them to communicate with God (both talking to and

hearing direction and encouragement from Him) before potential teen resistance:

“Call unto me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you

know not.” Jer. 33

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me” John 10:27


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Mary Rice Hopkins has curriculum to

accompany DVDs - can purchase & on TBN

Application of scripture - kids are taught to

“check their hearts” based on Heb. 10:16 “Iwill put My laws upon their hearts and will

write them on their minds“

Digital Devotions samples are online –

Inexpensive curriculum multi-lesson DVD set

• They learn to manage self-control = more

accountability

• Closely tie discipline and character training to

scripture


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Weekly local - AWANAS,Pioneers, Power Clubs and

other Bible Clubs

Local Vacation Bible Schools

(consider attending a variety) Kids Conferences


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Bible time together and instill quiet devotion time practiceso May not be so quiet together – teens and tots

o Prayer time stillness vs. wiggles =)

o Can be fun… yet frustrating

o Good bonding memories

o Can include curriculum and lessons

oIdea: Create a memorial to God Scrapbook or poster

o Idea: Draw pictures of scriptures from the bible. Consider choosing challenging onesfrom Daniel or Revelations

o Idea: Worship instruments ( scarves, spoons, tambourines, harmonica, pots,recorders, anything)

Teaching Fridge Charts from Doorposts.com


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http://kidsbibledebjackson.blogspot.com/2012/11/i-thank-you-god-for-

everything-book.html


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TEEN YEARS GOAL:

“Stay off of the Crazy Cycle… and onto a Path of Peace”


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I became “that” kid in high school years:

My parents prayed, stuck with me and disciplined me.

They trusted God and pushed me to Him as much as they knew how=)


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Opening strategy = prayer

First line of defense = prayer

Back up plan = prayer and fasting

Parent Strategy = The bathroom floor


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Goals:

God’s higher moral standards are often counter-culture

Relationship

Room for them to struggle and fall but hold your ground – trustGod to work in their hearts ( be unpopular at times)

Emotional intelligence - fruits of the Spirit


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Daily Disciplines:

Prayer time

Journal, write what you learn, verses, what’s on your heart

and hear from God and “Letters to God”

Fun prayer lists…can cross off items as God answers

o for family,

o personal issues on the spot,

o for others

Guided practice seeking God for life answers

Service – Raise money for causes, physically help others


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Christian Music – Needs a balance, its tough when it gets

off

Christian Concerts – Winter Jam $10, Acquire the Fire,

Creation, Choirs and Church Concerts


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Missions trips – can change lives & perspective

New Hope Children’s Foundation – Homeschool friendly


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Youth groups can be tremendous

Caution: according to Barna research studies… many youth

groups do not teach kids how to integrate scripture for a

successful life = Stay involved


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Surround them with Contagious Christians

Expose them to leaders of faith they can relate to –

Groups that give life, camps (World View Academy – Dom),

conferences especially with music


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ONE OF THE MOST CRITICAL ELEMENTS = Application of

scripture

Verses about the Tough Subjects

Sticky Faith Parent Curriculum or

Sticky Faith Teen Curriculum with DVD: 10 Lessons to

Nurture Faith Beyond High School

By Dr. Kara Powell


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GOD WILL HELP US wherever we are at….

Even if we missed the mark before and are playing catchup.

If God brings things to your attention, He obviously will help

you. Just ask. God promises to teach our children:

“And all your children shall be taught of the LORD;

and great shall be the peace of your children.

Isaiah 54:13

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