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Time Management
Randy PauschCarnegie Mellon University
http://www.randypausch.com
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At this talk you will learn to:
• Clarify your goals and achieve them• Handle people and projects that waste your
time• Be involved in better delegation• Work more efficiently with your boss/advisor• Learn specific skills and tools to save you time• Overcome stress and procrastination
= really important point
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Remember that time is moneyBen Franklin, 1748
Advice to a young tradesman
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Introduction
• Time must be explicitly managed, justlike money
• Much of this won’t make sense until later(too late?): that’s why this is on theWWW
• Faculty vs. Grad Students vs.Undergrads
• Lightning pace, heavy on techniques
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Outline
• Why is Time Management Important?• Goals, Priorities, and Planning• TO DO Lists• Desks, paperwork, telephones• Scheduling Yourself• Delegation• Meetings• Technology• General Advice
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One Good Thief is Worth TenGood Scholars:
• Time Management for Teachers, CathyCollins, 1987
• Career Track Seminar: Taking control ofYour Work Day 1990
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Why Time Management isImportant
• “The Time Famine”
• Bad time management = stress
• This is life advice
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The Problem is Severe
By some estimates, people waste about 2hours per day. Signs of time wasting:– Messy desk and cluttered (or no) files– Can’t find things– Miss appointments, need to reschedule them late
and/or unprepared for meetings– Volunteer to do things other people should do– Tired/unable to concentrate
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Hear me Now, Believe me Later
• Being successful doesn’t makeyou manage your time well.
• Managing your time wellmakes you successful.
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Goals, Priorities, and Planning
• Why am I doing this?
• What is the goal?
• Why will I succeed?
• What happens if I chose not to do it?
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The 80/20 Rule
• Critical few and the trivial many
• Having the courage of your convictions
• Good judgment comes from experience
• Experiences comes from bad judgment
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Inspiration
“If you can dream it, you can do it”Walt Disney
• Disneyland was built in 366 days, fromground-breaking to first day open to thepublic.
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Planning
• Failing to plan is planning to fail
• Plan Each Day, Each Week, EachSemester
• You can always change your plan, butonly once you have one!
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TO Do Lists
• Break things down into small steps
• Like a child cleaning his/her room
• Do the ugliest thing first
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The four-quadrant TO DO List
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21Important
Not Important
Due Soon Not Due Soon
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Paperwork
• Clutter is death; it leads to thrashing.Keep desk clear: focus on one thing at atime
• A good file system is essential• Touch each piece of paper once• Touch each piece of email once; your
inbox is not your TODO list
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My Desk
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Speaker phone:hands are freeto do somethingelse; stressreduction whenI’m on hold.
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Telephone
• Keep calls short; stand during call
• Start by announcing goals for the call
• Don’t put your feet up
• Have something in view that you’re waiting toget to next
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Telephone
• When done, get off: “I have studentswaiting”
• If necessary, hang up while you’retalking
• Group outgoing calls: just before lunchand 5pm
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Reading Pile
• Only read something if you’ll be fired fornot reading it
• Note that this refers to periodicals androutine reading, which is different than aresearch dig
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Office Logistics
• Make your office comfortable for you,and optionally comfortable for others
• No soft comfortable chairs! I havefolding chairs, some people cut off frontlegs
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Scheduling Yourself
• You don’t find time for important things,you make it
• Everything you do is an opportunity cost
• Learn to say “No”
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Learn to say “No”
• Will this help me get tenure?
• Will this help me get my masters?
• Will this help me get my Ph.D?
• Keep “help me” broadly defined
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Gentle No’s
• “I’ll do it if nobody else steps forward”or “I’ll be your deep fall back,” but youhave to keep searching.
• Moving parties in grad school…
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Everyone has Good and Bad Times
• Find your creative/thinking time. Defendit ruthlessly, spend it alone, maybe athome.
• Find your dead time. Schedule meetings,phone calls, and mundane stuff during it.
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Interruptions
• 6-9 minutes, 4-5 minute recovery – fiveinterruptions shoots an hour
• You must reduce frequency and length ofinterruptions (turn phone calls into email)
• Blurting: save-ups
• E-mail noise on new mail is aninterruption -> TURN IT OFF!!
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Cutting Things Short
• “I’m in the middle of something now…”
• Start with “I only have 5 minutes” – you canalways extend this
• Stand up, stroll to the door, complement,thank, shake hands
• Clock-watching; on wall behind them
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Time Journals
• It’s amazing what you learn!
• Monitor yourself in 15 minute incrementsfor between 3 days and two weeks.
• Update every ½ hour: not at end of day
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Using Time Journal Data
• What am I doing that doesn’t really need to bedone?
• What am I doing that could be done bysomeone else?
• What am I doing that could be done moreefficiently?
• What do I do that wastes others’ time?
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Procrastination
“Procrastination is thethief of time”
Edward YoungNight Thoughts, 1742
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Balancing Act
“Work expands so as to fill the timeavailable for its completion”
Parkinson’s LawCyril Parkinson, 1957
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Avoiding Procrastination
• Doing things at the last minute is muchmore expensive than just before the lastminute
• Deadlines are really important: establishthem yourself!
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Comfort Zones
• Identify why you aren’t enthusiastic
• Fear of embarrassment
• Fear of failure?
• Get a spine!
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Quit Making Excuses…
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Delegation
• No one is an island
• You can accomplish a lot more with help
• Most delegation in your life is fromfaculty to graduate student
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Delegation is not dumping
• Grant authority with responsibility.
• Concrete goal, deadline, and consequences.
• Treat your people well
• Grad students and secretaries are a facultymember’s lifeline; they should be treated well!
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Challenge People
• People rise to the challenge: You shoulddelegate “until they complain”
• Communication Must Be Clear: “Get it inwriting” – Judge Wapner
• Give objectives, not procedures
• Tell the relative importance of this task
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Sociology
• Beware upward delegation!
• Reinforce behavior you want repeated
• Ignorance is your friend – I do not knowhow to run the photocopier or the faxmachine
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Meetings
• Average executive: > 40% of time• Lock the door, unplug the phone• Maximum of 1 hour• Prepare: there must be an agenda• 1 minute minutes: an efficient way to
keep track of decisions made in ameeting: who is responsible for whatby when?
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Technology
• “Computers are faster but they takelonger” --Janitor, UCF
• Secretaries are better than answeringmachines; where are the costs & benefitsof a technology? (transcription)
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Technology• Laptop computer (and docking station)
– You can scavenge time & work anywhere– At CMU, you still have internet access– one machine in your life is the right number
• WWW; only do things once (post them)
• Google (now with image search!)
• ACM Digital Library (I haven’t been in thelibrary in over five years)
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Randy’s Magic E-Mail Tips
• Save all of it; no exceptions• If you want somebody to do something, make
them the only recipient. Otherwise, you havediffusion of responsibility. Give a concreterequest/task and a deadline.
• If you really want somebody to do something,CC someone powerful.
• Nagging is okay; if someone doesn’t respond in48 hours, they’ll probably never respond. (Truefor phone as well as email).
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Care and Feeding of Advisors
• Get a day timer or PDA• Write things down• When’s our next meeting?• What’s my goal to have done by then?• Who to turn to for help?• Remember: advisors want results !
Time Management Advice
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Care and Feeding of Advisors
• They know more than you do
• They care about you
• They didn’t get where they are by theirsocial skills -> take the initiative intalking with them!
Life Advice
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General Advice: Vacations
• Phone callers should get two options:– If this can’t wait, contact John Smith at 555-1212– Otherwise please call back June 1
• This works for Email too!
• Vacations should be vacations.– It’s not a vacation if you’re reading email– Story of my honeymoon…
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General Advice
• Kill your television (howbadly do you want tenure or your degree?)
• Turn money into time – especially importantfor people with kids or other familycommitments
• Eat and sleep and exercise.Above all else!
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General Advice
• Never break a promise, but re-negotiate them ifneed be.
• If you haven’t got time to do it right, you don’thave time to do it wrong.
• Recognize that most things are pass/fail.
• Feedback loops: ask in confidence.
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Recommended Readings• The One Minute Manager,
Kenneth Blanchard andSpencer Johnson, BerkeleyBooks, 1981, ISBN 0-425-09847-8
• The Seven Habits of HighlyEffective People, StephenCovey, Simon & Schuster,1989, ISBN 0-671-70863-5
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Action Items
• Get a day-timer (or PDA) if you don’t alreadyhave one
• Start keeping your TODO list in four-quadrantform or ordered by priorities (not due dates)
• Do a time journal, or at least record number ofhours of television/week
• Make a note in your day-timer to revisit thistalk in 30 days (www.randypausch.com). Atthat time, ask yourself “What behaviors have Ichanged?”
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Time Management
Randy PauschCarnegie Mellon University
http://www.randypausch.com
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Appendix:
•Stephen Covey’s “Seven Habits”
•Advice I have for working in groups.
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The Seven HabitsFrom “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People: Restoring the Character
Ethic” by Stephen R. Covey, Simon and Schuster, 1989
1. BE PROACTIVE: Between stimulus and response inhuman beings lies the power to choose. Productivity,then, means that we are solely responsible for whathappens in our lives. No fair blaming anyone oranything else.
2. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND: Imagine yourfuneral and listen to what you would like the eulogistto say about you. This should reveal exactly whatmatters most to you in your life. Use this frame ofreference to make all your day-to-day decisions sothat you are working toward your most meaningfullife goals.
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The Seven HabitsFrom “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People: Restoring the Character
Ethic” by Stephen R. Covey, Simon and Schuster, 1989
3. PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST. To manage our liveseffectively, we must keep our mission in mind,understand what’s important as well as urgent, andmaintain a balance between what we produce eachday and our ability to produce in the future. Thinkof the former as putting out fires and the latter aspersonal development.
4. THINK WIN/WIN. Agreements or solutions amongpeople can be mutually beneficial if all partiescooperate and begin with a belief in the “thirdalternative”: a better way that hasn’t been thought ofyet.
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The Seven HabitsFrom “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People: Restoring the Character
Ethic” by Stephen R. Covey, Simon and Schuster, 1989
5. SEEK FIRST OT BE UNDERSTANDING, THENTO BE UNDERSTOOD. Most people don’t listen.Not really. They listen long enough to devise asolution to the speaker’s problem or a rejoinder towhat’s being said. Then they dive into theconversation. You’ll be more effective in yourelationships with people if you sincerely try tounderstand them fully before you try to make themunderstand your point of view
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Seven HabitsFrom “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People: Restoring the
Character Ethic” by Stephen R. Covey, Simon and Schuster,1989
6. SYNERGIZE. Just what it sound like. Thewhole is greater than the sum of its parts. Inpractice, this means you must use “creativecooperation” in social interactions. Valuedifferences because it is often the clashbetween them that leads to creative solutions.
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Seven HabitsFrom “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People: Restoring the Character
Ethic” by Stephen R. Covey, Simon and Schuster, 1989
7. SHARPEN THE SAW. This is the habit of self-renewal, which has four elements. The first ismental, which includes reading, visualizing, planningand writing. The second is spiritual, which meansvalue clarification and commitment, study andmeditation. Third is social/emotional, which stressmanagement includes service, empathy, synergy andintrinsic security. Finally, the physical includesexercise, nutrition and stress management.
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Tips for Working in GroupsBy Randy Pausch, for the Building Virtual Worlds course at Carnegie Mellon, Spring 1998
• Meet people properly. It all starts with the introduction. Then,exchange contact information, and make sure you know how topronounce everyone’s names. Exchange phone #s, and find outwhat hours are acceptable to call during.
• Find things you have in common. You can almost always findsomething in common with another person, and starting from thatbaseline, it’s much easier to then address issues where you havedifference. This is why cities like professional sports teams, whichare socially galvanizing forces that cut across boundaries of raceand wealth. If nothing else, you probably have in common thingslike the weather.
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Tips for Working in GroupsBy Randy Pausch, for the Building Virtual Worlds course at Carnegie Mellon, Spring 1998
• Make meeting conditions good. Have a large surface to write on,make sure the room is quiet and warm enough, and that therearen’t lots of distractions. Make sure no one is hungry, cold, ortired. Meet over a meal if you can; food softens a meeting. That’swhy they “do lunch” in Hollywood
• Let everyone talk. Even if you think what they’re said is stupid.Cutting someone off is rude, and not worth whatever small timegain you might make. Don’t finish someone’s sentences for him orher; they can do that for themselves. And remember: talkinglouder or faster doesn’t make your idea any better.
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Tips for Working in GroupsBy Randy Pausch, for the Building Virtual Worlds course at Carnegie Mellon, Spring
1998
• Check your egos at the door. When you discuss ideas,immediately label them and write them down. Thelabels should be descriptive of the idea, not theoriginator: “the troll bridge story,” not “Jane’s story.”
• Praise each other. Find something nice to say, even ifit’s a stretch. Even the worst of ideas has a silver lininginside it, if you just look hard enough. Focus on thegood, praise it, and then raise any objections orconcerns you have about the rest of it.
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Tips for Working in GroupsBy Randy Pausch, for the Building Virtual Worlds course at Carnegie Mellon, Spring 1998
• Put if in writing. Always write down who is responsible for what,by when. Be concrete. Arrange meetings by email, and establishaccountability. Never assume that someone’s roommate willdeliver a phone message. Also, remember that “politics is whenyou have more than 2 people” – with that in mind, always CC(carbon copy) any piece of email within the group, or to me, to allmembers of the group. This rule should never be violated; don’ttry to guess what your group mates might or might not want tohear about.
• Be open and honest. Talk with your group members if there’s aproblem, and talk with me if you think you need help. The wholepoint of this course is that it’s tough to work across cultures. If weall go into it knowing that’s an issue, we should be comfortablediscussing problems when they arise – after all, that’s what thiscourse is really about. Be forgiving when people make mistakes,but don’t be afraid to raise the issues when they come up.
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Tips for Working in GroupsBy Randy Pausch, for the Building Virtual Worlds course at Carnegie Mellon, Spring
1998
• Avoid conflict at all costs. When stress occurs andtempers flare, take a short break. Clear your heads,apologize, and take another stab at it. Apologize forupsetting your peers, even if you think someone elsewas primarily at fault; the goal is to work together, notstart a legal battle over whose transgressions wereworse. It takes two to have an argument, so be thepeacemaker.
• Phrase alternatives as questions. Instead of “I think weshould do A, not B,” try “What if we did A, instead ofB?” That allows people to offer comments, rather thandefend one choice.