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    Wakefulness is the way to life.

    The fool sleepsAs if he were already dead,

    But the master is awakeAnd he lives forever.

    He watches.

    He is clear.

    How happy he is!

    For he sees that wakefulness is life.How happy he is,

    Following the path of the awakened.

    The Buddha

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