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VALUE OF FRIENDSHIP

CONTENTI--Definition of Friendship

II--Pair Work

III--Group Discussion

IV--Break

V--Energizer

VI--Group Presentation

VII--Role Play

VIII--Types of Friends

I-definition of friendship

1. What is a friend?

2. What is friendship?

“A good friend who points out mistakes and imperfections and

rebukes evil is to be respected as if he reveals the secret of some

hidden treasure.”

Dalai Lama XIV



“It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true

religion. The other is mere business.”

Mahatma Gandhi

3 types of good friends:

1. direct and honest when they think you are wrong;

2. one that is trust-worthy, dependable, and generous when you need help;

3. knowledgeable and talented to guide you and show you what you can't see.

Confucius


3 types of bad friends:

1. lie to you because they don't want you to dislike them;

2. nice to you but is not sincere at all;

3. likes to talk a lot but does not have any substance.

Confucius


Friends give us the courage to light the blinds on our hearts. To open up and show what we generally keep our hidden from

the rest of the world.

Buddha


II-PAIR WORKShare Experiences about Friends

III-GROUP DISCUSSION7 Groups of 7 Students: One Question Per Each Group

1_what are advantages of good friends?

2_what are disadvantages of bad friends?

3_when and why do you need friends?

4_how can you maintain friendship?

5_how many main types of friends?

6_how many kinds of good friends?

7_how many kinds of bad friends?

IV-BREAK

V-ENERGIZERCatch Triangle Tag:

All Are Player; Group of 5

VI-GROUP PRESENTATION3 Minutes Per Group

3 Representative Per Group

VII-ROLE PLAYLooking For Good Friends

VIII-TWO TYPES OF FRIENDS


1- Good Friends:

a) Accommodative friend – Protects the friend and his wealth when needed, helps the friend when in trouble and provides resources when needed.


1- Good Friends:

b) The friend who treats his friend equally, both in health & misfortune – Guards the friend’s secrets as his own as well as tells all his secrets to him, doesn’t leave the friend in trouble and ready to sacrifice even his life for the friend.


1- Good Friends:

c) The friend who shows the correct guidance –Shows the way to a good life not only in this world, but, in the world after death. Prevents the friend from committing sins and shows the way to a better world by advising him on subjects he is ignorant of.


1- Good Friends:

d) Compassionate friend – Shows compassion to the friend like his mother and prevents others from criticizing him. Praises those who commend him. Happy at the friend’s success and sad at his failure.


2- Bad Friends:

a)The bad friend who becomes friendly to take, give – Helps a little and wish for more. Formulates a friendship when he is in trouble to get out of it. He associates a friend only for his gain.


2- Bad Friends:

b) The bad friend who talks big and treat his only with words – He never ever assists a friend when in need. Tells about his own problems and evade helping the friend.


2- Bad Friends:

c) The bad friend who sides with his friend just to make him happy without thinking the of the act – He approves and support his friend in all all his deeds whether they are good or bad; but criticizes him behind his back.


2- Bad Friends:

d) The bad friend who gets friendly to do sins – He associates the friend to indulge in intoxicants, gambling and attend public shows frequently. Thus, taking his friend with him to the hell after death.

Comprehensive Questions

Q:1_ Friend is someone who…….

A-stays closely to you

B-never cares about you

C-needs your help


Q:2_ Friendship is relation between…….

A-boy and girl

B-two or more people who understand each other

C-two people


Q:3_ In general, there are …….main types of friends

A-three

B-five

C-two


Q:4_ A good friend is someone who…..

A-never cares about you

B-always with you when you have difficulty

C-always thinks about benefits


Q:5_ A good friend is someone who…..

A-often walks out at night with you

B-lead you to use alcohol and drugs

C-tells you the truth even though you might feel bad to them


Q:6_ A bad friend is someone who…..

A-says things good in front of you

B-helps you every time

C-corrects your mistakes


Q:7_ Good friends are divided into…..

A-four kinds

B-two kinds

C-five kinds


Q:8_ Bad friends are divided into…..

A-three kinds

B-six kinds

C-four kinds


Q:9_ If you have a good friend, your life will be……

A-crazy

B-hopeless

C-successful


Q:10_ If you have a bad friend, your life will be……

A-happy for lifetime

B-wonderful

C-in trouble

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