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THE ART OF GIVING FEEDBACK What to say, when to say it to get maximum impact

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THE ART OFGIVINGFEEDBACK

What to say, when to say it to get maximum impact

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Content Marketing Specialist

Jacob ShriarEngagement Specialist

Alexandre Michaud

Nice to meet you!

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FEEDBACK +

RECOGNITION

The 1-2 punch combo that every leader needs:

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Objectives

Differentiate recognition from constructive feedback

Structure / build the sentences to give better feedback

Communicate feedback in the most effective way

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Agenda

1. Why give feedback?

2. Game

3. Types of feedback and their effectiveness

4. Steps to build positive and constructive feedback

5. Tips and tricks

6. Game follow-up

7. Q&A

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WHY GIVEFEEDBACK?

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Feedback is like a relay race:it’s a dialog.

Feedback Academy

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In our research (over 1800 companies) we found that:

of employees said they wanted more

feedback.

65%of employees say

they would work harderif they felt their efforts

were better recognized.

69%said they preferred to

receive corrective feedback versus 43% that said they

would want the praise.

57%

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LET’S LOOK ATSOME FEEDBACKSTATEMENTS

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Good job!

John, you are late again?

In the future, is there a place you can validate the information before sendingit to a client?

Sometimes, I think you slack because the tasks are never completed on time.

Good job with the planning.

I noticed you haven’t shown up for the last2 team meetings. I’m worried that you missed some important information. Can we meet to discuss What we missed?

Last week, I heard you gave wrong information to a client.

Sometimes, I notice you do not complete the task you start.Is my perception correct?

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TYPES OFFEEDBACK

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CONSTRUCTIVEFEEDBACK

- Guidance

- Foster a desired behavior

- To express concerns

RECOGNITION(Positive Feedback)

- Giving praise

- Reinforce a desired behavior

- To express appreciation

Which type is the most effective to change someone’s behaviors (has the most impact on performance)?

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more likely to make workers actively engaged at work when managers focus on employee’s strengths.

30x

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No one likes to give negative feedback,but everyone wants to hear it.

Give positive feedback

0.1

-2.3

2.3

4.7

Receive negative feedback

Receive positive feedback

Give negative feedback

TEND TO PREFER

TEND TO AVOID

Source Zenger/Folkman HBR.org

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Happy employees

Quality work

Happy customers

Referrals

The ROI of Engagement

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The stages of the feedback mindset

EVALUATIVE INTERPRETIVE SUPPORTIVE PROBING UNDERSTANDING

Judgement on a behavior

Test your understanding

Help someone to change with encoura-gement

Seek the root cause

Empathy to understand the whole person

EFFECTIVENESS

Source Carl Rogers

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HOW TO BUILD FEEDBACK STATEMENTS?

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Identify ONE behavior

Probe on the WHY

Agree on a goal and offer support

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- Identify the positive consequences from an organizational point of view

- Identify the advantages for the employee

HOW TO BUILD CONSTRUCTIVE FEEDBACK

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HOW TO BUILD POSITIVE FEEDBACK

Focus on the behavior (be specific)

Identify the impacts

Link it to a positive outcome for the individual

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An employee didn’t deliver a project on time

The project wasn’t delivered on time, do you have any idea why?

As you know, we’re trying to get everything organized, so if you’re late on a project, it slows down the rest of the team.

We’ll just make sure that for the next time, you have more time and resources to finish on time. I think for the next time, what you could do is schedule blocks of time maybe one day a week to make sure that you’re not overloaded with work towards the end.

I tried that on my last project and it made a huge difference.

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TIPS & TRICKS FOR LEADERS

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- Being honest

- Praising efforts

- Building your feedback based on facts

BE PREPARED

STOP KEEP

- The sandwich technique

- Thinking that bad behavior needs to be addressed ASAP.

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RECOGNIZE THAT EMPLOYEES WANT FEEDBACK

STOP KEEP

- Being afraid to tell employees how you feel

- Not taking the time to give feedback

- Scheduling time in your agenda to give feedback on a regular basis

- Giving positive feedback in public as much as you can

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BE TRANSPARENT, AUTHENTIC AND SHOW EMPATHY

STOP KEEP

- Preaching

- Thinking that an A player never makes mistakes

- Talking 20% of the time and listening 80% of the time

- Utilizing « I » statement

- Giving feedback with a hidden agenda in mind

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LET’S GO BACKTO THE GAME WE STARTED WITH

Why is one statement better than another one?

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Good job!

John, you are late again?

In the future, is there a place you can validate the information before sendingit to a client?

Sometimes, I think you slack because the tasks are never completed on time.

Good job with the planning.

I noticed you haven’t shown up for the last2 team meetings. I’m worried that you missed some important information. Can we meet to discuss What we missed?

Last week, I heard you gave wrong information to a client.

Sometimes, I notice you do not complete the task you start.Is my perception correct?

1 2

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Objectives

Differentiate recognition from constructive feedback

Structure / build the sentences to give better feedback

Communicate feedback in the most effective way

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IT’S…PRAISING TIME!

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[email protected]

Don’t hesitate to contact us!

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QUESTIONS& ANSWERS

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Thank you!

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• Brim, B., & Asplund, J. (2009). Driving Engagement by Focusing on Strengths. Gallup Business Journal, 5 pages.

• Cacioppe, R. (1999). Using Team – Individual Reward and Recognition strategies to Drive Organizational Success. Leadership and Organizational Journal, 20:6, 322-331.

• Globforce.com (2011). WorfoceMoodTracker, Septembre.

• Harter, J. K., Schmidt, F. L., & Hayes, T. L. (2002). Business-Unit-Level Relationship Between Employee Satisfaction, Employee Engagement, and Business Outcomes: A meta-analysis. Journal of Applied Psychology, 87:2, 268-279.

• Hutton, P. (2009). How to Generate More Valuable Feedback. Strategic Communication Management, 13:2, 32 pages.

• Throne, B. (2003). Carl Rogers. Sage Publicaiton, London. 134 pages.

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