strengthening emotional resilience for colorado cleft conference may 3, 2014
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Strengthening Emotional Resilience For Colorado Cleft Conference May 3, 2014. Your Cleft Strong. Adopted. Unexpected. Change vs. Transition. Change is the shift, transition is the process of one state of being to another. CHANGE. TRANSITION. External Organizational Quicker - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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STRENGTHENING EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE
FOR COLORADO CLEFT CONFERENCEMAY 3, 2014
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YOUR CLEFT STRONG
Adopted Unexpected
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• Internal• Personal• Slower• Less visible• Less predictable• Psychological• Intangible
• External• Organizational• Quicker• More visible• More predictable• Physical• Tangible
Change is the shift, transition is the process of one state of being to another
CHANGE VS. TRANSITION
By Catherine Adenle http://catherinescareercorner.com
CHANGE TRANSITION
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STRESS = Is a Normal Physiological Reaction to a Perceived Threat.
DEFINITIONS OF STRESS
Eustress vs. Distress
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RESILIENCE
To be resilient means to be able to 'spring back' into shape after being deformed. To be emotionally resilient means to be able to spring back emotionally after suffering through difficult and stressful times in one's life.
Stressed people experience a flood of powerful negative emotions which may include anger, anxiety, and depression. Some people remain trapped in these negative emotions long after the stressful events that have caused them have passed.
Emotionally resilient people, on the other hand, are quickly able to bounce back to their normal emotional state.
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TRAITS OF EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE
Emotional Awareness Perseverance Internal Locus of Control Optimism Support Sense of Humor Perspective Sense of Mission
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WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WON?
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Emotional Awareness
Be aware what your feeling, when you’re feeling…
Know why you’re feeling Know the impact of your
feeling on behavior, thoughts, performance
Mindfulness in the moment
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PERSEVERANCE
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INTERNAL LOCUS OF CONTROL
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HUMOR
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PERSPECTIVE
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Resilient people are able to learn from their mistakes (rather than deny them), see obstacles as challenges, and allow adversity to make them stronger. They can also find meaning in life’s challenges rather than seeing themselves as victims.
Regardless of setbacks and defeats we trust in our resilience and don’t give up.
PERSPECTIVE – PERSEVERANCE
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OPTIMISM
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Permanence Events are temporary versus permanent Time is based on always or never
Pervasiveness Specific versus universal Events lead to everything or specifics
Personalization Internal versus external Blame ourselves or circumstances
3 P’S OF EXPLANATORY STYLE
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Knowing your ABCs and other positive
mental handrails.
RATIONAL PROBLEM SOLVING
A.Activating EventB.Belief or ExpectationC. Consequence or Emotional
ResponseD.DisputeE. Effect
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BREATHING AND CENTERING
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SUPPORT
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SENSE OF MISSION
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WHAT IS YOUR COMMITMENT?
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Patrick Hiester, BizPsychwww.BizPsych.com