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JESUS CHRIST

THE MAN

“DID YOU NOT KNOW I HAD TO BE IN MY FATHER’S HOUSE?” ~ LUKE 2:49 “GO SATAN, FOR IT IS WRITTEN…” (MATTHEW 4:10)

“JESUS WEPT…” ~ JOHN 6:35 “WOMAN WHERE ARE THEY? DID NO ONE CONDEMN YOU? ~ JOHN 8:10 “SEEING THE PEOPLE HE FELT COMPASSION FOR THEM… ~ MATTHEW 9:36

“YOU GIVE THEM SOMETHING TO EAT!” ~ MARK 6:37 “HE APPOINTED 12 SO THAT THEY WOULD BE WITH HIM…” ~ MARK 3:14

“IS NOT THIS THE CARPENTER?” ~ MARK 6:3 “YET NOT MY WILL, BUT YOUR WILL…” ~ MATTHEW 26:39

“FATHER, FORGIVE THEM… ~ LUKE 23:46 “BEHOLD, YOUR SON…BEHOLD YOUR MOTHER…” ~ JOHN 19:26-27

“GET BEHIND ME SATAN!” ~ MAT THEW 16:23 “HE WAS DETERMINED TO GO TO JERUSALEM…” ~ LUKE 9:51

JESUS IS…MANLINESS

BROKENNESS AND

BOLDNESS !

IS BEAUTIFUL IN A MAN’S BUILD

WOMB TO TOMB

• BROKENNESS = TAKING ON FAILURES AND FRAILTY !• BOLDNESS = EXUDING IN FEARLESSNESS AND FORCE

MATTHEW 23:10 DO NOT BE CALLED LEADERS; FOR ONE IS

YOUR LEADER, THAT IS, CHRIST.

Are you Led?MATTHEW 4:19

“FOLLOW ME AND I WILL MAKE YOU FISHERS OF MEN.”

Luke 16:15-24

JOHN 8:1-11 THE CIRCLE OF SUPERIORITY

Are you Broken?

THE CENTER OF SHAME

WHAT WAS IT LIKE TO BE AROUND JESUS?

Are you Bold?

LUKE 15:1-2 NEITHER DO I CONDEMN YOU, GO AND

SIN NO MORE!

KNOW !

SHOW !

GO

What is leading you right now? !

What sin should be breaking you? !

Do you lean towards sin or shame? !

What area of your life needs to “Go with Jesus?”

YOU, O

MAN OF GOD

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NOTHING SO CONCLUSIVELY PROVES A MAN’S ABILITY TO LEAD OTHERS BY WHAT

HE DOES FROM DAY TO DAY TO LEAD HIMSELF.

1 TIMOTHY 6:11-1211But as for you, O man of God, !

Flee these things. !

Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness. !12 Fight the good fight of the faith. !

Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called and about which you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses.

~ Paul

A voice came from heaven, “You are my beloved Son, with you I am well-pleased.”

mark 1:11

A Man’s Gospel

L O R D S H I P

L E A D E R S H I P

L O R D S H I P

L E A D E R S H I P

L A B O R L U S T

What do you need to Take Hold of now? !

What do you need to Flee right now? !

What do you need to Pursue right now? !

What do you need to Fight right now?

A ONE-WOMANED

MAN

1 Peter 3:7

“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way.”

EVERY HUSBAND IS RESPONSIBLE TO KNOW HIS OWN WIFE WELL ENOUGH TO APPLY GOD’S PRINCIPLES TO LIVING WITH HER…HE SHOULD LIVE WITH HER WHILE

TAKING INTO CONSIDERATION INFORMATION THAT IS CRUCIAL

~ STUART SCOTT

WEDDING CEREMONY

• Imaging God

• Imaging Gospel

• Imaging Grace

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GODKnowing and Being Known

“Come as you are” God

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GOSPEL

Dating vs. Maintaining

Becoming Bi-lingual

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GRACE

Covenant Commitment

First-Forgiver

What areas of your relationship require more leadership? !

My wife would be happier if… !

Which area of the aforementioned things needs the most accountability from others?

!Single Men: ask the married men what they think prepares

young men most for marriage.

A FAMILY

MAN

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YOU ARE REPLACEABLE IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE, EXCEPT THE HOME

SO I EXHORT THE ELDERS AMONG YOU, AS A FELLOW

ELDER AND A WITNESS OF THE SUFFERINGS OF CHRIST, AS

WELL AS A PARTAKER IN THE GLORY THAT IS GOING TO BE REVEALED: 2 SHEPHERD THE

FLOCK OF GOD THAT IS AMONG YOU, EXERCISING OVERSIGHT,[A] NOT UNDER

COMPULSION, BUT WILLINGLY, AS GOD WOULD HAVE YOU;

[B] NOT FOR SHAMEFUL GAIN, BUT EAGERLY; 1 PETER 5:1-2

HE MUST MANAGE HIS OWN HOUSEHOLD WELL, WITH ALL DIGNITY KEEPING HIS CHILDREN SUBMISSIVE, 5 FOR IF SOMEONE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO MANAGE HIS OWN HOUSEHOLD, HOW WILL HE CARE FOR GOD'S

CHURCH? 1 TIMOTHY 3:4-5

DEVOTIONALS !

DIRECTION !

DISCIPLINE !

DECISIONS

DEVOTIONALS BOYS BIBLE TIME

DIRECTION !

KNIGHT FAMILY CREED

DISCIPLINE REPLICATE CONSEQUENCES OF SIN

• Spanking • Time Out

DECISIONS

• Initiated • Invited • Informed • Influenced