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Important Things to Know About Yourself & Othersby William Anthony, C.Ht, NLP

1. All relationship issues can be solved by focusing on, and maintaining, the propermental and emotional state.

2. In general, you are attracted to people that appear to have qualities you're lacking,while simultaneously demonstrating that they are similar to you.

3. Your external world is an accurate reflection of your internal world.4. People respond more powerfully to your non-verbal signals, than what you say.5. People respond to what you think about yourself.6. In general, when doing any persuasion or seduction, only talk and think about things

and feelings that you want people to associate with you.7. Always go into trance with a purpose, or you may find that you will come out of

trance with a lack of purpose.8. See it before you do it.9. Do it as if you've already done it.10. Whenever you hypnotize someone, you must always hypnotize yourself first.11. If you have hidden intentions, there is no 100% reliable way to hide these thoughts

from others12. For many people, becoming psychic requires an identity change13. The best psychic defense is to not take the person seriously at all - have a sense of

humor!14. The most compelling and powerful way to communicate is to speak so that you are

convincing yourself as you are speaking.15. If you take a deep breath before speaking, your voice will come out much more

pleasing.16. You can please some of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the

people on the internet!17. You attract the type of person that reinforces your identity. For example, if you're

unhappy with who you are, you'll attract someone that will make you even more unhappy.

18. Love yourself, and you'll be a person that people will want to be with.19. Learn to laugh, loudly and as often as possible20. In all interpersonal dealings, think win/win21. In general, when doing psychic influence, bring them to you - do not go to them, or

you will adopt their fears and anxieties.22. Feelings of desperation or despair will hinder any psychic influence attempt.23. One of the most critical parts of any psychic influence is the banishment. After you

do it, forget it.24. In order to manifest money, you must first manifest a feeling of security and

abundance.25. Manipulation: Are you concerned that what you are doing is manipulation? Then ask

yourself, "How would I feel if someone was doing this to me?"26. Every day, unenlightened people make decisions based not on what they want to

achieve, but what they are used to makes them comfortable27. You cannot achieve self-enlightenment solely from the Internet. You've got to get

out and get to know people.28. Only pathetically insecure people initiate power games. They do it to reinforce who

they think they are. As they grow older, they will grow angrier, and more unhappy.29. When watching movies, if you can sit thru and bear an onscreen character's

embarrassment, you can better bear your own embarrassments.30. When watching movies, between a conflict of two people, identify with the stronger

character if you can feel their point of view. Never identify with the victim. Never.31. If you are good at sleight-of-mouth (SOM), you'll be great at flirting.

32. A person cannot maintain any standard of morals when they has no ordinary meansof living.- (Kenkò Hoshi, 14th century Japanese Buddhist spiritual leader)

33. Seriously hot women perceive any act of kindness from a man as a definite act of



manipulation. There is no exception to this rule, because she is correct.34. There are many trainers in NLP, hypnosis, and self-help. You can usually trust those

that promote their products over themselves. Any trainer that self-promotes by giving youa long and detailed history is probably giving you an inaccurate history. Any trainer thattell you a lot about himself and no definite examples of his techniques is a con artist (thisincludes almost all seduction gurus. Ross Jeffries is the real thing, however).35. The effectiveness of a trainer's product is more important than the trainer.36. There is no chemical solution to a spiritual problem.37. Momentum is Everything.38. Your inability to deal with the past is significantly less important than your ability to

deal effectively with the future.39. Fuck the past.40. A pretty girl's worst fear is that she's boring. Her second worst fear is that you will

bore her.41. The one thing a pretty girl will not put up with is a guy that's boring.42. Everybody has fucked-up parents. Everybody43. Every night, before you go to bed, read a funny book.44. All of the biography & "about" shows you see on cable channels A&E and the

Biography Channel are done by contracted public relations firms. Keep in mind that whatyou see is not reality - it is "spin". This includes any show that pretends to be the "TrueHollywood Story" - what you are seeing is fiction.45. With few exceptions, believe nothing a Hollywood actor says about themselves. And

always remember that Hollywood movies that proclaim to be "the true/real story" areworks of fiction.46. At all costs, avoid judgmental assholes. These are people that, with their words and

tone of voice, try to make you feel bad about choices you make and constantly criticizeyou. These people are already poisoned, and want to spread their poison to you.47. Whoever angers you, controls you.48. People who lay guilt trips on others are totally and completely unsusceptible to guilt,

even to the point of being indifferent if someone's life is in danger.

49. People know when they treat you badly. it will continue until you assert yourself.50. To communicate effectively with people, you need to communicate at their

conceptual level (lowest level is discussing minute details, highest level is discussingglobal concepts). Mis-matchers will attempt to change levels on you.51. Your body and your mind are firmly intertwined. Ignore this at your own peril.52. You can't "save" anybody. People can only save themselves.

Dating Advice!by William Anthony, C.Ht, NLP

1. All relationship issues can be solved by focusing on, and maintaining, the propermental and emotionally happy state. In other words, before she can feel something, YOUMUST GO THERE FIRST!

2. You cannot seduce without rapport. Rapport is the Core - always.3. Don't ever be boring. Ever.4. Plan ahead. Never count on luck or random chance to "make something happen" (see

Rule #1)5. Be funny, tell jokes. Learn to add a little laugh to your voice, because it will improve

any situation. Trust me on this.6. Guys: Do not wait for her to say or do "something" that will make you feel good. men

must emotionally lead women. Men must be emotionally assertive. That means, you mustfeel it first, and then she will feel it. This is the first rule of seduction - some experts say

this is the only rule of seduction.7. Women need emotional content the way flowers need sunshine.8. If you really want to be seen as a dating success, if you really want to be a sex

magnet, if you really want to develop sexual charisma, you must first understand and



master this list, because they are universal, and always work !!!9. In general, you are attracted to people that appear to have qualities you're lacking,

while simultaneously demonstrating that they are similar to you.10. Girls: If a "friend" asks your boy friend out, she is not your friend11. Men: Encourage her do be her best.

Women: encourage him to do his best.12. Talk about relationships - how things and people relate to each other - even if it's

only on their favorite TV show13. Want to increase your physical attractiveness by ten times? Just smile. That's right -

even if it's a little smile. Never stop.14. The source of most damaging mental issues you can have during a date is your inner

dialog. Shutting down your inner dialog (using NLP Plus techniques) can boost yourconfidence in ways you can never imagine!15. DO NOT EVER BE BORING. EVER!16. There is no such thing as a "shy exhibitionist".17. You can't "save" anybody.

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