the four agreements and professional services
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T H E F O U R AG R E E M E N T S & P R O F E S S I O N A L S E R V I C E S
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–HAMLET
“There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.”
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B E I M P E C C A B L E W I T H YO U R W O R D
• Speak with integrity
• Say only what you mean
• Avoid using the word to speak against yourself, or to gossip about others.
• Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
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B E I M P E C C A B L E W I T H YO U R W O R D
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B E I M P E C C A B L E W I T H YO U R W O R D
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B E I M P E C C A B L E W I T H YO U R W O R D
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D O N ’ T TA K E A N Y T H I N G P E R S O N A L LY
• Nothing others do is because of you.
• What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
• When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
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D O N ’ T TA K E A N Y T H I N G P E R S O N A L LY
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- B J Ö R K
“There is definitely definitely definitely no logic to human behavior . . .”
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D O N ’ T M A K E A S S U M P T I O N S
• Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want.
• Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama.
• With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
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D O N ’ T M A K E A S S U M P T I O N S
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- A N D R E W C A R N E G I E
“Do not look for approval except for the consciousness of doing your best”
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A LWAY S D O YO U R B E S T
• Your best is going to change from moment to moment;
• It will be different when you healthy as opposed to sick
• Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret
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S U M M A R Y
• Be impeccable with your word
• Don’t take anything personally
• Don’t make assumptions
• Always do your best
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