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[email protected] Personality Types, Miniscripts & Adaptations Taibi Kahler www.pcmoceania.com process communication model can be utilised in so many different areas of life. in motivation, in conflict resolution, in learning how second by second, interaction by interaction an employee, colleague, family member or friend can be motivated to be the very best they can possibly be. The Process Model

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    Personality Types, Miniscripts & Adaptations

    Taibi Kahler

    www.pcmoceania.com

    process communication model can be utilised in so many different areas of life. in motivation, in conflict resolution, in learning how

    second by second, interaction by interaction an employee, colleague, family member or friend can be motivated to be the very best they can possibly be.

    The Process Model

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    Abstract

    TheauthorchronicleshisProcessModelfromtheminiscripttohisresearchbasedsixPersonalityTypes.PaulWaresDoorsareexpandedintosixperceptions,andhisAdaptationsareidentifiedinminiscriptbehaviorsofthreedegreesofdistress,includingDrivers,failuremechanisms,games,injunctions,rackets,egostates,roles,myths,issues,impasses,probableearlydecisions,andscripts.

    Newevidenceispresentedincontrasttoclassicaltheoryofthescriptingofcounterscriptsandinjunctions.

    ThesignificanceofDriversandscripts,andhowtodealwitheachisexplained.Treatmentapproachesforeachminiscript/Adaptationareoffered,withidentifyingthetransactionandperceptiontocontacteach,aswellastheissueuponwhichtofocus.ExamplesofintegratingGestalt,Rogerian,Cognitive,RationalEmotive,Behavior,andAsklepieiontherapiesaregiven.

    MyinterestinprocessbeganbyconcentratingonfunctionalanalysisanddiscoveringDrivers(19691971).Astheyweredefinedanddescribedasfunctionalcounterscripts,theywereobservablebywords,tones,gestures,posture,andfacialexpressions,unliketraditionalstructuralcounterscriptsthatweretheorizedandhypothesized.TheprocessadvantagesofDriversincludedassessingthemsecondbysecondtodifferentiatethemfromapositivefunctionalegostate,verifyingthattheylastedmomentarily,observingthattheyprecededrackets,anddeterminingthattheywerehousedfunctionallyinNPandAC.Furthermore,asDriverswereneitherobservableinanypositive(OKOK)functionalegostates,norinaCP,VC,orACwithrackets,alogicalcorollaryindicatedtheexistenceofafifthlifeposition:OKif(Ernst,1971;Kahler,1975a),whichfurthercorroboratedaprocesssequence.

    MyacademicinterestinprocessbeganwithmyMasterofSciencedegreethesis:Theeffectsofteachermanagementprocesscodeviavideotapefeedbackontheverbalbehaviorofstudentteachers(Kahler,1971).

    Withthediscoveryoftheminiscript(19711972),Ibecamemoreinterestedinprocesssequences:(1)anorderofcathectingnegativefunctionalegostates(KahlerwithCapers,1974,1975b);(2)anorderofinterringtheDramaTriangle(Karpman,1968;KahlerwithCapers,1974),withDriversattheRescuerorVictim(ofaRescuer)roles;(3)anorderofstartinggames,withDriversatConandGimmick.(Berne,1970;KahlerwithCapers,1974).Researchwasneeded.In1972IreceivedmydoctoratefromPurdueUniversity.IhadcreatedaTAinventoryanduseditinmyresearch:PredictingAcademicUnderachievementinNinthandTwelfthGradeMaleswiththeKahlerTransactionalAnalysisScriptChecklist(Kahler,1972).Interestedinfurthervalidatingmyinventory,Icontinuedtogatherdatawithit.Afterasufficientlylargesamplepopulationsize,Iconductedafactoranalysisandaskedastatisticsprofessorforhisevaluationandinterpretation.

    Theresultswereatfirstdisappointing,inthatthestrongestcorrelationswerejustwithDriversandscripts.Thestatistician,however,pointedouttomethatwhateverIwasresearchingdidhavesignificance.Thedatanaturallyfellintosix,mutuallyexclusiveclustersatahighenoughsignificancenottoberandom.

    SeveralyearslaterIrealizedthattheseclusterswereactuallythefoundationfortheProcessCommunicationModel(PCM)(Kahler,1982a)andtheProcessTherapyModelTM(PTM)(Kahler,1978)tobecomprisedofsixPersonalityTypes.

    Interestingly,thecorrelationsbetweentheDriversandmainlifescriptspresentedabreakthroughinscripttheory.SomeoftheoriginalTAtheoristspostulatedthatthescriptwasaresultofscriptinjunctions.MyresearchclearlyshowedcorrelationsbetweenDrivers(functionalcounterscripts)andthelifescripts.

    OfallhisworkIwasmostfascinatedbyBernesexplanationandinterpretationofthescriptdynamicsofMrs.Sayers,describedinhis1961bookTransactionalAnalysisinPsychotherapy(Berne,p.124).

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    Hehadanalyzedherbehaviorsecondbysecondanddiscoveredherwholelifescriptwhichshehadrepeatedlyplayedoutovervaryinglengthsoftimerangingfromapassingmomenttoseveralyears.Howincrediblethetelescopingofawholescriptintoafewseconds.

    Bythesummerof1971IhaddiscoveredhowDriversreinforcelifescriptsthousandsoftimesaday.AswemoveintoDrivers,energyisdrainedfromtheAdult,andthisaffectshowwe(preconsciously)structureourthoughts,asevidencedbyDrivercontaminatedsentencepatterns.(KahlerwithCapers,1974;Kahler,1975a;Kahler,1975c).Iconfirmedmostofmyobservationsbyaresearchstudy(Kahler,1982b),resultinginthefollowinginformation.

    1982KahlerCommunications,Inc.

    Inamannerofminutesitispossibletodetermineapersonswholelifescriptsimplybylisteningcarefullytosentencepatterns.Thishasshowntobeaccurateacrossculturesandlanguages.

    Ina1975articleintheTAJcalledScripts:ProcessandContent(Kahler),Iresolvedclassictheorywithcurrentscriptdiscoveriesintoasynthesizedmodel.Drivers(functionalcounterscripts)formthelifescript,

    andinjunctionsdeliveredfunctionallythroughCP,VC,andAC(+)determinetheintensityofthelifescript.

    So,aprocessLifeScriptisafalsebelieforiginatinginDrivers,reinforcedthroughsentencepatterns,andreplayedthroughoutlifeinintensityasafunctionofdistress.

    Knowingaclientsscriptallowsthetherapistpredictabilityofbehaviorintreatment.Thisisthecaseinlifeaswell:wefoundthispredictabilityofscriptsveryusefulinworkingwithastronautsatNASA(Kahler,2008,pp.241243).

    AfterScriptTheseclientsoveradapttononnurturingtherapists,andinsodoingmaysabotagetreatment.Theirexperienceis,Ihadafeelingthiswouldntwork.Ifeltthetherapistreallydidntlikeme.

    UntilScriptTheseclientsmayputoffdoingnew,therapysuggestedbehaviorsuntiltheycanbeassuredofdoingitperfectly.

    AlwaysScriptSomeoftheseclientsTryhardwithnonplayfultherapists,andmayendupleavingtherapy,blamingthetherapist.Someoftheseclientswhofendforthemselvesinlife,interpretnonconfrontationaltherapistsasineffectivevictims,andcornerthemwithmanipulationsofnonpayment,missedappointmentsorotherredefinitions.

    NeverScriptTheseclientsmayneverfinalizeanewtherapydecisionintoaction,especiallywithanondirectivetherapist.

    AlmostIScriptTheseclientsalmostgetwhattheywantmostfromtherapy.Thisismostlikelytohappenifthetherapistisnonnurturingandnonplayful.

    AlmostII(professional)ClientswiththisScriptwillappeartohavegottenwhattheywantedintreatmentbutdonotgeneralizeandincorporateitintotheirprofessionallife.

    AlmostII(personal)ClientswiththisScriptneedtodealwitheitherorboth,DontenjoyorDonthavefun.Iftheywillfailtodealwitheitherinjunction,theyarelikelytoplaythemartyrintheirrelationships.

    PaulWareandImetin1974,andbecamelifelongfriends.Afterattendedaweeklong

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    seminarIhaddoneinearly1975inDulzura,California,PaulhostedaseminarformelaterthatyearinShreveport,Louisiana,inwhichI:(1)presentedsixbasicminiscripts,eachreinforcingadifferentlifescript;and(2)demonstratedthepositivetransactionstoofferwhenapersonshowsaDriver.

    WhenofferedRespondwith

    Beperfect(formeoryou)A A

    Bestrong(formeoryou)+CP A

    TryhardFC FC

    Pleaseyou+NP FC

    ThesesixformsofthefiveDriverswerethosecorrelatedeachtoadifferentclusterintheoriginal1972research(Kahler,1982b),soIcontinuedtofocusprimarilyonthem.

    In1976PaulWareandIcoledamarathoninShreveport,Louisiana.

    WhatIhadbeendoingbyselectingdifferenttransactionstousetoconnectwithaclientdependingontheirprimaryDriver,Paulwasdoingwithselectingfeelings,thoughtsorbehaviorsinordertoconnectwithaperson.WhereasIfocusedoninterveningatbeginningdistressedbehavior(i.e.,withbeingpresentedaDriver),PaullookedatthepersonsOKfunctioning,anddeterminedhowbesttoconnectwiththeclientinhis/herpreferenceoffeelings,thoughts,orbehaviors.

    Note:SevenyearslaterPaulhadrefinedhisconceptoftherapydoors,andwhathecalledsixAdaptations,andwroteanarticleinthe1983TransactionalAnalysisJournalentitledPersonalityAdaptations(Ware).Thiswasamilestonecontributiontopsychotherapyasitfocusedontheindividualclient.

    In1977IfinishedTransactionalAnalysisRevisited(Kahler,1978).PaulWarewrotetheintroduction:TaibihasenlargedonhisProcessSchoolofTAhisProcessTherapywillbecomeanimportantcontributiontopsychology.ProcessTherapyisexplained,withcaseillustrations,clinicalapplications,andscript(tape)supervision.

    LaterthatyearIreceivedtheEricBerneMemorialScientificAwardfortheMiniscript(KahlerwithCapers,1974).

    In1978IwrotetheProcessCommunicationModelinBrief(Kahler,1978),andManagingwiththeProcessCommunicationModel:Selecting,Retaining,Motivating(Kahler,1979a).Ireasonedthatiftherearesixclustersofnegativebehavior(thesixscriptsandthesixclustersfromthe1972research),thentherearesixclustersofpositivebehaviors.HedgesCapers(1974)hadsuggestedtheOKminiscript.JackDusayhadconceivedoftheEgogram(1972),whichalthoughmeasuringbothpositiveandnegativeegostates,stillsuggestedthatwehaveanorderofpositiveegostatesinus.PaulWaresDoors(1983)stronglyarguedforanindividualpreferentialsequence.

    IcoinedthetermPersonalityTypestoemphasizethattheyarenotclinicaldiagnosticcategories,andthattheyhavepositivebehaviorsassociatedwiththem.MytermsarePersister,Reactor,Workaholic,Promoter,Rebel,andDreamer.PaulWareisreferencedforhisDoorsandAdaptations.

    In1979IwroteandpublishedtheProcessTherapyinBrief.(Kahler,1979b),inwhichI(1)separatedtheProcessCommunicationModel(fornonclinicalapplications)andtheProcessTherapyModel(forclinicalapplications)byusingdifferentterminology,referencingPaulWareandcallingthePersonalityTypeAdaptations:Doubters,Overreactors,Workaholics,Manipulators,Disapprovers,Daydreamers,andaddaseventh,Cyclers;(2)describedanddiagrammedtheminiscriptintermsofthreedegreesofdistresswords,tones,gestures,andfacialexpressionsaregivenforeach,aswellaslifepositions,myths,androles;(3)offeredhowtoassessaclient:Quadrize,Contactize,andDriverize;(4)created,presentedandexplainedtheAssessingMatrixTM:theverticalaxisisforgoal,thehorizontalforpeople.Activeindicatesinitiatingandinternalmotivation,whilePassiveindicatesexternalmotivation;(5)placedThoughts,Feelings,Reactions,andActionstheAssessingMatrix;(6)placedDriversontheAssessingMatrix;(7)putOverreactors,Doubters,Disapprovers,Manipulators,Daydreamers,Workaholics,andCyclerson

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    theAssessingMatrix;(8)suggestedtraits,Drivers,stoppers(functionalscriptinjunctions),rackets,games,scripts,anddynamicsforeachType;(9)showedDriversandscriptsontheAssessingMatrix;(10)providedatableforwhatpositivetransaction(Channel)andcontactareatousewitheachType;(11)gaveatableforthecontact,target,andtrapforeachType;and(12)offeredatablefortherapistclientpotentiallyincompatibleAdaptations.

    In1978ItheorizedthatpersonalitystructureiscomprisedofsixPersonalityTypes;discoveranddefinePhasesandPhasing;andbeginresearch.ForseveralyearsIhadbeenconceivingofpersonalitystructureasalayeringofsix"positive"PersonalityTypeswithineachindividual.Iwasnotjustlookingatclinical,distressed,ormaladaptivebehaviorsofpeople,butatallthepositivebehaviorsaswell.Ivisualizedasixfloorhouse,withadifferentsetofpositivepersonalitytraitsoneachfloor.IhypothesizedwhatthesepositivetraitswouldbeforeachofsixPersonalityTypes,thatIcalledReactors,Workaholics,Persisters,Dreamers,Rebels,andPromoters.(Inowwantedneutralterms,asIwasnotjustfocusingonmypreviousTAclinicalminiscriptviewofthem.)Suchhypothesizedtraitsincluded:characterstrengths,positiveegostates(personalityparts)andpositivetransactions(channelsofcommunication),perceptions,environmentalpreferences,managementandinteractionstyles,facialexpressions,home/officepreferences,andpsychologicalneedmotivators.Iwasnolongerlookingatjustasinglenegativepatternofapersonclinically,butratherseeingeachpersonashavingapersonalitystructuremadeupofsixPersonalityTypesavailabletohim,insomemeasurableorder.AsIcontemplatedthis,Iaskedmyselfquestionafterquestion:Whyarepeoplemotivatedbydifferentpsychologicalneedsatdifferenttimesintheirlives?WhydoesntapersonsprimaryDrivereverchangeeventhoughheorshemighthaveadifferentdistresssequence?Whydoesapersonhaveadifferentscriptatdifferenttimesintheirlife?Whydosomepeopledemonstratenotjustonebuttwodistresssequences,

    dependinguponthelevelofdistresstheyareunder?

    AsIaskedmyselfthesequestions,Ithoughtofhowmanypeoplechangethroughouttheirlifetime,asifgoingthroughpassagesgrowingfromthepaindifferentinattitude,butsameintheirbasicstructure.Irememberedwhatseemedlikedifferentphasesofmylife.AsIdid,IrealizedthatineachofthesephasesIhadadifferentminiscriptsequence,aswellasdifferentpsychologicalneeds,althoughIwasbasicallythesameperson.

    Ihadaburstofinsight.PeoplestartoutwiththeminiscriptthatmatchesthefirstorBaseflooroftheirsixfloorpersonalitycondominium.Whentheydontgetthepsychologicalneed(s)associatedwiththePersonalityTypeonthatfloormetpositively,theyshowtheminiscriptofthatTypeinordertogetthesameneedmetnegatively.

    Furthermore,eachminiscripthasakeyissueassociatedwithit.Ifapersondoesnotdealwiththatissue,hewillbestuckinthatfloorrelatedminiscript.Whenhefinallyexperiencestheunderlyingauthenticfeelingandresolvestheissue,hewillthenPhasetohisnextfloor,andhaveanewminiscript,newpotentialissue,andnewpsychologicalneedmotivationinhislife.Hestillwillhavetherelativeorderofpositivecharacteristicsoftheirpersonalitystructure,justmore.

    Researchwasneeded.Thetimingwasperfect.IhadbeenhiredbyDr.TerryMcGuire,NASAspsychiatristinchargeofselectionandcrewmanagement,toworkwithhiminchoosingastronauts.Hundredsofthebestofthebestwerebeinginterviewed,butweneededamoreefficientselectionprocess.NASAhelpedfundaresearchvalidationofapencilandpaperinventorytodowhatweweredoinginperson.Itgavemetheopportunitytoexpandintononclinicalapplications,aswellastestmyhypotheses.

    Theresearchtookseveralyears.Byearly1982theresearchwascompletedwithinterestingresults(Kahler,1982b).Nowthe1972researchmadesense.WhenIwentbacktoitandinsertedthenewhypothesis,

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    thedatabecamesignificantatthe>.01level(Kahler,2008,p.271).ThereasonthatIdidnotgetthecorrelationalsignificanceatfirstwasthatIdidntfactorinPhasinginlife.Forexample,onlyoneoutofthreepeoplewithaPleaseyoudriver(BaseReactorPersonalityType)willhavealloftheaforementionedminiscriptbehaviors,becausetheyhavenotPhased.TwooutofthreeoftheseReactorswillhavePhased,andconsequentlywillhaveadifferentdistresssequencethatofthefloorPersonalityTypeofthePhase.ThePersonalityPatternInventoryTMwasvalidatedbothforclinicalandnonclinicalapplications(Kahler,1982b).

    TheseresearchfindingsincludedconfirmationofthesixpositivePersonalityTypes,eachwithitsownmeasuredamountofenergyandorderofcharacterstrengths,environmentalpreference,perception,psychologicalneeds,managementstyle,personalitypart,andchannel.TheresearchalsoidentifiedthenormalmanagementdistresssequenceofthecurrentPhasetheindividualisin,aswellastheseveremanagementdistresssequenceofhisfirstfloorBasePersonalityType.IvalidatedthateachPersonalityTypehasacertainpsychologicalneed(s),andthatwhennotmetpositively,theindividualwillattempttogettheverysameneed(s)metnegativelywithorwithoutawareness.ThisshowedhowandwhyPCMcouldaccuratelypredictdistressbehaviorsinastronautsandtherestofus.

    In1982IwroteandpublishedtheProcessCommunicationManagementSeminarwithprofilereport(Kahler,1982a)andtheProcessCommunicationModelSeminarwithprofilereport(Kahler,1983),eachcomputergeneratedbypaperandpencilPersonalityPatternInventory(Kahler,1982b).Theresultsoftheresearchstudieswereputinseminarmaterial,copyrightedandregistered,withthefirst3dayseminarinApril,1982.InattendanceweresuchTAnotablesasHedgesCapers,MichaelBrown,andLucieKing.

    Thedatathatwasderivedfromtheresearchincludedthefollowing:

    (1)PersonalityTypesarecorrelatedtobothpositiveandnegativebehaviors.PaulWares3DoorsareshowntobesixmutuallyexclusiveDoors,behaviorallyobservableasperceptions;

    WareDoorsKahlerResearchPerceptions

    FeelingsEmotions

    ThoughtsThoughtsOpinions

    ActionsBehaviorsReactions(likes/dislike)Inactions(reflections)

    Inotherwords,eachtimeapersonisinanOKOKplace(i.e.,ononeofthepersonalityfloorsofhis/hercondominium),s/heenergizesthatperceptionandexperienceslifethatway,asreflectedbybehaviorsespeciallywords.ThefollowinggivesabeginningunderstandingofthesePersonalityTypeperceptionwords(Kahler,1982a).

    Thoughts(logic)floor:IthinkWhatoptionsDoesthatmeanWhoWhatWhenWherefactsinformationdatatimeframes

    Emotions(compassion)floor:IfeelImcomfortablewithIcarehappysadIloveclosefamily

    Opinions(values)floor:InmyopinionWeshouldIbelieverespectvaluesadmirationcommitmentdedicationtrust

    Inactions(reflections)floor:NotsureWaitformoredirectionHoldbackEasypaceOwnspaceDoesntmatterYourchoice

    Reactions(likes/dislikes)floor:WowIlikeIdontlike[hate]Dontwant[fun,slangphrases]CantstandGreat!Yes!

    Actions(initiatives)floor:BottomlineMakeithappenGoforitEnoughtalkGiveityourbestshot[imperatives]

    (2)EachTypehas:astrongestpositiveegostate,apositivetransactionituses,threesignificantcharacterstrengths,anenvironmentalpreference,andmanagementstyle;

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    (3)Predictability.Psychologicalneed(s)areidentifiedforeachPhaseType(whennotmetpositively,resultinthatsamePhaseTypeminiscript2ndor3rddegreebehavior).Negative:eachTypehasitsown3degreedistresssequence(miniscript),withitsownDriver,FailureMechanism,role,myth,injunctions,games,majorracket,negativeegostate(VC,CP,orAC),Script,andPayoff.Thesebehaviorswerepresentedinmanagement(PCM)andclinicalpresentations(PTM);

    (4)WareAdaptations(1983).Connectionswereidentifiedtoclassicaldiagnoses:ReactorminiscriptcouldwarrantHystericaldiagnosis;WorkaholicminiscriptcouldwarrantObsessiveCompulsivediagnosis;PersisterminiscriptcouldwarrantParanoiddiagnosis;Dreamerminiscriptcouldwarrantschizoiddiagnosis;RebelminiscriptcouldwarrantPassiveAggressivediagnosis;andPromoterminiscriptcouldwarrantAntisocialdiagnosis;

    (5)Newscriptingevidence.ThereexistsasignificantcorrelationbetweenaDriverandasinglePersonalityType.Inotherwords,agivenPersonalityTypewillhaveaspecificDriverandassociatedwithit,nomatterwhatthescriptingisoftheparents.Forexample,WorkaholicBaseindividualswillhaveaprimaryBeperfectDriver,nomatterwhatinjunctionsorcounterinjunctionsaredeliveredbytheirparents.Therefore,averbal,consciousdecisionofacounterscriptinresponsetothe(parental)environmentasoriginallyproposedbySteiner(1966)andthenothers(e.g.,JoinesandStewart(2002))isnotsubstantiatedbyresearchcorrelations.However,parentsmaywellpassonsecondaryDriversandsecondaryinjunctions,aswellasinfluencewithotherenvironmentalfactorstheorderofPersonalityTypesmakinguptheindividualsstructure;

    (6)Whenthepsychologicalneed(s)ofthePhasearenotmetpositively,apersonappearstoattempttogetthesameone(s)metnegatively,andwithapredictableminiscriptsequence,thetemplateofwhichvariesforinjunctions[dependingonthosedealtwithinpreviousPhasesandthosereinforcedbyparents],games,andscripts[e.g.,aReactorBasepersoninaRebel

    PhasewillnothaveanAlwaysscript,butratheranAlmostI];

    (7)PrimaryDriversandPersonalityTypes.ThereisoneandonlyoneprimaryDriverassociatedwitheachPersonalityType:twoParentDriversandfourChildDrivers,oneforeachType.AllotherDriversservelittlepurposeclinically;

    (8)HowtoidentifyaDriver:AllfivebehavioralcuesarerequiredtoconfirmtheDriver.Drivershavenorackets(feelings),lastonlyasecondortwo,precedeCP,VC,orAC[+],andreinforceabehaviorallifepositionofOKifThefollowingsimplifiesDriveridentification(Kahler,1982a).

    WorkaholicType:BeperfectforyouOverqualifyingstatement:Imnotexactlysure.

    ReactorType:PleaseyouOveradapted:Maybeyoucould

    PersisterType:Beperfectforme Overqualifyingquestion:Whatexactlydoyou?

    RebelType:TryhardforyouNotwantingtounderstand:Huh...Idontgetit.

    DreamerType:BestrongforyouStatementsuggestingothersorthingsareresponsibleforthoughtsorfeelings:Ithurts.Itcametome.Thatfeels.

    PromoterType:BestrongformeYouwhenreferencingself:Whenyourepresenting,you

    (9)ConfrontingDrivers.SinceDriverbehaviormaybelinkedto2nddegreeimpasseconsequences,pointingouttheDriverisnotadvisable;norismerelygivingpermissiontostopit.DriversaremostoftenanadvertisementthattheindividualisrunningoutofenergyattemptingtorespondtooffersfromaPersonalityBaseTypedifferentfromhis/hers.Inotherwords,whenapositivetransactionand/orperceptionisofferedthatrequirestheindividualtomovetothatreceivingfloor,andtheindividualhasnottheenergytodoso(thisbandwidthenergyisverifiableandidentifiedbyourinventoryforegostate,transaction,andperception),s/hewillshowtheDriverofhis/herBasePersonalityType,thusele

  • The Process Model: Personality Types, miniscripts, and Adaptations

    gantlyadvertisingtotheotherpersonwhatpositivetransactionandperceptionwouldbeaccepted.Forexample,aWorkaholicBase(A Awiththoughts)individualwithReactor(+NP FCwithemotions)onhisfourthfloor,hasrunoutofenergytomovetothatfloor,foranynumberofpossiblereasonsperhapsheisseeingaRogeriantherapistorReactorBasetherapist,whonaturallyusesoftenhis/herownfavoritetransactionandperception(+NP FCwithemotions)(Kahler,1982a).

    ConfrontingDrivers

    ThefollowingareexamplesofeachDriver,followedbythecombinationofperceptionandtransactionalofferaimedatthePersonalityTypeBaseadvertisedbythatDriver:

    Tryhard(C):Huh.IdontgetDrivers.

    FC FC+Reactions(likes/dislikes):Weh!IhateitwhenIdontgetit.Pleaseyou(C):MaybeyoucouldsaymoreaboutDrivers.

    +NP FC+Emotions:Thankyou.IfeelDriversareimportanttoreview.Beperfect(C):ImnotexactlysurewhataDriveris.

    A A+Thoughts:IthinkareviewofDriverswouldbegoodinformationforusall.DoyouhaveapreferenceastowhichDriverwediscussfirst?Beperfect(P):WhatexactlyisaDriver?

    A A+Opinions:ThebeliefinProcessTherapyisthataDriverisabehaviorthatstartsadistresssequences.Dobelievethatcouldbeofvalueinfamilycommunications?Bestrong(C):ItoccurredtomethateveryoneshowsDrivers.

    +CP A+Inactions(reflections):Reflectonit,andimaginehoweveryoneshowsaDriver.Bestrong(P):Youwanttogetoutofthislectureandmakeithappen.

    CP A+Actions:Goforit.

    (10)EvidencesupportstheconceptthatpersonalitystructureiscomprisedofsixPersonalityTypes,inorder,likenedtoasixfloorPersonalityCondominium,withastrongestBaseTypeandPhase,whichdeterminestheforegroundpsychologicalneedsanddeterminesthecorrespondingminiscript.(720positivecondominiumorders,eachwithsixpossiblePhaseType,equaling4,320totalpersonalitycombinations;however,onlysixminiscripts,eachvaryinginPhasegames,injunctions,andscripts);

    (11)Connectingwiththeclient.WhateverPersonalityTypeisBase(firstfloor),iswheretoconnectwiththeclient.PaulWare(2009)agreesthatthiscorrespondstohisContactDoor,butexpandedtoincludeoneofthesixperceptions.Inotherwords,atherapistinterestedinmovingintoaclientsframeofreferencehassixpairsofperceptionplustransactionfromwhichtochoose.ThisassessmentcanbefacilitatedbyknowingthecorrelatedbehaviorsofeachPersonalityType(Kahler,1982a);

    (12)Interpretingtheclientsdistress.WhateverthePhaseisdeterminesthecorrespondingminiscriptdistresstheclientisin,therebytargetingforthetherapistthecorrespondinginjunctions,games,failuremechanisms,rackets,myth,role,andscript;

    (13)DontassumeagivenAdaptationhasacertaininjunction.(Ware,1983;Joines,1986).MaryGouldingbelievedthatanyonecouldhaveanyoftheinjunctions,whileshetoldmethatBobGouldingconsideredthattheremaybecertaininjunctionscorrelatedwithdifferentdiagnoses.(Goulding,1982,2008).Myfindingsindicatedtheywerebothright.

    BasePersonalityTypeshaveagivenprimaryinjunction,nomatterwhattheinjunctionscriptingoftheparents.ThisisbecausethisbasicinjunctionservestodefendagainstthedealinginahealthywayofthemoreimportantissueofthePersonalityType.

    Secondaryinjunctionsmayalsobeinherent,andmaywellincludethepassingonofparentalinjunctionsidentifiedinclassical

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    T.A.(Steiner,1966).ThefollowingtableidentifiesthecorrelationsfortheBasePersonalityTypeandprimaryinjunctions.(ThesecorrelationswouldalsoberelevantfortheassociatedAdaptations).

    Miniscript/AdaptationandInjunction

    BaseTypePrimaryinjunction

    DreamerDontmakeit

    PromoterDontbeclose

    PersisterDonttrust

    ReactorDontfeelanger

    RebelDontgrowup

    WorkaholicDontfeelgrief

    PhasePersonalityTypes(currentfloordeterminingpositivepsychologicalneeds,andcorrespondingforsamenegativeneeds,asreflectedinthatTypeminiscript)showalayeringeffectofinjunctions,games,andscripts.Therefore,sincetwothirdsofthegeneralpopulationhaveadifferentBaseandPhase,onecannotassumethatagivenAdaptationthereforehasagiveninjunction.(ThisisalsotrueforassumingthatwecanlookatatablelistingAdaptationswithagivenscriptorgame.)Furthermore,sincetheAdaptationisdeterminedbythePhase,onecannotlookupthatAdaptationonatable,andthenmakecontactusingthatsuggestedperception(Door)andtransaction,becausetheBasePersonalityTypeisstillthecontactareaforperceptionandtransaction.

    Forexample,consideraWorkaholic(Base)inasecondfloorRebelPhase.WecontactclientsatBase.Inthiscase,usingA A,andintheperceptionofthoughts.(Remember,shouldweusetoooftenotherpositivetransactionsorotherperceptionsthatthisclientrunsoutofpsychicenergytowhichtorespond,s/hewillalertuswiththeBaseBeperfectDriver.ThisremindsustoreturntoA Aandthoughts.)

    RebelPhasemeansthatthispersonspsychologicalneedsarenowplayfulcontacthumor,fun,play,creativity,sports,music,art,etc.TheminiscriptisthereforethatalsoofaRebel,whichifintenseenoughcouldwarrantadiagnosisofPassiveAggressive

    Adaptation.WeknowthatthisWorkaholicPhasedearlierinlifebyhavingamajorloss,spenttimerepressingorsuppressingsadness,probablysabotagedarelationshiporajob,andfinallygrieved,thusPhasingtohis/hernextfloor,whichhappenedtobeRebel.

    AlthoughaBaseRebelwouldhaveaprimaryinjunctionofDontgrowup,aBaseWorkaholicinaRebelPhase(WorkaholicRebel)wouldnothavethisinjunction.Whynot?BecausetheWorkaholichasgrownup(infact,alwayswasgrownup),becausehis/herthoughtsperceptionpermeatestheworldthroughtheAdult,aidedbycharactertraitsofbeingresponsible,logical,andorganized.ThisWorkaholicRebelwouldhavenoprimaryinjunction,butinterestingly,wouldhaveacarryoversecondaryBaseinjunctionofDontenjoy,plusnowwhateverparental(i.e.,environmental)secondaryinjunctions.ThiswouldalertthetherapistastowhythisclientisnotlikelytobesuccessfultotallyingettingRebelPhasepsychologicalneedofcontactmetpositively.Thisclientcanhavefun,butnotcontinuetheenjoyment.And,s/heislikelyusingthelackofjoyasfueltoblamesomeoneelse.(Thisstructureisoftengivenrisetothephrasemidlifecrises);

    (15)Whattoavoid.WhateveristhesixthflooroftheindividualsPersonalityCondominiumdetermineswhatthetherapistshouldavoidaddressing,intermsofofferingtherelatedpositivetransactionandperception.Thiswouldalsoincludeexpectingtheclienttobeabletocathectorutilizethatfloorrelatedegostateorcharacterstrengths.Evidenceoftheclientsinability(i.e.,notvisitingthesixthfloorveryoften,andhenceleaststrongthere)torespondonthissixthfloorwouldbetheclientcounteringwiththeDriverofhis/herBasePersonalityType.PaulWare(2009)nowagreesthatthiscorrespondstohisTrapDoor,thusexpandingthreetosixtoavoidpossibilitiesofperception,andincludingtheassociatedtransactiontoavoid;

    (16)Howtotreatscripts.ThescriptofthePhaseisformedbythecombinationsoftheBaseandPhaseDrivers(aswellasanyfloorTypesinbetween).However,recallthatascriptdoesnotbecomeaproblemunless

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    2ndor3rddistressisinvolved.Andthemostcommonreasonapersonexperiencesthislevelofdistressisthats/heissettlingforgettinghis/herpsychologicalneedsmetnegatively,whenthosesamepsychologicalneedswerenotmetpositively.

    Therefore,thebesttreatmentfordealingwiththescriptissimplytogetthepsychologicalneedsofthePhasemetpositivelyonaregularbasis.(AnyinjunctionsinhibitingthisshouldbeaddressedsothatthepositivesatisfyingofthesePhaseneedscanaffordsocialcontrolandsymptomaticrelieftotheclient,aswellashelpingtoavoidplayingoutthescriptwiththetherapist.)

    IoriginallythoughtthatpermissionsandsocialcontrolAdultdecisionswerethewaytodealwithscripts.Forexample,withtheUntilscript:1)Dotheworknowwithclient,notlater;2)Keepworkshort;OKtoworkbeforeitsallfigured.

    IwassoquotedinStanWoollamsandMichaelBrownsTA:Thetotalhandbookoftransactionalanalysis(WoollamsandBrown,1979).Theydevotedanentiresectiontomywork:Unit10,TheScriptinAction:ProcessandContentpp.191216,andlistScriptDisruptions,identifyingthecontentofmyseverallecturesattheirHuronValleyInstitute.

    ThisoutdatedreferencewasunintentionallycreditedtoBrownandWoollamsandpropagatedinPersonalityAdaptations(StewartandJoines,2002,p.201).

    FundamentalsofPersonalityStructure:thesixPersonalityTypes

    By1982theidentificationoftheProcessTherapyModelpresentationshadbecomecomputerized.Thereare720waysoforderingthesixPersonalityTypestoformanindividualspersonalitycondominium.FirstfloorisconsideredtheBaseType.

    ThePersonalityPatternInventory(PPI)(Kahler,1982b)measurestherelativeamountofenergyavailableoneachfloorneededtocathectthecorrespondingegostate,positivetransactionandperception.

    Anexampleof1ofthese720combinationsfollows:aBaseReactor,secondfloorWorkaholic,thirdfloorPersister,fourthfloor

    floorDreamer,fifthfloorRebel,andsixthfloorPromoter.Inordertogiveallsixminiscripttemplatevariations,Iwillpresenthowthispersonspersonalitydynamicswouldbothremainthesame(i.e.,orderofpositiveegostates,positivetransactions,perceptions,andcharacterstrengths)throughouthislifetime,buthowhisdistressedbehaviorwouldlookifhehadPhasedfivetimes.Phasingoccurswhen:

    (1)wearepresentedinlifewithanunresolvedissuefromachildhoodDevelopmentalStage(Kahler,2008);(2)donotdealinahealthywaywithit;(3)stayin2nddegreePhaseTypeminiscriptbehaviorintenselyandconsistently,sooftenastowarrantalabelofanAdaptation;(4)finallyexperiencetheunderlyingauthenticemotion,whichliftsusuptothenextPersonalityTypefloorinourcondominium,resultinginnewpsychologicalneeds,andanewpotentialminiscriptwithitsrelatedissue.

    Whatisimportanttonoticeishowtheinjunctions,games,andscriptsvaryasafunctionofthispersonspersonalitycondominiumstructure.ItshowsclearlyhowwecannotmakesimpletablelistsofAdaptationscomparedtoinjunctions,games,andscripts,butratherneedtoseetheentirepersonalitystructurepictureoftheindividual.

    1982KahlerCommunications,Inc.

    IfthisReactorBaseclientwerealsoinaReactorPhase,theminiscriptwouldbe:

    PsychologicalNeeds:

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    RecognitionofpersonandSensory

    1stDriver:Pleaseyou

    DefenseMechanism:Introjection

    2ndFailureMechanism:Makesmistakes

    WarningSignals:Invitescriticism.

    Showsselfdoubt.

    Myth:Youcanmakemefeelbademotionally.

    Position:ImNotOKYoureOK

    Mask:Drooper(AC)

    Majorrackets:Sad.Confused.

    Role:VictimlookingforaPersecutor.

    Games*:Kickme.Stupid.

    Primaryinjunction*:Dontfeelangry.

    PotentialSecondaryinjunctions*:

    Dontbeimportant.Dontgrowup.

    3rdPayoff:

    Feelsunconditionallyrejectedasaperson.

    Depressedandunloved.

    Script*:After

    *TheProcessTherapyModelProfileTM,generatedfromtheclientsPersonalityPatternInventory,identifieseachoftheseelements,whichvaryforeachcombinationofBaseandPhase.

    Myth:FromFourMyths,(Kahler,1978a,b)

    Role:FromtheDramaTriangle,(Karpman,1968)

    IfthisReactorBaseclientPhasesagain,s/hewouldbeinaWorkaholicPhase,andtheminiscriptwouldbe:

    PsychologicalNeeds:

    RecognitionofworkandTimestructure

    1stDriver:Beperfectforyou

    DefenseMechanism:Rationalization

    2ndFailureMechanism:Overcontrols

    WarningSignals:Frustratedwithotherwhodontthinkclearly.

    Myth:Icanmakeyoufeelbademotionally.

    Position:ImOKYoureNotOK

    Mask:Attacker(CP)

    Majorracket:Frustratedlyangry.

    Role:PersecutorlookingforaVictim.

    Games*:NIGYSOB.Uproar.

    Primaryinjunction*:

    PotentialSecondaryinjunctions*:

    Donthavefun.Dontenjoy.Dontgrow

    Dontgrowup.Dontbeimportant

    3rdPayoff:Experiencesnegativerecognitionforworkorideas.

    Depressedandworthless.

    Script:AlmostII(professional)

    Note:ThereisnoPrimaryinjunctionofDontfeelgrief,asthisisnotaproblemforthePhasedReactor.SecondaryinjunctionsfromtheReactorBasenowincludeDontgrowupandDontbeimportant.AlthoughtheprimaryscriptforaWorkaholicisUntil,aReactorinaWorkaholicPhasewillnotexperienceanUntil,butratheraprofessionalAlmostII.

    IfthisReactorBaseclientPhasesagain,s/hewouldbeinaPersisterPhase,andtheminiscriptwouldbe:

    PsychologicalNeeds:

    RecognitionofworkandConviction

    1stDriver:Beperfectforme

    DefenseMechanism:Projection

    2ndFailureMechanism:Pushesbeliefs

    WarningSignals:Frustratedwithotherswhodontbelievethesame.

    Myth:Icanmakeyoufeelbademotionally.

    Position:ImOKYoureNotOK

    Mask:Attacker(CP)

    Majorracket:Righteouslyangry.

    Role:PersecutorlookingforaVictim.

    Games*:NIGYSOB.Whydontyou.

    Primaryinjunction*:Donttrust

    PotentialSecondaryinjunctions*:

    Donthavefun.Dontenjoy.

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    3rdPayoff:Experiencesnegative

    recognitionforworkorconvictions.

    Depressedandhopeless.

    Script:AlmostII(personal)

    Note:ThesecondaryinjunctionsforaPersisterBaseincludedDontbelongandDontbeclose.AsthisclienthasPhasedthroughReactor,theseinjunctionsnolongerareproblematic.AndasthisclienthasPhasedthroughWorkaholic,DontbeimportantandDontgrowuphavealsobeendealtwith.AlthoughtheprimaryscriptforaPersisterisUntil,aReactor,Workaholic,inaPersisterPhasewillnotexperienceanUntil,butratheranAlmostIIinpersonallife.

    IfthisReactorBaseclientPhasesagain,s/hewouldbeinaDreamerPhase,andtheminiscriptwouldbe:

    PsychologicalNeed:Solitude

    1stDriver:Bestrongforyou

    DefenseMechanism:Dissociation

    2ndFailureMechanism:Withdraws

    WarningSignals:Passivelywaits.

    Doesntinitiate.

    Myth:Youcanmakemefeelbademotionally.

    Position:ImNotOKYoureOK

    Mask:Drooper(AC)

    Majorracket:Insignificant.Inadequate.

    Role:VictimlookingforaPersecutor.

    Games*:

    Primaryinjunction*:

    PotentialSecondaryinjunction*:

    Donthavefun.

    3rdPayoff:Experiencesnegative

    solitude.Depressedandlistless.

    Script:Never

    Note:TheprimaryinjunctionforaDreamerBaseisDontmakeit,andsecondaryinjunctionofDontbeimportant,bothofwhichhavebeendealtwithbyhaving

    PhasedthroughWorkaholic.TheothersecondaryinjunctionsforaDreamerBaseincludeDontbelongandDontbelose.

    AsthisclienthasPhasedthroughReactor,theseinjunctionsnolongerareproblematic.AlthoughtheprimaryscriptforaPersisterisUntil,aReactor,Workaholic,inaPersisterPhasewillnotexperienceanUntil,butratheranAlmostIIinpersonallife.Alsonoticethateventhoughavictimlookingforapersecutor,nogamesareidentified,asthispersonwithdrawsindistress,notneedingtransactionalgamedynamicstointernalizepersecution.

    IfthisReactorBaseclientPhasesagain,s/hewouldbeinaRebelPhase,andtheminiscriptwouldbe:

    PsychologicalNeed:Playfulcontact

    1stDriver:Tryhardforyou

    DefenseMechanism:Displacement

    2ndFailureMechanism:Blames

    WarningSignals:Negativeandcomplaining.

    Blameless.

    Myth:Youcanmakemefeelbademotionally,soIllmakeyoufeelworse.

    Position:ImOKYoureNotOK

    Mask:Blamer(VC)

    Majorracket:Vengeful.Bored.

    Role:PersecutorlookingforaVictim.

    Games*:Yesbut.SWYMMD,IIWFY,Corner,Schlemiel

    Primaryinjunction*:

    PotentialSecondaryinjunction*:Donthavefun.

    3rdPayoff:Experiencesnegativecontact.Depressedandhelpless.

    Script:Always

    Note:TheprimaryinjunctionforRebelBaseisDontgrowup,andsecondaryofDontmakeit,bothofwhicharedealtwithhavingPhasedthroughWorkaholic.TheRebelsecondaryinjunctionofDontbecloseisdealtwithhavingPhasedthroughReactor.TheWorkaholicandPersistersecondaryinjunctionofDonthavefunstilllingers

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    ironicallyasapossibleinjunctionforthisRebelPhaseclient.

    IfthisReactorBaseclientPhasesagain,s/hewouldbeinaPromoterPhase,andtheminiscriptwouldbe:

    PsychologicalNeed:Incidence

    1stDriver:Bestrongforme

    DefenseMechanism:Seduction

    2ndFailureMechanism:Manipulates

    WarningSignals:Setsuparguments.

    Createsnegativedrama.

    Myth:Icanmakeyoufeelbademotionally,

    Position:ImOKYoureNotOK

    Mask:Blamer(VC)

    Majorracket:Vindictive.

    Role:PersecutorlookingforaVictim.

    Games*:LYHF,RAPO,Schlimazel

    Primaryinjunction*:

    PotentialSecondaryinjunction*:

    3rdPayoff:Experiencesnegativeincidenceanddrama.Depressedandabandoned.

    Script:Always

    Note:TheprimaryinjunctionforPromoterBaseisDontbeclose,andsecondaryofDontbelong,bothofwhicharedealtwithhavingPhasedthroughReactor.ThePromotersecondaryinjunctionofDontmakeisdealtwithhavingPhasedthroughWorkaholic.ThePromotersecondaryinjunctionofDonttrustisdealtwithhavingPhasedthroughPersister.ThepassedalongWorkaholicandPersistersecondaryinjunctionofDonthavefunisdealtwithhavingPhasedthroughRebel.Othersecondaryinjunctionsfromparentsmaywarrantinvestigating.

    From1978to1982IlecturedontheseProcessModelconceptsatTAConferences,Institutes,trainings,andinvitationalgatherings;amongthem:August1978,attheI.T.A.A.Conference,Montreal,Canada;July1979,atthe5thAnnualEuropeanAssociationofTransactionalAnalysis,Paris,France;

    August1979,attheI.T.A.A.Conference,Snowmass,CO.;December1979,atthe7thAnnualMidwestT.A.Conference,Dearborn,MI.;January1980,attheWinterCongressoftheInternationalTransactionalAnalysisAssociationConference,SanAntonio,TX.;February1982,attheDivisiondeEstudiosSuperiores,FacultaddeContraduriaYAdministracion,UniversidadAutonomadeChihuahua,Mexico;August1982,attheEuropeanTransactionalAnalysisBusinessConference,Ibiza,Spain.

    DuringtheseyearsmyaudiencesincludedVannJoinesandIanStewart.Vann,whenIpresentedmyProcessModelofsixPersonalityTypesathisSoutheastInstituteinChapelHill,andIanwhenItrainedinLondon,Englandin1981.AsIanwritesintheprefaceofhisandVannsbook,PersonalityAdaptations(2002),Aboveall,IwanttoacknowledgetheworkandgenerosityofTaibiKahlerPhD,who,alongwithPaulWareMD,developedmuchofthematerialdescribedinthisbook.ItwasTaibiwho(atamemorabletrainingworkshopinLondon,1981)firstbroughthometomethepowerandusefulnessofthemodelofpersonalityAdaptationsandtherelatedideasthatmakeuphisProcessModel.(AlthoughJoinesandStewartagreethatwhattheycalltheProcessModelintheirbookismywork,confusionhasarisen,primarilyduetotheirreferencingmyProcessModel,mostlyinitsoutdated,1970spublications.)

    In1983PaulWarepresentedhistheoryofPersonalityAdaptations,publishedintheJanuaryissueoftheTransactionalAnalysisJournal(Ware).

    PaulandIhadlittlecontactfrom1978to1998,aswewerebothbusywithourcareersPaulwithclinicaltraining,privatepractice,andhospitalwork,andmewithstartingaU.S.andinternationalbusiness.SoPaulwasnotawareofmyresearch,whichhadclassifiedhisDoorsintosixmutuallyexclusiveperceptions,eachcorrelatedtoaPersonalityType,withitsownpositivetransaction,northateachTypehadaprimaryDriverandscriptinjunctioncorrelatedtoit.

    PaulisnowinagreementwiththeProcessModelpresentations,includingthatthe

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    orderofthesecondandthirdDoorsforeachAdaptationmayvary,dependingonwhattheorderoffloors26areinapersonsPersonalityCondominium.Forexample,althoughmostHystericalAdaptations[distressedReactorPersonalityType]willhavethoughtsasthenextDoorstatistically,somewillhaveadifferentPersonalityTypeastheirsecondfloor,resultinginopinions[Persister],reactions[Rebel],actions[Promoter],orinactions[Dreamer]next.

    TheIssueistheTarget

    In1985IdiscoveredtheissueforeachPhaseType,andbegancollectingdata.Ihypothesizedtheearlydecisionimpasseforeachminiscript.

    IfoundthatiftheclientdoesnotaddressthePhaseissue(immediately)withanauthenticresponse,heorshecovers(repressesorsuppresses)itwiththesamePhaseminiscript,stayingatseconddegreeoftenandintenselyenoughtowarrantanAdaptationlabel.Theseissuesarethetargetdoorforthetherapist.ThisclarifieswhichauthenticemotionandearlydecisionisinvolvedintreatmentforeachType.

    Thepreviouslyhypothesizedtargetdoormaybeabyproductoftherapy,butnotthetargetissue.Inotherwords,thetargetisthedistressed,unresolvedissue.DealingwiththisissueresultsinthepersonPhasingtothenextflooroftheircondominium,inwhicharehousedthepositiveperceptualDoorsofthoughts,opinions,emotions,reactions,actions,orinactions.So,WaresterminologyoftheTargetDoorisnottheclinicaltarget,buttheresultingpositiveevidenceofthenewPhasefloorperception,indicatingthatthepersonhasdealtwiththeoldPhaseissue.PaulWarenowagreeswiththis(Ware,2009).

    Thefollowingtableidentifiestheissuethatwillcausetheminiscript/Adaptation[distressed]behavioruntilthatissueisresolved.AtwhichtimethepersonwillPhasetothenextfloorofhis/hercondominiumandhaveanewpsychologicalneedandnewminiscript.NotethateachissueistheonlykeytoPhasingforthatPhase.Notealsothatafeelingmaybearacketorauthentic,dependingwhetheritisexperi

    encedfromanegativeegostateorpositiveone.

    MiniscriptPhaseEmotion

    [Adaptation][Targetissue][Racket][Auth.]

    Reactorangersadangry[Hysterical]Probableimpasse:Theearlydecisionislikelytobe,IfIexpressmyangeratyou,Iwillhavehurtyourfeelingsand/oryouwillrejectme.ThereforeIwillpleaseyouandholdinanger.

    Workaholiclossfrustratedlyangrysad[ObsessiveCompulsive]Probableimpasse:Theearlydecisionislikelytobe,IfIdontdothethinkingforyou,thensomethingbadwillhappen.ThereforeIwillbeperfectandnotmakeanymistakes,andaslongasIamcriticalofyounotthinkingclearlyIcanavoidmygrief.

    Persisterfearrighteouslyangryafraid[Paranoid]Probableimpasse:Theearlydecisionislikelytobe,IfIdontmakesureyoubelievetherightwayanddotherightthings,thensomethingbadwillhappen.ThereforeIexpectyoutobeperfectandnotdothewrongthing,andaslongasIampreachingatyou,Icanavoidmyownfears.Dreamerautonomyinsignificantpotent[Schizoid]Probableimpasse:Theearlydecisionislikelytobe,Thingsandpeoplecanmakemefeelbad.ThereforeIwillwithdraw,andasIbecomepassiveIcanavoidmakingmyowndecisions.Rebelresponsibilityvengefulsorry[PassiveAggressive]Probableimpasse:Theearlydecisionislikelytobe,Ifyoudontdothethinkingforme,thenIwontbehappy.ThereforeIwilljustTryhard.Whenyoudontmakemefeelgood,thenitsyourfaultIfeelbad,andaslongasIblameyouIcanavoidtakingresponsibilityformakingmyselffeelgoodorfeelbad.Promoterbondingvindictiveintimate[Antisocial]

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    Probableimpasse:Theearlydecisionislikelytobe:Thingsandpeoplecanmakeyoufeelbad.Thereforeyouwillhavetobestrongandabandonanyonewhogetstooclose.AndaslongasIabandonyou,Icanavoidintimacyandbondingwithyou.

    PersonalityAdaptations

    In1986VannJoineswroteUsingredecisiontherapywithdifferentpersonalityadaptations,publishedintheTAJ(Joines,p.153).Hestated,PaulWaresuggestsapersoncanmanifestanyoftheAdaptationsandbehealthyorbeanywhereonthetraditionalcontinuumofpsychopathology.Joinesconcludes,Thus,theAdaptationsimplyneitherhealthnorpathology,butmerelyadaptivestyle.

    Thiswasnot,noris,WaresconclusionorpositiononAdaptations.HehasalwaysviewedthetermAdaptationtorefertopsychopathologyandmaladjustment(1983,2009).

    However,Ihaveemphasizedthat:(1)anindividualiscomprisedofsixPersonalityTypesmakinguphis/herpersonalitystructurecondominium,whichreflectsanImOKYoureOK,healthylifeposition(Kahler,1982a);(2)anindividualexhibitspredictabledistressed,sequentialminiscriptbehaviorwhennolongerinanOKOKposition(i.e.,outofthecondominium)(Kahler,1983);(3)miniscriptbehaviorcanbelabeledanAdaptationwhenitimpairsorsignificantlyinterfereswiththecapacitytomeettheordinarydemandsoflife(i.e.,whenconsideredadiagnosticAdaptation)(Kahler,1979b;Ware,1983);(4)intermsoflifepositions,thecondominiumreflectstheexistentiallifepositionofImOKYoureOK,whileaminiscript/AdaptationreflectsbehaviorallifepositionsofOKif,ImOKYoureNotOK,ImNotOKYoureOK,andImNotOKYoureNotOK(Kahler,1974;Ware,1983).

    Joinesfurtherwrote,Thesixare:1)CreativeDaydreamer,traditionallycalledSchizoids;2)BrilliantSkeptics,traditionallycalledParanoids;3)CharmingManipulators,traditionallycalledAntisocials;4)PlayfulCritics,traditionallycalledPassiveAggressives;5)ResponsibleWorkaholics,traditionally

    calledObsessiveCompulsives;and6)EnthusiasticOverreactorstraditionallycalled,Hysterics.

    ThesetermsDaydreamers,Manipulators,Workaholics,andOverreactorsweretheonesIcoined,lecturedabout,andpublishedinProcessTherapyinBrief(Kahler,1979b).

    Joinesstates,ThefirstthreeAdaptationsaredescribedasprimaryAdaptationsbecausetheydevelopinthefirstfiveyearsoflifeinresponsetohowparentsinteractwiththechild.WarebelievesthateveryindividualhasatleastoneoftheseprimaryorsurvivalAdaptations:i.e.,whenfeelingthreatened,eachpersonrevertstooneormoreoftheseAdaptations.ThelatterthreeAdaptationsaresecondarysincetheydevelopinthesecondthreeyearsoflifeinresponsetowhatparentsemphasizeabouthowtorelatetotheoutsideworld.

    Joines(2009)nowbelievesthatAdaptationscannotonlybedevelopedduringthespecificdevelopmentalstageswherethedevelopmentalissueismostpronouncedbutalsoatanytimewherethatsameissueispresent.

    PaulWare(2009)nowagreescompletelywithmyProcessTherapyModel:1)BasePersonalityTypeandcorrespondingminiscriptislikelypresentatbirth.AnAdaptationofthatTypecanoccurifthereissufficientpsychological/physicaldistressinthechildsenvironment.IntheUnitedStatespopulationofPersonalityTypes,30%areReactorBase(potentialHystericAdaptation),25%areWorkaholicBase(potentialObsessiveCompulsiveAdaptation],20%areRebelBase(potentialPassiveAggressiveAdaptation),10%arePersisterBase(potentialParanoidAdaptation),10%areDreamerBase(potentialSchizoidAdaptation),and5%areBasePromoters(potentialAntisocialAdaptation)(Kahler,2008);2)AnyPersonalityTypeBaseorPhasecanhavethedistressedbehaviortowarrantacorrespondingAdaptation;2)thereare36combinationsofBaseandPhase(outofapossible4,320Base/Phasecondominiumorders).Forexample,aWorkaholicBase(perception:thoughts,egostate:Adult,transaction:A A)ReactorPhase(motivatedby

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    recognitionofpersonandsensoryneeds)individualissusceptibletohavingaHystericAdaptationwhentheissueoffeelingauthenticangerisnotdealtwith.IftheBaseissueoflossisagainpresentedinlife,andthispersondoesnotfeelthesadness,thenanObsessiveCompulsiveAdaptationmaybewarranted;3)thatanAdaptationdiagnosisismostoftentheresultofanunresolvedPhaseissue,observableinsustained,intenseminiscriptbehavior.

    JoinesfurtherspeculatesontheDriversandinjunctionsforeachAdaptation.However,PTMresearch(Kahler,1972,1982),publications,andlectureshadalreadyidentified

    thateachDriverissignificantlycorrelatedtoonePersonalityType,irrespectiveofenvironmentalinfluences.Inotherwords,everyBaseFeeler(a.k.a.,HystericAdaptationwhenwarranted)willhaveaPleaseyouDriver,nomatterhowtheparentsscriptedher(Base)withtheircounterscriptsorDriversorinjunctions.Furthermore,nootherPersonalityType(i.e.,miniscript/Adaptation)willhaveaprimaryPleaseyouDriver.Parentalscriptinghowever,doesinfluencesecondaryinjunctions,andtheformationofthepossibleorderoffloors26.

    TheAssessingMatrixTM

    1979KahlerCommunications,Inc.

    ProcessTherapyModelintegratedwithRedecisionandothertherapies.

    AlthoughmypersonalpreferenceistheRedecisionTherapyapproach(GouldingandGoulding,1979),itisobviousthatPTMgoeshandinhandinmonitoringsecondbysecondtheexchangesbetweentherapistandclient,especiallyasDriversgivethe

    indicationofwhatpositivetransactionplusperceptiontousenext.

    APTMtherapististaughttomonitoreverytransactionwiththeclient:(1)Listentothecontent;(2)identifythePersonalityTypefloortransactionand/orperception(oriftheclientisindistress,thefirstdegreeDriverorseconddegreenegativeegostate

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    Mask);(3)respondwiththeappropriatetransactionandperceptiontothepreviousstep;and(4)attendtothecontent.

    OfprimaryvaluetoRedecisiontherapistsisthatPTMidentifiestheminiscript/Adaptationtargetissue,alongwiththeinjunctions,andprobableearlyimpasserelateddecisionforeachofthesixminiscript/Adaptationtemplates.WhenanAdaptationiswarranted,thepersonislikelyPhasing,whichalertstheRedecisiontherapisttofocusontheissue.Injunctionssupporttheissue.WhenaclientisnotPhasing,thenfocusshouldbeontheinjunctionsthatareinhibitinggettingthePhasepsychologicalneedsmetpositively.

    WhydopeoplePhase?IfapersondidnotsuccessfullycompletetheoriginalPhaserelatedDevelopmentalStageandissue(Kahler,2008),thenthisissueistestedagainlaterinlife.EvidenceofthisissustainedminiscriptbehaviortotheextentofbeingconsideredanAdaptation.ThepersonisPhasingatthistime,andwilluntils/heresolvestheissuebyexperiencingtheunderlyingauthenticemotion.

    Onecontentmodelsizedoesnotfitall.AstheclassictherapyfilmcalledGloriavividlyshowed,thechoiceofanapproachdependsonthestructureoftheclient(ForaprocessinterpretationofEllis,Perls,andRogersworkingwithGloriasee,ProcessTherapy,2008,pp.226231).Thecautionwithusinganonprocessorientedsingulartherapymodelapproachisthatthetherapistsnaturaluseofperceptionandtransactionmaynotbewhattheclientneedsinresolvingagivenminiscript/Adaptationissue.Forexamples:

    ARogerianTherapy(Rogers,1959)approachconnectswithFeelers(neeReactors;potentialHystericAdaptation),butexpressingauthenticangermustbeencouraged.

    ACognitiveTherapy(Beck,1967)approachconnectswithThinkers(neeWorkaholics;potentialObsessiveCompulsiveAdaptation),butmayinhibittheexperiencingatafeelinglevelthesadnessrequiredtoresolvethelossissue.

    ARationalEmotive(EllisandDryden,2007)approachconnectswithBelievers(neePer

    sisters;potentialParanoidAdaptation),butmayinhibittheexperiencingatafeelinglevelthefearissue.

    ABehaviorTherapy(LindsleyandSkinner,1954),approachcouldconnectwithDreamers(potentialSchizoidAdaptation)byfocusingonInactionswithpositiveCriticalParent,andcanreinforcepositivelyonesfeelingofpotencyinmakingautonomousissuedecisions.

    AGestaltTherapy(Perls,Hefferline,andGoodman,1994)approachcanconnectplayfullywithFunsters(neeRebels;potentialPassiveAggressiveAdaptation),andisidealatinvitingtheclientintoexperiencingtheissueofresponsibility:Iamtheonewhomakesmefeelgoodorbademotionally.Note:Thisresultsintheabilitytoexpressauthenticallybeingsorry(nottheracketsorryoftheblameless,acerbicdistressedFunster).

    AnAsklepieionTherapy(Groder,1977)approachconnectswithDoers(neePromoters;potentialAntisocialAdaptation),andisidealatcreatingtheDoerpositiveIncidenceneedsinaprotected,caringsettingthatfostersdealingwithabandonmentbybecomingauthenticandintimatewithothers.

    Inconclusion,theProcessTherapyModelcanbeusedwithanyothertherapyapproachtomonitorthequalityofbeingontrackwiththeclient,byknowingwhichpositivetransactionplusperceptiontooffersecondbysecond.Evidenceofnotbeingaccepted(socialdiagnosis)bytheclientiswhensheshowsherBaseDriver(behavioraldiagnosis).ThisveryDriveralertstheprocesstherapistastowhichpositivetransactionplusperceptiontousenext.

    TheProcessTherapyModelProfileTM(Kahler,1994)reportontheclientidentifies:(1)PersonalitystructureconsistingofthesixPersonalityTypes(Feelers,neeReactors;Thinkers,neeWorkaholics;Believers,neePersisters;Doers,neePromoters;Funsters,neeRebels;Dreamers);(2)orderandstrengthofpositiveegostates,transactions,andperceptions;(3)howtoconnect;(4)psychologicalneeds;(5)homework;(6)BaseandPhaseminiscriptswithpotentialAdaptations;(7)games,rackets,injunctions,scripts,issues,andprobableimpasse

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    earlydecisions,and(8)varioustherapymodeltreatmentsuggestions.

    Research

    TheBasePersonalityTypeofanindividualiseitherpresentatbirth(mybelief)ordevelopssoonthereafter,andaccordingtotestretestreliabilityresearchdoesnotlikelychangeinlife(Stansbury,1990).

    Observationsfrom1978to1996ofmorethan20,000childreninBrevardCommunityCollegeDayCareCentersbyProcesstrainedprofessionalParentEducators(Geier,2008)supportthattheorderofthePersonalityTypes(i.e.,theindividualsPersonalityCondominium)issetbyaboutsevenyearsofage.

    ResearchalsosupportsPhasingandPhaseissues,includingdealingwiththePhaseissueassociatedracketandunderlyingauthenticemotion:Facevalidity:97%ofparticipantsinourAdvancedSeminarwhohadPhasedreportedthattheyhadexperiencedthePTMexpected(theorized)frequentandintensePhase[miniscript]distresssequenceinresolvingthatissue,andthenPhased.Ofthese,93%reportedthattheyhadexperiencedthePTMexpected(theorized)theissueracket,andthentheunderlyingauthenticfeeling(Kahler,2008,p.275).

    From1982toApril2009740,174peoplehavebeenprofiled,ofwhich24,122havebeenclinical.Inthegeneralpopulation,33%havenotPhased,28%Phasedonetime,20%Phasedtwotimes,15%Phasedthreetimes,3%Phasedfourtimes,andonly1%Phasedfivetimes(Kahler,2008,p.275).

    ItismyopinionthattheunsuccessfulincorporationofaPhaseissueduringthesixDevelopmentalStages(Kahler,2008,pp.195215)resultsintheissuebeingtestedduringthatPhaselaterinlife.AndsinceanyPersonalityTypewithitspredictableassociatedminiscriptcanbepresentatbirth(Driver,injunction,issue,etc.),soistherethepotentialassociatedAdaptation,testedbyparentingintheissuerelatedDevelopmentalStage.

    TodatetherehavebeenfifteendissertationsdoneontheProcessModel(includingnineineducationandfiveinclinical),eight

    theses(sixineducationandtwoinclinical),twentyotherpublishedresearchpapers(includingcorrelationalstudieswithMyersBriggsandwithMcClellandsThematicApperceptionTest)themodelhasbeentaughtorresearchsupportedinthirtysevencollegesanduniversities.(Kahler,2009).

    Note:IamindebtedtoJoinesandStewartwhohavevowedtocontinuetoclearupanyconfusionabouttheoriginationandcontributionstomyProcessModel,includingcorrectingoutdatedandnoncreditedreferencesinfurthereditionsandtranslationsofPersonalityAdaptations(JoinesandStewart,2002).

    TaibiKahler,Ph.D.,isaclinicalpsychologist,TSTAinITAA,andpastTMinALAT.Heisthe1977recipientoftheEBMSAfortheminiscript.ForProcessTherapyModelinformation,gotowww.taibikahlerassociates.comintheU.S.;intheUnitedKingdomwww.processcommunication.co.uk;inFrancewww.kcf.fr/accueil.php3;inAustria,Switzerland,andGermanywww.kcgpcm.de;[email protected];inJapanwww.kcjpcm.com;inAustraliawww.kahlercom.com.au.EmailTaibiatkahlercom@aristotle.net.

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