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Transition to Adulthood
Jennifer Bobo, LCSW.
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Kentucky Autism Training Center
Today’s Agenda
• Planning for the future
• Building a base
• Building skills for competency and success
• Building opportunities for happiness and well-being
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Sometimes you need a map to know where you’re going…
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How to get parents to start thinking long-term?
• Housing
• Employment
• Higher-education
• Support system
• Financial Security
• Self-help skills
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Questions to ask Parents What kind of life do you want for your son or daughter?
What kind of life would your son or daughter want?
What expectations do you have for your other children?
Do you want your son or daughter to have choices?
Do you want your son or daughter to be able to express their wishes?
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What parents often plan for
Funding Special
Needs Trust Guardianship
Housing Medical Care
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But what’s most important to the Individual?
Family Friends Work
Romantic Relationship
Hobbies
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Self Determination
People with disabilities have the right and ability to choose and control their own quality of life,
goals, and services.
http://www.fulllifehawaii.org/selfdetermination.html
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Consider Self Determination when planning for the child’s future.
• Services
• Staff
• Housing
• Roommates
• Employment
• Guardian
• Classes
• Dinner
• Cereal choices
• What chore to do first
• Clothing
• Friends
• Movie
• How to spend allowance
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Choice
Giving choices can
• Give a person a sense of control
• Reduce problem behavior
• Aid in the development of self-determination
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Embedding Choice into Daily Routines
• Choices during free time
• Choosing which chore to complete first
• Choosing breakfast cereals at the grocery
• Choosing snack items after school
• Choosing what to wear in the morning
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Planning for the future:
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs Self-
actualization
Esteem needs
Belonging and love needs
Safety needs
Physiological needs
Basic Needs: Funding, Special Needs Trust, Guardianship, Plan B
Psychological Needs: Work at school and home to build skills for competency and success
Self-fulfillment needs:
Feeling accomplished, being creative
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Building a Base
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Special Needs Trusts
Purpose: Protect benefits of beneficiary, and increase quality of life
• Must be set up by a lawyer
• Lots of rules
• A “trustee” is responsible for the SNT
• Money in the trust not “countable income” for beneficiary
Yussman (2010).
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Special Needs Trusts
First Party Trust is sometimes called “self-settled”, “Medicaid Payback Trust”, or “Pooled Trust”
Third Party SNT is usually created by relatives’ estate plans
Yussman (2010)
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Who can have a SNT?
Person with a “disability”, as defined with social security determination
Yussman (2010)
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Examples of what a trust may be able to pay for can be paid for by the trustee of the SNT:
Out-of pocket medical and dental expenses; Home improvements; Medical equipment not provided by Medicaid; Computers, etc; Eyeglasses; Cable TV; Exercise equipment; Telephones, TVs, radios; Annual independent checkups;
Cameras; Transportation;
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SNT • Overview of Special Needs Trust Webinar
– Richard Bush
• https://louisville.edu/education/kyautismtraining/videos
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Guardianship
“Guardianship is a legal tool that grants a
parent or other adult the legal authority to
make decisions for a legally disabled
adult.”
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Guardianship Depending upon the specific rights the court takes away,
the guardian’s duties may include: • Arranging for a place for the ward to live in the least
restrictive environment
• Arranging for educational, social, vocational, and rehabilitation services
• Arranging for other services the ward needs to meet his needs
• Consenting to medical treatment for the ward
• Managing the ward's finances, unless the court has appointed a separate conservator
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Guardianship
A guardian MAY NOT consent to abortion, sterilization, psycho-surgery, removal of a
bodily organ, or amputation of a limb without court approval unless there is an emergency
that requires it.
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Levels of Guardianship Full guardian if the person is unable to take care of all
his personal needs
Limited guardian if a person can take care of some personal needs but needs help in other areas
Conservator if the person only needs help with his finances
Both a conservator and a guardian
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Alternatives to Guardianship • Advance Directives
• Bank Account Requiring Co-Signatures
• Citizen Advocacy
• Curator
• General Adult Services
• Power of Attorney
• Representative Payee
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Letter of Intent
Documents a variety of important issues detailing what they want for the future of
their loved one.
Update on an annual basis
Keep with family records
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Letter of Intent Quality of Life issues are those things that need to
be in place for each of us to be comfortable in our daily lives.
Where the person will live Religious Affiliation Continuing Education
Employment preferences Social activities preferred Medical care required
Behavior management practices
Medical care required Social activities
Advocacy and guardianship needs
Trustees identified Financial arrangements
Detailed instruction for everyday living activities
Communication
See example!
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Funding
After 21, funding is no longer a right!
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Supports for
Community Living
(SCL) Michelle P Waiver
Home and
Community
Based Wavier
(HCB)
Medicaid Waivers
This presentation was created from information that was obtained from secondary
resources on 10/29/2010.
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Different waivers meet the needs of different
families and individuals
Possible changes in insurance and possible
“patient liability” or co-pay for services.
Choosing a Medicaid Waiver
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Other Funding Options
• Hart Supported Living Grant
• KY IMPACT
• Impact Plus
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Social Security
When your son or daughter turns 18, they may re-apply for social security as an adult.
This presentation was created from information that was obtained from secondary resources on
10/29/2010.
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Office of Vocational Rehabilitation
The Office of Vocational Rehabilitation provides initial funding to people with disabilities to
obtain and retain suitable employment
If you would like more information, talk with your son or daughter’s teacher, visit
www.ovr.ky.gov or call (800) 372-7172 to find your local branch
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Building Skills for Competency and Success
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Skills at home
It’s never too early to teach the child skills they will need in the future.
Regardless of ability, what’s important to teach children for the future?
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Common Housing Options
• With parents in family home
• With other relative in family home
• Foster home
• Immediate Care Facility (ICF/MR)
• Nursing home
• Group home
• In own home, with support
• In own home, independently
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Skills at Home
Doing chores at home builds work ethic, a sense of responsibility, and vocational skills for the
future!
Support parents in encouraging skill development in their sons and daughters.
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Skills at Home Take an inventory!
• Hygiene
• Safety
• Cooking
• Basic cleaning and chores
• Laundry
• Grocery shopping
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Skill Building
5 Year old-Choose dinner once a week.
8 - Chooses dinner once a week. Assists at the grocery store in selecting items.
10 - Chooses dinner, helps put together a list before going to the grocery. Helps prepare food items and clean up.
12 - Chooses dinner, grocery list, takes lead in preparing food, helps clean up.
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Recommended Characteristics of Transition Practices
1. Implement positive behavior supports to address behavior challenges
2. Match IEP goals to the student and family’s vision for the future
3. Take advantage of inclusive experiences
4. Provide a variety of community based experiences
5. Assist in the coordination of ‘seamless’ transition to new resources and service providers in the community
Wehman (2009)
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Transition Practices
1. Implement positive behavior supports to address behavior challenges
Research tells us the longer a person exhibits a behavior, the more difficult it is to change
Behavior challenges may limit the child’s participation in inclusive or community experiences!
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Transition Practices 2. Match IEP goals to the student and family’s
vision for the future
Everything learned in school should prepare the child for their future.
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The closer you get to graduation, you need to re-evaluate your plan
Prioritize skill acquisition!
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Consider using accommodations to get around hard to learn skills
Counting money Debit Card
Cleaning products Non-toxic, all-purpose wipes
Cooking on a stove George Foreman grill, microwave
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Transition Practices 3. Take advantage of inclusive experiences
The best way to learn acceptable social skills is from peers!
More inclusive experiences may lead to greater community inclusion
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Transition Practices
4. Provide a variety of community based experiences
The best place to learn skills is where you will need to use them!
Exposure to the community increases the child’s experience base, as well as the experience base of your
community members.
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Transition Practices
5. Assist in the coordination of ‘seamless’ transition to new resources and service providers in the community
Throughout the child’s high school career, build resources and relationships.
Don’t wait until May!
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Choosing Providers
Families need to be proactive in choosing providers and services
• Talk with other consumers
• Talk with employees from the agency
Consider experience, training, caseload of staff, do they seem to care?
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Make Employment a Priority
• That’s why we become educated (IDEA)
• More money!
• Greater sense of independence
• Integration in the community
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Post-Secondary Education
Higher Education Act of 2009 states that an individual with a disability (including intellectual), otherwise qualified for
admittance into a University, may NOT be discriminated against.
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Post-Secondary Education Opportunities in KY
• SHEP Program through HDI, UK
• Kelly Autism Program at WKU
• Developmental Disabilities Clinic at EKU
Every University has a Disability Resource Center that can assist the child
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Building Opportunities for Happiness and Well-being
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Use special interests as a jumping off point for skill development, motivation, and friendship
building
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Questions to ask parents
What special interests does your child have?
Are there activities that your other children participate in?
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Special Interest example
“As a young adult, some of the happiest days of my life were working in equipment design
where I had to figure out how to design things.”
---Temple Grandin
Accomplished author, speaker, animal activist, and woman with ASD.
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Don’t forget to encourage development of leisure skills or hobbies!
http://www.indiana.edu/~nca/leisureed/leisure.html
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What about making friends?
Encourage parents to speak with teachers or counselors about students the child might be
friends with
As the child gets older, encourage participation in organizations associated with special
interests
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Getting Older
As the child enters middle school, and moves on to high school, social situations may get more
complicated!
Explicit instruction may be needed. Like any other skill, use evidence based practices to
teach social skills.
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Social narrative example Taking a date to a dance can be fun! You can dance and hang
out with your date. To get a date, you have to ask a person on the date and they have to say “Yes”! Lots of people are nervous that someone will say “No”. It’s okay to be nervous or sad if someone says “No”. You can say “Would you like to go to the dance with me?”. If the person says “No”, it’s okay. You can say back, “That’s okay, thanks!”. Then, you should walk away. There are lots of people you can ask to the dance. It will be fun to go with someone else!
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Boyfriends and Girlfriends!
While people with ASD may have difficulties with social interactions, a romantic
relationship/ intimacy may still be desired.
Autism doesn’t affect hormone production!
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Dave and Lindsey
• Both successful, professional adults diagnosed with ASD
• Met at an autism conference in 2005
http://www.glamour.com/magazine/2009/02/theyre-autistic-and-theyre-in-love#ixzz1Dwsriveh
“I’m so lucky to have found him,” she says. “When I’m
with him, I forget about my challenges.”
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Bringing it all together…. Self-
actualization
Esteem needs
Belonging and love needs
Safety needs
Physiological needs
Self
Determination
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Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.
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Autism Speaks. (2011). Transition Tool Kit. Retrieved: 3-23-11 from http://www.autismspeaks.org/community/family_services/transition.php
Baker, B & Brightman, A. (1994). Steps to Independence: A Skills Training guide for Parents and Teachers of Children with Special Needs. Maryland: Paul H Brookes Publishing Co.
Full Life. (2007). Self determination. Retrieved: 4-18-11 from http://www.fulllifehawaii.org/selfdetermination.html
Protection and Advocacy. (2008). Guardianship. Retrieved: 4-11-11 from http://www.kypa.net/drupal/?q=taxonomy/term/132
Wehman, P., Datlow Smith, M. & Schall, C. (2009). Autism & the Transition to Adulthood Success Beyond the Classroom. Maryland: Paul H Brookes Publishing Co.
Yussman (2010). Special Needs Trusts: When and How to Use Them. Kentucky Bar Association
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Questions?
Contact info:
Jennifer Bobo, LCSW
Kentucky Autism Training Center
Center contact info:
Telephone: (502) 852-2467 or
800-334-8635 ext. 852-4631Fax: (502) 852-7148E-mail: katc @ louisville.edu
https://louisville.edu/education/kyautismtraining
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