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February 9, 2017

Parents of juniors are reminded to attend the ju-nior parent meeting TONIGHT at 7:00 pm in the cafeteria. The School Counseling Office will share important information regarding the college search process, ACT/SAT, recent assessments, and prepar-ing for senior year. We look forward to seeing you there!

Junior Parent Meeting Tonight

What’s Inside?

News• Junior Parent Meeting• ACT Review• Mom's Night Out• Style Show

STUDENT News• Katherine Croswell• Mitchell Bergman

school counseling office• Scheduling Updates

Campus Ministry• From the Chaplain

Evening of Excellence• Volunteer-Donate-

Attend• Wrigley Rooftop

Athletics• Winter Sports Updates

Freshman Scheduling February 13-15

House DayFebruary 15

Winter DramaFebruary 16-19

No School February 17 & February 20

Interims February 21

Sophomore SchedulingFebruary 21-23

Mom's Night OutFebruary 22

Style ShowFebruary 25 11AM-2PM Jefferson Country Club

ACT Review

Mr. Krieger and Mrs. Maloof will offer an ACT re-view for any interested junior before the test is given at Hartley on March 21st. This review covers basic test taking strategies as well as specific strategies for the ACT. Sessions will be held on Tuesdays in Febru-ary and March during the SEEK period (2:45-3:15). Students may attend any or all sessions. There is NO CHARGE for this review, but students are asked to register with Mrs. Maloof (mmaloof@cdeducation.org) ahead of time to ensure that we have enough review materials available.

The schedule for the review is as follows:

February 14 - readingFebruary 21 - EnglishFebruary 28 - writingMarch 7 - mathMarch 14 - science

News

26th Annual Luncheon & Style Show

Moms' Night Out

The HPO (House Parent Organization) invites you to join us for the final Moms’ Night Out for this year on Wednesday, February 22, from 6:30 to 8:30 pm, at Gresso’s in German Village. As this is the last Wednesday in February, it will coincide with Gresso’s Ohio Valley Night, and foods from the Ohio Valley will be featured. These include DiCarlo’s pizza, Gulla’s hot dogs, and Coleman’s fish. Gresso’s regular menu will also be available. Door prizes will be awarded throughout the night.

RSVPs are requested by February 15 via SignUp Genius.

More information about Gresso’s can be found HERE.

The 26th Annual Bishop Hartley Luncheon and Style Show is Saturday, February 25, at Jefferson Country Club, from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm. For the invitation and reservation form click HERE. You can also register online. Please register by Febru-ary 11.

The Committee is looking for donations, including anything Hartley related, gift cards lottery tickets, kids' games/books, cooking related items, etc. If you would like to donate an item for the gift basket raffle, please contact Marilyn at 614-580-7381 or Gianna at 614-579-6317 or email Bishophartleystyleshow@gmail.com. A committee member will pick up the items for you. Items are needed by February 20.

Senior Katherine Croswell received the Red Sash of Merit at the Columbus Diocese Scout Day with the Bishop January 29, 2017. The Red Sash of Mer-it is a service and leadership award given to a Girl Scout who is very active in her troop, community and Church. It is the highest award given by the Columbus Catholic Committee on Scouting. Con-gratulations to Katherine and her parents!

Katherine Croswell

Student News

Mitchell Bergman

Photo 1: Solo of KatherinePhoto 2: Katherine is pictured with Bishop Camp-bell, Deacon Kevin Murrin and two fellow Red Sash recipients (a Venturer Scout and a Boy Scout).

NSCAA High School All American Mitchell Berg-man attended the 2017 National Soccer Coaches Association of America Convention in Los Ange-les in January where he was officially recognized as an All American. Mitchell had the opportunity to meet Hall of Famer and current sports analyst, Alexi Lalas at the banquet.

School Counseling OfficeScheduling for the 2017-2018 school year is un-derway. Counselors have already met with cur-rent juniors to discuss course offerings. They will meet with current freshmen February 13th through 15th, and sophomores February 21st through 23rd. All parents should sign the stu-dent schedule form before it is returned to the school counseling office.

Scheduling Updates

Campus MinistryFrom the Chaplain, Deacon Frank Sullivan

Occasionally, I pass on an article from my Protecting God's Children continuing education that I feel can benefit our parents, students, faculty and alums. The following article addresses a topic that is most important to be aware of.

When Someone Thinks The Rules Do Not ApplyBy Paul Ashton, Psy.D., D.Min.

Learning to spot narcissists and deal with their destructive behavior can save you the world of hurt that awaits anyone who mistakes the near enemy for a friend.—Martha Beck

Over and over again we have people breaking the rules. They think, for whatever reason that the rules do not apply to them. They are special people who deserve extra special treatment. As you know from the warning signs listed in our program, we promote paying careful attention to the behavior of adults who work with children and their behaviors, and through this army of observers whom we have educated all over the country, we have a million sets of eyes. One of the more prominent things we train caring adults to watch for is when others "think the rules do not apply to them."

Campus Ministry Continued...The individuals, who break these rules when they are working with or around children in our churches and schools, put children at risk and put themselves in danger. They don't listen to our reasonable requests that they should never be alone with children, and they find millions of reasons to justify breaking the rules. They state that they do so much in our churches that they should be trusted: they are members of the pastoral council or various groups in our parishes; they volunteer countless hours, etc., etc. And the list goes on and on as to why they want, need, deserve and demand an exception. After all, they are helping children. As a facilitator, when I train participants many spend lots of time trying to convince me that I need to excuse them from some particular rule. I never excuse anyone from a rule that applies to everyone, nor will I ever. Nor should you ever. It might be helpful to look at some of the characteristics of narcissism. Not that everyone who breaks rules is a narcissist, but in my experience, many of those who harm and abuse are narcissistic. Be mindful not to diagnose anyone, but watch behaviors and keep a keen eye out for them on your paths.Narcissism is an enduring pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following charac-teristics:• Lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others• Has a grandiose sense of self-importance, i.e. exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements• Has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compli-ance with his or her expectations• Is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends• Is often envious of others, or believes others are envious of him or her• Requires excessive admiration• Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes• Believes that he or she is "special" and unique, and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)• Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love1

As you can see, it is a pretty powerful list of characteristics, and not ones that are easy to live with. What is important to note is the most outstanding characteristic of a narcissist is that they are incapable of having true empathy for anyone. This is often hard for us to understand as we can readily access empathy for others. They simply cannot access it, and they are clever at mimicking it when necessary mostly to fit in and to gain something from another person.

Narcissists need a supply of persons to admire them and they'll do anything to obtain that audience. They are ruthless in getting their own way, both it is often disguised in manipulative, "kind" ways almost always abusing the power they take from their positions of real or imagined authority. If they do have positions of authority in a church, school or institution, then be most careful as they will do anything within that power to obtain what they want.

This is why we teach that the warning sign of "thinking the rules do not apply" is an important warning behavior to watch for. While we are not to go into the details of what narcissism is with those we are training in our role of facilitators, it is good to know a little bit more about the bigger picture. Be mindful, too, that individuals can exhibit narcissistic traits, and not have full blow narcissistic personality disorder. Sometimes these charming individuals are elected to high positions because their characters seem to be golden, brave and powerful and attract others who are ready to please and follow.

Reference: 1. Bordeline Personality Disorder Central. Retrieved from the Internet October 27, 2016: https://www.bpdcentral.com/

Evening of ExcellenceVolunteer-Donate-Attend

The Evening of Excellence is just over a month away. Online registration is now open. Reserve your seat now! Use this link to find more information about sponsorship opportunities as well.

We are still in need of volunteers for set up day/evening and donations for our silent and live auctions. Please visit our Sign up Genius site to see some of our needs or contact Molly Maloof (mmaloof@cdeducation.org or 614-237-5421, ext. 10604) for more information or to volunteer.

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Evening of Excellence Continued...Wrigley Field Rooftop Bleachers and Dining Package for 2 Just pick the game and everything else will be arranged! Your rooftop admission provides your seats, beverages (beer, wines and soft drinks) and entrees, side dishes, and desserts with a large and varied menu of iconic Chicago fare - all-inclusive!Valid for the Chicago Cubs regular season games, subject to availability. Excludes Opening Day and may exclude other premium series.

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Women’s Varsity BasketballThe women’s team is currently 16-5 with 1 game left in the regular season. They will face DeSales tonight and tournament play will be-gin Monday, Feb 20th at 7pm. The Lady Hawks earned #1 team in the district and will face The Red Devils of Marion Franklin. They will play at Bishop Hartley. (Reminder for students: Stu-dent IDs are NOT good for admission to tour-nament games.)

Men’s Varsity BasketballThe men’s basketball team is currently 12-4 with a win over Bishop Ready on February 3rd. They are currently the #5 team in the district and play CCL opponent DeSales tomorrow, February 10th.

Bowling The post season for bowling is quickly ap-proaching for the Hawks. The men’s section-al will be on February 18th at HP Lanes 2012 Innis Rd and the ladies’ sectional will be Feb-ruary 24th at the AMF Sawmill Lanes. Good luck to the bowling Hawks!

AthleticsTEAM UPDATES

All winter sports are coming to the end of the regular season and preparations for the post season are underway! Some spring sports are in conditioning and preparing for the upcoming season, which should be just as exciting as the previous sports seasons this year. Here are how the winter sports are currently doing:

Athletics Continued...

Look for the next Herald on Thursday, February 23!

Athletics Continued...Swimming The AquaHawks placed well at the CCL cham-pionships at CSG on January 28th. Mia Phillips was 1st in the 100 breaststroke, Olivia Bergmann was 2nd in the 100 backstroke, the men’s 200 free relay placed 3rd, while the women’s 200 free relay placed 2nd. Stephany Aeling was 3rd in the 500 free and Carly Archambeau was 3rd in the 100 fly. Chad Kegelmayer and Maggie Phil-lips both placed 3rd in the 200 free. In the 200 medley relay, the women were 2nd and the men were 3rd. The team is currently preparing for the sectionals and will be competing Saturday, February 11th at Columbus Academy. Wrestling The Hawks won their 4th consecutive CCL title this year with several athletes making 1st team all CCL: 106 lb, Michael Petrella, 145 Alex Mo-ran, 160 Mark Bayless, 170 Cole Jackson, 182 Griffin Rathburn and 220 Nathan Jackson.

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