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The Roman Catholic Parish of St. Vincent de Paul 250 Bebout Avenue
Stirling, New Jersey 07980 Phone: (908) 647-0118 Fax: (908) 647-5992
Parish Office—908-647-0118 In an emergency call
973-222-0720 Parish website:
stvincentschurch.org Parish email:
PASTORAL STAFF Fr. A. Richard Carton, Pastor [email protected]
Fr. William (Bill) Mooney Weekend Assistant
Elena Bird Zolnick Director of Sacred Music [email protected]
Vincent G. Clarke, Organist
Sr. Krystyna Dziadkowiec Pastoral Associate and Sacristan [email protected]
Sr. Elsa Jeronimo, C.S.JB. Director of Social Outreach [email protected]
Deirdre Nemeth 908-647-0421 Director of Faith Formation [email protected]
Sr. Niky Burgos C.S.JB. Youth Minister [email protected]
Peter O’Neill, Deacon [email protected]
Parish Trustees Alan Tangreti and Timothy Wallisch
PARISH OFFICE STAFF
John Castagna Business and Facilities Manager [email protected]
Vera Castagna Parish Secretary [email protected]
Maria DeLuca Faith Formation Secretary [email protected]
Teri Kesselmeyer-Local Youth Protection/Safe Environment Coordinator Technology and Communications [email protected]
We are a Catholic community rooted in the Eucharist
and committed to the poor.
Sunday Mass Schedule
(Vigil Mass) Saturday —5:00PM
Sunday 8:30AM, 10:30AM
and 6:00PM Confession: Saturday at 4PM or other days by appointment.
Weekday Mass Schedule
8:30AM Monday—Saturday
“It would be easier for the world to survive without the sun than to do so without the Holy Mass.” St. Padre Pio
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MASS INTENTIONS
MONDAY September 9th Saint Peter Claver, Priest
8:30AM Veronica Wan (Living) Martha Armenti Geri Cacciato
TUESDAY September 10th 8:30AM Kathleen Slyker (Living) Susie Matinho
Christine Dos Santos
WEDNESDAY September 11th 8:30AM The deceased and victims
of September 11, 2001
THURSDAY September 12th The Most Holy Name of Mary
8:30AM Father Emmerich Vogt (Living) Mickey and Jack Stack Louis Aroneo
FRIDAY September 13th Saint John Chrysostom, Bishop and
Doctor of the Church 8:30AM Karl and Theresa Schlegel and Family (Living) Father Paul Lehman James O’Brien
SATURDAY September 14th The Exaltation of the Holy Cross
8:30AM John and Judy Calabro (Living) Edward DeFabio
Deceased members of the Sheedy Family
Twenty-Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time
5:00PM (Vigil) Rita Murray Nunzio Dagostino
Rafael and Emma Luna
8:30AM Rosemary Anderson Deceased members of the Norton Family
10:30AM John Seylaz Frank Critelli
Deceased members of the Ochrymowych Family
6:00PM James O’Brien Deceased members of the parish
The Rosary will be prayed on Saturday, September 14th at 9:00AM before the Memorial Monument to the Unborn outside the Church. (If it rains we will pray inside the Church). Join us on this National Day of Remembrance
for Aborted Children. We will be remembering our unborn brothers and sisters and their families.
Daily Mass Readings Monday Col 1:24-2:3; Lk 6:6-11
Tuesday Col 2:6-15; Lk 6:12-19
Wednesday Col 3:1-11; Lk 6:20-26
Thursday Col 3:12-17; Lk 6:27-38
Friday 1 Tm 1:1-2, 12-14; Lk 6:39-42
Saturday Nm 21:4b-9; Phil 2:6-11; Jn 3:13-17
That Man is You! is designed as a 26-week interactive multimedia men’s program capable of appealing to men in a media-dominated culture. It meets for 13 weeks in the Fall and 13 weeks in the Spring. Each session has three essential elements: social gathering over a meal, DVD presentation and small group discussion. Organized around a central theme for each program year and presented through the lens of 7 Steps that make it simple for men to follow, this engaging content is delivered in 26 sessions, divided between Fall and Spring semesters. The sessions will take place on Saturday mornings, beginning on September 21st from 7:00AM-8:25AM here at St. Vincent’s. To register online visit our website or go to Paradisusdei.org, scroll to the bottom and click on “Find A Group Near You” or sign up after Masses this weekend. For more information, contact us at 908-647-0118.
STEWARDSHIP REPORT
Parish Expense Budget 2019-2020 — $1,275,000 includes Diocesan Assessment of $105,000
Less other projected income — ($340,000.00)
Annual needed from collections
$935,000
Amount needed from the weekly collections
$17,980 Collection for the weekend of Aug. 31st/Sept. 1st
Total collected at Masses $ 8,960
Online WeShare Amount $4,184_ Total $13,144
Deficit for this week $ 4,836
Deficit to Date $ 57,131
Parishioners Matt Zolnick, Greg Allen, Don DeFabio, Shawn Gallic, and Tom Welsh are Core Team members and leaders for the That Man Is You! program forming in our parish. The following is the text of the invitation which is offered to encourage men to participate. We would like to thank Fr. Richard for giving us the opportunity to talk with you about a program called That Man Is You! This program tackles real issues facing real men. It looks at the leadership role that has been entrusted to men and addresses the temptations and struggles men face in a culture that attacks authentic manhood. Ultimately, it helps formulate a plan that allows men to overcome these obstacles. This program will be hosted every Saturday morning in the JPII Room in our church basement beginning on Saturday, September 21st for 13 weeks. This will be followed by an additional 13 week program in the Spring. We begin each session by gathering at 7:00AM for breakfast, coffee, and some time for fellowship. At 7:30AM we begin a presentation that combines the best scientific research with the teachings of the Church and wisdom of the saints. This is followed with breakout groups at 8:00AM that provide the opportunity to discuss what has been presented. We will conclude each program at 8:25AM to allow time for those men who wish to attend daily Mass in the church at 8:30AM an opportunity to do so. That Man Is You! began in a test parish in Houston, TX in 2004 and has quickly spread to hundreds of parishes across the U.S. and even internationally. Countless men who have participated in this program say that it provides the kind of experience they have been searching for, and some attribute their experiences with this program to helping launch their own spiritual transformations. After today's Mass, we will be available to speak to any men who may be interested in registering for That Man Is You! There is no cost to participate in this program and attendance in each session is to your own benefit. However, if you do miss a session, there is an opportunity to view the session materials online in order to keep up with the program. Thank you for your time and please do not hesitate to reach out to anyone on our Core Team if you have any questions or would like any additional information.
VIVERE CHRISTUS RECIPIENT 2019 Congratulations to our parishioner Bob Young who will receive the Vivere Christus Award
for 2019 from Bishop Serratelli at the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson (today)
Sunday, September 8th during a 3:30PM prayer service. Bob and his family have been
faithful to the life and ministries of our parish. In addition to his service at Mass as an
Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion Bob has, over many years, served as a
Confirmation catechist, adult volunteer on Appalachian Service Projects, Bridges Run, Youth
events and retreats. Bob is a man who is dependable and can be called upon to help at any
time. He has a big heart and a very generous spirit when it comes to the needs of others. His
love for and care of his family and this faith community is to be highly commended.
Congratulations to Bob on this award. Thank you for all you do in the name of Jesus in
service to this faith community.
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That Man Is You! Register this weekend after Mass or online…...
September 7th and 8th Page FourPLEASE REMEMBER IN YOUR PRAYERS
Those who serve in the military: Hayden Schultz, Michael Conant, Tyler Nelson, Damian McCoy, Calla Ann Armenti, Dylan T. Jones, James Minogue, Stephen J. Campbell, Sean Milde, Frank Fasano, Richard Lister, Eric Leverone, Jay Donato, Frank Messina, Eileen Murphy, Peter Giovanni
Those who are ill: Mary Bigelis, Deacon Peter O’Neill, Andrew Balk, John Wharton, Kevin Shea, Pat Bergin, James Castagna, Sharon Baker, Jennifer Pellecchia, Rhoda & Ike Blake, Denise Garcia, Rick and Susan Olkusz, Cecile Fountain Jardim, Rita D’Angelo, Jim Fittin, Sandra Fittin, Jane Moran, John Daglian, Parker Watson, Annette McGrory, Lucy Bustillos, Bill Wallisch, Larry Oster, Nanci Gamba, and Elizabeth Early
Those who have died to this world Glenn Grieco
Requiescat in Pace May all the faithful who have departed this world
rest in your eternal peace. Amen
READINGS FOR NEXT SUNDAY First Reading: Exodus 32:7-11, 13-14 God became very angry with the Israelites for worshiping a molten calf and making sacrifices to it. The people had so quickly violated his commandments that he planned to destroy them. But Moses pleaded with God for mercy and God relented. Second Reading: 1 Timothy 1:12-17 Paul considered himself a former blasphemer and persecutor, and expressed his gratitude for the mercy Jesus showed him. Paul felt that he was a perfect example of Jesus' patience toward sinners and his desire to reconcile them with God. Gospel: Luke 15:1-32 The Pharisees grew angry because of the Jesus' compassion toward sinners. In response, Jesus tells of a son who squandered his inheritance, then returned to his father and asked to be treated as a hired hand. The father rejoiced, angering his older and more obedient son. The father explained that everything he owned belonged to his older son; but he had to rejoice for the son who was lost and had been found.
The Rosary Altar Society will gather in the Chapel on Monday, September 9th to pray the Rosary at 7:00pm and our first meeting will follow at 7:30pm in the Church Meeting Room. Women of the parish are invited to join us and new members are welcome. For questions contact Mary Knell or Sandi Schaffer.
Our Life Ministries Committee will hold their first meeting on Monday, September 16th at 7:30pm in the Church Meeting Room. Parishioners invited to come and take part in the discussion and planning of a
new season for LIFE at St. Vincent’s. For questions contact Helen O’Mullan.
The Rosary Altar Society is hosting their annual Women’s Communion Brunch on Sunday, O ctob er 13 th following the 10:30am Mass in the Pastoral Center Gym.
All women from the parish are invited along with family members and friends. The cost is $20.
Checks are to be made payable to St. Vincent de Paul Rosary Altar Society and can be sent to the parish office to the attention of Mary Knell.
FROM THE DIOCESE
As befitting the mission of outreach to people in need in the Paterson Diocese, the Bishop’s Annual Appeal stands ready to help support the rebuilding efforts of Straight and Narrow. With this terrible fire that has further complicated the lives of those already struggling with often crippling personal issues, your generosity to the 2019 Bishop’s Annual Appeal is needed now more than ever. 10% of all funds raised in the 2019 Annual Appeal, over and above the usual allocation to Catholic Charities, will go toward the Straight and Narrow re-building effort. With your pledge to the Appeal, this could come to hundreds of thousands of dollars to bring new life to Straight and Narrow and the people being served. Parishioners across the Diocese are being asked to support all the ministries and programs funded by the Appeal, including this special effort for Straight and Narrow, when it kicks off in the next two weeks. Contributions can also be made online now at www.2019appeal.org.
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Our parish Food Pantry is in need of the following items: rice, coffee, pasta, tomato sauce, spaghetti sauce with meat, honey nut cheerios, jelly, syrup, peanut butter, peas, corn, refried beans, beets, spam, and chicken noodle soup. Please no oversized or bulk items.
The Respect Life Committee is hosting a program entitled “An Honest Discussion of End of Life” on Saturday, October 26th from 7:00pm to 9:00pm. The program will address some of the complicated end of life issues and
decisions which often must be made on an emergent basis, unprepared and under great stress as the end of life approaches. Please mark your calendar for this important topic! More information to come!
Human life is sacred and inviolable at every stage and in every situation; it is an indivisible good.” Evangelium Vitae, Pope John Paul II
Covenant House of New Jersey helps to serve the homeless and trafficked youth population. A unique opportunity is available for anyone interested or in need of a service project. Sleep Out America is a night that takes place in 50 states across the country and will be held November 22nd. Individuals, kids, families and groups come together to raise money and awareness by sleeping outside at their chosen location with a box and sleeping bag, sending a very important message to our youth that they are not alone. If this is of interest to you please reach out to Kirsten Corley, Development Associate at Covenant House, Newark 973-621-8705 ext.3431 or visit their website at www.covenanthousenj.org.
COVENANT HOUSE SLEEPOUT AMERICA
The Shrine of St. Joseph invites you to the Ecumenical Candlelight Vigil on the 18th anniversary of 9/11. The Vigil w i l l t a k e p l a c e o n Wednesday, September 11th at 7:00pm at the Tower of Remembrance and will include prayer and song. At the conclusion of the Vigil, all are
welcome to remember and pray as the bell is rung in memory of all those who lost their lives. There is limited outdoor seating so you are welcome to bring a chair. In the case of rain the service will be held in the Shrine Chapel.
ANNUAL CANDLELIGHT VIGIL
Prayer For Our Country O God, the whole universe is subject to you, yet we live in a political reality that can seem far removed
from your Kingdom. Bless those who lead our country...correct their errors and strengthen every
good impulse. Amen
LIFE FACTS: DID YOU KNOW?
$60 million in Federal Title X funds will no longer go to Planned Parenthood because they are unwilling to separate their family planning services from their abortion business. However, the New Jersey Legislature voted in June to send $10.456 million to fund Planned Parenthood businesses. In addition, the NJ State Senate President and Speaker of the Assembly plan to schedule votes in both Houses of the Legislature in early September to provide another $8.8 million to Planned Parenthood so it can continue to counsel, perform and profit from abortion. Voice your opinion! Call and write your 3 State Legislators and tell them this is unacceptable! (Reps Munoz and Bramnick & Senator Kean for Long Hill area). Visit our parish website, under Ministries select Life Ministries and on the left select Life Resources for contact information.
The Diocese of Paterson invites couples who were married in 1969 or 1994 to celebrate their 25th or 50th wedding anniversary during a special Mass to be offered at the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson. Bishop Serratelli will serve as the main celebrant on this joyful occasion to be held on Sunday, November 3rd at 3:30pm. Arrangements can be made by contacting our parish office. The deadline to register is Friday, October 11th. Once your registration is submitted and processed you will receive additional information from the Office of Family Life.
SILVER AND GOLD ANNIVERSARY MASS
Registration for Faith Formation for grades 1 through 9 is available on the parish website. An email has been sent out to all Faith Formation families with a link to register. First Communion preparation is a two year process beginning in 1st grade. This year both 8th and 9th grade students will prepare to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. If your child will be new to the program please contact Deirdre Nemeth at 908-647-0421 or [email protected] for additional information.
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CYO Basketball sign ups and tryouts will be held for both boys and gir ls during the week of September 9th: for 5th/6th grade boys—Monday, Sept. 9th and Wednesday, Sept. 11th from 6:15pm to
7:30pm; for 7th/8th grade boys—Monday, Sept. 9th and Wednesday Sept. 11th from 7:30pm to 8:45pm; for 5th/6th grade girls—Tuesday, Sept. 10th and Thursday, Sept. 12th from 6:15pm to 7:30pm; for 7th/8th grade girls—Tuesday, Sept. 10th and Thursday, Sept. 12th from 7:30pm to 8:45pm; for 4th grade girls—Friday, Sept. 13th from 6:15pm to 7:30pm; and for 4th grade boys—Friday, Sept. 13th from 7:30pm to 8:45pm. If enough players show an interest, we are willing to have a high school team. Sign ups and tryouts will take place at the St. Vincent de Paul Gym. In order for CYO Basketball to succeed volunteers are needed to coach, attend meetings and collect and manage the paperwork. Please email Michael Wizeman if you are interested or have any questions: [email protected].
RCIA and the Blessing of Marriages
Adults who desire to be baptized, those who are members of other Christian communities, or those who have not yet received the Sacrament
of Confirmation and would like to be initiated or complete their initiation into the Sacramental life of the Roman Catholic Church are invited to consider doing so. Any adult who has the desire are asked to contact Fr. Richard so that they may be given more information and direction.
If any couple in the parish are married but have not had their marriage blessed by the Church, and for whom there is no impediment in doing so, they are invited to contact Fr. Richard for information on having their marriage blessed.
You may contact Fr. Richard in person, by p ho n e 9 0 8 -64 7 - 011 8 o r by ema i l [email protected]
BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP
“Healing the Grieving Heart: The Journey After the Death of a Loved One” is a free of charge eight week bereavement support group held at the Church of the Little Flower Bernauer Parish Center, 290 Plainfield Ave., Berkeley Heights. Sessions will be held Monday evenings beginning September 23rd through November 11th from 7:30pm to 8:30pm. The facilitator is licensed professional counselor Liz Migneco. All are welcome to attend regardless of religious affiliation. Registration is required. Please email your name, phone and email address to [email protected] or contact Margaret Manning at 908-464-1585 ext. 133.
SAINT PAUL INSIDE THE WALLS
One Way You are welcome to join this interactive, small group experience which aims to being each participant to a new understanding of Jesus and His Church. Join us for three sessions focused on discipleship as we learn from, follow and imitate Jesus. Sessions for young adults in their 20’s and 30’s are Sunday mornings from 9:00am to 10:30am and sessions for all adults 18 or older are on Wednesday evenings 7:30pm to 9:00pm. For information and to register visit insidethewalls.org/oneway ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Catholicism From Scratch Join us for a course in Basic Catholicism for those who need a brush-up, those who missed it the first time around, or those who never heard it before. We will meet on Saturday, September 21st from 10:00am to noon. For information and to register visit insidethewalls.org/Catholicism-from-scratch.
CYO BASKETBALL TRYOUTS BOYS AND GIRLS
Oratory Prep School, Summit is hosting an Open House on Sunday, September 29th from 1:00pm to 3:00pm and on Thursday, October 24th from 6:45pm to 8:15pm. Oratory is located at 425 Morris Avenue, Summit. No rsvp is necessary. For further information call 908-273-1084 ext. 1 or visit www.oratoryprep.org.
The Knights of Columbus St. Damien Council 6575 will hold a Recruitment Drive after all Masses the weekend of September 21st and 22nd. Catholic men 18 years of age or older and in good standing in the Catholic Church are invited to prayerfully consider joining the Knights of Columbus. New electronic membership cards will be available and can be used to sign up with the Council. A representative from the Knights will be available to answer your questions as well as offer information about the good works the Knights of Columbus do in our Parish and the community.