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We convince ourselves that life becomes better when we will get We convince ourselves that life becomes better when we will get married/will marry, we will get the child, then another. married/will marry, we will get the child, then another. Then we are upset that our children still Then we are upset that our children still small, and we wait that everything becomes small, and we wait that everything becomes better when they will mature better when they will mature. Then we worry that they became Then we worry that they became teenagers, and we should cope with teenagers, and we should cope with them somehow. Undoubtedly, we will them somehow. Undoubtedly, we will become happier when they will grow become happier when they will grow from their years. from their years. We speak to ourselves that our life becomes better when than We speak to ourselves that our life becomes better when than spouses and will reduce the affairs when there will be more spouses and will reduce the affairs when there will be more beautiful car when we will take vacation when we will finally beautiful car when we will take vacation when we will finally retire. retire. Truth in that there is no more best time to be happy, than now. Truth in that there is no more best time to be happy, than now. If not now, when? If not now, when? Your life will be always full of calls. It is better to accept Your life will be always full of calls. It is better to accept everything as is and to decide to be happy despite of everything. everything as is and to decide to be happy despite of everything.

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Page 1: We convince ourselves that life becomes better when we will get married/will marry, we will get the child, then another. Then we are upset that our children

We convince ourselves that life becomes better when we will get We convince ourselves that life becomes better when we will get married/will marry, we will get the child, then another.married/will marry, we will get the child, then another.

Then we are upset that our children still small, Then we are upset that our children still small, and we wait that everything becomes better and we wait that everything becomes better when they will maturewhen they will mature..

Then we worry that they became Then we worry that they became teenagers, and we should cope with teenagers, and we should cope with them somehow. Undoubtedly, we will them somehow. Undoubtedly, we will become happier when they will grow become happier when they will grow from their years.from their years.

We speak to ourselves that our life becomes better when than We speak to ourselves that our life becomes better when than spouses and will reduce the affairs when there will be more spouses and will reduce the affairs when there will be more beautiful car when we will take vacation when we will finally beautiful car when we will take vacation when we will finally retire.retire.

Truth in that there is no more best time to be happy, than now. Truth in that there is no more best time to be happy, than now. If not now, when? If not now, when? Your life will be always full of calls. It is better to accept everything Your life will be always full of calls. It is better to accept everything as is and to decide to be happy despite of everything.as is and to decide to be happy despite of everything.

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Very long time, seemed that life just about will begin. Real life. Very long time, seemed that life just about will begin. Real life. But always there was any obstacle in a way, severe test which But always there was any obstacle in a way, severe test which needs to be passed; work which needs to be completed; time needs to be passed; work which needs to be completed; time which it is necessary to devote; the account which needs to be which it is necessary to devote; the account which needs to be paid. And then we will heal. paid. And then we will heal. At last I have come to understanding that these obstacles and At last I have come to understanding that these obstacles and were the life.were the life.

This understanding has helped me to This understanding has helped me to see that there is no way fortunately. see that there is no way fortunately. The happiness is and there is a wayThe happiness is and there is a way..

Therefore, enjoy every moment. Therefore, enjoy every moment. Will suffice to wait for leaving school, the study beginning, to wait when Will suffice to wait for leaving school, the study beginning, to wait when you will lose 10 dollars, you will earn 10 dollars when there will be a you will lose 10 dollars, you will earn 10 dollars when there will be a work, till a marriage/marriage, till evening of Friday, till Sunday morning, work, till a marriage/marriage, till evening of Friday, till Sunday morning, to wait for the new car, before complete payment according to to wait for the new car, before complete payment according to mortgages, till spring, till summer, till autumn, till winter, to the first or mortgages, till spring, till summer, till autumn, till winter, to the first or fifteenth when your song will scroll by radio when you will die when you fifteenth when your song will scroll by radio when you will die when you will be born again … before you will decide to be happy.will be born again … before you will decide to be happy.

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The happiness is a WAY, instead of the The happiness is a WAY, instead of the destination.destination.

There is no other time to be happy except … There is no other time to be happy except … NOW!NOW!

Live, and enjoy this moment.Live, and enjoy this moment.

- The author is unknown -- The author is unknown -

Now, think and answer these questions: Now, think and answer these questions: 1–Call 5 richest people on the planet.1–Call 5 richest people on the planet..2 – Call 5 last winners of "Miss World"..2 – Call 5 last winners of "Miss World".3 – Call 5 last winners Nobel.3 – Call 5 last winners Nobel.4 – Call 5 last winners of the film award "Oscar" for the best role.4 – Call 5 last winners of the film award "Oscar" for the best role.

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It has not absolutely turned out? With some It has not absolutely turned out? With some difficulty, isn't it? difficulty, isn't it? Do not worry, anybody does not remember it.Do not worry, anybody does not remember it.

Applause abates! Applause abates! Prizes become covered by a dust!Prizes become covered by a dust!Winners soon forget.Winners soon forget.

And now answer these questions:And now answer these questions:1–Call 3 teachers who have made a contribution to your education.1–Call 3 teachers who have made a contribution to your education.2–Call 3 friends who have helped you in difficult hour 3 – Remember 2–Call 3 friends who have helped you in difficult hour 3 – Remember some people who have caused in you special чувства.4 – Call 5 people some people who have caused in you special чувства.4 – Call 5 people with which you to be pleasant to spend time.with which you to be pleasant to spend time.

It is realizable? It is easier, isn't it?It is realizable? It is easier, isn't it?People who something mean in your life, not in a People who something mean in your life, not in a rating of "best", have no more than all money, did rating of "best", have no more than all money, did not win the greatest prizes …not win the greatest prizes …Is those who care of you, value you, those who, Is those who care of you, value you, those who, despite of everything, remain a row.despite of everything, remain a row.

Reflect on it for an instant.Reflect on it for an instant.Life is very short!Life is very short!And you, in what you the list? You do not know?And you, in what you the list? You do not know?

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Some time ago, on the Olympic Games in Seattle, nine athletes Some time ago, on the Olympic Games in Seattle, nine athletes stood on start of a 100-meter racetrack. All of them were stood on start of a 100-meter racetrack. All of them were physical or mental disabled people. physical or mental disabled people. The shot has sounded, and running has begun. Not all ran, but The shot has sounded, and running has begun. Not all ran, but all wanted to take part and win.all wanted to take part and win.

They have run a distance third when the boy has They have run a distance third when the boy has stumbled, has made some somersaults and has stumbled, has made some somersaults and has fallen. He has started to cry. fallen. He has started to cry. Other eight participants have heard it cry. They Other eight participants have heard it cry. They have slowed down run and have looked back.have slowed down run and have looked back.They have stopped and have returned back … In They have stopped and have returned back … In total …total …

The girl with a Down syndrome has sat down near it, has embraced The girl with a Down syndrome has sat down near it, has embraced and has asked: «Now to you it is better?» and has asked: «Now to you it is better?» Then, all have gone shoulder to shoulder to the finishing line.Then, all have gone shoulder to shoulder to the finishing line.

All crowd has got up from places and has applauded. An All crowd has got up from places and has applauded. An applause lasted very long …applause lasted very long …

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Because deeply in ourselves, all of us Because deeply in ourselves, all of us know that the most important thing in life – know that the most important thing in life – means much more than to win for itself.means much more than to win for itself.

The most important thing in this life is to help The most important thing in this life is to help another to win. Even if it means that it is another to win. Even if it means that it is

necessary to slow down or change own race.necessary to slow down or change own race.

«The candle loses nothing, if from its flame «The candle loses nothing, if from its flame other candle» was litother candle» was lit»»