top ten signs of cheating husband or cheating spouse
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Top Ten Signs of Cheating husband or Cheating Spouse
Cheating is external, meaning it is using something outside of self/marriage to fill
an internal void. If there is something that is a problem internally, this means that
the problem is within self and/or the problem is within oneâs marriage. The most
common reason reported by men and women for cheating is that they do not feel
attended to. Lack of attention goes hand in hand with a lack of feeling appreciated.
Signs of infidelity, you’ll find that a cheating husband starts to day dream a
lot, talking much less and lose interest in you or your family.
1. The sex – he initiates sex more often.
This is a common scenario: your husband often gets home and initiate sex, his
drive seems to have gone up quite a bit, and the funny thing is…you can feel it, it
is just ‘Sex’- and I mean without the emotional ‘making love’ component in it.
2. He hardly wants to be intimate anymore.
This is related to number 1. This depends on whether or not he gets enough of it
with the other woman. The basic rule is that if he has enough, he will not request
more. If he’s been fooling around with her without actually getting enough
sex…Number 1 applies.
3. Looks – he takes care of his personal appearance more.
A cheating husband will make sure his hair looks right, and will start taking more
interest going to the gym. (He can even use that time to have that secret
rendesvous..who knows)
4. More frequent overtime and office functions
This is definitely a sign especially if his work is just ‘customer service’. And if he
is a professional, his work hours get even longer. There are more ‘colleague
farewells’, and of course more unexplained business trips outside office hours too.
Also, he cannot wait for his next business trip (as if he doesn’t have enough
already)
5. He takes up REGULAR hobby that doesn’t involve you
This regular hobby can include the gym (if you can call that health hobby), the
library, jogging or some kind of sport. The less you are interested in it, the more
chance of him taking it.
6. His cell phone has become his second shadow
A cheating husband needs to take his cell phone everywhere (Yes even to the
bathroom with the door locked from the inside). This is just in case the other
woman call or it’s for him to contact that other woman.
7. He eats less, or he has stomach upset
Not so smart cheater will have dinner with his secret lover until he is bloated, and
won’t have the chance to touch your wonderful cooking.
8. You catch some lies – white lies, big lies..
You realise he’s been lying and start getting better at covering them up. He doesn’t
want to have lengthy eye contact with you, and avoids the topic infidelity
altogether. And when you push him to the edge ready to prove that he’s lying, he’ll
get defensive or very angry.
9. Emails – New email address, new passwords, no history
He is using the computer a lot. When you walk in the room he minimizes all
windows – or closes them altogether. When he finally gets off the computer
nothing is left in the history. All temporary cookies are deleted too.
He has new email addresses and changes all passwords to the email address that
you know about.
10. Obvious evidence
This can be perfume on his laundry items, lipstick on his collar or shirt, or even the
fact that he wants to do his own laundry. Hair can also be evidence (Like…you see
blonde hair in his car, and your hair is black)
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