To the Bride and Groom: Congratulations on your engagement! As you prepare for marriage, we at World Outreach & Bible Training Center are rejoicing with you and thankful to God that He has brought you together to share the joys and blessings of Christian marriage. Be assured of our prayers on your behalf as you take the steps toward the marriage covenant. We welcome the opportunity and consider it a privilege to invest in the two of you during this time of preparation. Thank you for carefully reading and submitting the included forms. It is our distinct privilege and joy to assist you in building your marriage on the foundation of the Word of God. God bless you abundantly and prosper you in all things! Sincerely in Christ, David & Beverly Rehfeld

World Outreach & Bible Training Center Wedding Request Form

If you are interested in having your wedding at our church, please complete this form and submit to the church office to begin the process. A minimum of six (6) months notice prior to any requested wedding date is required. Once the completed form is submitted, the master calendar is checked for availability and your request is reviewed by the Pastoral Staff. One if our Pastoral Leaders will meet with you to further discuss your request. If the above guidelines are not followed, WOC reserves the right to deny your request. Please note: Your wedding date will not be confirmed until all requirements are met. Event InformationLocation of Wedding

Wedding Date Wedding Time

Rehearsal Date Rehearsal Time

Additional Notes

Bride's Personal InformationBride's Full Name

Street Address

City State Zip

Date of Birth Phone Number

Email Address

How long have you known your fiance? How long has your engagement period been?

Have you been married before? Yes No Date of Divorce

If previously married, please give details.

Are there children involved? Yes No How many?

Ages of the children? With whom do they live?

Are you a member of WOC? Yes No How long?

Groom's Personal InformationGroom's Full Name

Street Address

City State Zip

Date of Birth Phone Number

Email Address

How long have you known your fiance? How long has your engagement period been?

Have you been married before? Yes No Date of Divorce

If previously married, please give details.

Are there children involved? Yes No How many?

Ages of the children? With whom do they live?

Are you a member of WOC? Yes No How long?

SCHEDULING YOUR WEDDING We encourage you to schedule your wedding as soon as you know you plan to be married. You should return the wedding request form to request a tentative wedding date. The church calendar will be reviewed and you will be advised if your date is available. Before your wedding date can be confirmed on the World Outreach calendar, you and your fiance must schedule an appointment with a Pastoral Leader for a premarital interview. You will need to complete and sign the WOC Wedding Agreement and return it to the Wedding Coordinator. To facilitate your wedding, WOC has a Wedding Coordinator who will act as your assistant to make this one of the most joyful occasions of your life. Once your wedding is confirmed, your Wedding Coordinator will call and set an appointment with you. They will guide you through your planning and preparation, as well as be present at your wedding rehearsal and the wedding itself to assist in meeting your needs. SCHEDULING YOUR REHEARSAL You need to reserve WOC facilities for your rehearsal when you schedule your wedding. The Wedding Coordinator will be at your rehearsal to assist you and the officiating pastor will also be at your rehearsal, schedule permitting. Due to the ongoing ministries of WOC, rehearsals should be completed within one hour. MARRIAGE PREPARATION CLASS Because of the concern of our pastors that your life together is Christ-centered, a prerequisite to being married at WOC is your participation in WOC's Marriage Preparation Class. This class is offered several times a year. PLANNING YOUR WEDDING The Wedding Coordinator will guide you through to make sure WOC's wedding policies are followed and your wedding is a worshipful ceremony. Your wedding will be the most meaningful to you, your families and friends where there is careful concern for the sanctity of the church and its services, as well as the dignity and beauty of Christian marriage. Please keep this in mind when planning all aspects of your wedding. Sound System Our trained technicians are the only people approved to operate the sound system. If you desire the use of this service for your wedding, please refer to the fee list below. Photography & Video Tape Photographs and video taping of your wedding are permitted within the following guidelines: No flash pictures may be made during your wedding ceremony (this policy also applies to all family and friends of the wedding party). Non-flash pictures by the photographer are permissible during the ceremony when made quietly from the rear of the sanctuary. Please discuss with your photographer as it may interfere with his/her photos. Videotaping of your ceremony is permitted. Only authorized WOC personnel are allowed to use WOC camera equipment. Personal Property Liability WOC will not be liable for dresses, silver, jewelry, purses/billfolds, or any personal items lost, stolen or damaged at any event related to this wedding.

Marriage License The marriage license may be procured from the County Clerk's Office located in the courthouse. It should be given to the Wedding Coordinator at the rehearsal. The officiating pastor is responsible for signing it and returning it to the Wedding Coordinator. To obtain a certified copy of the completed marriage license for your permanent record, contact the Register of Deeds approximately two or three weeks after the wedding. Wedding & Rehearsal Fees Wedding fees are determined by the services requested. Payment is to be delivered to the Wedding Coordinator at least two weeks prior to the wedding. A $150 deposit is required for non-members when the wedding date is confirmed. The deposit will be returned after the wedding, less any damage charge. A fee schedule is listed below. FEES DESCRIPTION MEMBER NON-MEMBER Facility: Worship Center, Dressing Area $________ $_______ Wedding Coordinator: Planning & Coordination of Rehearsal & Wedding.............. $75 $100 Maintenance Personnel: Wedding................................................................................. $50 $75 Sound Technician: Rehearsal & Wedding............................................................ $50 $75 Keyboardist/Band...............................................................................TBD TBD If you desire the services of WOC keyboardist or band, you should work with the Wedding Coordinator in arranging for their services and fees.

Premarital Questionnaire

Instructions for filling out the questions on the following pages: 1. Bride and groom are each to answer the questions separately in writing without discussing your answer with your partner. 2. Once both of you have finished your own answers, share your answers with one another. 3. Note - Questions which you and your partner answered differently from each other. - Any patterns that you observe. - Any time your partner's answer surprised you. - Any concerns you have about your partner's answer. 4. Bring the completed questionnaire to the first marriage preparation class.

1.) What was your understanding of God when you were growing up? How has that changed?

2.) Did you attend a church on a regular basis when you were growing up? What was your experience like for you?

3.) Do you attend church on a regular basis now? Why or Why not?

4.) Do you plan on attending church together after you are married?

5.) Are there any differences of beliefs or practices, in regards to your faith, between you and your spouse of which you are concerned?

6.) Describe your family origin.

7.) Who in your family were you the closest to (emotionally) when you were growing up?

8.) Who in your family are you the closest to (emotionally) now?

9.) Who in your family of origin do you still see on a regular basis?

10.) Who in your family experienced the most conflict when you were growing up?

11.) Who in your family of origin experiences the most conflict now?

13.) Have there been any deaths in your immediate family? If so, how did they affect you/your family?

14.) Has there been any significant illness (physical or emotional) in your family of origin (including yourself)? If so, how has it affected you/your family?

15.) When your parents experienced conflict between each other, how did they deal with it?

16.) When your parents experienced conflict with you & your siblings, how did everyone deal with it?

17.) What are any current expectations your family of origin has of you?

18.) What expectations will they have of your new spouse?

19.) Did your parents have close friends when you were growing up? If so, what were those friendships like?

20.) What were your family vacations like? What would you change about them?

21.) What is your favorite memory with your family when you were growing up?

22.) Do you easily talk about your feelings? If not, why not?

23.) Does your partner easily talk about his/her feelings? If not, how do you deal with it?

24.) Have you noticed that there are times when it is difficult to communicate with your partner? If so, when are those times?

25.) How do you and your partner resolve conflicts or disagreements?

26.) Have you had any major fights so far? If so, what were they about?

27.) Would you be in favor of seeking professional counseling as a help to your communication skills? If so, when would you do this? If not, why not?

28.) Who would you talk to if you were having a major conflict with your spouse?

29.) Are there currently any unresolved issues in your relationship?

30.) Given the high divorce rate, do you think you have more of a chance than others to remain married for the rest of your lives? Why or why not?

31.) Do you feel safe expressing your feelings to your partner?

32.) Are you comfortable with the way your partner expresses anger?

33.) How would you describe your ability to communicate with your parents: When you were a child? When you were a teenager? Now?

34.)Have you ever had a savings account? For what purpose would you put money into a savings account?

35.) Do you have other financial investments?

36.) What amount and kinds of investments would you like to make after your marriage?

37.) Do you balance your checking account every month?

38.) What are the things over which you believe are worth going into debt? (Home, furniture, home improvements, car, vacation, art?)

39.) What are your current debts? (Include credit cards, college loans, home, child support, auto, etc.)

40.) What are your thoughts regarding tithing/giving to your faith community?

41.) Do you give to a faith community regularly? How much do you give? How much do you want to give after you are married?

42.) Do you give to other causes/charities regularly? How much do you now give? How much do you want to give after you are married?

43.) Do you see yourself more as a saver or a spender? How about spouse?

44.) How much do you feel you should have on hand in case of emergency?

45.) Do you now have a monthly and/or annual budget?

46.) Do you believe that there are roles a person has simply because of gender?

47.) How many children would you like to have?

48.) What are your views on discipline?

49.) How do you expect to spend your weekends?

50.) How many nights a week would you like your family to be at home?

51.) What kind of things do you hope to continue doing to keep romance in your relationship?

52.) How would you describe "quality time" with your spouse?

53.) What is your idea of a great date?

54.) Do you have any fears about marriage in general? If so, what are they?

55.) How would you describe your current relationship with your future stepchildren?

Answer the following questions if your partner has children:

56.) How would you describe your role as a stepparent?

57.) What expectations does your future spouse have of you as a stepparent?

Answer the following questions if you have children:

58.) How would you describe your relationship with each of your children?

59.) How do you see your future spouse's role as a stepparent?

60.) What expectations do you have of your future spouse toward your children?

61.) What kind of financial assistance do you plan on giving to your children once they have graduated from high school?

62.) What concerns do you have regarding the disciplining of the children?

Answer the following questions if either you or your future spouse has children:

63.) When will you spend quality time together as a couple (without the children)?

64.) What will you do for that quality time together?

65.) What kinds of activities will you share as quality time with the children?

66.) What is your greatest fear or concern regarding your new family?