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Bonnie Navarre, MBA Business Development Manager, Abbott Vision [email protected] THE QUESTION PIVOT

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Bonnie Navarre, MBA

Business Development Manager, Abbott Vision

[email protected]

THE QUESTION

PIVOT

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The average 4 year old asks 390 questions a day!

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80%

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Introducing our power guide:

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•Closed-minded •Certain •Critical •Judgmental •Inflexible •Siloed •Problem focused •Blame oriented

Judger is more: • Open-minded • Curious & Creative • Appreciative • Accepting • Flexible • Collaborative • Solution focused • Responsibility oriented

Learner is more:

MINDSET

© Copyright Inquiry

Institute 2016

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• Win-Lose relating

• Dismissive, demeaning

• Listen with “Judger ears”

• Separates

• Conflict is destructive

• Seeks to “attack” or is defensive

Judger is more:

• Win-Win relating

• Discerning, accepting

• Listen with “Learner ears”

• Connects

• Conflict is constructive

• Seek to appreciates, resolve and create

Learner is more:

RELATING

© Copyright Inquiry

Institute 2016

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Go Learner Go Judger

Let’s take our map for a spin:

Now ask Learner questions

Our medical director

comes in and slams the

door to our office. “The

phones are down! I’ve

been calling for 20 mins

and couldn’t get through!”

Turn to your neighbor and start with Judger mode.

Ask the Judger questions

and notice how you feel.

Ask the Learner

questions and see if

there is a shift.

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How about you show up to

an event more casual than

everyone else?

1st person Go Judger

2nd person Go Learner

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A

Am I in Judger? Is this

working?

Awareness

B

Do I need to step back, pause,

and gain perspective?

Breathe

C

What is really going on with

me, others, and/or the

situation?

Curiosity

D

What’s my decision? What do I

choose?

Decide

The Switch

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• Am I in Judger?

• Is this working?

• What are the facts?

• How else can I think about

this?

• What’s surprising about this?

• How can I get there?

• Is this what I want to feel?

• Is this what I want to be

doing?

Switching Awareness, Breathing, Curiosity, & Deciding

• What am I committed to right

now?

• Is this the example I want to set

for my children?

• In the big picture, how important

is this?

• What humor can I find in this

situation?

• NOW, what is my choice?

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Learner Alliances

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Full Circle Story:

Over 2 decades ago at my 1st Ophthalmology

meeting, which was here in New Orleans!

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2.5 clap close, ready?

What is possible?

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Email me for a replay

link & resource list :)

[email protected]