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Taming the Tiger Within: 10 Body Based Techniques to Change Behavior Elia Vecchione, PhD Leo Vecchione, MA Michael Vandenbergh, MA

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Page 1: Taming the Tiger Within - Amici Associates · Someday the lion shall sleep with the lamb, but the lamb won’t get much sleep. -Woody Allen. Mirror Neurons. How Mirror Neurons Work

Taming the Tiger Within:10 Body Based Techniques

to Change Behavior

Elia Vecchione, PhD Leo Vecchione, MA

Michael Vandenbergh, MA

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The Stages of Treatment

Stage 1: Regulate

Stage 2: Relate

Stage 3: Reason

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“Doing trauma treatment without a stage model is unethical.

-Robert T. Kinscherff

Stage 1: Regulate

Stage 2: Relate

Stage 3: Reason

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ACTION! Limbic System

Thinking Frontal Lobes

Functions of the Brain Systems

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The Autobiography of the Self, is inscribed by experience,

on the brain, the body, and the central nervous system,

and told and retold through its only language, behavior.

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What did people do before Valium?

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Body Techniques that change Behavior.

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Continuum of Action & Commitment

Low • Medication

Medium

• Tapping, power posing,singing, dancing , meditation, etc.

High

• Exercise, yoga, neurotherapy, etc.

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Every Act of Self Improvement is an Attack on the Self

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The Basics of Human Behavior

Something Happens Body Thoughts & Behavior Reacts Feelings

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We

We don’t run because we are afraid. We are afraid because we run.

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The Physiology of Relationships

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Experiment Baseline-Events of the day-Conflict

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80% Current & Future Satisfaction Predicted by Physiology

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Single simple measures of physiology (heart rate) predict satisfaction over 3 years

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“The more aroused (physiologically, not sexually) the subjects, the more satisfaction declined”

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Research on response of abusive parents to smile.

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Crying Infant

Parental Arousal

Non-abusive Abusive

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Smiling Infant

Parental Arousal

Non-abusive Abusive

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Someday the lion shall sleep with the lamb, but the lamb won’t get much sleep.

-Woody Allen

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Mirror Neurons

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How Mirror Neurons Work

1. When you do a particular activity they fire. 2. When you watch someone do a similar activity a

similar pattern of firing occurs. 3. When you watch yourself do the activity you get

the same pattern of firing.

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Mirror neurons

Boly et al. (2007) When thoughts become action: An fMRI paradigm to study volitional brain activity in non-communicative brain injured patients. NeuroImage, 36, 979-992.

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So Do IT!!

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Inclusion Criteria for Grounding Techniques

1. It’s ethical to teach. 2. Can learn it quickly. 3. Can use it practically. 4. Doesn’t require professional training. 5. Can walk away and do it.

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What I feel like inside What it looks like outside

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Practice, Practice, Practice.

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I. Power Posing II. Tapping

III. Breathing IV. Walking Meditation

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V. Guided Meditation VI. Singing VII. Dancing VIII. Hand Holding

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IX. Swimming X. Acupuncture

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I. Power Posing:

Using body positions

to increase confidence, reduces tension, regulate the body, and improve

behavior.

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II. Tapping:

A form of acupressure where tapping on the body’s meridian points reduces tension and helps regulate the body and behavior.

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III. Breathing:

One of the few body functions that can be consciously controlled and used to regulate arousal and promote reasonable behavior.

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IV. Walking Meditation:

Focusing our attention

on walking can eliminate intrusive

thoughts, lower anxiety, and improve

behavior.

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V. Guided Meditation:

Guided meditation provides a focus for our attention which then reduces stress, promotes relaxation, and improve behavior.

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VI. Singing:

Sing with others to increase heart rate variability, calm the

body, relate to others, and improve

behavior.

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VII. Dancing:

Dance to increase confidence,

improve mood, lower stress,

regulate the body, and improve

behavior.

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VIII. Hand Holding:

Hold hands to calm the brain and the body, feel safe,

reduce tension, and improve behavior.

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IX. Swimming:

Swimming lowers stress and aggression hormones, lowers our state of arousal, and reorganizes the body to feel safe and calm.

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X. Acupuncture:

Acupuncture involves inserting very fine

needles into the body to calm our limbic or

emotional responses, relax our body, and

improve our feelings and behavior.

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Hybrids

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What we were hoping for.

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Video Links:Power Posing: Amy Cuddy Ted TalkTapping: The basic recipe for EFT taping by Gary Craig You Tube What is Energy Psychology (1st EME webinar) You Tube Breathing: Alan Watkins Ted Talk Singing: Music determines heart rate variability of singers-Bjorn Vickhoff, Rickard Astrom You Tube Choir singing Harmonizes hearts-Rickard Astrom you TubeDancing: Peter Lovatt Ted Talk: “Dance, Thinking, Hormones” Hand Holding: James Coan Ted Talk Walking Meditation: Jon Kabat Zinn Guided Walking Meditation You Tube Ocean Meditation: at amiciassociates.com Resources: amiciassociates.com (includes videos of Al demonstrating techniques, How the Body Changes the Mind power point, research, written materials, and related videos)